| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Flirting with a married woman | 7/22/2008 | Michelle |
Q: So it's safe for me to flirt because lam not married. Plus l didn't start the flirting. Then one ...
A: My gut feeling on this one (not clinical) is that she realized she crossed a line, could very easily ...
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| Is Age Really A Factor? | 7/21/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I've been out for about 4 years now but I dont have a ton of dating experience. For the past 3 ...
A: So much depends on life experience, not just chronological age. In general the younger the two of ...
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| hey | 7/21/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Where are you right now??? I just need you hear in my mind. Sorry I don' know if I mess up Mic ...
A: Kim, I'm right here...haven't moved, haven't left, and won't. Yes you can feel, yes, you can need. ...
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| In love with a straight woman | 7/20/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Tammy and I have been friends for 3 years. Over a year ago, she told me that she had feelings for me ...
A: I'm so sorry you are going through this...both of you. No, I don't get the feeling that Tammy is ...
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| Lesbian Relationships/Dating | 7/19/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I love this website I have asked questions here before. My new question is this, well I will start ...
A: Sherrie, I will start with this... You are so, so, so, so normal! Yes, everything you are going ...
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| Flirting with a married woman | 7/18/2008 | Michelle |
Q: So it's safe for me to flirt because lam not married. Plus l didn't start the flirting. Then one ...
A: I would say that you risk a lot by engaging in even flirtations with this woman. You say you have ...
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| Lesbian crush on married, straight supervisor | 7/17/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Michelle: I am sure you've heard it all before, just as I have as well. However, for the 1st time ...
A: I think your gut instincts are pretty right on...and she probably is the same way you are...she ...
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| Questioning my sexuality...and hers | 7/15/2008 | Michelle |
Q: So I just had my first year in college, freedom to make mistakes and find myself and all that. With ...
A: You are both in a tough spot because you are so afraid of the possibility that either of you might ...
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| Family or the love of my life? | 7/14/2008 | Michelle |
Q: mm..Where to begin? I've recently turned 19 and I found the woman of my dreams on-line. That's not ...
A: I don't think it necessarily has to be either your family or your girlfriend...not yet. I would ...
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| gay straight, and coming out to parents | 7/14/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have always thought of my self as Bi, The first time I had sex with a woman I had this feeling ...
A: That's a pretty tough one to answer, K. It can be so many things. It can be that you are not ...
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| overnight business trip planned | 7/10/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I recently sent in a question to Michelle and she was very helpful, however, she is on vacation. I ...
A: I don't have any background on your situation, my dear, so it's hard to offer informed advice. About ...
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| We are Expecting! | 7/8/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Okay, me and my girlfriend are expecting...I am pregnant and we want to make sure that if any thing ...
A: ! Congratulations to you both!! First, the best resource in the whole country that you can get ...
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| We are Expecting | 7/8/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Okay, Me and my Girlfriend are expecting. I am pregnant and we want to make sure that after or even ...
A: The law in such cases varies from state to state and there is no simple answer to your question, ...
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| sick of it all | 7/8/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am soooo ired of defending "the lifestyle". I am in the closet. Everyone i know hates ...
A: It's a tough one. People get pretty set in their ways. Here is the thing I always try to remember, ...
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| Married and Curious | 7/6/2008 | Michelle |
Q: married for 14 years.. I have a lesbian best friend, for the past few months we have gotten closer. ...
A: and I am hoping I can help...though I will say it may not quite be the answer you are looking for. ...
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| gay straight, and coming out to parents | 7/5/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have always thought of my self as Bi, The first time I had sex with a woman I had this feeling ...
A: ..thanks for writing to me. I like to remind people at this point that I am expressing my personal ...
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| My Contemplation and Reflection | 7/4/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have become a reticent and secrete virtual observer of your conversations and advice to other ...
A: Sogdiana, for your beautifully written letter and observations, and reflections. I'm not surprised ...
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| straight girl crush on un happy married woman | 7/3/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I've had lots of married straight girl crushes before. some turned into relationships some didn't! ...
A: .. It does sound like there is definitely something there. And it sounds like she has people who ...
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| Confused about my Sexuality. | 7/2/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have always thought of myself as Bi-sexual. I first knew I wasn’t completely straight when I ...
A: Here's the thing Kim. You don't have to decide if you are straight, gay, or bi right now. In fact, ...
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| still in love with my friend | 6/29/2008 | Michelle |
Q: It’s been a few months since my last question. You were very helpful by confirming some of my ...
