| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| S/M | 6/2/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: Hey Before I met my girlfriend, I was vanilla, except for some spanking... Which is not to hardcore! ...
A: Keren, It's GREAT that you and your girlfriend are open to sexual exploration. Good on both of you! ...
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| Strapon sex | 5/3/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have many gay and lesbian and Bi friends.I am a straight male but I love being penetrated by a ...
A: I do not know of any websites or dating services that are organized specifically to afford ...
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| Follow up to your answer. | 5/1/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have thought about everything and why i do what I do and why she does what she does. The reason I ...
A: Brooke, You are in a difficult situation. I understand why you stay. I hope you can turn things ...
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| Follow up to your answer. | 4/29/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have thought about everything and why i do what I do and why she does what she does. The reason I ...
A: Brooke, Everyone has to make her own decisions. It depends on what you truly want in life. You are ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/28/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, Your situation sounds very frustrating. Everyone responds differently to trust issues and ...
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| RE: I am confused | 4/26/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I am new to your site, but I have heard that you offer great advice. My problem is I am questioning ...
A: Tiffany, I answered this question for another person, and I am going to tell you the same thing ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/25/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, I'm sorry, but, I need to ask you a few more questions. 1. Do you feel angry or hurt when ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/23/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, I have some questions for you: 1. What is the age difference between you and your ...
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| Alternative Lifestyle | 3/21/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: First, I hope you feel some what better and to let you know you did all you could for her; Nancy, I ...
A: Deb, I really appreciate your concern. I am going to be OK. Thank god for my girlfriend. She is so ...
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| orgasims with a new partener | 1/22/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: i've slept with 40 women from 18 till 20 and one night stand girls where generally all easy to get ...
A: Melissa- Please follow this link to "Blue Sleighty's Guide to Oral Sex"- ...
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| Positions to making love | 1/9/2008 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I recently started dating a woman, but I am not as experienced as she. Where can I learn about ...
A: B, I am providing for you a link that will help you with your question. Here it is: ...
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| i just dont know | 12/14/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: ok to start of i am 21 and i have been dating my girl for about 2 years and we were really happy but ...
A: Ashley, I need to know what you and your girlfriend fight about. As far as coming out- sometimes ...
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| Over/Under Doing | 11/24/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I'm in my late teens, and in techniquality, a virgin. My best friend recently told me she was ...
A: Crystelle, First- a reality check. Then the rest. This would be a much easier question to answer ...
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| how do you know? | 11/1/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I recently am coming to terms with my sexuality. My past is married to a man, then falling in love ...
A: Aussie. I am sorry about your relationship not working out. In answer to yourIt has become more ...
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| I'm in love with this notetaker | 10/19/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: (sigh) first of all, I'm hard of hearing student in college and I have this young notetaker who's in ...
A: Manisha, You put me in a bad position when you say that you want to hurt yourself. If you DID hurt ...
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| I'm in love with this notetaker | 10/14/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: (sigh) first of all, I'm hard of hearing student in college and I have this young notetaker who's in ...
A: Manisha, You are not going to like this answer. I see you are hashing out the negatives. ...
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| where can i find this sex toy!? | 10/13/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been searching for a while to find a sex toy that meets these ...
A: Ally, I know of a sex toy that meets your criteria, plus, it VIBRATES (do not have to turn on the ...
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| I am in love with a woman | 10/7/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I am in love with another woman. I had a lesbian experience when I was in my teens and at that ...
A: Leah, I need some more information before I can answer this question. In the last year that you ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/17/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: When I re-read this- I thought I sounded like a MySpace pusher. I am not affiliated with MySpace, ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/16/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: Vicki, The situation that you are describing here sounds complicated. The woman that you were ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/15/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: Vicki, Even when you KNOW FOR SURE that you are gay, it is scary to admit it to yourself. You might ...
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| Fem - cum | 8/27/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: What is fem - cum?
A: Chris, When a woman is aroused, she produces natural lubrication. If a woman is involved in sexual ...
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| lesbian erotic | 8/18/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: can any one help me to find on the net (or better by sending me) porn photos of lesbian girls ...
A: Jan, If you are not of legal age, you can't view pictures of that nature on the internet. It is ...
