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How to Know if He/She Really Likes You/Questions Answered by Expert Latoya

SubjectDate Asked
Mixed signals or just wishful thinking?11/6/2011
  Q: So there's this guy in my class and college residence that I really like. It wasn't really love at ...
  A: It seems as if this person could like you, the fact of him bumping into you can sometimes be seen as ...
The most amazing girl in the world11/1/2011
  Q: i have a situation right now that i hope you can help me with. There is this girl who loves me, she ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear that her sister is hindering you both from being together. Possibly her sister may ...
Does he like me?10/30/2011
  Q: Hai :D Thank you for reading, I really hope you can help me, 'cause I'm so confused. Before you read ...
  A: A lot of the things you've shared with me about this guy's behavior tells me that he likes you. What ...
Why does he avoid eye contact when i walk past him10/29/2011
  Q: In 8th grade I had a crush on my guy friend. I knew he liked me, but he never had the courage to ask ...
  A: Reading your story takes me back to an incident when I was around your age. I really liked a guy, ...
want to know what's in her mind10/28/2011
  Q: There is a girl used to be a normal friend of me and one of my close friend. We were becoming good ...
  A: I will try to assist you with any advice that I can provide. You say that she gave a cold response ...
want to know what's in her mind10/26/2011
  Q: There is a girl used to be a normal friend of me and one of my close friend. We were becoming good ...
  A: You say that this lady never tried to contact you by herself. First let me say that guys should be ...
Have I ruined it!?10/24/2011
  Q: Hii:) I'm Kristan and I'm 15 years old. I hope your life is going well!!:) Well I've come on here in ...
  A: I first want to applaud you for recognizing that you have stalker tendencies. Ha ha! You definitely ...
A VERY common question: Does he like me?10/21/2011
  Q: I'm in 7th grade and there's this boy I KINDA like who is in 8th grade. We have no classes together, ...
  A: "Just For Me!" When I read in what context he stated this, I get the impression he was telling his ...
Commitments10/20/2011
  Q: How do i know if a man wants to marry me? what are the signs?
  A: The only REAL sign that I can say is that they will ask you to marry them. A guy may be very nervous ...
Friendly or interested?10/18/2011
  Q: Ok so this girl seems really friendly around me, like she was smiling in my direction when she first ...
  A: It's not an uncommon thought to think she may have someone based on her profile picture. The only ...
Relationship10/17/2011
  Q: I've been dating a woman for several months now and everything is great apart from when she gets ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about the situation with her father. I personally can not begin to imagine what ...
Relationship10/17/2011
  Q: I've been dating a woman for several months now and everything is great apart from when she gets ...
  A: First, you can not stop her behavior. I am sorry that you have to go through this with someone you ...
question10/14/2011
  Q: I have a question on whether i should give this guy another chance. We dated for about a month or ...
  A: I can't say why he suddenly became distant, but from experience a guy sometimes does this when they ...
Does she like me?10/10/2011
  Q: We're both 16 year old..We both only know each other less than 3 months now.She asked my number,she ...
  A: I would say it's obvious that she likes you because she gave you her phone number, text you asking ...
Friendly or interested?10/5/2011
  Q: Ok so this girl seems really friendly around me, like she was smiling in my direction when she first ...
  A: Sorry for the delay, my computer had a virus and it took some time for me to get the problem ...
Friendly or interested?10/4/2011
  Q: Ok so this girl seems really friendly around me, like she was smiling in my direction when she first ...
  A: Based off of the examples you gave it's really hard to say, although her coughing a lot could have ...
Not sure how my friend feels about me?10/3/2011
  Q: Okay, well I need some advice about my friend who I reaaaally like. His name is Ricky and he's 18 ...
  A: Have you guys ever talked about the possibilities of you both getting into a relationship? The next ...
Does he like me?9/28/2011
  Q: The guy I like is in two of my classes and he sits next to me in one. But that's already where ...
  A: This is kind of a touchy one because your friend has already revealed to you that she likes him. If ...
Is she interested or am I overthinking?9/27/2011
  Q: Ok so there's this girl I have a crush on in a few of my university classes. Because I have a crush ...
  A: This could definitely be the case. The goal is to make your encounters with her seem natural. You ...
Does it sound like this girl likes me in a romantic way or am I just a friend?9/26/2011
  Q: My question concerns a girl who I've come to like over the past couple of months. We're both high ...
  A: It really sounds like the two of you are really hitting it off well - which is a good thing because ...
Is she interested or am I overthinking?9/23/2011
  Q: Ok so there's this girl I have a crush on in a few of my university classes. Because I have a crush ...
  A: Try not to over analyze what she says or do. If she said that she would talk to you in class, then ...
Is she interested or am I overthinking?9/22/2011
  Q: Ok so there's this girl I have a crush on in a few of my university classes. Because I have a crush ...
  A: I am not able to get a good feel based off of your examples, therefore it could really go either ...
am i in love?9/19/2011
  Q: i had never fall in before...i had been chatting with this guy on fb,i had seen his picture too and ...
  A: It is very easy for individuals to catch feelings when dealing with people online, why? Because the ...
Does he trully like me?9/16/2011
  Q: So there is this guy I met at my job and from the moment I saw him I thought he was so attractive. ...
  A: I first want to commend you for having morals. So many girls will give in to keep a guy interested. ...
Complex Double Triangle9/12/2011
  Q: I've been teased about this guy named Rob like two months ago. All because of this rumor that my ...
  A: You definitely don't want to chase after this guy, especially if he's allowing Amy to hang all over ...
Am I imagining that he likes me?9/11/2011
  Q: I'm Rose and I've been back and forth about a guy for almost a month now. We met at a church camping ...
  A: I really can not form an opinion based off of the examples given, only because the fact of him ...
no idea9/10/2011
  Q: Well thanks for any help you can give me. Sorry if im a bit snappy or rude but this has been ...
  A: First let me say that I can only form my opinion based off of the information that you've shared. If ...
Complex Double Triangle9/9/2011
  Q: I've been teased about this guy named Rob like two months ago. All because of this rumor that my ...
