About Serene Expertise i can answer most questions about family, friends, and boys.
Experience Not alot, considering I'm only like, 14 this year. But I encounter almost the same problems like crushes, friendship problems, school (especially teachers and studies!), and family etc. So I suppose I can help at least that little bit! ^_^
Question theres this boy and well... i like him and I'm selfconscince's well with the body and i worry if my weights the problem he does'nt like me and he sometimes flirts with me and i wantedto know if you could help me try to find out if he likes me and how to get a BFRIEND if you can...but anyway thanks BYE!!!!
Answer Hi Jessica,
I'm so glad you asked me, because I have this important thing to tell you: Weight is not the problem!!! I'll tell you truthfully though. Initially most guys (that doesn't mean all) will judge you on your looks, which is about the same as with us girls, but once they get to know you better they won't care how you look anymore. It's a matter of your personality. If you don't believe this, well, just look at all the married couples. Are all of them beautiful and handsome and cute? No, so it's not to do with the looks. That's one thing out of your mind, isn't it?(:
As for him not liking you, hmm, who knows? Maybe he DOES like you secretly. We may never know. There's this one thing to consider: Does he flirt with most girls? If he flirts mostly with you, that could mean he likes you. If he flirts with other girls too, well, it shows he's a flirt.
There're lots of ways to find out if he really likes you, and anyway, there'll be hints and clues. Like if his friends always teases him about you in front of you or the way he looks and smiles at you. Try to take note of that. For the most straightforward method, just go up to him and say you like him and you'll be able to know if it's reciprocal. Of course, you can do this over the phone or something. I tried that once and even though the guy didn't like me back, at least we keep in touch more often and have become really good friends. Just to warn you: if it doesn't work out then he will avoid you.
I'm not sure how long you two have known each other, but I think you two should always become fast friends first before taking it a step further. Not just flirting. You can try to know more about him, or strike up a conversation about something you have in common. Don't appear to be too eager, it'll scare him off.
How to get a boyfriend? That's easy. Just be yourself. Don't act another person, because you will only make a fool out of yourself. Appear confident (but not too overconfident you become arrogant!) even if you're really insecure. But don't let it show. Guys like girls to look confident, and that's when the inner beauty always shows.
And anyway, you can't rush love. The only thing to do now is to get to know more people(guys AND girls). Just a simple hi and a smile to the people in your school will brighten their day, and slowly you will have more and more friends.
Hope I've helped! If you have any more questions feel free to ask me((: Good luck!
