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SubjectDate Asked
Feeling alone11/19/2013
  Q: It's me....again. I honestly don't know how to word the question I wish to seek advice on. I think ...
  A: Hey, Bree. It's nice to hear from you again. I'm sorry you are feeling so alone. The girl at your ...
Help7/24/2013
  Q: Hello, it's me again. So, my girl friend ( the beautiful I met in the library) and I are going very ...
  A: Brittney, I will find some references for you on this subject and follow up with them. Normally I ...
Hi7/20/2013
  Q: Blue, I received your email, and you totally beat me to it. You have been on my mind lately and ...
  A: Nico, I can see why you would not like my statement about MOMS doing the best that they can at the ...
Inexperience7/13/2013
  Q: Blue, Hi, I'm 21. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. July 15 will make one ...
  A: Again, congratulations on your anniversary and your progression towards intimacy with your ...
Wrong email7/1/2013
  Q: I sent you a question the subject being "alone". I'm pretty sure I gave you the wrong email address ...
  A: Bree, In your situation you are doing the right thing in keeping your sexual exploration private. ...
Alone7/1/2013
  Q: Hello. I'm 17 years old. I come to you seeking advice. I honestly have no one else to go to who I ...
  A: Bree, In your situation you are doing the right thing in keeping your sexual exploration private. ...
Confused5/21/2013
  Q: Unfortunately there has been no improvement in my situation. However, it seems as if there is a ...
  A: J, We can speculate forever about what is going on. What we need are answers. But without ...
sad5/19/2013
  Q: just found out my that my girlfriend is leaving me to go to flordia for good im so hurt so many ...
  A: Sache, I am sorry that you are so sad. I know it hurts. The best way to get through a break up is ...
me4/14/2013
  Q: Im so confused idk what to do i care about her alot and i feel like we can grow what do you think is ...
  A: Sache, I think you should continue to be with her! I never meant to imply that you should not be ...
Thank You4/9/2013
  Q: Hi. I just had to thank you. My relationship with my girlfriend has grown tremendously. We have date ...
  A: Kendra, I am so very happy to hear that!!! I'm glad it has all worked out. Of course you are more ...
Relationship Issues3/18/2013
  Q: Hello. I am 23 years old. My partner ( who is 24) and I have been together for six years. We both ...
  A: No need to apologize! Venting is good! I need to know a few things. Do the the of you ever go out ...
Masturbation3/5/2013
  Q: I have decided to try and make peace with my situation and the fact that it might never change. I ...
  A: J, Good to hear from you! You do not need to worry about masturbation changing your love making ...
Girls2/19/2013
  Q: I'm 18, openly lesbian, and a college freshman. My problem is I'm terrible at being able to tell ...
  A: I can completely understand your frustration. It really has gotten more difficult to identify ...
Getting over her2/18/2013
  Q: I need help. I'm not doing any better than the first time I contacted you, which wasn't long ago I ...
  A: Nico, Nico, When you start seeing this therapist (which I think is a good idea)- tell them from ...
Separation2/16/2013
  Q: Blue, Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. Things got pretty messy here for a few days and ...
  A: YOU never caused me any worry, but your situation did. No apology necessary at all. I am happy to ...
Concerned parents2/13/2013
  Q: Hello. I am 38. My question is concerning 16 year old daughter. Around October of 2012, my daughter ...
  A: Melissa, I applaud you for being supportive of your daughter. I know that as supportive as you are ...
Things got bad...2/9/2013
  Q: Hi. How are you? I hope you remember me. Seperating from my husband went well for about two days ...
  A: Emily, I am so sorry that things took a turn for the worse with your husband. I suspected that they ...
Sex!!!!! Sex!!! Sex!!!2/6/2013
  Q: Blue I don't know what to do anymore. I think evil has just simply gotten a hold on me with sex. ...
  A: J., I remember very well your situation and I am not the least bit sick of you! You are welcome to ...
It's over2/5/2013
  Q: Blue, Well it didn't take her long to make a decision. She cares sex more than she cares about me. ...
