AboutLatoya Expertise Sometimes our vision can become cloudy when dealing with love and relationships, and sometimes a second voice is needed. Allow me to be that voice of reason. I will be able to provide you with advice, options & necessary steps to handle the situation at hand. I am not proclaiming to have all of the answers, but please know that I will try my best to answer your questions as affectively as possible. I can assure you that any questions you may have regarding love, relationships, If he/she really likes you, etc..will be answered in a timely manner.
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Question Hi Latoya!
I'm 18 years old and I really love one of my classmates in high school (I know she don't have boyfriend).The big love started after winter holiday.I liked her before , but we didn't talk much and she didn't give me so much signs before that , but I think she knew I liked her.After holidays she started giving many signs e.g.: eye contact with smiling (even when she were sitting in the front and had to turn back) and asking how I was and open body language etc. The problem was i couldn't speak to her when i saw her , I always watched deeply in her eyes , but couldn't say a word.But with other girls i was chatting a lot and I think she thought I'm playing games with her (cuz she knew I like her) and she started to totally confuse me.
When I wrote to her on MSN she just disappeared but in school she was staring at me and sometimes she walked so close to me like she wanted to bump into me.But I just couldn't start a conversation with her when she was watching at me I nearly melted :).When I tried writing her again , she disappeared again , and I was a bit angry and started to ignore her and not looking at her , but I saw she was looking at me and sometimes she just asked silly things in a way like she wanted me to see her and lots of other signs.But after a time she started to ignore me too in some ways for example she avoided looking at me during classes , but in the same time she came to me and asked about my test results and stuff like that , always looking deeply into my eyes.In May we had our school trip and she totally changed again , she staring at me on the bus and once she stood out of the group and just stared at me and we held an eye contact for half a minute , but I didn't dare to make any move.After that she was online in MSN a lot of times for some days (she's not quite often on anyway) , but I didnt chat with her.After a week I tried writing to her again and she disappeared again and I was so pissed of that I deleted her but after she came to me in school asking about my exams and she stared into my eyes during the whole conversation and gave me other glimpses too like always.Now the school is over and I didnt do anything , but I'm going crazy cuz I cant see her (she's living far).I thought that I wrote to her on MSN that I wanna meet her , but maybe it would be too awkward and she hasn't been on for a week now , but I'm thinking of her all the time.I regret not calling her out personally when I had the chance but I always choked when I saw her.
Please help me!I'm sorry for writing too long but I had to gave the details.
Thanks Robert
Answer Hello Robert,
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. It is a strong possibility that she did not know how to take you because you did not really make a move to indicate that you liked her. Send her a message on MSN and ask if you can have her phone # to call and talk to her. If she give it to you then when you call explain to her that you like her, but you was too nervous to let her know during school. Since she's rarely on MSN, it may take some time for her to reply..but hopefully she will reply with her phone #. Good Luck!
