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Should you always use the word "may" instead of "can" when asking for something? i.e Can I have it?
Dear Brenda,
The use of "can" and "may" are not interchangeable. One uses "may" when one is asking permission, as the word, "can" gives the idea of whether you have the ability to do something. So if you are asking,
"Can I have it?", you are really saying do I have the ability to have it. Whereas what you really want to say is "May I have it?" asking permission to have whatever it is.
These sites on the web explain it with examples.
http://www.wordtask.com/TipMayCan.htm
http://www.alphadictionary.com/articles/english_grammar_style/difference_between...
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Mrs. Lenc
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