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| Vibrator & Water Solvent Lube | 11/17/2009 |
Q: Blue, I have never owned a vibrator or used any type of lube. What is a good,(not to expensive) ...
A: Every woman that I have ever talked to that likes toys LOVES THE RABBIT! The best features for the ...
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| Lesbian Licking | 11/3/2009 |
Q: Okay so I have lesbian sex with the usual concepts and the new concepts I gained. I feel like ...
A: Vanessa Brooke, Making love is about stimulating your partner. ONE of the ways to stimulate ...
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| Need some ideas | 11/1/2009 |
Q: I have been having lesbian sex constantly which is a good thing, and have been doing the same things ...
A: Vanessa, On my website, mysecretobsession.com , I have a lot of articles and stories that go into ...
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| Is this right? | 10/28/2009 |
Q: Well I was having lesbian sex with 2 of my friends and my one my friends now likes to rub her clit ...
A: VB, It OK to do as long as no one is hurt emotionally or physically and all is consentual. You ...
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| lesbian anal | 9/5/2009 |
Q: I am a lesbian girl , My girl friend & I intend to try anal sex but, we are very afraid of stds or ...
A: Caroline & Natallia, Thank you for your questions! If done correctly anal sex can be mind blowing. ...
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| Problem in bed | 9/3/2009 |
Q: I'm 18, and my girlfriend is 20. We have been together for a year and a half and the fire is still ...
A: Clitoral stimulation in combination with anal stimulation or penetration and nipple stimulation may ...
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| sexuality | 8/25/2009 |
Q: how do i know whether i'm straight or gay? is there a test? i'm a girl. have never dated girls but ...
A: Marcia, Wouldn't that be great if it were that simple? But, nope we aren't that lucky to have a ...
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| Disapproval... | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Okay, I'm sorry to bother you again, but really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out ...
A: Nathary, I am happy to be here to help you to sort through things. By telling you to "go for it", ...
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| She Kissed Me!...Help! | 8/18/2009 |
Q: Okay, I'm sorry to bother you again, but really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out ...
A: Nathary- It sounds pretty sexy. You are young and still adventurous. In my opinion there is ...
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| Pleasuring my girlfriend | 8/16/2009 |
Q: I have read through a number of the posts here and have found them to be very helpful, but I wanted ...
A: I am always happy to answer questions for people who are seeking to be better lovers. I am going to ...
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| Im a lesbian and i wanna know how to please my girl friend | 8/15/2009 |
Q: Ima lesbian female and im 18 and i wanna know how to please my girl friend for the first time
A: Kiana, Congratulations to you on your research for taking the 'big step' with your girlfriend! I ...
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| I don't understand it! | 8/14/2009 |
Q: I'm a 20 year old girl, I'm from a middle-class family, and I don't think I'm going to be a lesbian. ...
A: Nathary, There is nothing wrong with you. What you are going through happens to MANY young people. ...
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| Allergic Reaction | 7/29/2009 |
Q: first thanks for all the great information you share here and at your website. You have really made ...
A: I am so sorry about your unpleasant experience. I have done more research and I have learned that ...
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| Confused | 7/27/2009 |
Q: Every now and then I think that I might be lesbian. I like to watch henti (anime porn) but the ...
A: I hope that you are well today and thank you for writing to me. Normally you are still trying to ...
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| My clitoris | 7/12/2009 |
Q: I am a 28 year-old lesbian. My partner, when aroused, has a huge clit. I adore it. I want one like ...
A: Linda, There are ways to alter the clit. For enlargement- Use of a clitoral pump (temporarily ...
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| Clitoral Surgery | 7/11/2009 |
Q: I am a 30 year-old lesbian who desires increased sexual pleasure when my woman licks my clit. She ...
A: Linda, That is a very personal decision. There are many women that choose to have surgery. Here is ...
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| Condom Mystery | 6/13/2009 |
Q: I've never had this problem before but lately have been having "reactions" to using the same condoms ...
A: This is a very important issue that I really want other women to know about. Safe sex is very ...
