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When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.

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Many of my personal friends come to me with alot of dating problems. I've helped them with certain steps that have worked out for them. I love helping people with dating problems. It helps me to understand more about what people are going through, and how I can help make a happy ending for each of them. I've learned alot from my own experience in that past of what important steps are missed. It can lead to heartache and a shattered dream. I know dating is a like a neverending game, but sometimes it's game over sooner than we think.

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How to Know if He/She Really Likes You - New guy.


Expert: Big D - 10/22/2009

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Okay, well, first off, hi :) lol .
I've never really done anything like this before, but I guess it's been kind-of bothering me, so I need an outside opinion of someone who could give me honest advice and doesn't actually know me. So I just met a guy about a week 1/2 ago, and we've been hanging out a lot recently. He just got out of a 2 year relationship about 2 months ago, (I'm pretty sure that was the time frame,) but the fact of the matter is that I want to make sure I'm not a rebound. I've had a conversation with him about the subject, and he has told me that I am not a throw back, and that he genuinely likes me. The thing is that I feel like I've actually already fallen really hard for the guy. We connected on a really deep level, and now i feel like insane for having such intense feelings so fast. He says he really, really likes me also, and that he's never liked a girl so much, so fast before. He does the sweetest things too. Like I have a feeling we're going to date, and he makes it sound that way also, but I just also get the feeling that it's really early for him. He makes me feel like no one ever has made me feel before though! It's pretty amazing. I've asked him about his ex, and he tells me everything I want to know...He apparently is completely over her, and we talk/text all day. He's 19, and I actually feel like he is being sincere. The thing is that I've been hurt before, and I guess I'm just really scared. So I'm not really sure if I'm over analyzing the situation by being scared or worried, or if I genuinely have serious feelings this fast. The thing is, I've known him for such a small period of time, but I've lost my appetite, I can't stop thinking about him, and I want to be with him all the time. He also says he wants to be with me, and that he always misses me.  I don't know what to do, or what to say to him, I don't want to "freak him out" or "push him away." I don't want to act clingy, and I've made it really clear that he doesn't have to always talk to me, that he needs his own time, and that he needs to have his guy time. & he still is always talking to me. (Which is good) I guess I am just worried that I'm just over analyzing everything because I'm paranoid about him being over a relationship so fast. He's making me go crazy! (Yet still in a good way.)

Thanks,
Rachael

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Hello Rachael,

Well it sounds to me like you actually don't need my help. I feel that this is going very smooth for you, so just hang tight, keep doing what you guys are both doing. You are in love with him, and it could be that he's doing the same. Go for it!

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