A: It is good to hear from you again! It sounds like some of what I said is starting to make more ...
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| Workplace crush while in the closet | 6/28/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a 27 year old woman living in the midwest. I have known that I was a lesbian since I was 17, ...
A: It's a tough one, especially if you are interested in someone at work. Without her even meaning to ...
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| A second opinion | 6/25/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I had asked this question in the "gay/lesbian/bi teens" section of allexperts, but thought getting a ...
A: You're a smart girl for 15, Christine. Good on you for being so self-aware. I know it seems like ...
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| hi | 6/24/2008 | Michelle |
Q: hi i am shayanna i am 12 i am scared if i am a lesbian i like girls what should i do i i am crying ...
A: and no, please don't ever worry that you have wasted my time by asking questions or for help ...
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| A second opinion | 6/24/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I had asked this question in the "gay/lesbian/bi teens" section of allexperts, but thought getting a ...
A: Do you really need to put yourself in a box, Christine? Especially at 15 when the whole world is ...
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| broken | 6/23/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Here is my crazy situation/question. About a year ago I ended my marriage after telling my husband ...
A: No, Julie, you do not have a chance of getting her back. She has told you clearly where she's coming ...
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| What about age difference... | 6/23/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Well, i've always known I was lesbian since my early teens and I have embraced it since, I had never ...
A: I know that the six year difference seems like a lot to you right now, Vanessa, but it is not the ...
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| My ex girlfriend | 6/22/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: My situation is unique I can say. I met my ex 5 yrs ago and we dated on and off for while. We ...
A: She wants you to stay in her life because she feels safe with you. The moment she feels safe with ...
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| Struggling with sexuality | 6/22/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: ....I know you most probably wont be able to comment on this, however I would just like to talk with ...
A: If you're exploring who you are then what that process reveals to you must be taken seriously. What ...
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| I can't tell if she really likes me. | 6/22/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: So here is my situation I've gotten myself into once again. I'm a lesbian and I'm completely out. ...
A: Your situation is not that uncommon, C. I've seen many straight women flirt, tease and generally ...
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| Confused, am I bi am I gay? | 6/22/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I have known that I am not straight for sure since I was 14 years old, I am now 22. Last night for ...
A: I can relate to a lot of your experiences, and feelings...and I think a lot of people can. Our ...
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| Lesbianity and islam | 6/19/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I had a religious question which I needed to know the answer of, I know that you'd probably think ...
A: I can't answer religious questions, Anita, regardless what faith it is. If you're looking for some ...
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| Loving a married woman | 6/19/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a woman that is married. We fell in love prior to the marriage ...
A: My suggestion is to let go, my dear. Two years of waiting is way too long. If it hasn't happened by ...
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| my relationship | 6/19/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I'm in a lesbian relationship with a women who was strait until she met me. Now I'm having the best ...
A: There's a good reason for your fears, Michelle. If one burns their fingers on a hot stove repeatedly ...
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| Straight woman lesbian GF leaves her for another Lesbian | 6/17/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am straight woman been with a Lesbian for 5 years. Due to communication problems and ...
A: I hate to say it, but I think she has given you an answer. If you made it clear that you aren't ...
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| Please can I get the email | 6/17/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Okay, I understand you have different policies but will you atleast consider that you would only be ...
A: Let me explain, Jasmine. When I get a question on this site I am not given any information about the ...
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| Lesbian | 6/16/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I am now dating a woman after being married for 23 years to a man. Am I considered a lesbian if I'm ...
A: You are considered a lesbian when YOU decide you're a lesbian, Deborah. As an old friend of mine ...
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| wife? | 6/15/2008 | Michelle |
Q: were not legally married but last year we exchanged rings and vows and called it a marriage, we had ...
A: I am so sorry to hear that she moved out...it has to be really hard for you right now, and I am ...
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| Lost | 6/14/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Firstly can i please try and tell you a little bit about myself. I'm a 28 year old female working ...
A: There is only one distinct issue here, Syd. The thing with the co-worker is a non-issue, frankly, so ...
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| My girlfriend and her gay friends | 6/14/2008 | Michelle |
Q: My gf was a dancer in college. They toured a lot so partied in hotel rooms quite a bit. She has ...
A: Believe it or not, yes. I do think it is pretty normal for a gay guy and a girl who is a close ...
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| Could I be bi? | 6/13/2008 | Michelle |
Q: In the past I have watched lesbian porn and it turned me on, however in real life I have never had ...
A: The best way is to simply be okay with being bi, straight, gay, whatever you are...to reach a point ...
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