  A: I will first say that your friend Amy is DEFINITELY NOT your friend and I think I would cut ties ...
love9/8/2011
  Q: I am 26 years old man. I love 20 years old girl. She is my student. I am her best teacher. She often ...
  A: Although long distant relationships can be difficult, they are able to be done. I only say this ...
love9/7/2011
  Q: I am 26 years old man. I love 20 years old girl. She is my student. I am her best teacher. She often ...
  A: I understand completely what you are saying, and can even since your urgency. The only thing I can ...
love9/6/2011
  Q: I am 26 years old man. I love 20 years old girl. She is my student. I am her best teacher. She often ...
  A: My personal opinion is that its a conflict of interest to date your student. My suggestion is to ...
relaitionships9/4/2011
  Q: There is this girl that I think is really pretty. I went up to her locker to tell her some important ...
  A: I would say this individual is indeed interested. I say this for several reasons. First, she stated ...
I don't know what to do6/4/2011
  Q: There is this girl that i have been thinking about nonstop, i told her how i feel about her, and she ...
  A: It is always a good feeling when you find a person who feels for you the way you do them. You ask ...
Does she like me???4/11/2011
  Q: Hey Latoya, I'm alex im in 8th grade and theres this girl Ive had a crush on all year. At the ...
  A: I would say that this person does like you. The fact that she helps you pick up your books once she ...
Shy girl4/9/2011
  Q: Ok im still talking to her and shes is opening up more. Shes talking more in the conversation, and ...
  A: I'm glad to hear that you took the initiative to ask her out, but was sad to hear that she declined ...
Do you think he still likes me?4/9/2011
  Q: it all started 1 year ago, with a guy from my school who's as old as me ( we're now 14) and who I ...
  A: Based on the information you've provided, I'd say this guy is definitely showing all of the signs of ...
Shy girl4/8/2011
  Q: Ok im still talking to her and shes is opening up more. Shes talking more in the conversation, and ...
  A: I'm glad to hear that you and your friend are still communicating. She possibly says "yeah" as her ...
Is she hiding her feelings?4/7/2011
  Q: i think i'm getting mixed signals. I have a female friend I've known four years and I have been ...
  A: Gary, My feelings are that either: 1) Your friend may feel as if you like her for more. Due to ...
Baahhhh4/6/2011
  Q: My name is Mitch and here is the story... Last year (grade 9) I met a wonderufl girl and we talked ...
  A: Women find a hard time in finding true friendship with guys, so when we find someone we feel ...
Is she hiding her feelings?4/5/2011
  Q: i think i'm getting mixed signals. I have a female friend I've known four years and I have been ...
  A: Gary, Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. Based on the information ...
Does she like me????4/4/2011
  Q: I like this girl and i don't know if she feels the same way. In class she will talk to me and joke a ...
  A: Based on the information that you've provided I would say there is a possibility that this person ...
Shy girl4/2/2011
  Q: Hopefully you can help me out with this. I'm dealing with a shy girl and I'm not sure if she likes ...
  A: I would say based on everything described that this person is extremely shy, but does like you. I ...
More than my normal crush (I think)...1/17/2011
  Q: So I've had a couple of little crushes on girls here and there, I liked a girl in 5th grade for 1 ...
  A: Let me first say that it was a very brave move on her part to ask you out. Girls hate rejection ...
Does he still like me??1/13/2011
  Q: There is this guy i hav been friends with for bout 6 months he told me he liked me a long time ago ...
  A: You ask if you are too late to possibly get into a relationship and I would have to say *at this ...
confused1/12/2011
  Q: dere is dis girl i like but shes not in my class.4 d past 2 days we'v ben chatin real gud on ...
  A: First things first, you should NEVER put yourself down - so what you are heavy, I personally love ...
Maybe it's my imagination but I'm not sure1/11/2011
  Q: I've been wondering about this guy for a while no, but I'm not sure what to think. I was hoping ...
  A: I want to first say that any guy who doesn't understand that "things happen" and that you can't ...
this guy...1/5/2011
  Q: my name is Grace, im 18 and i have an issue with a guy i really like. We work together at a ...
  A: I can only speak from personal experience Grace, not saying that this is the case between you two. ...
Crushes1/4/2011
  Q: I have this best guy friend & well i text him a lot & talk to him a lot & i feel we are really close ...
  A: There is always the risk of the person you like not reciprocating what you feel, but you have to ask ...
I'm confused by my crush.11/19/2010
  Q: There's this guy who's three years older than me who I've been in love with over a year now. He ...
  A: The fact of his friend now starting to strike conversation up with you, something never done before ...
Is it possible?11/16/2010
  Q: I am a senior in high school, and I have never had a boyfriend before. I like this guy who is a ...
  A: Seems as if this guy could possibly be into you, but from what you're sharing it still could go ...
is he leading me on? I am so confused11/16/2010
  Q: don't say that i am misreading his signals cause this is what he did he asked me if i liked him, ...
  A: This guy sounds as if he just enjoys the attention he receives. The fact that he would make sure to ...
Is it possible?11/15/2010
  Q: I am a senior in high school, and I have never had a boyfriend before. I like this guy who is a ...
  A: When you and your friend text in the evenings, what does your conversation consist of? Does he ask ...
is she shy or just doesnt want to talk to me11/12/2010
  Q: well theres this girl i really like she is in my bio class and we sit together during lunch but i ...
  A: I just want to make sure I'm understanding correctly. You say that she is an outgoing young lady ...
Does he like me?11/11/2010
  Q: Okay so I am 15, and there's a guy I like.. A lot. Let's call him Ben. So Ben and I have been ...
  A: I think it was awesome of Ben to come directly to you and tell you that he would rather be friends ...
What should i make of this... does she like me?11/9/2010
  Q: okay so on Saturday I texted her and asked if she was doing anything later and she said she wasn't ...
  A: Did you say something out of the ordinary when you text'd her which would have made her question if ...
Does he Like me?11/8/2010
  Q: I'm a freshman in high school and there is a guy in my grade who I like. He is in French, English, ...
  A: Normally a guy doesn't have any problem with displaying some sort of feelings he may have for a ...
