AboutMelissa Expertise I cannot answer whether or not to divorce someone. I cannot tell you explicitly what to do in any said situation (each person has their own free agency to make their own choice, I only advise). I cannot replace a visit to the bishop. I will look at the situation as unbiasly as possible. I can answer word of wisdom, scripture reference, clergy, organizational, social aspects, easter versus christmas, and semi-taboo subjects (eg. birth control).
Experience I grew up in the church and continue participating fully in my local ward.
Organizations Current LDS.
Education/Credentials Attending BYU currently. Graduated high school.
Question I am a divorced Mormon man with 3 children. I have been inactive for several years but my testimony remains strong. Last year I met and fell in love with a wonderful woman and we both want to get married. She is a non-denominational Christian and has no intentions of converting to Mormonism. I cannot envision life without her. I have broken up with her in moments of "inspiration" but have come to realize that I am miserable without her. Can I live a full and successful life as an active member and not have a Mormon wife? I don't think I can, but I can't give her up; I love her too much. Any advice?
Answer Please rememeber that this is just advice, not the exact answer.
I would pray about it, and fast about the decision you have made. I have no idea what the answer would be, but I would act upon it. I am sorry that this is not very helpful. I would also take into consideration how it would feel if you did start attending church and if she refused to come. Would you be okay mot being able to share that part of your life with her?
These are just some thoughts. However, even if you are inactive, getting to know your bishop as your bishop and talking to him, not as a friend but in the calling of bishop, he is not allowed to share what you share with him, and he might have some inspiration for you.
