About Lulu Expertise I can answer any questions having to do with dating, relationships, or wanting to know if someone likes you. If you want to know what is going through someone's mind, or why they are acting a certain way, I'm your gal! I'm not particularly good in the field of homosexuality, however.
Experience I have a gift of intuition and am great at giving advice. My friends all come to me when they have problems, and I truly care about each and every person's issues.
Education/Credentials I have taken psychology courses in the past, and have also gained much experience from high school.
Question QUESTION: Hi again. =). Well I'm trying to open my heart back up to other guys and I think I have found one who likes me. No matter what his friends think. The problem is though, he started to get my attention when he would joke about how my younger sister is so hot. His friends would even get in on the joke commenting on how hot she is and how badly the guy I kind of like likes her. I asked one of his friends about it and he said that they were just kidding and that the guy I like doesn't like my sister like that. It's still making me wonder though, why he would even start with that to get my attention. And the other problem is is that I have dated on of his friends and I have had a crush on another one of his friends. I feel like a huge beach ball in their group, that keeps on getting passed around. I am really starting to like this guy but I'm not to sure whether to go for it or leave it. Should I go for him? What do you think about the whole sister thing?
ANSWER: Hi Christine!
This guy seems normal. He might have been saying he likes your sister to make you jealous and more into him. I say go for it! If you don't like him, you can always dump him. You're not bound to him once you date him. His friends may have also been in on the joke since you like one of them and dated the other. Is your sister a lot younger? They were most likely kidding.
-Lulu
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QUESTION: My sister is 2 years younger than us. But she is really pretty and doesn't look her age. She has huge boobs and is really skinny. A lot of the guys in my grade think she is hot. And do you think I should wait for him or through out hints? I am really starting to like this guy. =)
ANSWER: Maybe flirt with him if you don't already and look at him a lot. See if you get a negative or positive reaction. Do you think he likes you? He might think she's hot, but it doesn't mean he LIKES her necessarily.
-Lulu
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QUESTION: I do kind of think he likes me. He smiles at me every chance he gets when he looks at me. He is really really nice and just genuine. But it kind of hurts though, that he would say how gorgeous my sister instead of saying anything nice about me. It kind of hurts cause everyone thinks my sister is gorgeous and not me.
Answer Awwwww! I'm sure you are very gorgeous! Besides, if your sister is, then you must have a good-looking gene also! Inner beauty is better than outer beauty, and I know you are a nice, kind person. Maybe he wouldn't say it in front of you because he's not sure if you like him or not. You could drop hints, or if you're really sure he likes you, you could ask him out!
-Lulu
