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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| publishing | 1/27/2012 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Blue, I am a lesbian love story writer, although I can put together a lesbian erotic story with ... A: Chloedrew, Congratulations! The very fact that you wrote your book is a copyright in itself. When ... | ||
| i have no clue what to do..totally lost | 1/24/2012 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: ) um..I'm almost 17...well I've never gone on like a site and asked this type of question ... A: Cheyenne, Thank you for writing! I think I can help you with this! Since your girl is spending the ... | ||
| I can't feel pleasure | 1/15/2012 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Im 17, and I'm usually highly sensitive. I get turned on easily, like by holding in my pee; however, ... A: First let me tell you that while you probably(very doubtful)have not damaged your ability to have an ... | ||
| I love her | 1/4/2012 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: my question is simple > how can i bring more pleasure to my beautiful wife? i have been waiting for ... A: The best way to understand how to make love to a woman is to spend some time getting to know your ... | ||
| Afraid I am hurting my girlfriend | 12/21/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have recently become sexual active, and since she is my fist sexual partner who ... A: It sounds like your girlfriend has a condition called "friable cervix". There is not a whole lot ... | ||
| not sure if im lesbian | 11/3/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I really need help to figure things out...it started when I was in grade 8 when my friend Jessica ... A: Do not feel alone in your worries. Everyone who is not sure about their sexuality goes through a ... | ||
| family issues with comng out | 9/20/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Recently at my sisters 21st I was asked a few times if I was in a relationship, now I am happy being ... A: Kate, It is good to hear from you. I'm sorry your feelings were hurt. Try to understand your ... | ||
| Lesbian Relationship | 9/19/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I sent you a few questions previously, and now I have some new ones. My previous questions were ... A: Stacey, I'm happy for you. It sounds like you are off to a very good start in that you are taking ... | ||
| Lesbian Relationship | 9/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I sent you a few questions previously, and now I have some new ones. My previous questions were ... A: Stacey, Coming out is SCARY! And usually involves sorting through a lot of feelings and fears. ... | ||
| Lesbian Relationship | 9/7/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I sent you a few questions previously, and now I have some new ones. My previous questions were ... A: Stacey, It is terrifying to come out most of the time. Are you feeling afraid? Also- sometimes the ... | ||
| Missing You - Question | 9/3/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I had sent a question to you earlier and didn't get a reply. I was wondering if you ever got it. If ... A: I missed about 6 questions at the beginning of August. Yours must have been one of them. It was an ... | ||
| Torn between man and woman. | 7/16/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am eighteen years old and bisexual. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him ... A: I could use a little more information. Read what I have to say, and if I have not helped you- please ... | ||
| Conflicted | 7/3/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I'm 20, bidexual female, and in a relationship with a male. A few weeks ago, although I love my bf, ... A: Megan, It sounds like you are having a pretty tough time. I sympathize with you. First- do not ... | ||
| Lesbian sex | 6/24/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I have recently come out as a lesbian at 27 after 11 yrs of denial. Now I have never had an orgasm ... A: Kate, I hope that you are having an easy time being out and proud. It can be quite an adjustment. ... | ||
| making love | 6/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Again, I know this is not a joke & I will kindly rerate you. I didn't know the ratings really ... A: Chyna, No problem. I'm not tired of you at all. Seduction is awesome and you can be shy and still ... | ||
| making love | 6/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Again, I know this is not a joke & I will kindly rerate you. I didn't know the ratings really ... A: Chyna, Role playing can be just awesome! Resale shops can provide you with plenty uniforms and ... | ||
| i want to make love | 6/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am a lesbian female and lately me and my partner has been having great sex but after talking to ... A: There are a million ways to make love. Some of them do not even involve sex. I have decided to ... | ||
| making love | 6/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Again, I know this is not a joke & I will kindly rerate you. I didn't know the ratings really ... A: The best way to understand how to make love to a woman is to spend some time getting to know your ... | ||
| Making Love | 6/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am a lesbian female and lately me and my partner has been having great sex but after talking to ... A: Chyna, I am sorry that you are having difficulty asking the questions that you need to get help for ... | ||
| Making Love | 6/6/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am a lesbian female and lately me and my partner has been having great sex but after talking to ... A: To all who read the question above- this is a perfect example of not giving enough information. As ... | ||
| FIRST TIME HAPPENED | 6/5/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: this is C again. I have to tell you that we finally did it! R and I went to her family's beach ... A: I am so happy for you! Everything sounds wonderful! How do you keep it alive? That is a question as ... | ||
| Not good at oral sex... | 5/9/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am 16 years old & have only been with a few girl's. but I have been with this one girl that I am ... A: Nikki- Many women are not 100% comfortable receiving oral sex, so you shouldn't take it too ... | ||
