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| Subject | Date Asked |
| my love life! | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: I've recently met a Marine online. I'm not too sure what to think. We've been talking for a month, ... A: Just talking about sexual things isn't a solid base for a relationship. You have to relate on a ... | |
| does he like me or my friend???? | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: Hey, So ive liked this boy for ages now and i have already heard from his friend's gf that he has ... A: I think he likes you because of all the signs you just described. The only thing you should worry ... | |
| Help! I think I really like herr | 8/5/2009 |
| Q: , OK So I like this girl and its really bugging me if she likes me back your not. But i've ... A: That's great!!!!!! She definitely likes you. I think you if you're really worried about it, you ... | |
| does he or does he not like me???????? | 8/3/2009 |
| Q: i met him a few days back for the first time .but my friend who set us up had told me all about ... A: Don't underestimate yourself!! He probably is so great that he cares more about peoples' ... | |
| What's going on here?! | 8/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm 16, and the girl I know is 17. (But I'll be 17 soon so there's no difference really) I've known ... A: Has anything happened at the grad party?? You may not remember if you did anything to offend her but ... | |
| What should I do? | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: I am a thirteen year old boy with a crush on a girl that I have known for a long time. She is my age ... A: Even though you're scared, you have to tell her. If you don't make the 1st move, who will? If you ... | |
| Still care for me? | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: To make this short I am desperate for an answer that i am writing this message from my mobile phone ... A: I have no earthly idea why this girl is treating you this way. Did you say anything or do something ... | |
| Help! I think I really like herr | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: , OK So I like this girl and its really bugging me if she likes me back your not. But i've ... A: Don't be afraid of losing her! I think she wants to be more than friends too since you guys talk ... | |
| Liking My Best Friend | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: I am an 8th grade student and I have realized that I like my best girl friend. I have known her ... A: Once you realize that you like your best friend, things can't be the same. You can't just pretend ... | |
| hello | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: ok!my question goes like this.i really love this girl,i mean it.Im 15 and she happens to be my ... A: Since you are both shy and girls normally don't make the first move, nothing will happen. Unless of ... | |
| How Do I Know? | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: I am a 15 year old girl, and I really like one of my best guy friends. We have known each other ... A: He may just tell that to girls because he's waiting for you! He doesn't want to show you that he ... | |
| help me plz:) | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: -) Well that's my story. Last year like these days I entered an english center to improve my english ... A: You're not annoying me! I very much enjoy helping people. First, girls love a guy who's ... | |
| I still like my best friend | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: A few months ago I got close to this girl and we started getting closer and closer. It was right ... A: I'm sorry to say I have no idea what is going through this girl's mind. The only way for you to know ... | |
| She Loves Me or No/i Want her back | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: 5yrs with my girl we use to fight a lot but at the same time both loved each other a lot i did treat ... A: Can't you see you hurt this girl? She still likes you, but is afraid of you. Part of her wants you ... | |
| does he like me? | 7/21/2009 |
| Q: I went to this guys soccer game who I've known for 2 years through soccer(I play on his team in ... A: This guy is attracted to you! Since you are able to make small talk before his parents come, I'm ... | |
| not sure if dis girl likes me | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: ok im 19 and the girl i like is 25. here is the story. we worked at this animal shelter together or ... A: This girl was all over you. She was trying to seduce you like a hooker! Yeah I think she was ... | |
| does she like me? | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: I shifted to another job else where but after some time she happened to work in the some building ... A: This girl is only doing what she's required to do, and not showing she's interested. Sorry to be ... | |
| Does he? | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: Hey, So I went to boarding school and there was this boy always staring at me i know him though. He ... A: Hoe gaad het met U? My Nederlaands isn't all that good, but I'm from Belgium as well!! I hope you ... | |
| Does he just see me as a friend? | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: Does this boy just like me as a friend? We havent known him for a long time but and he used to take ... A: Ummm... this guy sounds kind of... scary. He likes you because he always makes sure to be nice to ... | |
| puhleez terminate d confusion | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: heya,am 17 in love wid a guy hu is 27..I don doubt dat he loves me cuz he wants 2 hv sex wid me..he ... A: You probably shouldn't call him 20 times a day. Also, I'm pretty sure this guy only wants you for ... | |
| how to know if hes into me | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: crystal A: This guy is trying to show you he's interested but you keep hiding in your shell and he probably ... | |
| do i love him the way he love me | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: every day my x boy friend keep asking me if i love him and we should be together and get married but ... A: Seeing as you're only 13, it's HIGHLY unlikely that you two are actually in love. You're just having ... | |
| im in love with my best friend! | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: help, this has really been bugging me for a year, i liked a boy, i became best friends with him, ... A: I think you should tell him that you like him. He got jealous because he likes you. If he likes you ... | |
| I don't know if she likes me. | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm currently in grade 10 in highschool, and there's this one girl I like. Right now it's summer ... A: You definitely need to set a hangout date to show her that you're serious about it and not just a ... | |
