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| sex | 7/7/2009 | Vicky |
Q: okay so i need help me and my girlfriend Emily are going to have sex because we sat down and talked ...
A: The best thing i can do is send you to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com It is NOT a porn ...
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| My first same-sex relationship | 7/4/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 22 years old and have been heterosexual my whole life. I've dated a lot of guys, but it's been a ...
A: OK, I'll help you, but only on one condition -- that you try and seek on-going guidance from others ...
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| stay or go.. | 7/3/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: This is the 2nd year of our relationship. She is my best friend TRULY, I haven't had a close friend ...
A: Before examining whether you "stay or go" or who you want to be in a relationship with for the rest ...
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| Leaving Husband for Lesbian Lover | 6/25/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I recently left my husband and so did my lesbian lover. We just don't know how long to keep our ...
A: The most important thing as you have so wisely gathered, is telling the children. The question of ...
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| having a hard time getting over ex | 6/15/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: my ex and i have been broken up for over a year.she has a girlfriend,the same girl she says she ...
A: Life is a beautiful thing. Don't miss a single moment of it waiting or wondering if someone loves ...
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| just flirty or more? | 6/14/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: ok so my best friend is bi and i cant tell whether or not she is in to me or if shes just extremely ...
A: I get this type of question a lot. Signs to look for are: ~ Is she just as flirtatious with other ...
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| coaching or therapy | 6/11/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: My girlfriend and I will celebrate our second anniversary together in early July, but since last ...
A: It is just the most wonderful news, that you are seeking counseling! You have elected to embark on ...
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| spanking | 6/9/2009 | Vicky |
Q: My girlfriend says she gets turned on by being spanked. Is that normal?
A: Yes it is normal. Most people have certain things that turn them on, and spanking is definatley one ...
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| co-worker problem | 6/6/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I need advice. I just recently came out of a secret, 6 year sexual relationship with my best friend ...
A: Secret relationships are always problematic in many ways. Some people subscribe to the idea that if ...
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| confusion | 6/3/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: We had a soccer dinner the other night and we ended up kissing and talking about seeing how things ...
A: She may be reacting to your own uncertainty. No one wants to get seriously involved with someone who ...
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| My wife is probably gay | 5/31/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: My wife and I have been married for nearly 25 years, we have 4 wonderful children and I believe that ...
A: You sound like a wonderful, loving, caring man. Any woman would be lucky to have you for a partner. ...
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| She Knew All Along | 5/30/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I have been communicating with this female for about a year. I have bought her gifts and we spend a ...
A: Of course she knows you like her, it is staring her right in the face with every action you take. ...
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| She Knew All Along | 5/22/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I have been communicating with this female for about a year. I have bought her gifts and we spend a ...
A: Well, here’s the thing -- Because other people besides you and me read this column. And because some ...
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| Lesbian friend wants to keep me in the closet. | 5/21/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm getting out of a six year relationship including a brief marriage to a man and I am now in my ...
A: It sounds like you’ve had a lot going on and all within the recent past. Showing care and respect ...
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| confused | 5/19/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: We became friends and on a drunken night out we got together etc and continued from there...we have ...
A: No need to put undue pressure on yourself. When the time is right, you'll know. You'll also ...
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| My gf cheated!! | 5/18/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: My gf is in the Army, she has been deployed to Afghanistan for over 6 months now, we have been ...
A: Recovering from infidelity is painful and it takes time. What you cannot do is allow her ...
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| Is a woman at work interested in me? | 5/14/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 34 years old and out. I began working at a new job about 9 months ago. The first moment I laid ...
A: I’m sure it’s just a matter of time before the two of you are talking up a storm. Jokingly, a ...
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| Desperate for help. | 5/13/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 24 years old,I've been straight all my life,up until a year ago,when i met a woman(30 years ...
A: You tell me the problem is, "not about you labeling yourself." Labeling or not, it most certainly ...
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| Does my mother suspect I'm hiding something with my girlfriend? | 5/12/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm in a relationship right now, so far everything seems fine between us from what I see. Although ...
A: While you sit, wondering if your mother suspects; gather as much information as possible in the ...
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| coaching or therapy | 5/11/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: My girlfriend and I will celebrate our second anniversary together in early July, but since last ...
A: We can't help who we're drawn to or who we fall in love with, we can however, make a conscious ...
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| confused/stay or go? | 5/9/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I recently came out(about a year ago). I was totally in love with someone who was my friend and ...