  A: Oh, honey! I am so so sorry! I am going to write you a much longer response, dear, but I wanted you ...
lesbian porn/stories2/4/2013
  Q: Do u have any suggestions of finding female friendly lesbian porn I can watch with my wife? I also ...
  A: There really is not much lesbian porn that is geared towards women. Try Sapphic Erotica. It's pretty ...
Afraid I'm going to loose her2/4/2013
  Q: Hello. I'm 23. I have been with my partner for five years. We live together, and she is truly the ...
  A: Honey, I am so sorry. This is a terrible thing to hear. I wish I had great news for you and a ...
How to keep the "fireworks" in a long term relationship2/3/2013
  Q: First off I have to thank you. Since my first question to you my relationship with my girlfriend has ...
  A: Great to hear from you again! I am so glad to hear that you are so happy! Do NOT let your friend ...
It's complicated1/31/2013
  Q: I've come to a cross road in life. Having to choose between my own happiness or pleasing my parents ...
  A: Well, Emily. This is not going to be easy, and it shouldn't happen quick, but it will be worth it. ...
Supporting my girlfriend1/13/2013
  Q: Hi. I'm 17. Ok, so you have seriously helped my girlfriend a lot. So now I'm hoping you can help me. ...
  A: Nathalie, I am here and I am going to give you a much longer answer in a little while, but I wanted ...
female friendly porn1/11/2013
  Q: im 20 and recently married. ( we are both former virgins) she has never watched porn, and I only ...
  A: The world doesn't create much female friendly porn. There have been some really sexy movies like ...
Strap-on Sex11/30/2012
  Q: I have written to you before - don't know if you remember. Nevertheless, I hope you are well. I'm ...
  A: Of course I remember you! I hope that you and your girlfriend are making progress as far as your ...
I really need help11/10/2012
  Q: Ok, so this is a bit awkward for me to discuss, but I've tried everything and I'm not getting any ...
  A: Jessica, Thank you for writing to me. Let's see what we can do about this. I need to ask a few ...
unsupportive mum10/21/2012
  Q: Blue, I know its been less than a month, but I can honestly say I have tried with my mom. I took ...
  A: I understand that you want to leave. Maybe it is not such a bad idea for you to go stay with your ...
unsupportive mom10/3/2012
  Q: I'm 17. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. We are very close and I love her ...
  A: It sounds to me like your mother is trying to make you feel as guilty and ashamed as she can and is ...
Conscious Mind9/10/2012
  Q: it's me again. I'm sorry to bug you again. You're not a psychologist, but I have a question and I ...
  A: Janita, Thank you for writing. You are always welcome. And thank you for liking my website! I ...
Concerned About Our Sex Life9/3/2012
  Q: I have read some of the other Q and A 's and WOW, looks like you know what you're talking about ...
  A: Hello! Please do not feel uncomfortable talking about these things. I'm going to do everything that ...
I can barely feel any pleasure7/21/2012
  Q: so English is not my native language. I've been involved in more or less sexual activities for the ...
  A: Sofiya, Hello and thank you for your question! There are many things that can cause you to be less ...
desperate and frustrated5/22/2012
  Q: I am a 29 yr old female, been with my partner for almost 2 yrs. We r madly in love and can't keep ...
  A: Kelly, Unfortunately anti-depressants, ESPECIALLY Lexapro, usually do decrease your sex drive and ...
sucking on breasts5/14/2012
  Q: My partner and I have been together for the past three years. Recently she has brought up sucking on ...
  A: Aria- You are correct, it is possible to cause lactation by sucking on the nipples, pregnant or ...
Is it time to stop?4/10/2012
  Q: Please help me :( My girlfriend and I have been doing foreplay and oral sex the past few months and ...
  A: Breast stimulation can cause you to lactate even if you are not pregnant. Women who adopt babies ...
How to get over my ex4/9/2012
  Q: I am a 30 year old femme I was in an eight year relationship with a stud. Of course like many ...
  A: I am so sorry. You have my sympathy. The only way to get over her is to stay away from her. Do not ...
publishing1/27/2012
  Q: Blue, I am a lesbian love story writer, although I can put together a lesbian erotic story with ...
