Expert: Adena Canterbury - 10/25/2009

Question
Hello,

I cant stop crying for Michael Jackson..everything is so sad..he was unbelievable good, kind, nice, lovely and so on person..why the destiny was so cruel to him?why people were cruel so much? he doesnt deserve this..omg, its so sad, so sad..his whole life, hes marriages.. why LMP didnt want to have children from him?i write this in tears..omg..please say, that he was happy, that he wasnt so lonely..its not fair..

Answer
Daiva,

Unfortunately Michael always said that he was not happy. You're right, he, most of all, deserved happiness. Michael was a true believer in finding romance and a soul mate and he never did, so I think that was part of his sadness. He also, of course, did not grow up happy, he had no friends, besides his brothers, and he never could play, he always had to work work. Just think, never in his whole life, since he was about six, could he ever go anywhere in public. Think how lonely it would be to be stuck inside all of the time because no matter where you went, people chased you or they wanted pictures. I can't imagine having no freedom. I'm writing a story about this topic based on MJ and what I think life would have been like for him because of this. If you're interested check out my youtube channel. Mjfantasywoman is my username, I've got vids talking about my book.

But, I do believe that once Michael had his kids he became much happier, because his kids inspired him to write the song, "You are my life," which is a beautiful song. The lyrics talk about how now he has a reason to wake up smiling. So, I believe his kids had a great effect on his happiness later in life.

Michael deserved love, and he deserved happiness, but it's sad to say that for one thing, you must always sacrifice another, and the fact that MJ sacrificed his life and his happiness to make wonderful music for the world, that just shows you what kind of person he is. People don't realize what sacrifices he made for his art, the world should learn to appreciate him more.

Hope that helped.