I don't know...11/8/2010
  Q: So there's this guy in a couple of my classes that I REALLY like but I'm not sure if he likes me ...
  A: The information you shared leads me to believe that he may definitely be interested in you. The ...
Does he Like me?11/7/2010
  Q: I'm a freshman in high school and there is a guy in my grade who I like. He is in French, English, ...
  A: Are there any other examples that you could give? Based on what you've provided the fact of him ...
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <311/4/2010
  Q: there's this guy who sat next to me in a class for 6 weeks, and we would always smile at each ...
  A: A guy who smiles at you a lot could definitely be seen as an indication that he likes you, but ...
Does she like me?11/2/2010
  Q: So I recently asked a girl from one of my classes out to coffee, I'm 22 and she's 18. To my surprise ...
  A: Have you been taking the initiative to call or text her first? Ask her out again, if she truly ...
Does he still care about me?8/23/2010
  Q: well last year he told me that he really liked me but he wanted to take things slow, so I said ok ...
  A: There is a strong possibility that your ex felt a lot of pressure, guys normally like to be the one ...
how do i know if my crush likes me?8/18/2010
  Q: there's a guy i really like. he used to like me but now he says he likes someone else. he always ...
  A: Did this letter that stated "I love you" have your name on it? Was this letter written before or ...
Does she like me or is she just being polite8/12/2010
  Q: Ok so I kinda had a really bad year with my family and some of my friends so I spent most of the ...
  A: I would say that there is a strong possibility that she does have an interest in you. Normally a ...
my best guy friend8/10/2010
  Q: my best guy friend is so awesome and i used to not like him and once i asked him if his best friend ...
  A: I want to make sure I'm understanding correctly. You asked your guy friend if his best friend was ...
Not sure if he likes me...8/9/2010
  Q: My best friend and I have been inseparable for the past year and a half, and I developed a crush on ...
  A: There must be something going on with my computer because I responded to you yesterday, but you are ...
does he like me?8/8/2010
  Q: so this guy that i really like goes to my school and ive known him since 5th grade. i didn't really ...
  A: Your friends say that he likes you, are they going off of their own personal opinions or has he ...
confused8/6/2010
  Q: Okay, lets start with I am a single mother of two small girls. I have a great job and Im going back ...
  A: Congrats on going back to school, that is awesome!!!!! Everything I speak comes from personal ...
Is she getting bored?8/5/2010
  Q: so a bit about me/my situation, I'm 21, male, my gf is 18, we both live in Canada. I've been dating ...
  A: You sound like a very caring boyfriend. I applaud you for being there for her and for even wanting ...
Unsure if he wants me back.8/3/2010
  Q: my long term boyfriend of 3 years recently broke up with me (2 weeks ago) just days before we were ...
  A: When I first started reading your post I thought maybe he was getting cold feet, since his decision ...
relationship8/2/2010
  Q: ok, i am 15 %26 i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. i am not the kind of girl ...
  A: Ahhhh! So sorry 2 hear this Jess. I know all too well about the pain of break up's. You are a ...
relationship8/2/2010
  Q: ok, i am 15 %26 i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. i am not the kind of girl ...
  A: You have to remember that most girls mature faster than boys, which would explain the difference of ...
relationship8/1/2010
  Q: ok, i am 15 %26 i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 months. i am not the kind of girl ...
  A: When he said that he didn't you both to say the words "I love you", did you ask him why? You did ...
it seems like he likes me. I'm just not quite sure.4/21/2010
  Q: does he really like me? we always flirt and talk and I always catch him smiling at me. I have liked ...
  A: There is nothing that you can really do to make him not shy other than try to get to know him. ...
it seems like he likes me. I'm just not quite sure.4/21/2010
  Q: does he really like me? we always flirt and talk and I always catch him smiling at me. I have liked ...
  A: It is a strong possibility that he does like you, but he could be really shy and just don't know how ...
Does he like me or is he playing games?4/20/2010
  Q: ok. there is this guy that i really like, but he is sending me mixed signals. I catch him staring at ...
  A: Sounds as if this guy could really be interested, but he may be extremely shy. Ask him how does he ...
what happened??.?4/17/2010
  Q: Hope this helps someone even if its not me bc maybe someone else has the same problem! I've never ...
  A: Men have fear of rejection just like women do. Here is a guy who complimented you and showed signs ...
do they like me or not4/14/2010
  Q: Ok so heres the deal there a couple of girls who I think I know like me but I just need another ...
  A: I would say it appears as if both girls like you. The first "chick" as you call her (smile) is more ...
Does he still have feelings for me?4/13/2010
  Q: I started talking to this guy back in early December (we'll call him Marcus), and despite the things ...
  A: You are aware that you was wrong in lying to Marcus, but please do not let him continue to make you ...
Too old to be feeling so confused4/12/2010
  Q: Latoya, Hello. I have been seeing this guy for about a month. We've gone out 4 or 5 times. I ...
  A: I've learned through experience that if a man is truly interested in you then he will find time to ...
where do i stand with him?4/11/2010
  Q: i recently moved to a new school and of course, i'm crushing already. the guy i really like is ...
  A: The only real reason you are going to know if he does like you is to give it time. When he looks ...
hi4/10/2010
  Q: I am in year 8 (13 years of age) and this guy whom I've known for three months is in year ten ...
  A: Although I know that young men can be a little childish acting and cruel at times - this still is no ...
Are there such things as 3rd chances?4/9/2010
  Q: My name is Laurren, and for a thirteen year old I am in some deep problems. You may think I'm crazy ...
  A: that means a lot. What I meant when I said that we have free will, is that GOD allows us to make ...
what do i do?4/9/2010
  Q: gal has a boyfriend already who lives in other state but now she says she's having problems with him ...
  A: I understand that you really have feelings for this lady, but you must realize that she is off ...
Are there such things as 3rd chances?4/7/2010
  Q: My name is Laurren, and for a thirteen year old I am in some deep problems. You may think I'm crazy ...
  A: You are more than welcome and thank you for the follow-up, but you know I couldn't let you get away ...