| Help! | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 16. I met a guy at the supermarket a few months ago. He worked there, and i checked him ... A: Sorry to reply so late!! I was on vacation! This guy was probably so enthusiastic about hanging out, ... | |
| does she like me or is it a cycle | 7/15/2009 |
| Q: My name is Matt and I am a 24 year old male living in small town PA. I have never been successful ... A: Sorry to reply so late, I was on vacation! Awwww that would be so romantic if she asked what was ... | |
| can we | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: .. I'm Arabic boy and in our place we cant love the girl then show it because people thinks its bad ... A: Sorry to reply so late, I was on vacation! I think you should get to know the girl. Become kind of ... | |
| Does He Like Me? | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: I've been friends with this guy for about 3 years now. He's 18 and I'm 20. For the first 2 years we ... A: Sorry this is so late, I was on vacation! This guy likes you because he is flirting with you and ... | |
| does she like me or is it a cycle | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: My name is Matt and I am a 24 year old male living in small town PA. I have never been successful ... A: This girl is sending you mixed signals. She is really hard to figure out. The only way you will know ... | |
| plz help me wid my boy friend | 7/11/2009 |
| Q: my boyfriend and me have been in a wonderful relationship for the past one year.he has one bad ... A: You're exactly right! You figured out what he's doing: he's verbally abusing you and making every ... | |
| Confused. | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: So there's a guy who's been staring at me and blushing at VBS,and I thought I heard his friend ... A: I am soooo sorry for sending this past your VBS!! I just checked the site :( Did anything ... | |
| How do I know if she likes me... | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: There's a co-worker of mine who's married and I'm married myself, we're both aware of it. for the ... A: If your father left you, why would you do the same thing to your family? You're not happy with your ... | |
| my love | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: there is one girl in my school she is the cutes girl i have seen in my life. went i talk to her she ... A: This girl wouldn't stare at you for 3 seconds if she didn't like you. She may be playing hard to ... | |
| am i just a rebound? | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: you see, theres is this girl i have had a crush on for a while, and she asked my best friend Ryan ... A: There's just something not right about this girl. But your gut probably already told you that didn't ... | |
| A Confusing Affair | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: I recently met a woman online whom I had been chatting with for what turned out to be over a year. ... A: First of all, you should not even CONSIDER other women when you are married!!! Your wife WILL find ... | |
| Mind f*ck | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: For the last few years one particular guy and I have been orbiting in and out of each other's lives. ... A: If this guy is bad at relationships and he truly wants to try to be in one with you, then give him a ... | |
| does he or does he not like me???????? | 6/28/2009 |
| Q: okay here's the thing ,i know this guy in my school really likes me like we catch the same bus .in ... A: Yes, this guy likes you! All the signs are right. He checks to see if you laugh at his jokes, he ... | |
| Question... | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: There was this guy that I've liked since about January. He's never come out totally and said that ... A: There are 2 possible answers to your question. 1.) he's liked you from the start, or 2.) u played ... | |
| HELP! | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: I have known a boy for da past 2in a half years and well when i ever i see him he is always smiling ... A: This guy might be a playa. And if you send a text 2x, he will get the text 2x. Then he might think ... | |
| Questioning Him | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: =). Well I'm trying to open my heart back up to other guys and I think I have found one who likes ... A: Awwwww! I'm sure you are very gorgeous! Besides, if your sister is, then you must have a ... | |
| guy i used to like... now? | 6/22/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm Cassie and I'm 14 So basically there's this guy called Charlie who I've known for ... A: You're right, this would be very confusing for you!! On one hand it would seem like he doesn't like ... | |
| what does this mean? | 6/22/2009 |
| Q: Hey Lulu, I'm 14, and i'm currently in the very end of my 8th grade year. On friday night, I went to ... A: This is weird. What do you mean he just STARED at you?? Like a creepy stare? Try talking to him in ... | |
| Does he like me and will he ask me out. | 6/22/2009 |
| Q: I have a HUGE crush on my best friends neighbor and I’m going absolutely crazy wondering if he likes ... A: Hmm this man sounds kinda shy. He might not come and talk to you, he might be waiting for you. Was ... | |
| Has this guy got any interest in me? | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: But about 2years ago my friend who doesn't really know him asked him over bebo if he liked and he ... A: It sounds like you've got this figured out! I think he definitely has some interest in you, but you ... | |
| In Love? And Should I Tell Him? | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm female and I'm 14. Well lately I just realised I'm really falling for this guy who's the ... A: Well the worst part is talking to him, and he already knows you since you have been. I know this ... | |
| Questioning Him | 6/20/2009 |
| Q: =). Well I'm trying to open my heart back up to other guys and I think I have found one who likes ... A: This guy seems normal. He might have been saying he likes your sister to make you jealous and more ... | |
| In Love? And Should I Tell Him? | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm female and I'm 14. Well lately I just realised I'm really falling for this guy who's the ... A: It's very unlikely that you're in love at 14. You probably just really like him. You know you're in ... | |
| Can't Get Him Out Of My Head | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: I'm 15 and I think I'm in love. He is also 15 and I have liked him for 3 year. But he's popular. But ... A: This guy is a loser. He obviously said he didn't like you because he didn't think that his friends ... | |
