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SubjectDate AskedExpert
Feeling alone11/19/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: It's me....again. I honestly don't know how to word the question I wish to seek advice on. I think ...
  A: Hey, Bree. It's nice to hear from you again. I'm sorry you are feeling so alone. The girl at your ...
Help7/24/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hello, it's me again. So, my girl friend ( the beautiful I met in the library) and I are going very ...
  A: Brittney, I will find some references for you on this subject and follow up with them. Normally I ...
Hi7/20/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, I received your email, and you totally beat me to it. You have been on my mind lately and ...
  A: Nico, I can see why you would not like my statement about MOMS doing the best that they can at the ...
Inexperience7/13/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, Hi, I'm 21. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. July 15 will make one ...
  A: Again, congratulations on your anniversary and your progression towards intimacy with your ...
Wrong email7/1/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: I sent you a question the subject being "alone". I'm pretty sure I gave you the wrong email address ...
  A: Bree, In your situation you are doing the right thing in keeping your sexual exploration private. ...
Alone7/1/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hello. I'm 17 years old. I come to you seeking advice. I honestly have no one else to go to who I ...
  A: Bree, In your situation you are doing the right thing in keeping your sexual exploration private. ...
Confused5/21/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Unfortunately there has been no improvement in my situation. However, it seems as if there is a ...
  A: J, We can speculate forever about what is going on. What we need are answers. But without ...
sad5/19/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: just found out my that my girlfriend is leaving me to go to flordia for good im so hurt so many ...
  A: Sache, I am sorry that you are so sad. I know it hurts. The best way to get through a break up is ...
me4/14/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Im so confused idk what to do i care about her alot and i feel like we can grow what do you think is ...
  A: Sache, I think you should continue to be with her! I never meant to imply that you should not be ...
Thank You4/9/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hi. I just had to thank you. My relationship with my girlfriend has grown tremendously. We have date ...
  A: Kendra, I am so very happy to hear that!!! I'm glad it has all worked out. Of course you are more ...
Relationship Issues3/18/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hello. I am 23 years old. My partner ( who is 24) and I have been together for six years. We both ...
  A: No need to apologize! Venting is good! I need to know a few things. Do the the of you ever go out ...
Masturbation3/5/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have decided to try and make peace with my situation and the fact that it might never change. I ...
  A: J, Good to hear from you! You do not need to worry about masturbation changing your love making ...
Girls2/19/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 18, openly lesbian, and a college freshman. My problem is I'm terrible at being able to tell ...
  A: I can completely understand your frustration. It really has gotten more difficult to identify ...
Getting over her2/18/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: I need help. I'm not doing any better than the first time I contacted you, which wasn't long ago I ...
  A: Nico, Nico, When you start seeing this therapist (which I think is a good idea)- tell them from ...
Separation2/16/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. Things got pretty messy here for a few days and ...
  A: YOU never caused me any worry, but your situation did. No apology necessary at all. I am happy to ...
Concerned parents2/13/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hello. I am 38. My question is concerning 16 year old daughter. Around October of 2012, my daughter ...
  A: Melissa, I applaud you for being supportive of your daughter. I know that as supportive as you are ...
Things got bad...2/9/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hi. How are you? I hope you remember me. Seperating from my husband went well for about two days ...
  A: Emily, I am so sorry that things took a turn for the worse with your husband. I suspected that they ...
Sex!!!!! Sex!!! Sex!!!2/6/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue I don't know what to do anymore. I think evil has just simply gotten a hold on me with sex. ...
  A: J., I remember very well your situation and I am not the least bit sick of you! You are welcome to ...
It's over2/5/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, Well it didn't take her long to make a decision. She cares sex more than she cares about me. ...
  A: Oh, honey! I am so so sorry! I am going to write you a much longer response, dear, but I wanted you ...
lesbian porn/stories2/4/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Do u have any suggestions of finding female friendly lesbian porn I can watch with my wife? I also ...
  A: There really is not much lesbian porn that is geared towards women. Try Sapphic Erotica. It's pretty ...
Afraid I'm going to loose her2/4/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hello. I'm 23. I have been with my partner for five years. We live together, and she is truly the ...
  A: Honey, I am so sorry. This is a terrible thing to hear. I wish I had great news for you and a ...
How to keep the "fireworks" in a long term relationship2/3/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: First off I have to thank you. Since my first question to you my relationship with my girlfriend has ...
  A: Great to hear from you again! I am so glad to hear that you are so happy! Do NOT let your friend ...
