How to Know if He/She Really Likes You/what shod i do?

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Expert: Big D - 11/2/2009


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theres this girl that went to my junior high, i wasnt really her friend but i knew her. i always kinda liked her but haloween she hung out with me and a group of friends, and i really wanna ask her out. i just dont know whether i should. although she is not really MY friend she has many friends who are mine. (her friends are mine in about 10 cases) i was thinking i would ask her if she wanted to go out this weekend, but im not sure if i should. i though i could text her, but ive never done that. most girls i would ask in person, but it is rare that i see her as she does not attend my school. though we are in the same grade, freshmen

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Hello Daniel,

Good for you my friend! Most guys would text a girl and ask her out without thinking. You are doing great, now here's something that you could do to ease off some pressure between you two. Get your friends together and go on a big group date, it's a lot of fun. That way you are with your friends and she is with her friends, and the both of you are together. I think that will work out in your case, and she will feel more comfortable.

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When it comes to knowing if he or she likes you, it all starts with a very simple thing known as a crush. It's like a tiny seed planted in our minds that grows out in only one direction until it drives us crazy. Your mind wants to know straight up if that person really likes you or not, and to do anything in your path to get that answer. That's where I want to help you. All I can say to you, is that the first step is patience. I will help you with eye contact, body language, signs he/she will give away, and then to the final step of asking he/she out on a date. I'm here to help you stick to it, until it sticks to you.

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Many of my personal friends come to me with alot of dating problems. I've helped them with certain steps that have worked out for them. I love helping people with dating problems. It helps me to understand more about what people are going through, and how I can help make a happy ending for each of them. I've learned alot from my own experience in that past of what important steps are missed. It can lead to heartache and a shattered dream. I know dating is a like a neverending game, but sometimes it's game over sooner than we think.

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