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I am a 30 yrs old pharmacist.I have married once and divorced 3 yrs ago with a child who lives with her mother.Recently I entered a friendly relationship with one of my colleagues who is 28, unmarried and has had a painful romantic experience 5 yrs ago.Our friendly going-outs together started 2 weeks ago but quickly turned to something very emotional, even though we had both wanted to avoid this until we knew each other better. She has problems with my past specially with my child and her place in my heart, believing she will always be second.By this logic she seems to think our marriage is next to impossible and to avoid getting hurt or make it easier to cut me off, has restricted our meetings to twice a week. I have tried to explain she has a special place of her own, but she seems to be unable to accept this. She also says this is for ME not for herself, and she would do anything to prevent me from getting hurt, whether I like it or not.She seems to be fighting her feelings towards me,it is such a painful internal struggle. I want to help her overcome this and also don't want to lose her. What should I do? Let her carry on with this restriction plan and give her time and space? Or should I force the issue? I don't want to lose her.Please help me.
Answer Hi Mehdi! Give her time with it, but also sit down with her and have a heart to heart where you can tell herexactly how you feel and explain to her everything you told me, and tell her that you don't want to lose her, and that if she just needs space but won't leave, and will eventually break down her restrictions, then agree to wait for her if that's what you want to do. Just let her know that you care about her and please don't force the issue, lay everything out gently and just let her know, don't tell her she has to do anything, just show her that you'll be there for her. Hope this helps. Feel free to ask a follow-up if you have any more questions. Good luck!
