About Lulu Expertise I can answer any questions having to do with dating, relationships, or wanting to know if someone likes you. If you want to know what is going through someone's mind, or why they are acting a certain way, I'm your gal! I'm not particularly good in the field of homosexuality, however.
Experience I have a gift of intuition and am great at giving advice. My friends all come to me when they have problems, and I truly care about each and every person's issues.
Education/Credentials I have taken psychology courses in the past, and have also gained much experience from high school.
I recently met a woman online whom I had been chatting with for what turned out to be over a year. We finally agreed to meet in person. We met at a local park and when we saw each other there seemed to be a lot of flirting going on. To the point where we started fooling around. Oh yeah...one more important caveat...we're both married.
We made out, talked and very flirty the whole day. So when we departed each other's company, she had called me on my cell to check that I was OK on my drive home. However, when I next saw her online, I got a very distant feeling from her. I e-mailed her that I wanted to see her again and how much I enjoyed her company. And I got little to no reaction. So I asked her if she had any regrets and she told me, none whatsoever. I even told her to give me the needle and tell me the truth. Anyway...I am still feeling a distance there that I can't put my finger on...At times she sees me online and IM's me. But the chat is very safe and the flirting has dried up somewhat. I'm confused because just when I think I will never hear from her again, she resurfaces... but again...very limited flirting. What gives? I'm lost...I have been giving her space, and even told her I'd honor whatever she wants. I'm lost!
She also has baited me that she may be seeing other men on the side, which I told her was a no go for me if we were going to keep our relationship discreet. But she never offers the sex of these friends that she is seeing. Which i am reading as being secretive to either make me jealous, or to send a message: "I'm just not that into you?"
Answer Dear Michael,
First of all, you should not even CONSIDER other women when you are married!!! Your wife WILL find out eventually and you will be kicked out of the house. Do you really want to throw all you have away for a fling? Maybe your online date doesn't feel comfortable doing this when she is married. She might not be into you. Either way, let her be. Go back to your wife.
-Lulu
