About E. S. Expertise I can answer anything that there is to know about being Latino the in the United States. I can also answer questions regarding immigration and emigration to/from the United States.
Experience I am first generation Mexican-American, born and raised in Southern California.
Education/Credentials Bachelors degree in Latin-American Studies and Spanish.
Question i am very in love with my boyfriend, he is from el salvador and things are going kinda fast, we've been together for about 2months now and i live with him, he's a very good person, i am from holland, but my dad is indonesian. sow thats a big pro culture wise because i do get up in the morning and prepare his lunch, also i will cook and clean. but to say in his advantage he helps me as well, sow thats not the problem.. we live together with his brother wife and 2kids, we speak only spanish at home. we actually met trough his sister, and this weekend he wants me to meet his uncle who lives in verginia aboit a hour drive, his sister wants me to call his mom and speak to her too, but im terrified, can you give me some tips seeing, im neither from american or latin culture my culture is indonesian and a bit dutch.. i really dont want to mess up. and i have another question.. he has lived hire for 5years me only 9 months. he is also 8years older and he has 4 kids in el salvador with 3 woman.. i dont have a visa sow i dont have any insurance he also doesnt have papers but does have a insurance from work, we have been talking about getting married sow that i can have insurance and a bit more security,i am scared that if we marry and i do have a baby hell leave me behind aswell even though his sister says that he really does respect me allot and wouldnever even think of hurting me, (he hasnt married any of the girls in his country) he hasnt had a girl in us for 5 years? do you think the chanses are big he would cheat on me?
Answer Wow, all I can say is be very careful. I feel you already know the answers to your questions. He has 4 kids with three woman. What makes you think that he will change his ways and stay faithful to you? It look like sex is all that is controlling his relationships. Also, you don't have a visa and he doesn't have paper, so technically yu can not get legally married in the US. That will result in his deportation. Does he support his other children? If not, than why do you want to marry a guy who does not take responsibility of his action. I don't want you to make a wrong decision. Like I said be very carful, and don't get pressured by his family to make a wrong decision.
