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About Blue Sleighty
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Expertise
BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 2 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.

Experience
I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. While marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from reading publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.

Publications
CafeBoudoir.com, MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, many others. Author of 5 books which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other online book sellers.

Education/Credentials
Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I'm 40.

Awards and Honors
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship.

   

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Vibrator & Water Solvent Lube11/17/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, I have never owned a vibrator or used any type of lube. What is a good,(not to expensive) ...
  A: Every woman that I have ever talked to that likes toys LOVES THE RABBIT! The best features for the ...
Lesbian Licking11/3/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Okay so I have lesbian sex with the usual concepts and the new concepts I gained. I feel like ...
  A: Vanessa Brooke, Making love is about stimulating your partner. ONE of the ways to stimulate ...
Need some ideas11/1/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have been having lesbian sex constantly which is a good thing, and have been doing the same things ...
  A: Vanessa, On my website, mysecretobsession.com , I have a lot of articles and stories that go into ...
Is this right?10/28/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Well I was having lesbian sex with 2 of my friends and my one my friends now likes to rub her clit ...
  A: VB, It OK to do as long as no one is hurt emotionally or physically and all is consentual. You ...
lesbian anal9/5/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I am a lesbian girl , My girl friend & I intend to try anal sex but, we are very afraid of stds or ...
  A: Caroline & Natallia, Thank you for your questions! If done correctly anal sex can be mind blowing. ...
Problem in bed9/3/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 20. We have been together for a year and a half and the fire is still ...
  A: Clitoral stimulation in combination with anal stimulation or penetration and nipple stimulation may ...
sexuality8/25/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: how do i know whether i'm straight or gay? is there a test? i'm a girl. have never dated girls but ...
  A: Marcia, Wouldn't that be great if it were that simple? But, nope we aren't that lucky to have a ...
Disapproval...8/21/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Okay, I'm sorry to bother you again, but really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out ...
  A: Nathary, I am happy to be here to help you to sort through things. By telling you to "go for it", ...
She Kissed Me!...Help!8/18/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Okay, I'm sorry to bother you again, but really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out ...
  A: Nathary- It sounds pretty sexy. You are young and still adventurous. In my opinion there is ...
Pleasuring my girlfriend8/16/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have read through a number of the posts here and have found them to be very helpful, but I wanted ...
  A: I am always happy to answer questions for people who are seeking to be better lovers. I am going to ...
Im a lesbian and i wanna know how to please my girl friend8/15/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Ima lesbian female and im 18 and i wanna know how to please my girl friend for the first time
  A: Kiana, Congratulations to you on your research for taking the 'big step' with your girlfriend! I ...
I don't understand it!8/14/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm a 20 year old girl, I'm from a middle-class family, and I don't think I'm going to be a lesbian. ...
  A: Nathary, There is nothing wrong with you. What you are going through happens to MANY young people. ...
Allergic Reaction7/29/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: first thanks for all the great information you share here and at your website. You have really made ...
  A: I am so sorry about your unpleasant experience. I have done more research and I have learned that ...
Confused7/27/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Every now and then I think that I might be lesbian. I like to watch henti (anime porn) but the ...
  A: I hope that you are well today and thank you for writing to me. Normally you are still trying to ...
My clitoris7/12/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I am a 28 year-old lesbian. My partner, when aroused, has a huge clit. I adore it. I want one like ...
  A: Linda, There are ways to alter the clit. For enlargement- Use of a clitoral pump (temporarily ...
Clitoral Surgery7/11/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I am a 30 year-old lesbian who desires increased sexual pleasure when my woman licks my clit. She ...
  A: Linda, That is a very personal decision. There are many women that choose to have surgery. Here is ...
Condom Mystery6/13/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I've never had this problem before but lately have been having "reactions" to using the same condoms ...
  A: This is a very important issue that I really want other women to know about. Safe sex is very ...
Lack of Experience6/10/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I feel a bit intimidated about being intimate with my girlfriend. I'm not very experienced and have ...