  A: Chloedrew, Congratulations! The very fact that you wrote your book is a copyright in itself. When ...
i have no clue what to do..totally lost1/24/2012
  Q: ) um..I'm almost 17...well I've never gone on like a site and asked this type of question ...
  A: Cheyenne, Thank you for writing! I think I can help you with this! Since your girl is spending the ...
I can't feel pleasure1/15/2012
  Q: Im 17, and I'm usually highly sensitive. I get turned on easily, like by holding in my pee; however, ...
  A: First let me tell you that while you probably(very doubtful)have not damaged your ability to have an ...
I love her1/4/2012
  Q: my question is simple > how can i bring more pleasure to my beautiful wife? i have been waiting for ...
  A: The best way to understand how to make love to a woman is to spend some time getting to know your ...
Afraid I am hurting my girlfriend12/21/2011
  Q: My girlfriend and I have recently become sexual active, and since she is my fist sexual partner who ...
  A: It sounds like your girlfriend has a condition called "friable cervix". There is not a whole lot ...
not sure if im lesbian11/3/2011
  Q: I really need help to figure things out...it started when I was in grade 8 when my friend Jessica ...
  A: Do not feel alone in your worries. Everyone who is not sure about their sexuality goes through a ...
family issues with comng out9/20/2011
  Q: Recently at my sisters 21st I was asked a few times if I was in a relationship, now I am happy being ...
  A: Kate, It is good to hear from you. I'm sorry your feelings were hurt. Try to understand your ...
Lesbian Relationship9/7/2011
  Q: I sent you a few questions previously, and now I have some new ones. My previous questions were ...
  A: Stacey, It is terrifying to come out most of the time. Are you feeling afraid? Also- sometimes the ...
Missing You - Question9/3/2011
  Q: I had sent a question to you earlier and didn't get a reply. I was wondering if you ever got it. If ...
  A: I missed about 6 questions at the beginning of August. Yours must have been one of them. It was an ...
Torn between man and woman.7/16/2011
  Q: I am eighteen years old and bisexual. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and I love him ...
  A: I could use a little more information. Read what I have to say, and if I have not helped you- please ...
Conflicted7/3/2011
  Q: I'm 20, bidexual female, and in a relationship with a male. A few weeks ago, although I love my bf, ...
  A: Megan, It sounds like you are having a pretty tough time. I sympathize with you. First- do not ...
Lesbian sex6/24/2011
  Q: I have recently come out as a lesbian at 27 after 11 yrs of denial. Now I have never had an orgasm ...
  A: Kate, I hope that you are having an easy time being out and proud. It can be quite an adjustment. ...
i want to make love6/8/2011
  Q: I am a lesbian female and lately me and my partner has been having great sex but after talking to ...
  A: There are a million ways to make love. Some of them do not even involve sex. I have decided to ...
making love6/8/2011
  Q: Again, I know this is not a joke & I will kindly rerate you. I didn't know the ratings really ...
  A: The best way to understand how to make love to a woman is to spend some time getting to know your ...
Making Love6/6/2011
  Q: I am a lesbian female and lately me and my partner has been having great sex but after talking to ...
  A: To all who read the question above- this is a perfect example of not giving enough information. As ...
FIRST TIME HAPPENED6/5/2011
  Q: this is C again. I have to tell you that we finally did it! R and I went to her family's beach ...
  A: I am so happy for you! Everything sounds wonderful! How do you keep it alive? That is a question as ...
Not good at oral sex...5/9/2011
  Q: I am 16 years old & have only been with a few girl's. but I have been with this one girl that I am ...
  A: Nikki- Many women are not 100% comfortable receiving oral sex, so you shouldn't take it too ...
Another Great Date - Thanks, Blue!5/8/2011
  Q: I could hardly wait to tell you that M and I have had three dates and each one has been better than ...
  A: I am so happy that things are going so well! She doesn't need to know what is in your suitcase, nor ...