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| Lack of Experience | 6/10/2009 |
Q: I feel a bit intimidated about being intimate with my girlfriend. I'm not very experienced and have ...
A: I do not know how old you and your g/f are, or how long you have been together- but things take ...
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| Dating | 5/30/2009 |
Q: I really enjoy your writing, your website, and think you give great advice from your experiences, so ...
A: Rose, From what I read, I think you should continue at the same rate of speed. She feels hesitant ...
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| Online/Real Life difference | 3/27/2009 |
Q: My name is Penny and I'm 34 years old. I know the differences between online and real life are ...
A: Penny, I do not think that the way women treat you in 'real life' has anything to do with your ...
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| Help!! | 3/21/2009 |
Q: I have been wondering, for awhile now actually, (keep in mind that I have never used a strap-on) how ...
A: Jamie, There are several styles of strap on 'harness' and some other solutions for your ...
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| turn ons | 3/11/2009 |
Q: I need to turn my ex girlfriend on without her knowing that's what im trying to do..in other words i ...
A: Arabia, Studs sometimes have more 'male like' tendencies. Men tend to process visually, therefore ...
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| Strap on/sex/pregancy | 2/28/2009 |
Q: My wife and I are intersted in starting a family. I really dont wanna have sex with a man...I'm gay. ...
A: Anastasia, There are some really effective ejaculating dildos on the market. They work somewhat ...
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| relationships & sex | 2/27/2009 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and we both love eachother deeply but I've been so ...
A: Jalyssa, It may take a really long time for you and your girlfriend to love each other without ...
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| relationship & sex | 2/27/2009 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for about 8 mnths and I mean I know that she loves me and I love her ...
A: Jalyssa, Good sex takes practice, and unconditional love takes time and proof. Keep trying. If you ...
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| Fisting - Alternative Sex Practices | 2/24/2009 |
Q: I have been trying to find out more information about alternative sex practices, in particular, ...
A: Carmen, Thank you for rating me so positively and for your kind words! Please never hesitate to ...
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| Fisting - Alternative Sex Practices | 2/23/2009 |
Q: I have been trying to find out more information about alternative sex practices, in particular, ...
A: Carmen, I hesitate to discuss this at all as it is very dangerous. My girlfriend engaged in ...
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| need advice & help | 2/20/2009 |
Q: i'm not a lesbian but my girlmate whois a lesbian have turned me on as tat was my 1st experience. ...
A: Apple, It sounds like you and your good friend have known each other for a long time and that you ...
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| Oral Sex | 2/7/2009 |
Q: Blue, I understand about the dental dam, but will the sensation through sahran wrap still feel as ...
A: Deborah, Dental dams will give you a whole new insight as to why men do not like condoms. But- it's ...
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| Safe Sex | 2/3/2009 |
Q: I've noticed that no one has ever asked you about "safe sex" for lesbians....can they get aids? If ...
A: Deborah, I am so happy that you asked this question! YES lesbians can and do get AIDS. Along with ...
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| Virginity. | 1/27/2009 |
Q: I know that this is an odd question but what if you finger yourself and break your hymen and you ...
A: CGLLR, Girl. You are completely off of the subject of my expertise. So if someone disagrees, ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 1/24/2009 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
A: CGLLR, I am not an expert on religion. However- I do know that if you are a Christian that you can ...
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| Am I straight or not? | 1/19/2009 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I don't know if I am attracted to girls.I couldn't really imagine being in a ...
A: CGLLR, You are not a lesbian and you are not bisexual. You are 13. It is illegal for you to look at ...
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| Please, give me some advice | 1/7/2009 |
Q: I'm 21,from Asia and have just been here,U.S., for one year so life has been changed so much to me ...
A: Tram- I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult time. But in this case you are ...
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| Woman turn me on | 12/2/2008 |
Q: I have had sexual feelings towards women since a young age (when I was young I remember doing little ...
A: Jane, At this point, it could very well be a fantasy. Even if you have sex with a woman and enjoy ...
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| Am I straight? | 11/18/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
A: Being attracted to girls at your age does not make you a homosexual. Neither does experimenting. It ...
