About Lulu Expertise I can answer any questions having to do with dating, relationships, or wanting to know if someone likes you. If you want to know what is going through someone's mind, or why they are acting a certain way, I'm your gal! I'm not particularly good in the field of homosexuality, however.
Experience I have a gift of intuition and am great at giving advice. My friends all come to me when they have problems, and I truly care about each and every person's issues.
Education/Credentials I have taken psychology courses in the past, and have also gained much experience from high school.
Question I've recently met a Marine online. I'm not too sure what to think. We've been talking for a month, getting to know each other. Something tells me to stick around and that I could be in for a fun relationship. He's really sexual though. We've had the conversation about not building a relationship only on a sexual level. There is so much that we agree on, it's freaky. Like why date somebody, if they couldn't be your best friend too? I've never told anyone a few private things, except for him. I don't feel as secretive with my personal information when I tell him certain things about myself. We were planning on hanging out with he comes home on leave. I don't want to rush things, when we started speaking to each other, I wasn't looking for any kind of relationship. I just wanted to get my life on track to be able to stand on my own two feet. Now, I am thinking way different. I've had a problem with trust in past relationships. With him, I feel definitely different. Anyway, I really like him, but sometimes I'm afraid of failure. I don't like to waste time on relationships I know won't work out. I'd like to know where this kind of relationship is going. Thank you!
Answer Dear Katie,
Just talking about sexual things isn't a solid base for a relationship. You have to relate on a friendship level and have substance. If you went out with him, it sounds like all he would want to do is have sex. In which case, would be a waste of a relationship.
-Lulu
