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When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.
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Expert: Big D - 11/1/2009
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QUESTION: What's up Big D!
Alright bro, I need some good feedback on this one. I am at the point where the "little seed" in my mind is growing out of control and it is driving me crazy! So, I am a senior in high school and the girl I like is also a senior. Before this year began, we had talked for a little bit as friends and we sorta flirted but she suddenly stopped talking to me for a couple months. Recently we started talking again. About a month ago, I asked her to senior homecoming and she said "yes"! This surprised me cause I thought for sure she would say "no". Between the time I asked her and the day of the dance, we talked almost everyday about what we were gonna do for dinner plans, flowers and all that good stuff. We also talked about school, friends, swimming (the sport we both do, etc. The day of the dance, we kinda got seprated at the school (after dinner and all that "before-dance" stuff). I then decided to dance with my friends while I looked for her, which included dancing with another girl. She saw me dancing with this girl and seemed to get kinda upset. So, I asked her to dance with me the rest of the time to sorta make up for it. I didn't think it was a big deal at the time, but now I have my doubts. Ever since the dance, she seems to be ignoring me. She doesn't answer my calls or call me back anymore, she seems to get offline when I login to Facebook (or if I talk to her on it she talks very briefly then gets off), says she is always too busy with homework and swim to hang out (which is bulls**t cuz she chills with he girlfriends all the time) and seems to be hanging out with lot of other guys since. I.E. she went with some other guy at a different school to his homecoming the day after ours, was with another guy at a football game, and walked with another guy for Senior Night (for swimming). But, she still seems to look at me alot when we are at lunch and in the hallways. I am getting the feeling that she really doesn't like me, which kills me. Or maybe I just upset her really bad. Either way, do you have any opinions on this? Think she just don't like me or is just upset? If she does, what can I do to try and get myself going steady with this girl? I really like her.
ANSWER: Dude,
All I can say is whatever you did, she's totally playing you and hoping that you are getting the picture, make a move as soon as you can, and you'll get the answer you need, good luck!
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QUESTION: When you say "she is totally playing you", what excatly do you mean by that? And how should I go about making my move without looking desperate or clingy?
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Hey Todd,
Girls can be really complicated and are especially picky, that's what I meant. In a way she is playing "hard to get" in my statement. She's taking advantage of you, I would suggest you make a move, but just be yourself, and trust your feelings.
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