| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Need to separate? | 8/27/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I just wanted to get an opinion, I know you can't fix problems but I have been married for 3 years ...
A: You need to force him to leave, regardless of what you think he may do. He does not have the legal ...
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| relationship and sex and kids | 8/25/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I am I'm successful Hispanic and I have been in a relationship with a Asian female 24 who still ...
A: You should end this relationship, but not because of the sex issue. You need to end it because she ...
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| To Love, and to be in love? A woman whom I care for, but... | 8/23/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I have been married for 8 months with my wife. We dated for 2.5 years previous to that, and our ...
A: I'm sorry to say that it sounds to me like you did make a mistake. There needs to be more to a ...
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| Lost Love Found? | 8/21/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I met this very nice lady named Christina on match.com. Initially, we chatted on yahoo messenger ...
A: Julian, It really sounds like you both have gotten a connection with one another. I would encourage ...
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| Lost Love Found? | 8/21/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I met this very nice lady named Christina on match.com. Initially, we chatted on yahoo messenger ...
A: I don't think you are in love yet. Even though you have spent a lot of time getting to know each ...
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| Should I stay or should I go? | 8/20/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: Should I leave my rocky relationship and boyfriend whom I might still love because I feel like ...
A: I think you are clinging to your boyfriend because he is what is most comfortable and familiar. ...
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| q | 8/18/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I came to the United States when I was 17 years old with my family from overseas. Now I am 31. ...
A: Sammy, I am not sure of the question you are asking of me. I think what you are proposing is not a ...
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| Should I end my relationship? | 8/17/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 20. I've been dating Justin for 1 year and 2 months, however he's been a ...
A: You are right to want to break it off. There is no need to drag this out when you already know that ...
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| lost, hurt, and really confused | 8/15/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: Ive been with my husband now for 4 years and this is my second marriage and his 5th. During our 4 ...
A: There is a reason why your husband has been married five times. It shows that his issues are ...
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| Love and relationships | 8/13/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: Background info: I am 32 years old and my partner Carol is also 32. We have been together for ...
A: It sounds to me like Carol may be suffering from low self-esteem. It could be that she doesn't feel ...
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| Time to move out and on? | 8/12/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for about 2 years and living together for a ...
A: Jill, You have heard the phrase..."why buy the cow when the milk is free...?" You are giving ...
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| ...might be over my head | 8/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I am a 23 year old working professional with a bad history with relationships. I have a tendency of ...
A: You are right to be concerned. Anyone who demands the level of commitment she is demanding after ...
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| Do I bring it on myself? | 8/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: Ok here we go. When I was 16 i ran away from home and married a man who I'd only known for 10 ...
A: It sounds to me like you are subconsciously choosing men who are abusive, either physically or ...
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| Half hearted Proposal | 8/11/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am 27 years old and my boyfriend of 4 years is 34. We have been living together for 2 years. We ...
A: Rita, Is this really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? What you describe is ...
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| Is it over and time for me to move on? | 8/7/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together for about 2 years and living together for a ...
A: Yes, it's time for you to move on. This is not a case of lovers who have turned into friends; it's ...
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| love or in love | 8/5/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I have been married now for almost two years dated him before that for three. We met in college, ...
A: Claire, You made vows with this person. So I guess it is up to you what vows mean. If they mean that ...
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| am I seeing things, or is he scared? | 8/1/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: let me start way at the beginning: I'm 41 and my best friend is 43. I've known this man for ca. 16 ...
A: I'm sorry to have to say this, as I know it will be painful for you to hear, but this "friend" of ...
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| Having a younger boyfriend, good or not? | 7/30/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: My boyfriend is 25 and I am 32. He is a very positive thinker. He didn't have a big picture about ...
A: Chloe, I have NO idea if he will marry you or not. Dating is about finding information out about ...
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| Realtionship | 7/28/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: How do i convince my girlfriend i am 100% into the realationship while deployed overseas.IM 27 she ...
A: Joe, There is no surefire way you can do this. She is young and immature. She was just a teenager ...
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| Damned if I do, damned if I don't... | 7/27/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: The question I have seems to be a relatively common one, but it doesn't make the situation any ...
A: Michael, This is NOT about you. This is about a commitment you made to a woman 11 years ago. How ...
