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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| How to know if this is the relationship to stay in | 2/3/2012 | Abhijeet |
| Q: I've been with my significant other for almost two years now. We moved away from our ... A: After reading your message it is quite challenging for me to advice accurately since I am unsure ... | ||
| How to deserve his trust (not jealousy, trust) | 1/29/2012 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I have been with a wonderful man for almost a year, after knowing each other for about two and a ... A: Emi, I wonder what you intend for this relationship? If you just want it to stay at a friend level ... | ||
| Should I move on. | 1/4/2012 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I had been dating the love of my life for a year. After 7 months things got rocky when we broke up. ... A: Kris, NO NO NO...Don't wait for this guy. He has told you, his mother has told you the relationship ... | ||
| Fiancee's ex | 12/19/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: Things went well in our relationship with me and my fiancee till a couple days ago. Just recently I ... A: Rose, It seems that there are some serious questions that should be addressed in your relationship. ... | ||
| Should I wait for him? | 12/7/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I was in contact with a guy for a few months who I had never seen in person. We really enjoyed each ... A: Lisa, There is NO WAY you should be waiting for him. Who knows how many other women he is stringing ... | ||
| Should I jump in and ride the wave? | 11/29/2011 | David Simonsen |
| Q: I've been struggling for a bit with this situation and would appreciate any light that you can shine ... A: Mellie, What you need to do is break things completely off with both and have a period of time where ... | ||
| love or infatuation | 10/19/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: hope u r doing great.I am 25 yrs, married n have 2 daughters. my husband is 36 yrs old n we r ... A: I'm sorry this is late. Please forgive me. Infatuation is simply the budding flower of love. Why ... | ||
| confused about own feelings.. | 10/10/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: i got a guy, 2 years younger to me. we are family friends, every year we meet and we have a strange ... A: Shewta, Thank you for writing and congratulations. Self-expression is love and it is necessary for ... | ||
| Problem in Relationship | 10/10/2011 | Abhijeet |
| Q: We write as a couple, and we will try to summarize our current problem, although it is not easy to ... A: I didn't read the entire story but could easily get the gist of the situation from the previous few ... | ||
| Am I still in love with my husband? | 9/29/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I feel that if I was sure of what I am feeling I wouldn't be questioning my feelings...so I need a ... A: I am sorry to hear you have been so down. Please go to the window and look at the beauty of ... | ||
| Am i in love? or infactuation? | 9/16/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I really want to know if this guy is the 1, or should I move on? I was diagnosed with severe ... A: Get this book RIGHT AWAY: Being Happy, by Andrew Mahews. Then, after reading it cover to cover, ... | ||
| Commitment problems? | 9/2/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I think I have a major fear of commitment. Let me start from the beginning: I never dated in high ... A: My best advice for you is to tell you to make a b-line to Amazon.com and get this book: Being ... | ||
| how do i know if im still in love | 8/16/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about two years. weve been having alot of problems and ... A: How are you? Thank you for writing. It's a great sign. Here is a link to your video-answer: ... | ||
| I'm 15 and veryyy sure I'm in love | 7/21/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: my name is Micah and I'm 15. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now. He's the ... A: Hi! How are you, right now? Congratulations on being in love! It's wonderful, is it not? Thank ... | ||
| help | 7/21/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I am a 48 years old man married since 1991 with a woman: 2 children: male 18. female 11, I do not ... A: When people care enough to seek outside advice, it can mean that they realize that it is hard to ... | ||
| What can i do | 7/18/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I have been married for 2years and we have been together for 4 years. I was 19 when i gota married ... A: Hello, Beautiful Human Being, Thank you for writing. It takes character, courage, and love to write ... | ||
| falling out | 7/9/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I don't know if i really love my husband? We are coming up on our 6 yr ann. and have 2 children. ... A: I'm so sorry this is late. How are you? Thank you for writing. Do you think you could answer the ... | ||
| Is There Something Wrong With Me? | 7/5/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I think there is something wrong with me, every relationship I'm in I can't seem to be as ... A: How are you? Thanks for writing. You have the strength, courage, and care to express yourself about ... | ||
| social life drama | 7/2/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I am a 32 year old single parent of 2 small boys. I have been dating my brothers friend (he is 26 ... A: How are you, Wonderful Human Being? I am sorry this late. Please do this, as a fist step in helping ... | ||
| He loves me but he's changing his mind? | 7/2/2011 | Abhijeet |
| Q: I've known Azhar my whole life. But when i finally saw him again after 14 years this past December ... A: Long distance relationships can get complicated at times - you need to be cautious. Frankly ... | ||
