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About Michelle
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Expertise
I can answer pretty much anything having to do with this category, and can answer for both girls and guys. I'll answer a question by anyone. Lesbian, gay, Muslim, Asian, whatever. I won't and don't judge based on those sort of things. I have experienced a lot, and gone through almost all, like "why is he acting like that? does he hate me?" "why does he keep staring at me" "why doesn't he like talking to me?", etc. Also, I've been reading a lot about body language, and I have a lot of guy friends who help me a lot with that kind of stuff, so I pretty much have an idea of how the male brain works. The answers I cannot answer are "why doesn't he call me anymore?" It's really, really hard to explain, that's all. But yeah, feel free to ask me a question, I'll be more than glad to help! Just be specific, please. Sorry if I take a lot to answer. If I do that means I'm either at school or sleeping :P Also, I will not answer any rude questions. We are people trying to do our best and willing to help you guys should at least give us some credit for doing so.

Experience
I experienced a lot having to do with this category, and I have been getting plenty of answers. I've tried helping my friends, and they have helped me. I read a lot of stuff, and I carefully observe people's behaviors when they are around the person they like. Cultures and cutoms also matter, and I liked boys from different cultures and race, and there also might be a reason why he's acting the way he does. For example, Japanese people believe that actions will prove how much they love their significant other, rather than saying "I love you." Most Japanese people do not show affection in that matter.

Education/Credentials
High school.

   

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guy problems!8/18/2008
  Q: I've known this guy for about 3 years, and we talk a lot through texting (we talked in school last ...
  A: Hey Katie :) It sounds like he does like you a bit [the eye thing]. But does he stare at other ...
confused and still in love8/18/2008
  Q: i'm writing for some advise i am not a teen but i need some advice on something well someone who ...
  A: Hey Alicia :) I'm sorry to say, but it looks like he is only using you for sex. Because it seems ...
am i too youung?8/14/2008
  Q: Well i have decided after long contemplation that i am gay. my mom found out in a way i would not ...
  A: When have you started to realize you were gay? Hm, I don't know what to say about that one, because ...
he drives me crazy in a really good way..but does he like me??8/14/2008
  Q: I'm new to this..but my name is Raana..it's pronounced Ran-uh..=]..I'm having a bit of difficulty ...
  A: Hey Raana :) Hm, if you feel like you're being lead on, then wait for a little while to see what's ...
This girl.. What's happening?8/14/2008
  Q: how are you? I'm 19 and done with school, and it may seem odd that I'm questioning you about a girl ...
  A: I'm horrible. Sunlight kept on "shocking" my brain and my spine >__> Don't worry, I've read longer ...
getting her to admit it8/6/2008
  Q: Is there a way I can get a girl to admit that she likes me? And if she does what should I say?
  A: Hey Andrew, Well, you have to make her feel comfortable around you. But if she's a shy person she ...
Does he like me?8/2/2008
  Q: This is gonna be long xD Hey! Well I'm 14 and I like one of my best guy friends, and we've just come ...
  A: Hey Claudia, Ahh :/ I really dislike girls like that. No one deserves that! Ok...tell you what. ...
Why is he staring?7/29/2008
  Q: In band we will be in sectionals and he wil stare at me. He will play his instrument and just stare ...
  A: Well, you have to observe him..does he stare at other people? or only you? Because there are ...
Why is he staring?7/27/2008
  Q: In band we will be in sectionals and he wil stare at me. He will play his instrument and just stare ...
  A: Hey Leona, That's weird that he stares. Same thing happened to me in 8th grade. Except it was a ...
He has a girlfriend but does he like me?7/27/2008
  Q: He has a girlfriend and he really likes her. But he tells me that I am a wonderful good looking ...
  A: Hey Leah, Well, I think that even though you have a wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend, it's ...
am i over thinking or does she like me???7/26/2008
  Q: there is this girl that i met over thanksgiving over her families house and she has a relationship ...
  A: Hey Mike, I think you should wait and see what happens. Maybe she is just being friendly with you ...
is it love?7/24/2008
  Q: i wish u could help me with this. i am first stage student at university and i am 19 years old. ...
  A: Hey Hataw, A lot of times, usually cocky people use the word 'dear' to make others seem low, and ...
A Girl7/24/2008
  Q: Alright, theres this girl that ive known for a few months and when we first started talking to each ...
  A: Hey Brian, That is a hard question...does she seem truthworthy? he could have been leading you on ...
does he like me at all?7/24/2008
  Q: i started knowing this guy 3 years ago but we didnt talk much, probably we are more to hi-bye ...
  A: Hey Livia, Well.. 1st: Maybe because he's just shy, or he's too nervous to talk to you 2nd: I ...
what if its all an act?7/12/2008
  Q: i know you said make it short and get to the point but i just wana fill you in on the situation. I ...
