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When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.
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You are here: Experts > Teens > Teen Advice > How to Know if He/She Really Likes You > Guy sending out confusing signals!?
Expert: Big D - 10/28/2009
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I am 19 years old and recently moved to a new town. I had met a few people, including a guy who i liked straight away.
I never made the first move, and me and this guy would hang out a lot, he used to call me all the time, text me but never in more of a friends way. He started to sleep over at my house while we talked and laughed all night... but never even gave one signal he liked me.
After weeks of that i started to like him more and more and one night we went out together at the bar to meet with friends... We were super flirty all night and we ended up going home together. We had sex, and it was amazing! I'm pretty sure he thought so too. And we both admitted we had feelings towards each other..
But ever since things have been kinda awkward.
He texts me still but sometimes doesn't text me back, he calls me still but we haven't really hung out since and its been nearly a week. He's asked me but iv been busy the days hes asked.
He told me he missed me on the phone last night and we arranged for him to come over to my place tonight.
I'm scared of how to act with him from now on, should i just carry on how i am? Or play more hard to get now?
Do you think he thinks as me as just a friend?
Any advice would be great. Thanks.
Sorry it so long, him just very confused.
Answer
Hello Jade,
Well, in your case, I learned a very important lesson. Guys will use love to get sex, and Girls will use sex, to get love. See my picture? He could have just thought he had a good time with you for one night, and he's calling it good. Otherwise, why would he want to go on with you? It's important to save that part for when we're married, and I'm just talking from experience. Because now you're confused, and kind of lost with someone you've shared unconditional love and bonding. If he's coming over, tell him what is in your heart, not what your mind is telling you. Tell him you love him, if you truly are in love with him. He'll listen and understand. I hope this helps you, good luck Jade.
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