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| Am I straight? | 11/17/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
A: Corrina, It absolutely DOES NOT make you a homosexual just because at this point in your life you ...
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| ? | 11/16/2008 |
Q: I started looking at lesbian porn in 8th grade and liked it. I took a break from it for a while. ...
A: Alison, I am so sorry that this has happened to you. Yes. We all need intimacy, and the fear of ...
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| Am I straight? | 11/15/2008 |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm overeffactuated with breasts.I searched on the internet about ...
A: Corrina, One of the best parts of being 13 is that you do not have to make this decision TODAY. As ...
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| What am I? | 11/4/2008 |
Q: A lot of my personal mystery has been unraveling since 8th grade, but I am still completely ...
A: Blondie, I wish the answers were that easy. When we are young and adventurous and have a healthy ...
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| Your analysis of us | 10/27/2008 |
Q: I'm a guy whose whole adult life has been fascinated (or jealous) of lesbians. Partly that's because ...
A: Ramon, Don't be jealous. The perception of lesbianism from a heterosexual's point of view does not ...
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| Surrogate, Intimacy and meeting the right woman! | 10/11/2008 |
Q: Blue, Is there such a thing as a lesbien surrogate? Someone to teach you the fine art of making ...
A: Persistence, The internet has a wealth of information about every imaginable subject. Here is a ...
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| Squirting | 8/23/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17 year old male. So i'm obviously not a lesbian. But lesbians usually know how to please a ...
A: James, I read a little more about it after I answered this. I read an article by a doctor that says ...
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| Squirting | 8/20/2008 |
Q: I'm a 17 year old male. So i'm obviously not a lesbian. But lesbians usually know how to please a ...
A: I got this information from researching GOOGLE. Studies have shown evidence of female ejaculation ...
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| Crush | 8/16/2008 |
Q: I am a 22 year old female and about a month and a half ago I began a new job. At my job there is a ...
A: Nicole, Wow! It sounds like she definitely like you! How exciting! Enjoy this crush. Do not rush ...
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| safaris / trips for leasbian | 7/25/2008 |
Q: I am a tour operator based in kenya and I would like to know where I find or make contact with ...
A: Gichuchu, Here is a link to a website that does East African Safaris and serves the Lesbian and Gay ...
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| S/M | 6/2/2008 |
Q: Hey Before I met my girlfriend, I was vanilla, except for some spanking... Which is not to hardcore! ...
A: Keren, It's GREAT that you and your girlfriend are open to sexual exploration. Good on both of you! ...
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| Strapon sex | 5/3/2008 |
Q: I have many gay and lesbian and Bi friends.I am a straight male but I love being penetrated by a ...
A: I do not know of any websites or dating services that are organized specifically to afford ...
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| Follow up to your answer. | 5/1/2008 |
Q: I have thought about everything and why i do what I do and why she does what she does. The reason I ...
A: Brooke, You are in a difficult situation. I understand why you stay. I hope you can turn things ...
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| Follow up to your answer. | 4/29/2008 |
Q: I have thought about everything and why i do what I do and why she does what she does. The reason I ...
A: Brooke, Everyone has to make her own decisions. It depends on what you truly want in life. You are ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/28/2008 |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, Your situation sounds very frustrating. Everyone responds differently to trust issues and ...
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| RE: I am confused | 4/26/2008 |
Q: I am new to your site, but I have heard that you offer great advice. My problem is I am questioning ...
A: Tiffany, I answered this question for another person, and I am going to tell you the same thing ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/25/2008 |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, I'm sorry, but, I need to ask you a few more questions. 1. Do you feel angry or hurt when ...
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| Lesbian sex | 4/23/2008 |
Q: I'm a lesbian and I have had my fair share of pleasing a woman. My question is, is there more to ...
A: Brooke, I have some questions for you: 1. What is the age difference between you and your ...
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| Alternative Lifestyle | 3/21/2008 |
Q: First, I hope you feel some what better and to let you know you did all you could for her; Nancy, I ...
