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Question So, for about 2 years now I've like this girl, Sarah, her best friend, Sandra, tried her hardest to keep us from talking, i finally asked Sarah if she knew why Sandra did that, Sarah said Sandra liked me, well about 8 months ago me and Sandra dated, i liked Sandra a little but the whole time we dated i couldn't stop thinking about Sarah. i was going to break up with Sandra because i liked Sarah but Sandra broke up with me first because her parents put her on birth control. well i told Sarah i liked her but didn't tell her that i wanted to ask her out. just to see how she reacted. she had started talking to me without the interruptions of Sandra about 2 months ago. she told me that she liked me also but didn't want to make Sandra, her best friend, mad because Sandra likes me also. Sandra won't even talk to me so i can't tell her anything like i feel i need to. i really like Sarah and would do anything for her. Is there a way i can ask Sarah out that will get her to say yes? How do i ask her out now that she has said she doesn't want to make Sandra mad?
Sorry it's so long, i wanted you to know the details so you can give me a good answer hopefully. thank you NATHAN
Answer Hello Nathan,
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. Why won't Sandra speak with you? If Sarah does not want to betray her friend by talking to you then honestly Nathan there is nothing that you can do to persuade her. The only thing that may work is if Sandra finds someone else or loses interest in you all together..even then she may not date you. Women who truly respect and love their friends normally won't cross the line of friendship and speak with their friend's ex's no matter how much they might like you. It would be one thing if you could talk to Sandra and express to her that you truly want to be with Sarah, but if Sandra still has feelings for you then she's not going to give Sarah the okay. Hopefully one day she may come around, good luck!