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| lesbian | 8/18/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: how can i impress another girl into lesbian practice ANSWER: Jan, The only thing that you can do ...
A: Jan, Try to notice something that she obviously likes or dislikes. French fries. Chocolate. The ...
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| lesbian | 8/16/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: how can i impress another girl into lesbian practice
A: Jan, The only thing that you can do is let her know that you find her attractive and are interested ...
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| "my woman a freak but how do i make here only want my wood" | 7/27/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: My name is coriontaye cortinez and i am writing today cause my girl loves to have sex since i'm not ...
A: The hardest part about being in love is learning to trust someone. And, it is up to the two people ...
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| Pleasing a woman | 7/26/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: I understand they say that some women get multiple orgasms and some don't is this true? If not, what ...
A: It is true that some women experience multiple orgasms. It has been my experience that of women who ...
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| What can I do to... | 7/17/2007 | Blue Sleighty |
Q: Well me and my girlfriend just started to get really sexual and every time I finger her or ...
A: Shakkai- Women require a lot of clitoral stimulation, and a lot of foreplay usually, before ...
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| sexuality related questions | 9/14/2005 | |
Q: I'm a therapist working towards licensure and I'm also getting my Ph.D. in Clinical Psych. I'm ...
A: I'm deeply sorry for the delay. My ISP cancelled my internet by mistake. But to answer your ...
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| Is she a las ? | 9/13/2005 | |
Q: i'm 32yrs. male and having an affair with a married girl 27yrs. age---i'm single---she lives in ...
A: Yes david you can contact me directly at "sys32ws2@gmail.com" A new experience is always a good ...
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| Single...Single...Single.... | 9/8/2005 | |
Q: how are you today? I hope you're well. I have a question I would like to ask, obviously. I am a ...
A: First off, let me tell you that cincinnati just made my list of "most hated things" no disrespect to ...
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| just a lil advice.. | 9/7/2005 | |
Q: Of course! Why would I get discouraged? I'm just viewing it as a challenge. Meanwhile, I'm going to ...
A: Most guys are sex crazy fiends that only care about getting laid, so to set all that appart from ...
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| Making love to a woman without using toys | 7/11/2005 | |
Q: --- Thank you for your answer. Over the weekend, I was adventurious and had sex with a woman for the ...
A: and sorry for the big delay. It's great that you pleased her like you wanted to, but the problem is ...
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| How to make a woman have multiple orgasm | 7/9/2005 | |
Q: I'm new to the lesbian lifestyle. I've been doing alot of research on lesbian dating, sex and ...
A: Multiple orgasms are rare, in which they are hard to achieve, but not impossible. I believe the ...
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| Making love to a woman without using toys | 7/8/2005 | |
Q: I'm very much attracted to women, even though I have never had sex with a woman. I have always ...
A: First off you need to start with the kissing. It's the most important part. Slowly you gradually ...
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| Help newbie to the lesbian lifestyle | 7/8/2005 | |
Q: I have 2 question for you. 1) I'm a 32 years old woman. I have have always been attracted to women ...
A: 1.) I'm not etirely sure that there is a right way to make love to a woman, exept for using toys, ...
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| trivial stuff | 2/22/2005 | |
Q: well, a bit of trivial questions. It seems to me that females really love to sit with their legs ...
A: haha yes it's true! females, as well as males can achieve orgasm this way, and it's probably pretty ...
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| sex with k9 | 12/28/2004 | |
Q: if i do it , how is the safe why to do it? its german shephard he is always smelling me between the ...
A: oh.. well the first time you asked me a question i thought you were talking about a size "k9" well ...
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| femcum | 11/1/2004 | |
Q: sometimes while i;m playing with my girl i;m licking her pussy and drinking her femcum i want know ...
A: none whatsoever. the only actual side effect to this is probably you ending up gaging or throwing up ...
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| is it good | 10/26/2004 | |
Q: i can understand that u can understand what i am goin to ask 1.dont these life ruin ur carrer? ...
A: OK LOOK FIRST OFF NOTHING OF THIS KIND RUINS YOUR CAREER UNLESS YOUR BOSS IS A BIGGOT THAT DOESNT ...
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