  A: Hey Larissa, No I never said that...I just said to be specific :) it doesn't matter how long it is, ...
she wants to be just friends7/12/2008
  Q: me n my girlfriend have been together for 2 1/2 years. we were both very committed to each other n ...
  A: Hey Huy, First loves are hard to forget, trust me. And it feels like you want them abck because ...
lazy boyfriend7/9/2008
  Q: this question sounds like a no brainer, dump him. but since ive met him, i feel like he is my best ...
  A: Hey Adrienne, I think you should confront him again. You could try telling him what you told me. ...
Is there hope?7/6/2008
  Q: I'm not used to talking about this but i can't take the pressure anymore XD. I've known him for bout ...
  A: From what you told me it sounds like he is starting to have interest in you. Or maybe he was bored ...
Just friends?7/5/2008
  Q: I would like to hear you opinion about this: There is a girl that I really love. I never feel ...
  A: Hey Miguel, Maybe she was just being friendly, or something happened to her that made her really ...
I'm clueless!!!7/5/2008
  Q: Ok! I really like this guy in the other class and like any other question, I want to know if he ...
  A: Hey Sam! If you have the confidence [and if he knows you, or he knows you know him (otherwise it ...
Confused7/3/2008
  Q: I like this girl a lot she as sixteen, I'm sixteen also. We have been texting for the past week and ...
  A: Hey Ryan, I don't know, she might like you and acts like that to any guy she likes... But the ...
Pls help! Thanks.7/2/2008
  Q: Ive known this guy 'x' for almost a year now. We used to work together. I left the company & we ...
  A: Hey Doll, I think you should stop seeing him, stop calling him, etc. And explain to him thoroughly ...
help please!7/2/2008
  Q: I'm a 15 year old female sophomore in high school, and I'm having some guy issues...there's this ...
  A: Hey Candace, if he's what you call a player, i wouldn't recommend going out with him or anything. ...
a question...7/1/2008
  Q: Ok...first of all i never really ask people that i don't know for advice and maybe doing so it will ...
  A: Hey Victoria, I think you should wait and see what happens. He doesn't feel comfortable being in a ...
shy crush7/1/2008
  Q: There's this guy at work (I'm 18, he's 21) that I like very much. The only problem is that he's ...
  A: Hey Claire, Well, the age shouldnt matter. You guys are like what....3 years apart? Maybe he feels ...
can't determine6/27/2008
  Q: i met a guy who has a wonderfull personality and who makes me laugh out loud. he is very nice to ...
  A: When it comes to love, size shouldn't matter. Don't compare your ex to the guy you like now. Don't ...
I know he doesn't like me but maybe....6/26/2008
  Q: Ok so this guy I've been in love with for almost half my life, well we just started talking again a ...
  A: Hey Maria, Don't think too much. hehe He either wanted to say hi to you because he hasn't spoken to ...
Friends? More than friends? I don't know.6/26/2008
  Q: So there's this girl, Valarie, who I'm really good friends with. In middle school, I accidently ...
  A: Hey Alex, That is a pretty good sign that she does like you [asking you if you're seeing anyone] ...
he blows hot & cold6/25/2008
  Q: im erica and i am a 20 yr old single mother and i work pretty much full time. And at my work theres ...
  A: Hey Erica, If he does show that sort of body language, it might be a possibility that he does like ...
I really like my manager6/24/2008
  Q: I really like my manager, I am 27 and he is 31. We both work in different depts but it seems like a ...
  A: Hey Jaci, It sounds like you're his favorite employee for some reason. haha. To know if he likes ...
how to know if this girl actually likes me6/24/2008
  Q: hi im a 14 year old boy that is usually outgoing and very sociable but theres this girl thats ...
  A: Hey Rodd, it sounds like she's really comfortable with you. maybe she wants you two guys to be ...
is he trying to get back together6/23/2008
  Q: My ex and I (both age 25) dated for 7 years and broke up a couple of months ago, this was his ...
  A: Ah, ok. So it sounds like he's giving you another chance for you two guys to feel connected. To ...
Work relationship6/22/2008
  Q: I really would like some advice on what you think is going on here. I am attracted to a women at ...
  A: Hey Gordon, I think she wanted to wait 4 days, maybe just to see if she had any unexpecting plans ...
Frusturating Situation6/21/2008
  Q: My best friend really likes this girl who is a friend of ours and so do i. But i am a loyal friend ...
  A: Hey William that does sound frustrating o_o Does she say you're sleazy while smiling/laughing? If ...
Does she likes me? What is going on?6/21/2008
  Q: There's this girl that I like, but she's so confusing. Whenever we talk we flirt a ton, and we make ...