| Restrictions in personal life by boyfreind | 6/8/2011 | Abhijeet |
| Q: I am presently an employee in public sector.I am 23 and my partner is also of 23.We are in the 5th ... A: I can very well understand the situation and can imagine what goes on in your mind in such a ... | ||
| How to appear more confident with girls? | 6/6/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: For the last year i have been trying to improve myself physically. During this time i have been in ... A: That shows courage. The answer is to be yourself. Let the new-largely superfluous-charm you have ... | ||
| Over protective dad/secret boyfriend | 5/16/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I'm sixteen and I'm in live with my best friend. Actually I think i've been in love with him since I ... A: I know all about this kind of thing. You just described half the unmarried peoples' situations in ... | ||
| Very confused | 5/15/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: My mutual crush on her has been puzzling me ever since our feelings began to flare up again. ... A: Do these things: 1. Get a blood test. It is the best indicator of your health. Specifically, check ... | ||
| Mr. Carlo, Gotta say brother, Love your stuff | 5/10/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Well whats up Mr. Carlo, I been browsing the other day and stumbled on this sight and been Reading ... A: Friend, How are you? Keep things simple and courageous. Take that girl out and be nice and don't ... | ||
| Mr. Carlo, Gotta say brother, Love your stuff | 5/8/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Well whats up Mr. Carlo, I been browsing the other day and stumbled on this sight and been Reading ... A: Marcus, I am sorry. You said SHE said YOU are only after sex. Well, that can mean, she wants more. ... | ||
| Mr. Carlo, Gotta say brother, Love your stuff | 5/6/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Well whats up Mr. Carlo, I been browsing the other day and stumbled on this sight and been Reading ... A: Marcus, Thanks for the support. My friend, if she says all she wants is sex, you can take that to ... | ||
| Long Term/Distance Boyfried | 4/28/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I have a boyfriend who I have been dating around two years. He is broke, and his job searching ... A: Answer Hi, Kim, Thank you for the nice letter. The measure of a human being's independent mind is ... | ||
| How do i explain my emotions? | 4/26/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I've been in love with this guy named Darryl for 3 years. As soon as we talked we clicked, always ... A: Hi. I'm happy you're love! Tell him that for now, showing love is how you express it. After all, ... | ||
| Why did we break-up? | 4/20/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend started going out on December 6,2011 best time of my life. We had a good start ... A: Palina, I am a man. 'Carl' is a man's name. Yes, it's normal for girls to be confused. "confusion ... | ||
| Why did we break-up? | 4/20/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend started going out on December 6,2011 best time of my life. We had a good start ... A: First, how old is your boyfriend? If he is 17 or 18, he is too old for you at this time. Sure, two ... | ||
| Why did we break-up? | 4/19/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend started going out on December 6,2011 best time of my life. We had a good start ... A: Have some tea. Look out a window. What do you think of? Probably, you shouldn't be using his name ... | ||
| Love and Marriage | 4/18/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for 4. We have 2 young children together ... A: I ache for you. It seems to me he may be suffering depression. Find some peace within you, though ... | ||
| psychological dating issues | 4/13/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: am a cute guy who's who got no girlfriend until i travel to another town to continue my education ... A: I am very sorry for this late reply. I read your letter a week go, but have been very busy with ... | ||
| Confused | 4/10/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: What do I do if the boy that make me happy is also hurting me? We been talking for 7months. At the ... A: LeSean! Thanks for writing! You like him and he likes you. Sit down with him in a quiet place, ... | ||
| Is she really in love with me or is just a care? | 4/4/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: A serious question is always making me to analyze and deeply think about it every moment in my ... A: Hello, How are you? Thank you, Dear New Friend, for writing! 'Great letter you'd sent. I'm ... | ||
| Please Help Me | 3/28/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I'm very sorry about this Carl, but this is going to be a fairly long question because in order to ... A: Hello, How are you? Thank you, Dear New Friend, for writing! 'Great letter you'd sent. I'm ... | ||
| Loving 2 women | 3/27/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: Lets start with my problem girl a I have been with for 4 years and everything started out great like ... A: Great letter you'd sent. I'm answering it today (Korea- time), and I am on the way to work. My ... | ||
| Needing to forget my past love | 3/18/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I am currently married for 11 years and we have 2 boys. My husband and I met 7 years prior to being ... A: I sincerely hope you are peaceful. Take time to walk In the park, have some herb tea; relax.... ... | ||
| Mixed Feelings | 3/15/2011 | Carl "Carlo" Atteniese |
| Q: I am a 21 year old, female, college student from MT. Pleasant, Michigan. I come from a working ... A: Good Soul, thank you for writing! I am sure my past girlfriend felt like you do, about me. But I ... | ||
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