A: Deb, I really appreciate your concern. I am going to be OK. Thank god for my girlfriend. She is so ...
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| orgasims with a new partener | 1/22/2008 |
Q: i've slept with 40 women from 18 till 20 and one night stand girls where generally all easy to get ...
A: Melissa- Please follow this link to "Blue Sleighty's Guide to Oral Sex"- ...
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| Positions to making love | 1/9/2008 |
Q: I recently started dating a woman, but I am not as experienced as she. Where can I learn about ...
A: B, I am providing for you a link that will help you with your question. Here it is: ...
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| i just dont know | 12/14/2007 |
Q: ok to start of i am 21 and i have been dating my girl for about 2 years and we were really happy but ...
A: Ashley, I need to know what you and your girlfriend fight about. As far as coming out- sometimes ...
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| Over/Under Doing | 11/24/2007 |
Q: I'm in my late teens, and in techniquality, a virgin. My best friend recently told me she was ...
A: Crystelle, First- a reality check. Then the rest. This would be a much easier question to answer ...
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| how do you know? | 11/1/2007 |
Q: I recently am coming to terms with my sexuality. My past is married to a man, then falling in love ...
A: Aussie. I am sorry about your relationship not working out. In answer to yourIt has become more ...
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| I'm in love with this notetaker | 10/19/2007 |
Q: (sigh) first of all, I'm hard of hearing student in college and I have this young notetaker who's in ...
A: Manisha, You put me in a bad position when you say that you want to hurt yourself. If you DID hurt ...
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| I'm in love with this notetaker | 10/14/2007 |
Q: (sigh) first of all, I'm hard of hearing student in college and I have this young notetaker who's in ...
A: Manisha, You are not going to like this answer. I see you are hashing out the negatives. ...
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| where can i find this sex toy!? | 10/13/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been searching for a while to find a sex toy that meets these ...
A: Ally, I know of a sex toy that meets your criteria, plus, it VIBRATES (do not have to turn on the ...
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| I am in love with a woman | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I am in love with another woman. I had a lesbian experience when I was in my teens and at that ...
A: Leah, I need some more information before I can answer this question. In the last year that you ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: When I re-read this- I thought I sounded like a MySpace pusher. I am not affiliated with MySpace, ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/16/2007 |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: Vicki, The situation that you are describing here sounds complicated. The woman that you were ...
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| contemplating giving in... | 9/15/2007 |
Q: I have always been excited by women who catch my eye...I have never allowed myself to pursue another ...
A: Vicki, Even when you KNOW FOR SURE that you are gay, it is scary to admit it to yourself. You might ...
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| Fem - cum | 8/27/2007 |
Q: What is fem - cum?
A: Chris, When a woman is aroused, she produces natural lubrication. If a woman is involved in sexual ...
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| lesbian erotic | 8/18/2007 |
Q: can any one help me to find on the net (or better by sending me) porn photos of lesbian girls ...
A: Jan, If you are not of legal age, you can't view pictures of that nature on the internet. It is ...
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| lesbian | 8/18/2007 |
Q: how can i impress another girl into lesbian practice ANSWER: Jan, The only thing that you can do ...
A: Jan, Try to notice something that she obviously likes or dislikes. French fries. Chocolate. The ...
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| lesbian | 8/16/2007 |
Q: how can i impress another girl into lesbian practice
A: Jan, The only thing that you can do is let her know that you find her attractive and are interested ...
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| "my woman a freak but how do i make here only want my wood" | 7/27/2007 |
Q: My name is coriontaye cortinez and i am writing today cause my girl loves to have sex since i'm not ...
A: The hardest part about being in love is learning to trust someone. And, it is up to the two people ...
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| Pleasing a woman | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I understand they say that some women get multiple orgasms and some don't is this true? If not, what ...
A: It is true that some women experience multiple orgasms. It has been my experience that of women who ...
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| What can I do to... | 7/17/2007 |
Q: Well me and my girlfriend just started to get really sexual and every time I finger her or ...
A: Shakkai- Women require a lot of clitoral stimulation, and a lot of foreplay usually, before ...
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