Are there such things as 3rd chances?4/7/2010
  Q: My name is Laurren, and for a thirteen year old I am in some deep problems. You may think I'm crazy ...
  A: I'm so sorry to hear about the pain that you are enduring losing this guy you feel is your world. I ...
Something more?4/6/2010
  Q: I am an 18 year old very strong Christian who "Kissed Dating Goodbye" (book, Joshua Harris) before I ...
  A: I pulled your question out of the "question pool", so I'm not sure if you ever got an answer to your ...
i can't tell if he really want's to get married..4/5/2010
  Q: My boyfriend says that he wants to get married but everytime i try to talk about it he always get's ...
  A: I pulled your question from the question pool, I hope that my answer will be satisfactory. Was your ...
what to do?3/25/2010
  Q: Ok, so basically i was kinda dating this guy for bout 8 month then in Janurary he ended because he ...
  A: I pulled your question from the "question pool". I hope that my reply is to your satisfactory. ...
I can't tell if he likes me.1/13/2010
  Q: Okay, so there is this guy I like. Lets just call him T. Well, we have known each other since 6th ...
  A: Let me first start by saying you are a very attractive young lady and please do not ever put ...
boy1/12/2010
  Q: So there is this boy who is one of my now one of my friends, I found out over the summer that he ...
  A: I pulled your question from the pool, I apologize for the delay in receiving a reply from someone. ...
How Do I know for Sure?1/12/2010
  Q: I have gotten really close to one of my guy friends recently. We have been friends for a little over ...
  A: I believe your over thinking all of this, as "us" women tend to do. (smile) Based on the ...
I like this girl but i dont know if she likes me1/11/2010
  Q: at first she didnt appeal to me but then it seemed like she started to like me because she would ...
  A: Let me first say that your comment on thinking of getting drunk because of this situation had me a ...
Is she playing with me1/10/2010
  Q: playing with me? Should I ignore this girl? There is this one girl that is in my of my classes. I am ...
  A: From my viewpoint, based on what you've described she is playing mind games, which a lot of young ...
is she shy or not interested?1/9/2010
  Q: A girl in one of my class lives near me, I knew her for a long time but we are both quiet and ...
  A: I do apologize in the delay. Please answer if she's always acted this way? It's a possibility that ...
idk wat to do...1/8/2010
  Q: i was at a sleep ovr party of my best friends nd we pranked called this guy, but at the point he ws ...
  A: I apologize greatly for the delay, I had a death of someone near and it's kind of taken its toll. ...
kinda confused1/7/2010
  Q: Ok so i have known this guy for as long as i could remember. He always used to say we were best ...
  A: I do apologize terribly for the delay. I suffered a loss and in dealing with the grief I forgot ...
Does he like me or is he just using me?1/6/2010
  Q: Okay, there is this guy, and he is 18 years old. I'm 16. Him and I met during the summer through his ...
  A: I'm a bit "old school", now my age is really showing (LOL) so I do not care for the term FWB. ...
kinda confused1/5/2010
  Q: Ok so i have known this guy for as long as i could remember. He always used to say we were best ...
  A: If you know for certain he's not the shy type then it is a possibility that he likes you as only a ...
kinda confused1/3/2010
  Q: Ok so i have known this guy for as long as i could remember. He always used to say we were best ...
  A: I would say that he does indeed care for you. I understand that you are shy, but maybe the next ...
dating1/3/2010
  Q: I am certain you have heard every variation of this question. I am a 36yo woman who recently ...
  A: I want to first state that I am the type of person who does not sugar coat anything and will give my ...
Does she like me or is she just that friendly ?1/2/2010
  Q: I am 16 and in 11th grade, so is the girl I am confused about. I met her last year in one of my ...
  A: First off, because she's in a relationship I would say that you have to wait it out. You definitely ...
Friend or more?1/2/2010
  Q: I have recently become good friend with a particular girl, but want something more. However, I do ...
  A: Have you tried asking subtle questions to find out what kind of guys she's really in to? You have ...
Totally confused8/21/2009
  Q: I like a girl who is a neighbour of mine. I think we are friends. I am too much sure that she does ...
  A: I would say for sure that she is definitely interested in you, now as a friend or not - I'm not 100% ...
Confused8/21/2009
  Q: I hope you can help me answer this question that has been bugging me for a while. There is this girl ...
  A: Based on what you've shared, what she feels for you can go either way. The signs she are displaying ...
any ideas about what i should do?8/20/2009
  Q: met this nice girl a week or so ago, she's in one of my classes, which last two hours, and for the ...
  A: There is a possibility that she does like you, but honestly it's too early to tell. It's possible ...
I Need Help please8/19/2009
  Q: Im an 8th grader and i have a problem with my crush. It seems like he gives me signs that he likes ...
  A: You should definitely let him know where you're coming from, but chose your words wisely to ensure ...
I Need Help please8/19/2009
  Q: Im an 8th grader and i have a problem with my crush. It seems like he gives me signs that he likes ...
  A: One thing that bugs me most is a guy who sends mixed signals. Kasi, I know that you like this guy ...
Asking if she likes me8/16/2009
  Q: Near the end of the school year (June), I asked this girl i liked if she would like to hang out or ...
  A: Has she ever displayed any signs of liking you? You can ask her what kind of guys is she into and ...
Does she like me8/16/2009
  Q: I met this girl on a dating site and then she was talking to me a couple of time over a 1 and half ...
  A: You sound as if you were a complete gentleman on your date, but what I've learned from Internet ...
i like this girl8/15/2009
  Q: there is this girl that i really like.The guys tell me that she likes me cause she thinks that i am ...
  A: You say "the guys" told you that she likes you and find you to be cute. Are these people reliable? ...
The Ugly Truth8/15/2009
  Q: I recently started going out with this guy. Initially, I was reluctant because he was my close ...
  A: When your boyfriend was sending emails to his cousin saying all of these negative and hurtful things ...
A girl I like8/14/2009
  Q: Latoya, there is this girl I like at my school and she has a boyfirend. I was wondering whether or ...