Successful Date - What'll I Do Now?5/3/2011
  Q: Blue, thank you again for helping me out. I asked M to come over for the "movie night" you ...
  A: C- Congratulations! It sounds like things are going great! That you saw each other again after ...
Need Some Advice 24/23/2011
  Q: I think I typed in my email wrong, so I didn't get the notice right away. I'm glad I checked on ...
  A: Catherine- It is very likely that your friend was simply being respectful to your relationship with ...
Need Some Advice4/20/2011
  Q: I am 24 years old and have been friends with one of my co-workers for more than four years. We are ...
  A: Before I answer- I need to ask you aYou stated that you and your friend had fooled around a little - ...
How to tell if someone is attracted to you9/8/2010
  Q: ......I just came across your site. I have a friend who I have known for 7 years now. For the past ...
  A: Phoenix, The first thing that I must say is, please do not forget that you are both married. You do ...
Female Form is a turn on8/20/2010
  Q: I like light porn, just stripping where I can just look at the human body in its perfection. I see a ...
  A: Jasmine, Porn confuses people. Porn is designed to sexually excite you with no regard to subject ...
straight but lesbian porn7/22/2010
  Q: I am a straight female (28), but I enjoy lesbian porn. I've been in long term committed straight ...
  A: I am sorry I took so long getting back to you. I run two very busy websites, as well teaching and ...
Inexperienced6/8/2010
  Q: I'm a 19 year old lesbian and I've been with my partner for four years now. We're very happy ...
  A: I have written quite a few articles about sex and they are available on my website, ...
Riding her face5/13/2010
  Q: Ok so I have a dilemma. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months but I have known her for years. I ...
  A: I will certainly do the best that I can to help you. There are two ways you can approach this. #1- ...
going down on my girl.5/8/2010
  Q: How do I bring this up to her gently but also hinting that I really want to please her too?
  A: Jasmine~ Some women find it difficult to receive oral sex for many reasons. Do not take it ...
Writing Poetry4/23/2010
  Q: I have completed a book of poetry and am in the process of getting my work copyright protected. I ...
  A: Kimberly, If you are planning to draw the interest of a big publishing house, you need to know who ...
Sexual problem4/10/2010
  Q: I am 20yr female married 3months back aftr intercourse with my partner i am having severe pain in my ...
  A: Preethi , You need to go to a doctor. If you have problems with money, there should be help ...
Is it a good idea to publish a lesbian romance at the age of 16?4/9/2010
  Q: Is it a good idea to publish a lesbian romance at the age of 16? I have written a very, very good ...
  A: I don't know that there are any laws against it. And if you are comfortable with it- why not? You ...
I have fallen for a lesbian and im straight women4/8/2010
  Q: Do u think im a lesbian if when im with this women physically I enjoy it like I have never enjoyed ...
  A: Ashley, Please remember that sexual satisfaction does not equal love. If you are excited because ...
orgasms2/20/2010
  Q: I'm in my mid twenties and have recently entered into my first lesbian relationship. I've always ...
  A: Don't feel bad about yourself for not reaching orgasm quickly. Most women do not climax quickly. I ...
Can I go on like this?2/9/2010
  Q: It's J again I sent you a couple of questions before Christmas - thank you for your replies. I am ...
  A: J~ Please do not worry that I am going to in some way judge you. That just will not happen. I can ...
lesbian porn1/31/2010
  Q: First off, I have an aversion towards sex which is probably because I was sexually abused by a guy ...
  A: I am sorry that you have suffered through traumatic events. These events are always difficult to get ...
Sexless1/11/2010
  Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for about two years now. We're both 21. She is my first ...
  A: Addy, I am very sorry that you and your girlfriend are having difficulties. I am not sure if you ...
lesbian body licking1/8/2010
  Q: Does licking the navel stimulate pleasure?
  A: Alison, Unfortunately, many of us put into practice some of the things we have seen in adult movies ...
High Sex Drive1/2/2010
  Q: This is going to be a long one but I really need help sorting this out. My partner and I have been ...
