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Question Well, I have recently started talking to this girl that went to my college. We
had a class together but we really never talked. But we eventually started
talking and hanging out. We get along great! We never run out of things to
talk about! I hardly ever get to see her though. She is going to a different
college this next semester. And it's completely on the other side of the state.
So she is hardly ever in phoenix anymore. And just my luck, she is in
California working with her da for the summer. So these past few months
we've seen each other like 4 times. And it def. Sucks.
She has admutted to me that she likes me. But i cant get the feeling out of
my head that maybe she doesnt anymore?? We always talk about sex and
she usually gives me a "we'll see" That could mean anything!! Don't get me
wrong, I would love to have sex with her, but I want SO much more than
that. But we just recently had our first sexual activity. Everything went so
perfect. But we didn't go all the way. (no penis in vagina) After we got done
with all the foreplay, I asked if "you want to do this?" and she starts crying.
And she tells me I just don't do this with guys and she wants to, but she's
scared. Scared of what?!. By the way, she's only had 2 partners before. Both
her boyfriends. She's a really emotional person and cries frequently. A couple
times in front of me. But what does she want?? A relationship? Is she just
not that into me? What do you think of this whole situation?
And a couple days after that, we just didn't talk for a day. That's extremely
odd, seeing we went 3 months straight talking everyday! I couldn't help but
think something was up. But recently started talking less abd less everyday.
Do you think something is wrong??
Last question. Haha Since she's going to a different school next year, idk if
she wants a relationship. AND a long one at that. But what should I do with
this? Start a relationship even though I think she doesn't want one? God this
kills me, cuz I liike her soooo much!
Well sorry for the essay.. But any advice you could give would be great!
THANK YOU!
Answer Hello Mario,
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. If she said that she liked you, then I'm sure that she did. The fact that she cried and made the comment "I just don't do this with guys." I can tell you it sounds as if she's been hurt, even though she isn't very much experienced in the area of sex she still sounds as if she's been hurt. She's holding back on you and it could be because in the past she may have felt as if the guys she was with only wanted sex. I think it's great that you say you want way MORE than sex, I say talk to her and let her know how you feel. Explain to her that you would like to try to build a relationship with her. If she agrees, never bring up sex, put it on the back burner. Romance her and show her that you want her for her & not for sex, I guarantee you that if you do she will come around. You won't have to even ask for sex, she will come to you. When a woman feels as if she is appreciated and loved, it's in our nature to reciprocate the love with giving ourselves to the man that has our heart. Keep in mind, "the man who has our heart." Your only option at this time Mario is to talk to her and let her know how you feel, or risk losing the opportunity. Good luck!