  A: Hey Zach, This is one confusing girl. To me it sounds like she is paranoid. Always protective of ...
Does he like me?...are these actual signs?6/13/2008
  Q: Ok, so i'm really confused about this guy I really like. I don't know whether he likes me or not. ...
  A: Hey Sharon i don't know when you sent this, but sorry if it has been more than 3 days..my internet ...
James6/10/2008
  Q: i desperately need it and i really don't have anyone else to turn to. so here it is. this guy i ...
  A: Sorry for taking a lot to respond, my internet has been down. He sounds like a confused boy, and to ...
Completely confused6/9/2008
  Q: On the last week of school everyone signs yearbooks right. but i got mine 3 days late and when i got ...
  A: Hey Gryfon, I love your name. :) Well, to me it pretty much sounds like he does like you! Him being ...
Does he like me back?6/8/2008
  Q: Well, I have a huge crush on this guy! I've known him for 3 years and started liking him about a ...
  A: Hey Delilah, It sounds like he does like you! Finding excuses to be near you, doing whatever just ...
Should I trust My Instincts?6/7/2008
  Q: There’s this guy who I’ve had a crush on for about 6 or 7 months now. I’m struggling with trusting ...
  A: Hey Shannon Wow, that boy does seem hard to read! Maybe he's only shy when he's around you.. and ...
does he like me??6/6/2008
  Q: im 17 years old and i like this 15 year old guy named benji. we've made out once at the movies, but ...
  A: Hey Rebecca I think he acts that was because he is still immature. Guys at that age seem to act ...
This could be a real opportunity?6/5/2008
  Q: Theres a girl the same age as me that i like. We new each others personality a bit coz we both had ...
  A: Hey Anthony! Hhaha we should get paid huh..lol Well, i think you should go! Besides going cuz the ...
Does she like me??6/5/2008
  Q: Hey, I'm 19 this year and have been out with this girl same age as me a couple of times. We've known ...
  A: Hey Marcus! It seems like she is interested in you but there are some people that will laugh at the ...
does he like me?6/4/2008
  Q: So i met this guy called Luv about a year and 2 months ago at an indian youth "milan" and we didn't ...
  A: Hey Komal! It sounds like he's interested in you. And the reason why I think he would rather AIM ...
i thought he liked me6/3/2008
  Q: There is this boy i really like but he likes someone else and she likes him back although there not ...
  A: This sure is a complicated situation. i guess that the best thing to do is just ask him. if he ...
What do I do? Does she like me?6/2/2008
  Q: Hey, my names Frankie im 17 and about to be a senior. So I went to one of my friends graduation ...
  A: Hey Frankie, I suggest that you should give her some time before getting into another relationship. ...
Does she really like me?6/1/2008
  Q: I'm in the Junior High and there is this one girl who said that she has liked me since 2nd grade. At ...
  A: Hey Joe, It seems to me that she broke up with you on the first day because she felt bad for the ...
Help me, i'm confuse6/1/2008
  Q: I have this problem. well i like this girl cos she just so cute and also for her character. We met ...
  A: To me she sounds like those nice people that don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. This has happened ...
does he like me or not5/30/2008
  Q: he is my landlord he is 28 and im 25 . we have kissed and cuddled but haven't had sex.he has only ...
  A: Hmm, maybe he doesn't like people giving him presents very much. Decent guy, maybe? But I have this ...
friends?5/30/2008
  Q: Okay, I'm a major tomboy with no expienece with guys what so ever. For the longest time, guys (with ...
  A: Hey it's alright. Umm to know if you like him, here are some signs: 1. You're very happy beside ...
Typical Teenage 'does he like me?' & 'wat to do if he DOES?'5/30/2008
  Q: right. FIRST of all- wat i'm gonna put is gonna sound obvious that he likes me but it rly isn't that ...
  A: Hey Nikki. It's alright :) Yeah, he would be blushing, but there are some guys that don't get ...
Im kinda confused,5/30/2008
  Q: So the boy I like is always staring at me.He does little things to get my attention and I smile and ...
  A: Hey Nikki! I really know how you feel. I'm always worried about how the guy I like thinks about me. ...
Does he like me?5/30/2008
  Q: There is this boy that I really like. I just can't seem to tell if he likes me. I can't pluck up the ...
  A: Hey Alixa, Hmmm...one of the signs to know he likes you is if you stare at him, and he sees you, ...
Does she like me or not?5/30/2008
  Q: Michelle, I am a 48 year old single man who has never been married. 3 weeks ago I met this woman ...
  A: Ahh that is a complicated situation. Kids getting in the way! Grr. I guess you could just continue ...
friends?5/29/2008
  Q: Okay, I'm a major tomboy with no expienece with guys what so ever. For the longest time, guys (with ...