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| I think she's losing me!!! | 7/27/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I am 32, my wife 31. We've been together since 1996, split for a year in '99 and got back together ...
A: Since it sounds like you really do want to make things work, I think you might want to consider ...
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| new relationship | 7/24/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: He has been divorced for 10 years and has two adult children and two grandchildren. I have never ...
A: I would proceed with caution in this relationship. He has made it very clear that he wants sex, ...
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| should we marry or break up? | 7/23/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I have a very complicated question that I cannot figure out. I'm 25 and my boyfriend of 8 years is ...
A: I don't think you should get married to this guy under any circumstances. He clearly lacks maturity ...
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| Confused in age gap love... | 7/21/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: "There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved." I respect this quote and truly believe ...
A: This sounds like a solid relationship, and I really think you should give it a chance, so long as ...
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| confused | 7/21/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I am in love with a wonderful man and we have been together 8 months and getting married in less ...
A: Well, you have to tell him as soon as possible. If you don't tell him yourself or wait to do it ...
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| how do i know if i really love him? | 7/20/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and 5 months. When i first met him i was the one that ...
A: It sounds like you are focused more on the things you don't like about him than on his positive ...
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| Feelings after breakup | 7/19/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I'm 22 (as is my now ex-girlfriend), and I have just broken up with her after a 1.5 year ...
A: Landon, What your feeling is very normal after having broken up with someone you were with for a ...
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| my best friend | 7/18/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: My best friend just recently told me that he is in love with me and he wants us to have a ...
A: Tammy, It's obvious that he cares for you. So you can play at this relationship thing for more years ...
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| Feelings after breakup | 7/18/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I'm 22 (as is my now ex-girlfriend), and I have just broken up with her after a 1.5 year ...
A: I think minimal contact with her would be best. You don't want to give her the impression that ...
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| am I in love or over analyzing this relationship? | 7/14/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I am 35 and my BF is 37, we have been together for over 14 months. We are very compatiable in some ...
A: It sounds to me like you're overanalyzing things. Unfortunately, one of the side effects of ...
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| Am I over analyzing this relationship? | 7/14/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I am 35 and my BF is 37, we have been together for over 14 months. We are very compatiable in some ...
A: Liane, You are being careful which is very smart. I would suggest you seek out a counselor to get ...
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| should i stay or should i go? | 7/14/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: my wife & i have been married for 4 1/2 yrs now. I'm 35, she's 30. she has a 7-yr old daughter & we ...
A: John, Unless you are absolutely sure that there is no love left, I still think you should try the ...
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| totally ignorant | 7/12/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: i'm 21 years old. i think i'm in love with a guy who is also 21. i met him in college and we became ...
A: I think you should cut off all contact with this guy. He led you on and kept you on the back burner ...
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| Is she just confused? | 7/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: My girlfriend and I recently broke up, Im 31 and she is 24. We had a wonderful relationship for a ...
A: It sounds to me like your girlfriend is still trying to discover who she is and what she wants. ...
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| Doughts about our relationship | 7/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about 4 years now and we are heavily considering (and ...
A: You are realistic when you say these things won't change. They are part of her personality. ...
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| should i stay or should i go? | 7/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: my wife & i have been married for 4 1/2 yrs now. I'm 35, she's 30. she has a 7-yr old daughter & we ...
A: Well, I think you're extremely confused right now because there seems to be stress in every facet of ...
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| Wanting to make things work | 7/11/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: i have been married 5 months i have put my wife through alot. i did alot of wrong things i wasn't ...
A: If you want to show her that you're committed to change, offer to go to marriage counseling. Merely ...
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| confused | 7/9/2008 | David Simonsen |
Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. He's 7 years older than me (he's 28 i'm 21). but i'm ...
A: Danielle, Your past should show you that you may not have the ability to make a competent decision ...
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| going too fast.. very odd situation (just to me?) | 7/7/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: i am 22, female, and i am dating a 21 year old guy. i have had many relationships, good and bad - ...
A: It sounds like the two of you made better friends than lovers. I think he might be realizing that ...
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| confused situation? | 7/3/2008 | Dana Q |
Q: I have dated this guy for about 6 months I'm 20 and hes 19, we hit it off really good. we were ...
A: You should give yourself more credit. Some men prefer plus-sized women, and there are men out there ...
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