| Another women | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: My huge feelings make me handicap to know what first to say, but I will make up my self and start ... A: Do you like this woman more than your wife? How would you feel if your family found out about you ... | |
| Girl at Work | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey, I'm 23 years old, about 6-4" and I'd say I'm decent looking. About two months ago my workplace ... A: It would be convenient to ask her if she wanted to go golfing with you sometime. Actually, that ... | |
| she's my friend... | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: Okay, this is REALLY long, sorry. Hi I'm a guy and I am 16 and next year I will be going into my ... A: I think she might like him a little but doesn't want to like him. She knows he's a bad guy and ... | |
| Is she pretending ? | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: I am and Iraninan 30 yrs old male and have been divorced 3 yrs ago with a child who is living with ... A: She probably just doesn't want to get hurt again and is waiting to see if you are truly committed to ... | |
| my best girl friend | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: Almost a year ago, I began growing very friendly with a girl that I had a huge crush on. Things ... A: I'm confused. Did you tell her you only liked her as a friend? It seems like she wanted to date you ... | |
| Relationships | 6/18/2009 |
| Q: I have a female friend who I spend a lot of my free time with and who I have been friends with for ... A: You never know until you try! Don't be afraid to take the next step. If she likes you, she will ... | |
| she's my friend... | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: Okay, this is REALLY long, sorry. Hi I'm a guy and I am 16 and next year I will be going into my ... A: This girl seems like she likes your other friend. Good girls somethimes go for the bad boys. She may ... | |
| help me plz | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: i have a bit of a problem. See i have liked my best friend for five years. But i can't tell if he ... A: The situation may depend on your age. If you are younger, then guys will tease you when they like ... | |
| Is she pretending ? | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: I am and Iraninan 30 yrs old male and have been divorced 3 yrs ago with a child who is living with ... A: I think this lady may be frustrated. She probably wants more out of your relationship but you keep ... | |
| Should I wait? | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: Not sure where to start, but this is something that has been bothering me and obviously if I am here ... A: This man would not take you to meet his entire family and share a room with you for vacation if he ... | |
| Please Help me! | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: "Hey...I was wondering if you can help me out. I am a guy--straight--- and my best friend is a ... A: This Sarah girl sounds nice. I think that a best friend (ANY you might have of the opposite sex)that ... | |
| Is he interested/what should I do | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: I've liked this guy for nearly 3 years havent spoken.Now for about 7 weeks now we've been texting ... A: This guy sounds like he likes you because otherwise he wouldn't text you so much. Guys use smiley ... | |
| how do i tell if this girl really likes me or not | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: ok so im a freshmen in high school and i really like this girl, but i cant tell if she likes me, she ... A: You could always ask your friend how he feels about you liking this girl and if he would care if you ... | |
| how do i tell if this girl really likes me or not | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: ok so im a freshmen in high school and i really like this girl, but i cant tell if she likes me, she ... A: Well you could always start out by just being friendly and try to be her friend. Just be yourself. ... | |
| new girl | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: Hey Megan, I hope you can me with my situation. So a few months ago this girl named, let's say Jil, ... A: I'm not quite sure what you're asking... Do you want tips on how to talk to her? Firstly, do you ... | |
| how do i tell if this girl really likes me or not | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: ok so im a freshmen in high school and i really like this girl, but i cant tell if she likes me, she ... A: If a girl blushes when you talk to her and stares, then she almost always likes you. If she ever has ... | |
| Considerd a player...i dont know how to play the game | 6/14/2009 |
| Q: As my title says, Im consider a player. The reason why is because i don't have long relationships. I ... A: It's great that you don't want to be considered a player and that you want to have a long lasting ... | |
| dont know wether this girl likes me | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: well, i met this girl in the pub a couple of weeks ago, i knew her from school as she was 2 years ... A: This girl, although beautiful, seems a bit... troubled. She may be an alcoholic or just has a bad ... | |
| friends with benefits or a relationship starting? | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: I've been seeing/dating this guy for a month now. We're 20 yrs old. We've met up about 2 or 3 times ... A: This sounds like a normal relationship! I don't see anything wrong... maybe if you were to give me ... | |
| Does he like me or hate me? | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: Sry is this is too long! Background: I have known him for 4 years. He is a twin, but they are not ... A: It sounds like you have a pretty tricky situation! The solution to your problem might depend on your ... | |
How to Know if He/She Really Likes You
Lulu
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Expertise
I can answer any questions having to do with dating, relationships, or wanting to know if someone likes you. If you want to know what is going through someone's mind, or why they are acting a certain way, I'm your gal! I'm not particularly good in the field of homosexuality, however.
Experience
I have a gift of intuition and am great at giving advice. My friends all come to me when they have problems, and I truly care about each and every person's issues.
Education/Credentials
I have taken psychology courses in the past, and have also gained much experience from high school.
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