A: My question to you is: Do you love the person you are with? If not, why stay? You have to deal with ...
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| My lesbian relationship | 5/8/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for two years now and this has been a difficult two years for our ...
A: Few people are capable of achieving relationship bliss by jumping into a new relationship, while ...
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| question to my initial question you answered to ... thank you btw | 5/3/2009 | Kay |
Q: Kay, recently I had posted a question regard my being gay and being in love with my roommate who is ...
A: This is not something that I can answer because there is not enough information here. Importantly, ...
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| Confused | 5/2/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I've read many of the questions and answers about the "am I a lesbian?" theme and I think I fall ...
A: Having read previous responses, you seem to have become aware that no two cases are alike. Also, ...
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| how do I tell my deeply religious kids that I'm gay? | 4/30/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I have been losing sleep over my predicament--I was hoping you could help. I am 38, was married for ...
A: The intersection between religion and homosexuality presents a dilemma that is becoming increasingly ...
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| in love and confused | 4/30/2009 | Kay |
Q: Kay, i met this awesome woman on NYE party 08 in London which was really great as I finally ...
A: Well at this point, all you can do is let it work itself out. Just hope that your working permit ...
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| to be or not to be | 4/29/2009 | Kay |
Q: My girlfriend and I just recently moved in with each other and it's as though things have gone down ...
A: It appearst that your gf has major TRUST issues and no matter how much you convince her, she will ...
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| in love and confused | 4/29/2009 | Kay |
Q: Kay, i met this awesome woman on NYE party 08 in London which was really great as I finally ...
A: Well it appears that you really like her but you have some barriers. The first one is that you two ...
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| Being in love with my straight friend who happens to be my roommate | 4/29/2009 | Kay |
Q: Iam nearly 39, and have been romatically involved with women since I was 14. I find men attractive ...
A: I am not sure that I follow you. What is it that you hope to accomplish and why do you thnk she has ...
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| i think my women is into a relationship with my friend girl | 4/28/2009 | Kay |
Q:
A: Im sorry its really hard to read this because of the grammatical errors. If your girlfriend has been ...
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| Out-of-date teacher crush | 4/27/2009 | Kay |
Q: I have a problem regarding a teacher crush. I've been out of high school for 4 years now (I'm 23), ...
A: Don't beat your self up about this. It appears that you know what needs to take place in order for ...
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| crush on a good friend | 4/26/2009 | Kay |
Q: I am a 20 year old female. I am writing to you today because I am in a bit of a fickle. The first ...
A: There is book/guide to this. Im sorry that my answers doesnt really help but you have to keep in ...
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| crush on a good friend | 4/26/2009 | Kay |
Q: I am a 20 year old female. I am writing to you today because I am in a bit of a fickle. The first ...
A: Well it appears that you just made out because you two were drunk. Its really hard to stamp ...
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| Online dating... Does the girl like me? | 4/22/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 21 years old and met a girl online she is also 21 and on our 1st date we really seemed to hit ...
A: The first question I want to address is: “How often should I call her without coming off as too ...
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| Lesbian in the military | 4/13/2009 | Kay |
Q: Kay, I would like some advice about how to find a girl when I am unable to put myself out there too ...
A: Congratulations on your decision to serve its military. While I don't always agree with its ways, I ...
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| troubles in paradise | 4/12/2009 | Kay |
Q: I'm a 19 year old female and I've known since i was in the 5th grade that I liked girls. I just ...
A: I cant tell you how to get over her being married. That is something that you are going to have to ...
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| needing an answer | 4/11/2009 | Kay |
Q: we recently been fighting alot, most of it is about the kids we both have 2 kids each from our ...
A: Thats hard because sleeping with men while being gay isn't in the play book. You are going to have ...
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| just confused...if its general feeling or special feeling that can turn to a deep realtionship.... | 4/11/2009 | Kay |
Q: its me again cjay who is secretly in love with Arabian girl.my only question what if someone tells ...
A: Well, its possible to have a friend that cares about, only as a friends. However your friend took it ...
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| no idea | 4/10/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: I have met a straight women for a year now, she has been divorce twice and right now she has a ...
A: This woman must really be something. She’s got her mom, sister, kid; tiptoeing around her to try and ...
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| HOCD | 4/9/2009 | Kay |
Q: I've had homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder for a year now. I have had my ups and downs. I ...
A: Being uncomfortable with oral can come from many different things. You probably just don't like it. ...
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