AboutKagi Expertise I can answer questions on the overall Kenyan culture, our history (given some time to confirm the facts), and our way of life in the towns and rural areas. I'm not claiming expertise, but if you want my opinion, I'll give it to you.
Experience I am a Kenyan, I have worked with various children's homes and aid organisations to get a hint of the other side of the street, and I enjoy observing Kenyan life. I have also done a number of courses in culture.
Organizations I Choose Life (ICL), Kenya Book Foundation (KBF), and SIFE
Publications A local magazine in Kenyan estates in Nairobi, AdPaper, and my university newspaper, Involvement.
Education/Credentials A liberal B.A in Communication.
Expert: Kagi Date: 9/17/2007 Subject: moving to Kenya
Question I was recently in Kenya and met a nice Kenyan, he has suggested that we buy land together and build a house. I am a white UK citizan (unmarried with an 8 yr old son). My question is, how would we be treated by other Kenyan's and what would be my opportunities for employment in Kenya. We are looking to move near Watamu on the coast.
I am also concerned that I may be being misled by the man I met and that this is an opportunity for him to improve his situation rather than this being sincere as I was approached by a number of men whilst I was on holiday wanting to spend time with me.
Answer Hi Claire,
Sadly, the Coast has become notorious for preying on white women and men, with many Kenyans seeking to improve their social and financial standings. It is a common misconception that white equals rich. In my language, the name for the white man neans rich.
This is not to say that this man intended to use you, but you will have to get to know him better before you commit to him so bindingly. He does not mention marriage, or does he?
Many Kenyans would think the man married you for your money, and he will be envied by his friends too. But seriously, before you commit to moving to Kenya, accepting a different way of life, and changing the lifestyle of your son, find out how sincere this man is. If he's sincere and seriously wants you for you not because of the colour of your skin, then by all means, move to Watamu. Kenya is a fabulous country with great atmosphere.
Your employment opportunities at the Coast would most likely be limited to travel companies and hospitality related organisations. In the towns, you may have more variety. I don't know what the salary scale is though, but it might be less than what you are used to in the UK.
All the best with this, I hope everything works out for you and your son. HAng out some more with the man, you'll manage to gauge his feelings for you. If he is serious, he would consider introducing you to his family, especially his mother. Have his friends meet you, and not all at once as though showing off he got a white woman, but he'll wait to know you and be sure his friends would approve of you. Don't be duped.
Let me know if you have any more questions.
