About Michael O`Flaherty (Expert=8663) Expertise Did you know that the Bible does talk about the concept of the trinity? Did you know that Jesus did claim to be God, and that unless He washes you, you will not get into heaven? If you want a spirited debate about your beliefs in relation to the Bible, please ask. I will warn you; you might be challenged. Friendly debate only!
Expert: Michael O`Flaherty (Expert=8663) - 6/21/2006
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I understand that JW's don't celebrate Christmas because of the pagan background. Then why to the JW's wear wedding rings, say wedding vows and wear wedding veils which are all of pagan origin?
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Great question! I don't know that one. Definately ask one of the witnesses out here (I serve on this board as an opposing voice.)
If you do find out, I would appreciate this info. (michael@oflaherty.com.)
God bless you!
In Jesus Name!
Michael
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Sorry about sending a duplicate question. On the previous question. I wasn't sure how this site worked and I clicked the button without adding anything to it. I have another question for you. It has nothing to do with the above but I thought since I had you answering one question I would ask another. My family is practing devout Catholic. My nephew is dating a devout Witness and they are going to get married. She is a wonderful girl and she has been very good for him (I think as far as mates go, she is getting the short end of the stick) they really seem to love each other. Neither she or my nephew have ever brought up any religious issues about what will happen after they are married. I guess I am wondering what to expect from all of this? Will it last? How will the children be brought up? I know neither one is interested in converting to the others religion. I don't want to get into any arguements, because that is what happens in religious debates and no one ever changes their mind. I believe that I am worshipping God in the right way, and I am sure you believe you are right, and so do the Protestants, Jews, Muslim, everyone thinks they interpret the Bible correctly. But I digress. I am just wondering what your take would be on all of this and what do the Witnesses think of one of their own marrying a Catholic and what should I expect?
Answer Hi Lori!
First off, I have to be honest and say that this is a potential disaster. If he is a true JW, then there will be certain demands and pressure from the watchtower or his family on how the kids are reared (if any) as well as her *spiritual* state. JWs typically shun their own family members who are not in the faith, so I would expect the same of a spouse. JWs do not believe in birthdays, voting, military, holidays, etc. In fact, I would be surprised if the watchtower would not make certain demands on their marriage. JWs don’t have non-JW friends for example (they are not supposed to at least.) My advice would be the same—don’t get into arguments over specific doctrines, but certainly encourage them if possible to discuss the subject. They need to know going into the relationship what is required from their faith. The Catholic faith has certain requirements as well (my Dad is Catholic and my Mom is Methodist, so at least back then there were issues.)
Understand that JWs are a killer cult. Their policy of refusing blood to those dying has caused suffering and death for many women and children. How would they face a medical crisis if heaven forbid one of their children needed some life-saving treatment? Things like this should be discussed before leaping into marriage. Otherwise, it will become a crisis when faced with it.
As far as worshipping God, Jesus states that you must be born of water and Spirit to enter heaven (John 3:5.) Peter understood this in Acts 2:38: “Repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus for the forgiveness of your sins. And you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.”
If you meet those requirements, and you are living the Christian life, then you are worshipping God in the right way. I will be praying for them, and for you to find the opportunity and courage to speak to them about this…