| Another Great Date - Thanks, Blue! | 5/8/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I could hardly wait to tell you that M and I have had three dates and each one has been better than ... A: I am so happy that things are going so well! She doesn't need to know what is in your suitcase, nor ... | ||
| Successful Date - What'll I Do Now? | 5/3/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Blue, thank you again for helping me out. I asked M to come over for the "movie night" you ... A: C- Congratulations! It sounds like things are going great! That you saw each other again after ... | ||
| Lesbian porn for women | 4/30/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Do you know of good website where I can stream Lesbian erotica? I'm 27 by the way. A: Kristine, I know several great places for streaming lesbian erotica. You can be assured you will ... | ||
| Need Some Advice 2 | 4/23/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I think I typed in my email wrong, so I didn't get the notice right away. I'm glad I checked on ... A: Catherine- It is very likely that your friend was simply being respectful to your relationship with ... | ||
| Need Some Advice | 4/20/2011 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am 24 years old and have been friends with one of my co-workers for more than four years. We are ... A: Before I answer- I need to ask you aYou stated that you and your friend had fooled around a little - ... | ||
| orientation doesn't matter during porn | 2/1/2011 | Maddie |
| Q: I'm a straight woman who loves men. Yet when I watch porn, some interesting things happen. First of ... A: Anna, Your most definitely right. Different things turn different people on. Like the same with ... | ||
| Advice | 12/25/2010 | Maddie |
| Q: Hi i just some advice in how to get my sex drive more xtreme and how to snog to please x x A: Snogging is just basically kissing sensually. But since you asked I will tell you. I would kiss all ... | ||
| How to tell if someone is attracted to you | 9/8/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: ......I just came across your site. I have a friend who I have known for 7 years now. For the past ... A: Phoenix, The first thing that I must say is, please do not forget that you are both married. You do ... | ||
| Strip Clubs, Escorts,etc. | 8/21/2010 | Maddie |
| Q: I hate the way this might sounds, but I try to find lesbian strip clubs and escort services, but it ... A: I have been to a lesbian strip club before but I don't remember the name of the place. They are hard ... | ||
| Female Form is a turn on | 8/20/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I like light porn, just stripping where I can just look at the human body in its perfection. I see a ... A: Jasmine, Porn confuses people. Porn is designed to sexually excite you with no regard to subject ... | ||
| straight but lesbian porn | 7/22/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I am a straight female (28), but I enjoy lesbian porn. I've been in long term committed straight ... A: I am sorry I took so long getting back to you. I run two very busy websites, as well teaching and ... | ||
| confused? | 7/14/2010 | Maddie |
| Q: i'm 19 and recently became intitmate with a woman for the first time. WOW id never ha and orgasm ... A: You do sound like you are interested into girls and you are experiencing this new experience. I ... | ||
| neva orgasmed like this!! | 7/2/2010 | Maddie |
| Q: i have been out for about 9 years when i was with men yea i had orgasm but with my ex G/f yea i ... A: Yes, this could be true. He might be right. You might be really into your GF if you have an orgasm ... | ||
| double anal fisting | 6/9/2010 | Maddie |
| Q: please forgive me for my stupid question.i really need your help. i am crazy about this gorgeous ... A: Sorry if I have responded to this question a little late. Double fisting can be very hard a most ... | ||
| Inexperienced | 6/8/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I'm a 19 year old lesbian and I've been with my partner for four years now. We're very happy ... A: I have written quite a few articles about sex and they are available on my website, ... | ||
| Riding her face | 5/13/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: Ok so I have a dilemma. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months but I have known her for years. I ... A: I will certainly do the best that I can to help you. There are two ways you can approach this. #1- ... | ||
| going down on my girl. | 5/8/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: How do I bring this up to her gently but also hinting that I really want to please her too? A: Jasmine~ Some women find it difficult to receive oral sex for many reasons. Do not take it ... | ||
| Writing Poetry | 4/23/2010 | Blue Sleighty |
| Q: I have completed a book of poetry and am in the process of getting my work copyright protected. I ... A: Kimberly, If you are planning to draw the interest of a big publishing house, you need to know who ... | ||
Blue Sleighty
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
BLUE SLEIGHTY HAS BEEN AN EXPERT FOR OVER 4 YEARS! I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help you.
Experience
I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. I have had a wealth of experiences and while marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from studying publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others.
I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women as well as my own.
I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.
Publications
MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, CafeBoudoir.com, many others. Author of 5 books which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other online book sellers. You can also find me on Facebook and Twitter.
Education/Credentials
Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I am a lesbian mother of a now adult, well-adjusted, degreed, happily married for 5 years, heterosexual daughter. I'm 40.
Awards and Honors
Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship. I have business associations with some of the best artists and writers of our time.
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