AboutBrenda Martin Expertise I have been one of Jehovah`s Witneses now for over 30 years, in those years I have brought up 4 children, teaching each of them the bible.Being one of Jehovah`s Witnesses has helped me cope with my Epilepsy and bring up a daughter with learning difficulties.I have conducted bible studies with people from nearly every denomination i.e. Muslim. Having used the bible all these years to answer peoples questions, I feel I am qualified to give any answer regarding Jehovah`s Witnesses and the bible.
Experience My experience has been one of attending bible lectures 5 times a week,taking part in these lectures in front of an audience and being with thousands of J.W. at conventions where I have seen the bible at work in peoples lives.It is truly a miracle when you see thousands of people meeting together and not one policeman needed, and not even a piece of litter in sight.It is like another world.
Question Brenda, why are you rejecting my questions and responses? All readers are entitled to see all responses, not just the ones you choose. Why are you afraid to address this? Maybe because there is too much truth to it. The fact remains that you and other Jw's accept gifts knowing it goes against your beliefs, yet you do it anyway. You blame the givers. They are not living by your beliefs, so their ignorance is more understandable. You fully understand the "wrong" you commit, but choose to excuse it as "politeness". Why? Please do not dismiss, it is a fair question that deserves an answer for all to see. Thank you.
Answer whether a person is answered or not is entirely up to the "expert" so this is the last time I will answer your question as its clear to me you only want to argue.
"Much depends upon the circumstances. The giver might say: “I know that you do not celebrate the holiday. Still, I want you to have this.” You may decide that accepting the gift under those circumstances is not the same as taking part in the holiday.
Of course, if the giver is not familiar with your beliefs, you could mention that you do not observe the holiday. This would help to explain why you accept a gift but do not give one on that occasion.
On the other hand, it would be wise not to accept a gift if it is given with the clear intention of showing that you do not stick to your beliefs or that you would compromise for the sake of material gain."
In other words, it is left up to the individual's concience & the differing circumstances.