  A: If she stated she does like you then I would believe her. You stated she's in a relationship, so ...
Is he interested or just friends8/12/2009
  Q: I knew this guy from my school. He is my clasmate. We seldom talk to each other initially but only ...
  A: Asking him about school unfortunately are not obvious signs to a guy that you're interested. Asking ...
Im confused8/12/2009
  Q: (age:12)Theres this girl in my form(class) and she always laughs at my jokes and shes always looking ...
  A: It sounds as if this girl could be interested, but only time will tell. You could ask her if she's ...
does she like me8/12/2009
  Q: i really like this girl at my school and i asked her out once and she said no. we flirt with each ...
  A: Hey Evan, If she says she likes being friends more than I wouldn't try to push the issue. I would ...
What should I do now?8/11/2009
  Q: Nearing the end of last year I had went to prom with a girl I liked and had a fun time, but since ...
  A: It is a possibility that she can be extremely, but even if so she did take the initiative to contact ...
boy trouble8/10/2009
  Q: ok so i was going out with this guy but he broke up with my. so about a month later he starts asking ...
  A: Sorry to hear about the break up - first thing. Secondly, your friend should have asked you if you ...
Is he interested or just friends8/10/2009
  Q: I knew this guy from my school. He is my clasmate. We seldom talk to each other initially but only ...
  A: It is a possibility that this guy only views you as a friend & nothing more...but a guy who takes ...
how to tell if a girl likes you8/10/2009
  Q: i wasn't looking at first then i looked over at her and she had a dissapointed look on her face. ...
  A: I would say that it is a very strong possibility that she does like you. You are not acting ...
how to tell if she likes you8/8/2009
  Q: This girl is really confusing. we make deep eye contact occasional flirting and we talk sometimes ...
  A: I'm kind of confused. Does she or doesn't she have a girlfriend? This girl is sending mixed ...
Do you think he likes me?8/6/2009
  Q: Theres this kid I met this year in one of my classes, Adam. Well, throughout the semester we got to ...
  A: I would say that this guy is a bit on the childish side, which is why his actions show other than ...
Does she like8/5/2009
  Q: I really want to go out with this girl she signed my yearbook 13 times and one time she said she ...
  A: I will try to help you as much as I can, but I really do have limited information to go on. What ...
Is he really interested and what to do about it?8/5/2009
  Q: He's 22, I'm 20. I keep seeing him recently ard school.. and, he keeps looking in my direction and ...
  A: I say that he's hard for me to read because if he does like you his actions are so subtle it's hard ...
does he like me or not?8/4/2009
  Q: I have had a crush on this guy. I'm 12 yrs old and my friend saw him and asked if he liked any girls ...
  A: It is a strong possibility that this young man does like you, especially if he blushes when you look ...
Is he really interested and what to do about it?8/4/2009
  Q: He's 22, I'm 20. I keep seeing him recently ard school.. and, he keeps looking in my direction and ...
  A: This guy is hard to read. (No I'm not psychic) Just based on what you've stated it's hard for me ...
i really like her.. but i dont know if she likes me.8/3/2009
  Q: Hey, I'm going into the 10th grade, and have really liked this girl for a year or so. In the ...
  A: It is a possibility that this girl that you like is not replying to your text because her phone may ...
Does he like me or just being nice8/3/2009
  Q: I ride the bus quite frequently and I see the same driver every other day. The first time I met him ...
  A: I really can't say at this time if he is just being flirty or if he likes you. I say continue to ...
does my friend like me more than a friend??8/2/2009
  Q: theres this girl who is my friend and i think she is pretty special, but she gives me all these ...
  A: I would definitely say it sounds as if she could like you for more than a friend, based on all the ...
could my husband cousin like/love me?8/1/2009
  Q: I am desperate & i am looking for an answer fast! i have been married for 5 yrs already but my ...
  A: I am sorry to hear that your spouse has been unfaithful, nothing hurts more than giving your heart ...
does she like me8/1/2009
  Q: i really like this girl at my school and i asked her out once and she said no. we flirt with each ...
  A: My advice is to start ignoring her a bit, just be like "Hey, how you doing?" when you see her and ...
Just wanna know if he still likes me...7/8/2009
  Q: Ok,here goes- Theres this guy who I've known for about 2 yrs. We werent best friends or anything, we ...
  A: I find it to be a turn off when a guy who should be trying to get to know you ask what your turn ...
How to know when she likes you7/6/2009
  Q: I would like to know how you can know with little doubt whether a girl really does like you or is ...
  A: There never a sure way to know if a person likes you, one just has to try to figure out if they do ...
does he likes me?7/4/2009
  Q: there's a guy dat im fall in love. but now the problem is im not sure whether he likes me or not. ...
  A: From what you've described I would say that it is a strong possibility that Adam is interested in ...
I don't know what to think..7/4/2009
  Q: Hey, I just started working with a co-worker. He is my age, and when I first saw him I got ...
  A: If you texted him and he didn't seem to interested, it could have meant he was either busy or he's ...
Does he like me or is he just joking around?7/3/2009
  Q: So my friend Jake and I are good friends. I used to have a huge crush on him, and he knew. ...
  A: It sounds as if Jake may like you, all of the signs are there. Jake told you that his sister thinks ...
Oh, man. Sorry about that.7/2/2009
  Q: Yes, I was originally going to ask Jen; but I decided to go to you, instead, and I just copied and ...
  A: No problem, thank you for getting back with me. It's hard to tell if your friend is speaking of you ...
what do you think? (very long and detailed)7/1/2009
  Q: "So, I've known this girl for about 20-21 years (I'm 21). She dated my cousin back when I was 13 and ...
  A: The fact that you called to find out what happened and she never returned your call is rude to me. ...
does he or does he not like me????????7/1/2009
  Q: okay here's the thing ,i know this guy in my school really likes me like we catch the same bus .in ...
  A: It is a strong possibility that this guy does like you. You may want to start sending some signals ...
Just wanna know if he still likes me...7/1/2009
  Q: Ok,here goes- Theres this guy who I've known for about 2 yrs. We werent best friends or anything, ...