  A: Hey Memi. He might be starting to develop a crush on you, and is getting shyer and thinks about ...
how to know if the boy i like likes me back5/29/2008
  Q: ok i like this guy and he is so shy and i never talk to him before but all i wanted to know is that ...
  A: Hey Maria. I think might like you. How is his friend like? Is he serious, a joker, etc.? Yeah, shy ...
Does she like me or not?5/29/2008
  Q: Michelle, I am a 48 year old single man who has never been married. 3 weeks ago I met this woman ...
  A: Hey David. She seemed distant probably because of her ex-husband's suicide and it still has affect ...
dont know5/29/2008
  Q: hey..theirs this guy that we know eachother since 3years ago.. we hanged out with his friend and my ...
  A: Hm. To answer that question, how does he act like towards you? Is he always asking for sex, hinting ...
Is he for real?5/29/2008
  Q: I have been talking to this guy I met through a mutual friend. He is four years older than me. We ...
  A: Hey Laura. Yeah, some boys can be real jerks and not mean what they say! Ugh believe me. It has ...
does he like me?5/29/2008
  Q: hey there i met this really cute guy on a chatserver...we exchanged pics and stuff and he started ...
  A: No need to be rude. My answers will not be 100% accurate, so you'll know. You want my help, now do ...
boy problems5/29/2008
  Q: Ok so there's this guy that I've known for about 2 years now. He was in my class last year, but I ...
  A: Hey Cassidy! Text messaging is time consuming [i know it takes ages for me to do so :P xD] and ...
Are we just friends or more5/28/2008
  Q: I am 17 and started my job about 6 months ago and there is a girl there that i rele like and am very ...
  A: People who are flirty are kinda hard to read. Ya just have to wait and see what she will do later in ...
does he like me?5/28/2008
  Q: hey there i met this really cute guy on a chatserver...we exchanged pics and stuff and he started ...
  A: Hey Wilmien. From what you have said, it does sound like he likes you...but for some reason, it ...
I'm confused...5/27/2008
  Q: Okay, so I'm going out with this guy for almost 2 months and I'm really unsure of his feelings. In ...
  A: Hey Jany. For a lot of people, many don't know what to do in a relationship when they first get ...
ex boyfriend who i want back5/27/2008
  Q: about a month ago i broke up with my boyfriend who i had been going out with for a month and two ...
  A: Hey Kay! I'm sorry about what happened. Well, the REASON why he broke up with you was BECAUSE he ...
girl5/22/2008
  Q: there's this girl i like and she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. i want to find out ...
  A: Anything actually. Ask something like "Do you like sports?" and about the "what do you think of" ...
this guy i know...5/22/2008
  Q: There is this one guy I am acquainted with- I met him through some friends and we have talked a few ...
  A: Hmm, from what you've told me, he doesn't feel the same way about you :/ But before I'm really sure ...
RE:A girl i like5/22/2008
  Q: if been good friends with this girl for a while now and i want to ask her out. The only problem is ...
  A: Hey Giles. Well that is good! It's not really that bad if it's a friend or two. It'll be better to ...
girl5/21/2008
  Q: there's this girl i like and she is the most beautiful girl i have ever seen. i want to find out ...
  A: Hey Chris! Is she in one of your classrooms? Because that will be easier for you to get to talk to ...
nick5/21/2008
  Q: well, thats what everyone says about being patient. I guess it's true. She will probably forget ...
  A: Hey Nick. Yeah, I know that feeling, but who knows, maybe your feelings towards her will fade. If ...
A girl i like5/21/2008
  Q: if been good friends with this girl for a while now and i want to ask her out. The only problem is ...
  A: Hmm... You can try asking her when she's going to a classroom, unless she is not alone. You said ...
question5/21/2008
  Q: I don't know... I know I'm young but she seems so perfect for me. I have another question though: If ...
  A: You're welcome. :) Ah, yeah...that's what we all think. But then we later start to realize there ...
Really...confusing...5/21/2008
  Q: I have this friend ive known for about 6 years... we just recentely starting hanging out a lot ...
  A: Wow, it DOES seem like he's really interested in you. It sounds like he does in fact like you. ...
Does he like me?5/21/2008
  Q: So I really like this boy in my class. I sit right accross from him so we always talk. He sometimes ...
  A: From what you have told me, I think he does like you. I'm assuming that the guy you like asked his ...
confused??5/20/2008
  Q: I REALLY like this girl. i told her how I felt but she just avoids me even more. now i've kind a ...
  A: Hmm... Here are a list of possibilities: A) She's freaked out and she avoids you B) She likes you ...

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