| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| I'm not sure if my wife is bi-curious/sexual | 11/6/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: My wife and I are both in our mid 30's and we have two wonderful young children. We've been together ...
A: It sounds like you have a general idea of what you need to do, which is talk to her, but you should ...
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| Confused and Lost | 11/4/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: Okay I'm bisexual, and 17. The question I am asking is for advice, or an answer to something that ...
A: It sounds as though this girl is definitely confused about her feelings with you and what to do ...
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| New relationship anxiety | 11/3/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: I come from a very religious background and within the past few months I have started coming out to ...
A: Except this time you're really feeling the chemistry so its gonna be even more intense. I don't ...
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| What to do next? | 11/2/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: A girl and I have been friends for a few years and we have always had a flirty relationship. We have ...
A: She has spoken, when she said: "she can't do this anymore.. I (you) haven't done anything wrong but ...
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| ayuda | 11/1/2009 | Kay |
Q: I wanted to know your opinion: I am a 46 years old man living in Venezuela, married with two ...
A: Wow, You have a lot going on so it seems. Be careful... So are you saying that this young lady ...
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| Girlfriend wants to be top | 11/1/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 years and we are getting married on our 5th anniversary ...
A: You are smart to want to resolve these issues before getting married. Without knowing either of you ...
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| How to find myself? | 10/30/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: My name is danny and Im struggling to find out whether I truly am bisexual and how to attract a ...
A: Danny, It sounds like you have a lot going on in your head and heart, but its definitely all normal ...
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| =] | 10/30/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: A while ago a friend whos a girl told me she is inlove with me.. Its really annoying because i want ...
A: Hey there, sounds like you have a great friend that you like to be around. No one can make you ...
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| attracted to a friend | 10/29/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: Back in college I was surprised to find myself having feelings of love for my roommate, I had never ...
A: The simple answer is no, you are not crazy. And I'm impressed with the maturity and openness you ...
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| Mixed Signals | 10/27/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: So i just recently discovered i was bisexual. It all started with this girl. We hooked up and ...
A: Find a way to resolve the feelings you too have going on without jeopardizing your friendship. If ...
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| I don't understand myself. | 10/27/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: Really, I'm in need of help. I can't do it alone, I'm out of control. It just happened, and I wasn't ...
A: You may have a touch of internalized homophobia -- It's possible. A condition that is sure to ...
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| I think my lesbian friend likes me | 10/27/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: I strongly suspect that my friend, Justina*, is a lesbian. Her mom thinks that she is and she never ...
A: I believe in open, honest conversations, and it sounds like you should have one with Justina. It ...
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| ;s | 10/26/2009 | Kay |
Q: im 18 turning 19 this year and i've never done this before. basically.. just to give you some ...
A: Im in your tute? I dont know what that means but there is nothing wrong with requesting her/letting ...
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| ;s | 10/26/2009 | Kay |
Q: im 18 turning 19 this year and i've never done this before. basically.. just to give you some ...
A: There is nothing wrong with requesting her friend on facebook. It happens all the time and shouldnt ...
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| Needing to vent | 10/25/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: Well I'm 18 and my best friend of almost a year now has moved back down to where I live. Before she ...
A: Your statement about yourself: "I use to but I let it go because I didnt know how she felt," stands ...
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| seeking | 10/25/2009 | Kay |
Q: I am a 26-year-old educated Christian female, happily married to a man and we are currently ...
A: What you are experiencing is normal. The only problem is that you LIKE this woman and she is in your ...
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| Do you think I'm bi? | 10/23/2009 | Lena Torres |
Q: Ok, I literally can't believe I'm doing this. Like that I'm online even considering this but it's ...
A: No, I don't think you're crazy for thinking something could happen between you just based on the ...
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| confused | 10/22/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: why do straight girls like guys? i think im jelous and just depressed about it and i dont know ...
A: Believe it or not Andrea, a straight girl would ask you the same question about why you like girls. ...
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| confused | 10/22/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: why do straight girls like guys? i think im jelous and just depressed about it and i dont know ...
A: Well why are lesbians attracted to women? Why are gay men attracted to other men or straight men ...
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| Coming out | 10/21/2009 | Kay |
Q: Well, I'm almost 19 and have accepted the fact I was a lesbian almost 2 years ago now. I've told my ...
