AboutLatoya Expertise Sometimes our vision can become cloudy when dealing with love and relationships, and sometimes a second voice is needed. Allow me to be that voice of reason. I will be able to provide you with advice, options & necessary steps to handle the situation at hand. I am not proclaiming to have all of the answers, but please know that I will try my best to answer your questions as affectively as possible. I can assure you that any questions you may have regarding love, relationships, If he/she really likes you, etc..will be answered in a timely manner.
Experience Each individual relationship I've been in has allowed me to gain a notch of experience that I have placed on my belt of knowledge. Through my many experiences I've learned how to recognize if a relationship is or is not a healthy one. My knowledge allows me to assist friends and family members when in need of sound advice.
Education/Credentials Experience from high school, college and life
Question Hey, I just started working with a co-worker. He is my age, and when I first saw him I got butterflies. I have only worked with him a couple times. Seems like to me he flirts, but I don't know. Today I came into work, and we had a great time together, talked about the past and future, laughed, and stared at eachother. He went on a smoke break with me, and I got his number. I know this is like second grade but his leg touched mine. I read somewhere that is a sign if he don't like me he will pull away. I texted him tonight and he didn't really seem too interested in talking to me. I don't know what to do so I stopped texting him tonight. I actually like him a bit, but I don't know how to know if he likes me. I mean when I work with him it seems like it, but maybe he is just the flirty type...I don't really know. Can you help me? I need signs or ways to get to know if he likes me or something without seeming pushy ya know?
Answer Hello Rebecca,
Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. If you texted him and he didn't seem to interested, it could have meant he was either busy or he's not that much into texting vs. speaking over the phone or face to face. Did he offer his # or did you ask for it? If you're wanting to be certain if he's interested allow him to to contact you outside of work. Continue to talk to him when you see him and try to act normal. It's one thing to be flirtatious at work, it's another to take the initiative to actually communicate and get to know someone outside of work.