  A: Based on what I read, I would say that he appeared to have liked you at some point. It is a ...
Should i stick with it?6/30/2009
  Q: There is this guy Sam that I go to school with and we just recently started talking again. I have ...
  A: I'm going to tell you this based on personal experience, I've learned that when a guy truly desires ...
Help!6/29/2009
  Q: There's this guy in my year (I'll call him Luke) who used to be with my ex best friend. He's friends ...
  A: The fact that Luke told friends that he liked you could be viewed as an indication that he truly ...
Me again6/29/2009
  Q: First of all I'd like to apologize for taking so much of your time. The reason behind this child ...
  A: No need to apologize, helping is what I volunteer to do. (smile) Again I'm going to suggest that ...
does he really love me?6/29/2009
  Q: I have a boyfriend of two years and we've gone through our ups and downs. A few months ago, I used ...
  A: Men need to have some things that they can have for themselves. No matter how faithful a man is ...
idk what to do6/29/2009
  Q: My name is Josh I am 17, I like 2 girls and they both seem to like me back. Theyre friends with ...
  A: You've had the opportunity to date both of these young ladies, even if it was a long time ago. You ...
She seems to be running away...6/28/2009
  Q: How are you doing my friend? I am the same Mehdi who asked you before about the conflicts of his new ...
  A: I'm not sure what you're saying or doing that is making her feel as if you're taking the matter too ...
worried6/27/2009
  Q: What do I do when my crush went to live in another city and say he will miss me too much?
  A: I think it's sweet that your crush has expressed the fact that they are going to miss you when they ...
Is he attracted to me?6/27/2009
  Q: So I have question and was hoping that you would be willing to help me. My question is wether my ...
  A: I would say that this guy does like you, the signs are definitely there. Start sending signals ...
his not just into me?6/27/2009
  Q: i met his guy a month ago. i initiate most of the phone calls, the text, the hanging out and ...
  A: I applaud you for going after what you want. You showed yourself available by telling him you liked ...
She seems to be running away...6/26/2009
  Q: How are you doing my friend? I am the same Mehdi who asked you before about the conflicts of his new ...
  A: There isn't a way to "get around" the fact that you have a child. A woman isn't going to disregard ...
Is he intertested?6/25/2009
  Q: But about 2years ago my friend who doesn't really know him asked him over bebo if he liked and he ...
  A: I can only suggest that you stop texting him. When was the last time you texted him? If recent and ...
I'm way confused about everything with this amazing girl!6/25/2009
  Q: Well, I have recently started talking to this girl that went to my college. We had a class together ...
  A: If she said that she liked you, then I'm sure that she did. The fact that she cried and made the ...
Is he intertested?6/24/2009
  Q: But about 2years ago my friend who doesn't really know him asked him over bebo if he liked and he ...
  A: Let him come to you. You've already shown signs of being interested, no matter how shy a guy is ...
She seems to be running away...6/24/2009
  Q: How are you doing my friend? I am the same Mehdi who asked you before about the conflicts of his new ...
  A: I'm well thank you. Sorry to hear that she hasn't come around yet, these things take ...
help!!6/24/2009
  Q: I have known a boy for da past 2in a half years and well when i ever i see him he is always smiling ...
  A: I understand that this is a guy that you're interested in, but if he truly wanted to get to know you ...
i need an opinion6/23/2009
  Q: I honestly just want some opinion on my situation, theres this girl at my school, we have been going ...
  A: It is a possibility that this girl may like you, all of the signs you've noted can normally be ...
I promised I wouldn't become a crazy fag hag but....6/23/2009
  Q: My friend and I are both 20 years old, and have known each other for 5 months now, although it seems ...
  A: I don't know if your friend had ever been with a woman until you, but if not..he may have just ...
i like this girl but her best friend likes me also6/22/2009
  Q: So, for about 2 years now I've like this girl, Sarah, her best friend, Sandra, tried her hardest to ...
  A: Why won't Sandra speak with you? If Sarah does not want to betray her friend by talking to you then ...
I'm confused.6/22/2009
  Q: I'm 20 years old. For a month now, I've been seeing a guy my age. I stay over about every other ...
  A: I completely understand being afraid of rejection, but sometimes being rejected is a chance we all ...
Is he intertested?6/22/2009
  Q: But about 2years ago my friend who doesn't really know him asked him over bebo if he liked and he ...
  A: It is a possibility that this guy may be interested and just may be wanting to take things slowly. ...
love6/22/2009
  Q: ha ive know this girl for about a year or so the first time i asked her to go out with me was right ...
  A: The reply she gave stating you guys should just be friends was an indicator that she was not ready ...
does she like me more than a friend??6/21/2009
  Q: but i honestly can't tell if she likes me. theres this girl who is my friend and i think she is ...
  A: Based on the signs she's giving I would say there is a very strong possibility that she does like ...
Does she like me?What should I do now?6/20/2009
  Q: I'm 18 years old and I really love one of my classmates in high school (I know she don't have ...
  A: It is a strong possibility that she did not know how to take you because you did not really make a ...
girlfriend and boyfriend6/20/2009
  Q: There is this guy i like(a lot). We were girlfriends and boyfriends before but we broke up, now he ...
  A: Based on his actions, it is a strong possibility that he may want you back, but I can't be for ...
I'm confused.6/20/2009
  Q: I'm 20 years old. For a month now, I've been seeing a guy my age. I stay over about every other ...
  A: Let me first say that a month is not too soon to be dating, when two people reach an agreement that ...
What do i do?6/19/2009
  Q: i just need you're opinion on what i should do.Im going into 9th grade and I like this girl who i ...
  A: From what you've stated it does sound as if your friend could possibly like you as well. It's good ...
She has boyfriend right now but i really like her.6/19/2009
  Q: she really cute, she has the personality and i just love her for being her self and every time i see ...
  A: The fact that your friend is in a relationship could be the reason why she didn't really respond ...
Another women6/19/2009
  Q: My huge feelings make me handicap to know what first to say, but I will make up my self and start ...