  A: It sounds to me like in order for you to fix your sex life- you are going to need to make sex a ...
out of reach!1/2/2010
  Q: Aright. I'm 19 almost 20 and I'm a very pregnant lesbian. This status comes with a lot of stupid ...
  A: Congratulations on your approaching motherhood. I, too was once a pregnant lesbian. As far as ...
Scary urges12/29/2009
  Q: I feel very awkward asking this question, but here goes. To start off, I'm only 18, but my question ...
  A: First let me apologize for taking so long to answer. I found myself in a very remote area with no ...
frustration12/15/2009
  Q: I have a far higher libido then her so feel the need to sort myself out occasionally. Problem is I ...
  A: j, Many couples face the issue of unequal sex drives. There are many good solutions to that! I am ...
does she like me back?11/21/2009
  Q: Blue, I have been friends with this girl for about a year now. we stopped talking for a while but ...
  A: Liz, Just keep enjoying her friendship and give it a little time. She wouldn't invite you to do ...
Vibrator & Water Solvent Lube11/17/2009
  Q: Blue, I have never owned a vibrator or used any type of lube. What is a good,(not to expensive) ...
  A: Every woman that I have ever talked to that likes toys LOVES THE RABBIT! The best features for the ...
Lesbian Licking11/3/2009
  Q: Okay so I have lesbian sex with the usual concepts and the new concepts I gained. I feel like ...
  A: Vanessa Brooke, Making love is about stimulating your partner. ONE of the ways to stimulate ...
Need some ideas11/1/2009
  Q: I have been having lesbian sex constantly which is a good thing, and have been doing the same things ...
  A: Vanessa, On my website, mysecretobsession.com , I have a lot of articles and stories that go into ...
Is this right?10/28/2009
  Q: Well I was having lesbian sex with 2 of my friends and my one my friends now likes to rub her clit ...
  A: VB, It OK to do as long as no one is hurt emotionally or physically and all is consentual. You ...
lesbian anal9/5/2009
  Q: I am a lesbian girl , My girl friend & I intend to try anal sex but, we are very afraid of stds or ...
  A: Caroline & Natallia, Thank you for your questions! If done correctly anal sex can be mind blowing. ...
Problem in bed9/3/2009
  Q: I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 20. We have been together for a year and a half and the fire is still ...
  A: Clitoral stimulation in combination with anal stimulation or penetration and nipple stimulation may ...
sexuality8/25/2009
  Q: how do i know whether i'm straight or gay? is there a test? i'm a girl. have never dated girls but ...
  A: Marcia, Wouldn't that be great if it were that simple? But, nope we aren't that lucky to have a ...
She Kissed Me!...Help!8/18/2009
  Q: Okay, I'm sorry to bother you again, but really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out ...
  A: Nathary- It sounds pretty sexy. You are young and still adventurous. In my opinion there is ...
Pleasuring my girlfriend8/16/2009
  Q: I have read through a number of the posts here and have found them to be very helpful, but I wanted ...
  A: I am always happy to answer questions for people who are seeking to be better lovers. I am going to ...
Im a lesbian and i wanna know how to please my girl friend8/15/2009
  Q: Ima lesbian female and im 18 and i wanna know how to please my girl friend for the first time
  A: Kiana, Congratulations to you on your research for taking the 'big step' with your girlfriend! I ...
I don't understand it!8/14/2009
  Q: I'm a 20 year old girl, I'm from a middle-class family, and I don't think I'm going to be a lesbian. ...
  A: Nathary, There is nothing wrong with you. What you are going through happens to MANY young people. ...
Allergic Reaction7/29/2009
  Q: first thanks for all the great information you share here and at your website. You have really made ...
  A: I am so sorry about your unpleasant experience. I have done more research and I have learned that ...
Confused7/27/2009
  Q: Every now and then I think that I might be lesbian. I like to watch henti (anime porn) but the ...
  A: I hope that you are well today and thank you for writing to me. Normally you are still trying to ...
My clitoris7/12/2009
  Q: I am a 28 year-old lesbian. My partner, when aroused, has a huge clit. I adore it. I want one like ...