A: You are right, There is no going back once you do make the decision to come out which is you have ...
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| Confused,please answer soon | 10/21/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: Ok, I literally can't believe I'm doing this. Like that I'm online even considering this but it's ...
A: , This is a situation many lesbian/bi/or curious girls find themselves in. I cannot say what your ...
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| i'm married and so is she | 10/20/2009 | Coco M Davis |
Q: It's hard to know where to start. I married my husband a few years ago, I love him very much and we ...
A: It sounds like you have a lot of things going on. I understand how overwhelming that can be. ...
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| I'm not sure what to do or who I am anymore | 10/19/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: My name's Ane, I'm 20 years old. I've been trying to figure out if I am a lesbian or not. This past ...
A: The question of whether or not one is lesbian or not, is one commonly asked on here. Feel free to ...
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| So confused about where to go from here... | 10/19/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: My name is Bianca. I'm 19 and a sophomore at ASU. I just recently discovered that I'm bisexual. I ...
A: This is a tough subject for me, I have never been bisexual. The only advise I can give you is my ...
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| She is always hot and cold with me; should I just make a move? | 10/18/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I'm sorry this is such a long question! My college coach, (I don't have her as a professor), seems ...
A: Should you make a move based on what you have told me? No. To me there doesn't seem to be a ...
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| fighting and more | 10/14/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and things were messed up from the start. I ...
A: Her not being out to her family and trying to lead a double life does make things that much more ...
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| Being a Lesbian | 10/14/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: So, I am 16 years young and I've known I've been into girls since 5th grade. I became bisexual when ...
A: Cat, at 16 years old you have ever right to be confused. I would not try to be in a relationship at ...
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| my sister | 10/13/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I love my sister very much we have been best friends always. But she started dating my sons grandma ...
A: Well this is definitely going to be a touchy situation to approach. While one could argue that it ...
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| Flirting or is it more than flirting.. | 10/13/2009 | Karla Little |
Q: My question is that I would like to know wherether she flirts with me or is just my imagination. ...
A: Well Suzy, let's take this one step at a time. Flirting is a awesome thing when there are two people ...
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| shes pushing me away what do i do? | 10/12/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 months now.I admit there has been drama ...
A: Well communication is key here, but the fact alone that she doesn't want to talk at all does make it ...
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| First time sexual advice, please? | 10/12/2009 | Vicky |
Q: I have a quick question... My girlfriend and myself are ready to take our relationship to a physical ...
A: Best advice I can give you is to go to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com This is NOT a ...
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| In need for some closure | 10/11/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: Hey Lauren, My name is Arte, I'm 21,I'm from Greece and I came out almost a year ago. My question ...
A: Well you are right that I will tell you that you are only 21, and that you are young. The only ...
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| Curious about what straight women feel. | 10/11/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I identify as a lesbian even though I have only had relationships with men. I am no longer in a ...
A: If you are only aroused by men through stimulation, and are not mentally nor emotionally stimulated ...
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| crush or love? | 10/10/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I'm a girl and i am gay. i play some sports and i tend to like girls that are on my teams. i fell in ...
A: Well for starters, do you know whether or not this new girl is straight like the last girl? In my ...
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| Does she or does she not? | 10/10/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I had read some of the questions in here before I decided to write for help. That's very interesting ...
A: Well your English sounds pretty good to me =). Given what you have mentioned, particularly the part ...
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| fighting and more | 10/9/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and things were messed up from the start. I ...
A: Well most of your problem is going to be stemming from the fact that you were probably not truly ...
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| shes pushing me away what do i do? | 10/8/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 months now.I admit there has been drama ...
A: As much as you understand how great she is for being there with you and for you during all your ...
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| I dont understand?? | 10/6/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: My ex girlfriend and i were together for about a year and a half. we dated about 6 months then moved ...
A: For starters, your ex did not jump into a fast-moving relationship with a stranger-it was someone ...
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| confused | 10/5/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: so I'm finding this hard to write. I have no idea if I am gay or not, I definitely have leanings but ...
A: The point in your life that you are going through right now, trying to find your sexual identity, is ...
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| cofused???? | 10/5/2009 | Lauren Lopez |
Q: hey, im in a relationship with a girl i truly love, but i keep having dreams about me and my ex ...
A: Well unless outside of dreaming you are having strong feelings for your ex, then don't worry about ...
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