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Expert: Blue Sleighty
Date: 4/29/2008
Subject: Follow up to your answer.
Question
I have thought about everything and why i do what I do and why she does what she does. The reason I believe I keep letting her back in is because I let her see a par of me that I never really showed anyone else and the way we both told each other I love you. It wasn't like it was made or we grew into it. It just came out. I think another reason I stay with her is because we now share a 4yr old daughter together. My daughter wants to be with me and not with her biologic mother. I know I shouldn't be in this relationship for a child but I do still love my ex. My ex keeps telling a friend of ours that she fuck up our relationship and I talk to her about it but she keeps giving mixed answers and changing what she has said. I told her she needs to get help and talk to someone but she says she is afraid of someone taking our daughter away and her coming to the fact that she has a problem and it has not been me all along. What am I to do???
Answer
Brooke,
Everyone has to make her own decisions. It depends on what you truly want in life.
You are basically staying for the well being of a child. And, frankly, I would do the same thing. I would stay until I couldn't do it anymore.
It is possible to work things out. It is possible to learn to appreciate each other and learn to fullfill each others needs. It takes time, patience and perseverence.
There are no guarantees. You may spend a lot of years in a situation that is not sexually fullfilling for you.
I hope you do not mind a couple of more questions.
Is she abusive to you or the child?
Is she affectionate?
If you wanted to make out (like kids sneaking around)- would she?
Blue
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