  A: Let me first thank you for allowing me the opportunity to answer your question. I want to apologize ...
how to tell if a girl really likes me or not6/18/2009
  Q: ok im 15 and im and i go to high school and i really like this girl but i dont know what to do and i ...
  A: Again I say first check with your friend first to make sure he won't get offended, but the option is ...
Is she pretending ?6/18/2009
  Q: I am a 30 yrs old Iraninan male and have been divorced 3 yrs ago with a child who is living with her ...
  A: You can tell her that your past does not dictate your future. Give her assurance that you are ready ...
does she like me6/18/2009
  Q: Ok heres my situation theres this girl i really like but not sure if she likes me. she seems like ...
  A: I would say it is a strong possibility that she does like you, the fact that she asks about you when ...
Best Friends? Or more than that?6/18/2009
  Q: Hey...I was wondering if you can help me out. I am a guy--straight--- and my best friend is a girl. ...
  A: Okay I need a little bit more clarification, based on your first question you said that she flirts ...
Best Friends? Or more than that?6/18/2009
  Q: Hey...I was wondering if you can help me out. I am a guy--straight--- and my best friend is a girl. ...
  A: I don't know why when I was reading your post I envisioned you two eventually getting together and ...
she's my friend...6/17/2009
  Q: Okay, this is REALLY long, sorry. Hi I'm a guy and I am 16 and next year I will be going into my ...
  A: I hope that I can be of assistance. I think this young lady could possibly like you. What tells me ...
new girl...6/17/2009
  Q: Hey Latoya, I hope you can me with my situation. So a few months ago this girl named, let's say ...
  A: I'm not familiar with myspace, which is why I said it would not be a great idea.. I did ask my ...
Is she pretending ?6/17/2009
  Q: I am a 30 yrs old Iraninan male and have been divorced 3 yrs ago with a child who is living with her ...
  A: When a woman really like a guy they put their all into the relationship, whether it's a friendship ...
does he really like me?6/16/2009
  Q: theres this guy called JJ who i met through my friend anyway we swapped mns addy's and we started ...
  A: Before you decide to meet him, I suggest you speak with your friend first and inform her that he's ...
how to tell if a girl really likes me or not6/15/2009
  Q: ok im 15 and im and i go to high school and i really like this girl but i dont know what to do and i ...
  A: You said this person is your *best* friend's ex, does he know that you're interested in her? If he ...
I'm in love but is Jon too?6/15/2009
  Q: U r a true blessing! Ok skipping a head I'm 12 and the object of my affections jon will be 14 next ...
  A: I do apologize terribly for the delay, things have been quite busy for me. It was very sweet of you ...
I Really Like This Guy At School, But Im Not Sure If He Feels The Same Way!!6/14/2009
  Q: Okay,well at school, this one boy and i met off of my friend and after that we got along okay.But ...
  A: I do apologize for the delay. There is something that you stated that served as a red flag. The ...
new girl...6/14/2009
  Q: Hey Latoya, I hope you can me with my situation. So a few months ago this girl named, let's say ...
  A: I do apologize for the delay. First off I must commend you on the comment of you planning on ...
how to tell if a girl really likes me or not6/14/2009
  Q: ok im 15 and im and i go to high school and i really like this girl but i dont know what to do and i ...
  A: It seems that she could possibly really like you, do you ever see her by herself? Have you guys ever ...
dating6/14/2009
  Q: It's me again, we talked about someone I know who hasn't called me in a while. I want to know ...
  A: You have to ask yourself one important question. Do you always want to be the person who has to ...
im not sure....6/13/2009
  Q: this guy i know is not so much a player..just a confussed boy. hes like my best friend. were really ...
  A: It sounds as if your friend may really care for you, but it may just only be as a friend. He does ...
does she or does she6/13/2009
  Q: she smiles and stares ate me. she flirts with me. she tells me about past bad relationships even ...
  A: It is a possibility that this individual does like you based on what you've stated in your question. ...
does he really like me?6/12/2009
  Q: theres this guy called JJ who i met through my friend anyway we swapped mns addy's and we started ...
  A: JJ may have told your friend that he was not interested in you because he felt he had an ego to ...
how to tell if a girl likes you6/12/2009
  Q: um, ok. I like this girl in my school and she is very shy. you only see her talking to her friends. ...
  A: So you both do have friends in common. You say they don't seem to help, but have you actually gone ...
Do you think he likes me? or her?6/12/2009
  Q: I'm Tamara and I'm 17 years old.I'm in a messed up situation right now and I'm desperate for answers ...
  A: The fact that he danced with you and was touchy feely really was just him getting caught up in the ...
friendship6/12/2009
  Q: I have a friend whom I've know for about a year now. I haven't heard from him in three weeks...It's ...
  A: The advice I give comes solely from experience. He knows that you like him and he more than likely ...
How can I give settle hints6/12/2009
  Q: I would like to know how to give settle hints that I like this girl and from those hints if she has ...
  A: Yes there are. You may want to check online and google "signs that a person likes you", or "signs ...
friendship6/12/2009
  Q: I have a friend whom I've know for about a year now. I haven't heard from him in three weeks...It's ...
  A: The fact that he couldn't give you a valid reason other than he was doing something is a cop-out. ...
Do you think he likes me? or her?6/11/2009
  Q: I'm Tamara and I'm 17 years old.I'm in a messed up situation right now and I'm desperate for answers ...
  A: You are very welcome. I'm glad to hear that you felt it was best to move on, if after all of this ...
Coworker6/11/2009
  Q: I hope I describe my situation as clearly as possible; free from as much bias as I can manage lol. ...
  A: Well, well, well. Talking & texting for 2+ hours huh? Were you guys talking/texting re: general ...
how to tell if a girl likes you6/11/2009
  Q: um, ok. I like this girl in my school and she is very shy. you only see her talking to her friends. ...
  A: Do you talk to her friend who told her that you liked her? It still can go either way, but if you ...
AYY!!!6/11/2009
  Q: Ok so one of my best friends for about the past 8 1/2 - 9 yrs has an older brother that I never met. ...
  A: I hope my answer can shed some light on your current situation. When you told his sister that you ...
