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How to Know if He/She Really Likes You/does he ??
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Hi Big D
I am writting to ask for your help i like this guy that is like one of my bestfriends he tells me everything and lately we have been closer lyk he will say stuff to me lyk meghan a love you really or you love me really and when i see him he will talk directly to me when he is tellin a story and he always likes to give me hugs and if there is something wrong with me he will ask me straight away and he has this real thrill for fighting he is always disappearing for a fight but lately when it gets to that if i phone him and calm him down i can normally make sure he doesnt fight but i really dont no if he likes me ?? and i mean i dont no if any of this is a good or bad thing but ..... ! and also my other problem is my bestfriend told him a little while ago that she loved him and he was talking to me about it and he said he didnt feel the same way and he made it clear to me that he didnt but even if he doesnt i need to no if he lyks me !
Please Help me
Meghan x
Hi Meghan,
This is interesting. If your bestfriend had said that to him, than I bet that really threw him off, and really surprised him. He wants more than just a friendship, but you need to let him know as soon as you can that you do like him. Otherwise, their could be a little mix up and turn into a "love triangle". I know she is your best friend, but you need to tell her how you feel about him.
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When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.
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Many of my personal friends come to me with alot of dating problems. I've helped them with certain steps that have worked out for them. I love helping people with dating problems. It helps me to understand more about what people are going through, and how I can help make a happy ending for each of them. I've learned alot from my own experience in that past of what important steps are missed. It can lead to heartache and a shattered dream. I know dating is a like a neverending game, but sometimes it's game over sooner than we think.
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