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Expert: <ERROR> Date: 7/11/2005 Subject: Making love to a woman without using toys
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Thank you for your answer.
Over the weekend, I was adventurious and had sex with a woman for the first time. She reached orgasm, but I didn't. We did not use any toys. I have been reading on lesbian sex and on how to please a woman, but nothing on how to concentrate on myself and be please. With men good foreplay, slow and deep penetration did it for me. With a woman, I don't know what to ask for. Do you have any pointers for me? Being with a woman has always been my fatasy, reaching orgasm with a woman would be like heaven for me.
It makes me wet just thinking about it.
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Followup To
Question -
Hi,
I'm very much attracted to women, even though I have never had sex with a woman. I have always fantasized of being with a woman.I would love to make love to a woman without the use of toys. I would love it to be all natural - oral and fingers. Before we get to sex, I would love to give sensual mind blowing foreplay.
Is there a way that I need to have my fingers when I insert them? What motion should my fingers follow when inserted? Should I use my fingers or my tougue on the clitoris? What motion should I follow? Where should I start with foreplay?
If you could please layout for me from A-z on how to please a woman. That is from the touching, to the kissing, to foreplay to sex, to after sex e.t.c
I would like to use protection when eating out a woman, what should I use?
Thanks,
Anne
Answer -
First off you need to start with the kissing. It's the most important part. Slowly you gradually work your way down to her breasts, and so on. If she seems happy about it, then go lower, and lower untill she gives in. She should let you know if she doesn't want it. As for protection, first make sure none of you have any STD's. If not, then it should be perfectly safe to perform oral sex on her. Just be clean, and have fun. As for the fingers, just make sure you don't have sharp nails, or that could hurt. Other than that, some lube would be nice.
Answer Thank you for your question, and sorry for the big delay. It's great that you pleased her like you wanted to, but the problem is with you. If you want to reach an orgasm, you must use toys on yourself or just don't be affraid to ask her to give some to you. She really has no choice because you already got her off. the point here is not to be afraid to ask and you should be fine. other than that you can use a vibrator or something like that while you're doing her. it should work either way. Remember don't be afraid to ask!