  A: Linda, There are ways to alter the clit. For enlargement- Use of a clitoral pump (temporarily ...
Clitoral Surgery7/11/2009
  Q: I am a 30 year-old lesbian who desires increased sexual pleasure when my woman licks my clit. She ...
  A: Linda, That is a very personal decision. There are many women that choose to have surgery. Here is ...
Condom Mystery6/13/2009
  Q: I've never had this problem before but lately have been having "reactions" to using the same condoms ...
  A: This is a very important issue that I really want other women to know about. Safe sex is very ...
Lack of Experience6/10/2009
  Q: I feel a bit intimidated about being intimate with my girlfriend. I'm not very experienced and have ...
  A: I do not know how old you and your g/f are, or how long you have been together- but things take ...
Dating5/30/2009
  Q: I really enjoy your writing, your website, and think you give great advice from your experiences, so ...
  A: Rose, From what I read, I think you should continue at the same rate of speed. She feels hesitant ...
Online/Real Life difference3/27/2009
  Q: My name is Penny and I'm 34 years old. I know the differences between online and real life are ...
  A: Penny, I do not think that the way women treat you in 'real life' has anything to do with your ...
Help!!3/21/2009
  Q: I have been wondering, for awhile now actually, (keep in mind that I have never used a strap-on) how ...
  A: Jamie, There are several styles of strap on 'harness' and some other solutions for your ...
turn ons3/11/2009
  Q: I need to turn my ex girlfriend on without her knowing that's what im trying to do..in other words i ...
  A: Arabia, Studs sometimes have more 'male like' tendencies. Men tend to process visually, therefore ...
Strap on/sex/pregancy2/28/2009
  Q: My wife and I are intersted in starting a family. I really dont wanna have sex with a man...I'm gay. ...
  A: Anastasia, There are some really effective ejaculating dildos on the market. They work somewhat ...
relationships & sex2/27/2009
  Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we both love eachother deeply but I've been so ...
  A: Jalyssa, It may take a really long time for you and your girlfriend to love each other without ...
relationship & sex2/27/2009
  Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 mnths and I mean I know that she loves me and I love her ...
  A: Jalyssa, Good sex takes practice, and unconditional love takes time and proof. Keep trying. If you ...
Fisting - Alternative Sex Practices2/23/2009
  Q: I have been trying to find out more information about alternative sex practices, in particular, ...
  A: Carmen, I hesitate to discuss this at all as it is very dangerous. My girlfriend engaged in ...
need advice & help2/20/2009
  Q: i'm not a lesbian but my girlmate whois a lesbian have turned me on as tat was my 1st experience. ...
  A: Apple, It sounds like you and your good friend have known each other for a long time and that you ...
Oral Sex2/7/2009
  Q: Blue, I understand about the dental dam, but will the sensation through sahran wrap still feel as ...
  A: Deborah, Dental dams will give you a whole new insight as to why men do not like condoms. But- it's ...
Safe Sex2/3/2009
  Q: I've noticed that no one has ever asked you about "safe sex" for lesbians....can they get aids? If ...
  A: Deborah, I am so happy that you asked this question! YES lesbians can and do get AIDS. Along with ...
Virginity.1/27/2009
  Q: I know that this is an odd question but what if you finger yourself and break your hymen and you ...
  A: CGLLR, Girl. You are completely off of the subject of my expertise. So if someone disagrees, ...
Am I straight or not?1/19/2009
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
  A: CGLLR, You are not a lesbian and you are not bisexual. You are 13. It is illegal for you to look at ...
Please, give me some advice1/7/2009
  Q: I'm 21,from Asia and have just been here,U.S., for one year so life has been changed so much to me ...
  A: Tram- I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. But in this case you are ...
Woman turn me on12/2/2008
  Q: I have had sexual feelings towards women since a young age (when I was young I remember doing little ...
  A: Jane, At this point, it could very well be a fantasy. Even if you have sex with a woman and enjoy ...
?11/16/2008
  Q: I started looking at lesbian porn in 8th grade and liked it. I took a break from it for a while. ...