Does she like me?6/11/2009
  Q: o.k. so here is my situation i recently told a girl that i had a crush on her. Shes my friends ...
  A: you are a gem. I'm so glad to know that I am truly giving quality advice, I really do try to put ...
what does he want?6/10/2009
  Q: I am sixteen and I moved a few years ago (I was 10) to the city I live in today. I met my neighbour ...
  A: I could be completely wrong when I say this, but I strongly feel as if he likes you and has never ...
Playa?6/10/2009
  Q: Ok so theres this one reeeeally hot guy who is in one of my classes. He always looks at me and even ...
  A: Hey Megan, Your friend did not want to introduce you to him? Hmm! Okay! I wonder why? Normally ...
Does she like me?6/10/2009
  Q: o.k. so here is my situation i recently told a girl that i had a crush on her. Shes my friends ...
  A: Telling her how you feel is not necessarily "starting something", once you tell her how you feel the ...
Does she like me?6/10/2009
  Q: I am 16 and a junior in high school. I have never had a girlfriend before so I am a bit unsure about ...
  A: From what you have described it sounds as if she could possibly like you, but it's really hard to ...
how to tell if a girl likes you6/10/2009
  Q: um, ok. I like this girl in my school and she is very shy. you only see her talking to her friends. ...
  A: Did you tell her that you liked her or did she find out another way? The fact that she takes an ...
a girl6/9/2009
  Q: well latoya,heres my story, im 15 and theres this girl at my school, ive liked her for a while now, ...
  A: If she's glancing your way repeatedly, this could be a sign that she may be into you. Did you smile ...
Playa?6/9/2009
  Q: Ok so theres this one reeeeally hot guy who is in one of my classes. He always looks at me and even ...
  A: I'm glad that I'm able to assist. Hmmm! Mixed signals, well this could mean that he's either not ...
I can't tell if he likes me! Mixed signals much? :-)6/9/2009
  Q: Okay this is gonna be long so brace yourself. There is this guy that I have a crush on. Sometimes I ...
  A: No need to apologize for the lengthy e-mail, I think your question is a great one. I hope to help ...
Does she like me?6/9/2009
  Q: o.k. so here is my situation i recently told a girl that i had a crush on her. Shes my friends ...
  A: I would say there is a slight possibility that she may like you, but at this point it's really hard ...
Coworker6/9/2009
  Q: I hope I describe my situation as clearly as possible; free from as much bias as I can manage lol. ...
  A: It can often times be difficult to decipher if a guy is really into you when he jokes and plays ...
Does he like me?6/9/2009
  Q: Okay, so i like my niehgbor alot. he is only one year older then me and when were together we get ...
  A: Based on the flirting, playful teases and smiles I would say there is a strong possibility that he ...
what does he want?6/8/2009
  Q: I am sixteen and I moved a few years ago (I was 10) to the city I live in today. I met my neighbour ...
  A: I hope that my reply will help shed some light on the situation. The one major statement that stood ...
a girl6/8/2009
  Q: well latoya,heres my story, im 15 and theres this girl at my school, ive liked her for a while now, ...
  A: I can completely understand your fears of rejection, which is why you are doing the correct thing by ...
Playa?6/8/2009
  Q: Ok so theres this one reeeeally hot guy who is in one of my classes. He always looks at me and even ...
  A: I hope that my reply will help you in every way possible. Based on your description of the ...
Is she interested or is she leading me on?5/16/2009
  Q: I met this girl online and we've been talking for about 4 weeks now and i've come to like a lot. ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize for the delay. Although your question ...
Is she too shy?5/16/2009
  Q: About two months ago, I told this girl I liked her. She first didnt say anything but she seemed ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize for the delay. Although your question ...
does he like me?5/16/2009
  Q: K well there's this boy i like that goes to my school.and every single time he always stares at ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize for the delay. Although your question ...
one night fling???5/16/2009
  Q: I was at my house with a few friends (4 or 5) having some drinks, then my friend asked me join her ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I apologize for the delay in you receiving an answer ...
What does this mean? Friendship, or more?5/15/2009
  Q: So there is this guy that I like. at first he seemed to like me because he showed all the signs such ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, although this question was not originally addressed ...
Do you think he likes me? or her?5/15/2009
  Q: I'm Tamara and I'm 17 years old.I'm in a messed up situation right now and I'm desperate for answers ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool. Although your question was not addressed to me ...
Does he like me?5/15/2009
  Q: I'm not sure if he likes me but...........whenever he sees me he says hi and just slaps me on the ...
  A: I got your question from the Question Pool. I apologize that it has taken some time for someone to ...
Does she like me/ have I already screwed this up?5/14/2009
  Q: So here's the scoop. Me and this girl are both 20 and in college. I've been friends with this girl ...
  A: I got your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize it has taken some time for someone to get ...
Is there chemistry between us? Uncertain...5/14/2009
  Q: Alright, she is a Virgo and I am a Capricorn. We are in college. She is the type of person who works ...
  A: I got your question from the Question Pool. I want to apologize for the delay in receiving a reply ...
confused5/14/2009
  Q: There's this girl i like at my work that i started working with, i asked her out and was told she ...
  A: I got your question from the Question Pool. Although your question was not originally addressed to ...
Why won't he talk about it?5/14/2009
  Q: I told a boy named Tyler that i liked him, because we've been flirting back and forth for over a ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize terribly for the delay in someone ...
How can I give settle hints5/14/2009
  Q: I would like to know how to give settle hints that I like this girl and from those hints if she has ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize terribly for the delay in someone ...
does he like me or does he just wnta b wit me5/14/2009
  Q: o k there is this boi who i like allot and i would be destroyed if anyone found out who it was he is ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize terribly for the delay in someone ...
does he really like me?5/13/2009
  Q: theres this guy called JJ who i met through my friend anyway we swapped mns addy's and we started ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize terribly for the delay in someone ...
friendship5/13/2009
  Q: I have a friend whom I've know for about a year now. I haven't heard from him in three weeks...It's ...
  A: I pulled your question from the Question Pool, I do apologize terribly for the delay in someone ...

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