AboutBlue Sleighty Expertise I will do my best to answer any legitimate question. If I can NOT answer it- I will be happy to provide references to someone that I believe can help.
Experience I have been a lesbian all of my life. I have had an active and adventurous sex life. I am published and widely known writer of lesbian erotica.
Education/Credentials I have an AA from Texas Academy of Art. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica.
Expert: Blue Sleighty Date: 1/22/2008 Subject: orgasims with a new partener
Question i've slept with 40 women from 18 till 20 and one night stand girls where generally all easy to get off and i've always been a top and considered myself great sex when it comes to trashy one night stand sex... NOW i have a new partener and she is alittle harder to make orgasim via cliteral and vaginal than i am, so i understand why i have to be consistant and paitent with her.. it took over a week of alot of sex for her to figure me out and for me to finally give her both vaginal and cliteral orgasims in a single night. however, its still hard. she tells me she needs slow and very specific movements to orgasim and cant handle anything directally ontop of her clit but it cant be left for too long either. what could i do to help her orgasim easier... with the vaginal it can become to intense for her to easy so she says but when i speed things up and how i got her to cum last time but since then she just clenches her legs togeather and tells me to stop she cant handle the feeling... any comment??? please help me. cheers... any ideas on technique aswell to help her cliteral orgasim when i go down on her, she takes close to 40 mins by herself and now with me too