  A: Alison, I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Yes. We all need intimacy, and the fear of ...
Am I straight?11/15/2008
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
  A: Corrina, One of the best parts of being 13 is that you do not have to make this decision TODAY. As ...
What am I?11/4/2008
  Q: A lot of my personal mystery has been unraveling since 8th grade, but I am still completely ...
  A: Blondie, I wish the answers were that easy. When we are young and adventurous and have a healthy ...
Your analysis of us10/27/2008
  Q: I'm a guy whose whole adult life has been fascinated (or jealous) of lesbians. Partly that's because ...
  A: Ramon, Don't be jealous. The perception of lesbianism from a heterosexual's point of view does not ...
Surrogate, Intimacy and meeting the right woman!10/11/2008
  Q: Blue, Is there such a thing as a lesbien surrogate? Someone to teach you the fine art of making ...
  A: Persistence, The internet has a wealth of information about every imaginable subject. Here is a ...
Squirting8/20/2008
  Q: I'm a 17 year old male. So i'm obviously not a lesbian. But lesbians usually know how to please a ...
  A: I got this information from researching GOOGLE. Studies have shown evidence of female ejaculation ...
Crush8/16/2008
  Q: I am a 22 year old female and about a month and a half ago I began a new job. At my job there is a ...
  A: Nicole, Wow! It sounds like she definitely like you! How exciting! Enjoy this crush. Do not rush ...
safaris / trips for leasbian7/25/2008
  Q: I am a tour operator based in kenya and I would like to know where I find or make contact with ...
  A: Gichuchu, Here is a link to a website that does East African Safaris and serves the Lesbian and Gay ...
S/M6/2/2008
  Q: Hey Before I met my girlfriend, I was vanilla, except for some spanking... Which is not to hardcore! ...
  A: Keren, It's GREAT that you and your girlfriend are open to sexual exploration. Good on both of you! ...
Strapon sex5/3/2008
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Lesbian sex4/23/2008
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I'm in love with this notetaker10/14/2007
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I have been a lesbian all of my life, and realized that there was something different going on with me by the time I was 6 years old. I have faced the same issues and have made many of the same mistakes that other lesbians have. Part of my journey as a woman and a lesbian has included educating myself, and exploring my sexuality and my body. I have had a wealth of experiences and while marching down my path seeking a better understanding of myself and others, I have gathered information along the way from studying publications of the best sex experts of our time, like Susie Bright, Annie Sprinkle (who is a lesbian, now!), Xaviera Hollander (who is doing some great work on YouTube these days!), and many others. I have been fortunate to benefit from the wisdom, experience and research of these brilliant and brave women as well as my own. I have had an active and adventurous sex life and I am a healthy and happy woman. I am published and a widely known writer of lesbian erotica.

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MySecretObsession.com, AuthorsDen.com, AuthorZone.com, CafeBoudoir.com, many others. Author of 25 short stories, and 3 novellas which can be found at Amazon.com, and Lulu.com , as well as many other on line book sellers. You can also find me on Facebook and Twitter.

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Along with the privledge of having an oddly interesting and far from boring life which has afforded me a rather unique perspective, I have an AA from the Texas Academy of Art. I am a midwife and worked with a team of midwives at a birthing center where I performed well woman exams, managed prenatal care, and delivered babies as well as managing home births for 3 years, which gives me plenty of hands on experience with the female body. I have the equivalent of a MA in life experiences and personal independent study as measured by UH life credit testing, and I constantly read college psychology textbooks, Psychology/Psychiatry News in the AMAJ, Psychology Today, and other educational journals. I write professionally and am respected and loved in the genre of lesbian erotica. I am a lesbian mother of a now adult, well-adjusted, degreed, happily married for 5 years, heterosexual daughter. I'm 40.

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Every time someone thanks me for helping them is an award and an honor for me. Also, I was just thanked by the author, 'the mysterious Jade', in the acknowledgements of her new, page turning lesbian erotic thriller, "Secretly Bound", for being her mentor and for inspiration, advice and friendship. I have business associations with some of the best artists and writers of our time.

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