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About Ben Erdman
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I will attempt to answer any questions that have to do with major Jehovah’s Witness doctrine. I will also try to give an accurate and honest explanation from the "Truth" (the Word of God). I am not a Jehovah’s Witness. I was never baptized. I am a "witness" for Christ. I love talking about God and the piercing Word that He has provided for us. If I don't know the answer to a question I will be more than happy to research it and get an answer. So, let’s talk.
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I have grown up in the religion known as Jehovah’s Witnesses. Nearly all of my family (immediate and extended) are Jehovah’s Witnesses. I have been to probably hundreds of meetings, several assemblies and have had many in-depth bible studies with Witnesses. I love these people and admire their great zeal to do what they believe is truth. I have done extensive research into this area. I have a great passion in Jehovah’s Witness doctrine and beliefs.
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I do not have any particular educational credentials that affect this field. I believe that I have been very educated in this field of Jehovah’s Witness doctrine by my own experience and extensive studies. I also believe in my heart that the Spirit of God has educated me in this area and will continue to do so.
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You are here: Experts > Religion/Spirituality > Christianity - Restorationism > Jehovah`s Witness > death of a witness
Expert: Ben Erdman - 10/29/2009
Question
My friends mom passed and her funeral is in a few days. I don't understand much about the customs or beliefs of Witnesses.
1. Is it appropriate for a non witness to attend the service and 2. is a sympathy card ok to send?. May seem like a ignorant question, but I want to respect her beliefs and do the right thing. Thank you.
Answer
Hello Maureen and thank you for the question. I apologize in not getting back to you quicker. I hope it is not to late to help you with this matter.
You asked, "1. Is it appropriate for a non witness to attend the service"
Absolutely. There is nothing wrong with attending the funeral. The only offence that could be taken at a JW funeral is if you started debating with someone about religious beliefs or spoke out something that directly opposes the beliefs of Jehovah's Witnesses. The only other thing I could think of is if you showed up with an informal appearance. Generally the JW's would like to see you where something very respectful and formal. The men will wear suits and women mostly will wear long dresses or something that does not show much skin. I don't think you would have anything to worry about otherwise.
Next you ask, "2. is a sympathy card ok to send?. May seem like a ignorant question, but I want to respect her beliefs and do the right thing. Thank you."
I believe that a sympathy card is a wonderful idea. I think it would be greatly accepted unless you said something that directly opposes JW belief such as "at least she is with God now" or "at least she is in heaven now looking over us". JW's believe that she is in a state of non-existence and is therefore completely unconscious. They have the 'hope' that she will one day be resurrected to live on a paradise earth. So you might want to be careful of how you word it but you should be fine.
Maureen, I think it is a very nice thing that you are doing. You seem to care very much for other people and respect their beliefs, even if they are not entirely biblical. If you have any other questions, please let me know. I will attempt to get back to you a little quicker next time.
Thank you and God bless,
Ben
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