It's complicated1/31/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: I've come to a cross road in life. Having to choose between my own happiness or pleasing my parents ...
  A: Well, Emily. This is not going to be easy, and it shouldn't happen quick, but it will be worth it. ...
Supporting my girlfriend1/13/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: Hi. I'm 17. Ok, so you have seriously helped my girlfriend a lot. So now I'm hoping you can help me. ...
  A: Nathalie, I am here and I am going to give you a much longer answer in a little while, but I wanted ...
female friendly porn1/11/2013Blue Sleighty
  Q: im 20 and recently married. ( we are both former virgins) she has never watched porn, and I only ...
  A: The world doesn't create much female friendly porn. There have been some really sexy movies like ...
Strap-on Sex11/30/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have written to you before - don't know if you remember. Nevertheless, I hope you are well. I'm ...
  A: Of course I remember you! I hope that you and your girlfriend are making progress as far as your ...
I really need help11/10/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: Ok, so this is a bit awkward for me to discuss, but I've tried everything and I'm not getting any ...
  A: Jessica, Thank you for writing to me. Let's see what we can do about this. I need to ask a few ...
unsupportive mum10/21/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, I know its been less than a month, but I can honestly say I have tried with my mom. I took ...
  A: I understand that you want to leave. Maybe it is not such a bad idea for you to go stay with your ...
unsupportive mom10/3/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: I'm 17. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We are very close and I love her ...
  A: It sounds to me like your mother is trying to make you feel as guilty and ashamed as she can and is ...
Conscious Mind9/10/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: it's me again. I'm sorry to bug you again. You're not a psychologist, but I have a question and I ...
  A: Janita, Thank you for writing. You are always welcome. And thank you for liking my website! I ...
Concerned About Our Sex Life9/3/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: I have read some of the other Q and A 's and WOW, looks like you know what you're talking about ...
  A: Hello! Please do not feel uncomfortable talking about these things. I'm going to do everything that ...
I can barely feel any pleasure7/21/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: so English is not my native language. I've been involved in more or less sexual activities for the ...
  A: Sofiya, Hello and thank you for your question! There are many things that can cause you to be less ...
desperate and frustrated5/22/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: I am a 29 yr old female, been with my partner for almost 2 yrs. We r madly in love and can't keep ...
  A: Kelly, Unfortunately anti-depressants, ESPECIALLY Lexapro, usually do decrease your sex drive and ...
sucking on breasts5/14/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: My partner and I have been together for the past three years. Recently she has brought up sucking on ...
  A: Aria- You are correct, it is possible to cause lactation by sucking on the nipples, pregnant or ...
Is it time to stop?4/10/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: Please help me :( My girlfriend and I have been doing foreplay and oral sex the past few months and ...
  A: Breast stimulation can cause you to lactate even if you are not pregnant. Women who adopt babies ...
How to get over my ex4/9/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: I am a 30 year old femme I was in an eight year relationship with a stud. Of course like many ...
  A: I am so sorry. You have my sympathy. The only way to get over her is to stay away from her. Do not ...
publishing1/27/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: Blue, I am a lesbian love story writer, although I can put together a lesbian erotic story with ...
  A: Chloedrew, Congratulations! The very fact that you wrote your book is a copyright in itself. When ...
i have no clue what to do..totally lost1/24/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: ) um..I'm almost 17...well I've never gone on like a site and asked this type of question ...
  A: Cheyenne, Thank you for writing! I think I can help you with this! Since your girl is spending the ...
I can't feel pleasure1/15/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: Im 17, and I'm usually highly sensitive. I get turned on easily, like by holding in my pee; however, ...
  A: First let me tell you that while you probably(very doubtful)have not damaged your ability to have an ...
I love her1/4/2012Blue Sleighty
  Q: my question is simple > how can i bring more pleasure to my beautiful wife? i have been waiting for ...
  A: The best way to understand how to make love to a woman is to spend some time getting to know your ...

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BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 5 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.

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I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. I have had a wealth of experiences and while marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from studying publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women as well as my own. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.

Publications
MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, CafeBoudoir.com, many others. Author of 25 short stories, and 3 novellas which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other on line book sellers. You can also find me on Facebook and Twitter.

Education/Credentials
Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I am a lesbian mother of a now adult, well-adjusted, degreed, happily married for 5 years, heterosexual daughter. I'm 40.

Awards and Honors
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship. I have business associations with some of the best artists and writers of our time.

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