  A: I do not know how old you and your g/f are, or how long you have been together- but things take ...
Dating5/30/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I really enjoy your writing, your website, and think you give great advice from your experiences, so ...
  A: Rose, From what I read, I think you should continue at the same rate of speed. She feels hesitant ...
Online/Real Life difference3/27/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: My name is Penny and I'm 34 years old. I know the differences between online and real life are ...
  A: Penny, I do not think that the way women treat you in 'real life' has anything to do with your ...
Help!!3/21/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have been wondering, for awhile now actually, (keep in mind that I have never used a strap-on) how ...
  A: Jamie, There are several styles of strap on 'harness' and some other solutions for your ...
turn ons3/11/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I need to turn my ex girlfriend on without her knowing that's what im trying to do..in other words i ...
  A: Arabia, Studs sometimes have more 'male like' tendencies. Men tend to process visually, therefore ...
Strap on/sex/pregancy2/28/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: My wife and I are intersted in starting a family. I really dont wanna have sex with a man...I'm gay. ...
  A: Anastasia, There are some really effective ejaculating dildos on the market. They work somewhat ...
relationships & sex2/27/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we both love eachother deeply but I've been so ...
  A: Jalyssa, It may take a really long time for you and your girlfriend to love each other without ...
relationship & sex2/27/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 mnths and I mean I know that she loves me and I love her ...
  A: Jalyssa, Good sex takes practice, and unconditional love takes time and proof. Keep trying. If you ...
Fisting - Alternative Sex Practices2/24/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have been trying to find out more information about alternative sex practices, in particular, ...
  A: Carmen, Thank you for rating me so positively and for your kind words! Please never hesitate to ...
Fisting - Alternative Sex Practices2/23/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have been trying to find out more information about alternative sex practices, in particular, ...
  A: Carmen, I hesitate to discuss this at all as it is very dangerous. My girlfriend engaged in ...
need advice & help2/20/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: i'm not a lesbian but my girlmate whois a lesbian have turned me on as tat was my 1st experience. ...
  A: Apple, It sounds like you and your good friend have known each other for a long time and that you ...
Oral Sex2/7/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, I understand about the dental dam, but will the sensation through sahran wrap still feel as ...
  A: Deborah, Dental dams will give you a whole new insight as to why men do not like condoms. But- it's ...
Safe Sex2/3/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I've noticed that no one has ever asked you about "safe sex" for lesbians....can they get aids? If ...
  A: Deborah, I am so happy that you asked this question! YES lesbians can and do get AIDS. Along with ...
Virginity.1/27/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I know that this is an odd question but what if you finger yourself and break your hymen and you ...
  A: CGLLR, Girl. You are completely off of the subject of my expertise. So if someone disagrees, ...
Am I straight or not?1/24/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
  A: CGLLR, I am not an expert on religion. However- I do know that if you are a Christian that you can ...
Am I straight or not?1/19/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
  A: CGLLR, You are not a lesbian and you are not bisexual. You are 13. It is illegal for you to look at ...
Please, give me some advice1/7/2009Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 21,from Asia and have just been here,U.S., for one year so life has been changed so much to me ...
  A: Tram- I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. But in this case you are ...
Woman turn me on12/2/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have had sexual feelings towards women since a young age (when I was young I remember doing little ...
  A: Jane, At this point, it could very well be a fantasy. Even if you have sex with a woman and enjoy ...
Am I straight?11/18/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
  A: Being attracted to girls at your age does not make you a homosexual. Neither does experimenting. It ...
Am I straight?11/17/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
  A: Corrina, It absolutely DOES NOT make you a homosexual just because at this point in your life you ...
?11/16/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: I started looking at lesbian porn in 8th grade and liked it. I took a break from it for a while. ...
  A: Alison, I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Yes. We all need intimacy, and the fear of ...
Am I straight?11/15/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
  A: Corrina, One of the best parts of being 13 is that you do not have to make this decision TODAY. As ...
What am I?11/4/2008Blue Sleighty
  Q: A lot of my personal mystery has been unraveling since 8th grade, but I am still completely ...
  A: Blondie, I wish the answers were that easy. When we are young and adventurous and have a healthy ...

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