About Big D Expertise When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.
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Question It all started pretty much at the beginning of September, the first two weeks of school had passed and I've gotten my introductions to my classmates for most of my classes out of the way. Then, one day at the beginning of my English class, the girl I have a crush on started talking to me, asking, "Your name is (my name), right?" followed with a smile. I looked into her eyes and was instantly hypnotized by her beauty, still somewhat shocked that she was actually talking to me, I smiled and responded, "Yea..., you're (her name), right?". She sort of blushed and told me I was right. After that, class had started and we didn't talk for the rest of the period but sort of glanced at each other. The next day I realized she is in three of my classes. Well, since she and I were introduced to each other personally, she would say hi to me when I entered each of the classes I have with her, and sometimes she would joke around calling me a stalker for being in so many classes with her, I would joke around too, sarcastically saying I am stalking her. My English class is the class she talks to me the most, she usually starts a conversation with me about school work or sometimes about our personal lives, I always smile and give her full eye contact when responding, also one of my friends in my class can see how interested I am in her and usually laughs when I ignore him when talking to her. So, one day in my English class, we had one of our little conversations, and near the end of the class I could tell she was drawing something in her notebook, but I was thinking realistically and knew it was nothing for me, probably something for one of her friends. Then a couple minutes later I saw her folding up the piece of paper, writing one more thing on it when folded, then gave it to one of the people sitting next to her. She told the person to pass it to me, starting to get nervous I took the piece of paper smiling only to find it saying "BFFs 4ever" with two stick figures smiling, I opened the folded paper to find it having a drawing of a heart with a flower sprouted out of it saying "To my BFF: (my name)". I instantly felt weightless with affection. She told me to keep it and put it in my room, I promised her I would.
Now here is the big question, does she like me back or is she just being a friendly person? I left out quite of bit of other small things that happened, but included all of the major things. I feel so motivated to go to school because of her, but recently after her week long trip and now for the past two weeks, I find her becoming less interested in me. She usually will say hi to me in my English class, but I usually have to start a conversation to talk with her. Could I have an opinion from you on what I should do to show her I am interested in her too? I really don't want to screw this up by asking her out too early.
Answer Hey John,
Well, she may not be interested in dating right now, suffice it to say. A lot of girls will put it off because of past experiences and just want to head in one direction, and not an entire fork, if that makes sense. The best thing I would suggest, is just be yourself around her. Be friends, a good friend of mine told me "friends first, lovers last" and you'll see what I mean in the future. I know it's really hard to start a conversation, and especially if your the one that's starting, I've been there. She could just be wanting to be friends, and hoping that you are getting her message, if not. Get a bunch of your buddies together, and go on a group date, and then call her, don't text! That way their is less pressure on her, and she'll more likely say yes to you. Give that a try, and let me know how things go.
