| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| stone? | 11/3/2008 | Terese |
Q: My girlfriend refuses to let me go down on her and rarely lets me touch her below the belt, she ...
A: Hey J, So, here's the thing...different things get different people off. Simple as that. Like you, ...
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| Is it wrong.. | 10/19/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Do you think it is wrong for me to want to tell my friends I'm a lesbian though I have never had any ...
A: How does a person come to decide that they would want to take part in a lesbian sexual encounter? I ...
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| Am I a lesbian or am I not? | 10/19/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I just turned 13 in the middle of September.I live in the east.I'm in the 8th ...
A: It sounds to me like you're just really confused, Corrina. At your age your hormones can do bizarre ...
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| How should I let her know how I feel? | 10/17/2008 | Terese |
Q: Terese, Thanks for answerng my previous question.I've been attracted to women since I was younger. ...
A: Well, since you're clear on what you want, and you don't seem to be phased by the fact that you guys ...
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| getting over her | 10/16/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: I have been spening time with this girl but she is confused and is playing a little game of push and ...
A: Pay attention to the fact that she has said she is “confused” because that is key. You also have to ...
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| hey | 10/16/2008 | Terese |
Q: hey. i'm 16 and i've been talking to michelle and other volunteers but i would like to talk to about ...
A: Hey Z, Sounds like you're looking for a way to explain your attractions and feelings. Thing is, ...
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| Open Relationship | 10/15/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 19, in college, and have been with my girlfriend for 7 months. I am very much in love with her ...
A: You are making the mature choice by making college a priority at this time. It is also commendable ...
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| Does she want me? | 10/15/2008 | Terese |
Q: I really like my co-worker. I am sexually attracted to her. I am considered hetrosexual. I've ...
A: Hey Karen, This is what you have to decide before you can move on with this: Do you want to be ...
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| hey | 10/15/2008 | Terese |
Q: hey. i'm 16 and i've been talking to michelle and other volunteers but i would like to talk to about ...
A: Hey Zoe, Well, let me just put this out there...I don't necessarily think that it's a good idea ...
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| In love confusion. | 10/15/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: im 19 years old and im having a hard time finding out "who i am". I've been in a realationship ...
A: In my experience telling someone you're interested in that you're attracted to them can have two ...
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| should i suspect something? | 10/14/2008 | Terese |
Q: this is going tobe kind of long... ok im 18 and im dating this 22 woman and we live about an hour ...
A: Look, I'm going to give it to you straight: it sounds like your girlfriend is cheating. And ...
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| My life after 40 and falling for a woman | 10/13/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I hope that you can possibly help me understand and sort through some feelings and this experience I ...
A: Don't be sorry for me, my dear, because I had ten years with the woman I loved. Yes, Angel, by all ...
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| My life after 40 and falling for a woman | 10/12/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: I hope that you can possibly help me understand and sort through some feelings and this experience I ...
A: Reading what you've written is painful for me, Angel. I've been through a similar situation myself ...
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| hey again | 10/10/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: hey again. 1.um...sumtimes when i masturbate my best friend (a girl)comes into my mind out of ...
A: Yes, Zoe, the "fantasies rarely reflect reality" statement still applies. I suggest that the ...
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| HOCD | 10/5/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: so r u saying it is possible that i actually do not have HOCD even if i do show all the symptoms? ...
A: Making a diagnosis of any disorder is more than just matching symptoms, Zoe. Otherwise we'd have no ...
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| hey again | 10/4/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: soory i didn't mean to offend u or anything. i don't even know if u are offended. but i forgot to ...
A: You were the one who said it was painful for you to think homosexual thoughts. I was asking for ...
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| hey again | 10/3/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: soory i didn't mean to offend u or anything. i don't even know if u are offended. but i forgot to ...
A: Have you ever thought of going to a doctor for a certain diagnosis either of the HOCD or the OCD? ...
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| hey again | 10/2/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: soory i didn't mean to offend u or anything. i don't even know if u are offended. but i forgot to ...
A: I'm not at all offended, my dear. I'm curious, though, how you were diagnosed as having HOCD and how ...
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| Is my wife a lesbian after 14 years of marriage? | 10/1/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 14 years. She has never been passionate about sex between us. ...
A: Telling you: "it was the best sex she ever had" is unacceptable in any context - but even more so, ...
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| more questions | 10/1/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Um....i don’t THINK i been sexually excited by looking at pics before no. I’m not completely sure ...
A: What exactly is it that makes you paranoid about being a lesbian, Zoe? Lesbians are people just like ...
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| more questions | 9/30/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I’ve numbered my questions to make it easier for u to answer them in order 1.So what I feel about ...
A: 1. no, Zoe, it just sounds like there are things you either admire or notice about them. 2. No, I ...
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| Caring for someone I cant have | 9/30/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Well, I just got of a three year relationship four months ago and i have developed very strong ...
A: Give it time. Both of you are healing from your respective past relationships. When you're ...
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| hey | 9/30/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: hey i'm 16, my name is zoe i'm talking to michelle and lena on this site at the moment but i would ...
A: It's hard to describe sexual excitement, my dear, but generally speaking if the feelings you have ...
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| New girlfriend... am I being too needy? | 9/29/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm a 19 year old lesbian college student and I've been dating another 19 year old girl who lives ...
A: I don't think it is a sign of dominance in a relationship, to initiate activities. One thing I ...
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| hey | 9/28/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: hey i'm 16, my name is zoe i'm talking to michelle and lena on this site at the moment but i would ...
A: Well, Zoe, I don't think what you've described is anything to worry about. At your age there are all ...
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| Are my lesbian fantasies going to ruin our relationship? | 9/28/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: I'm 19. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We were close friends for 6 years before ...
A: Your question might be re-framed to read: Is my hope of being in a straight relationship, going to ...
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| Teacher and student relationship ? | 9/26/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: Maenad, My question is, Whether or not my teacher has a fancy with me, or is she just being ...
A: Many students develop crushes on their teachers, Lilly, but that's as far as you should ever go with ...
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| hey again | 9/26/2008 | Michelle |
Q: hey its me zoe again. i believe u were on vacation for a while so i asked Lena a few questions. ...
A: I think what Lena meant by her explanation of the fear of intimacy was that it is just normal to be ...
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| hey again | 9/25/2008 | Michelle |
Q: hey its me zoe again. i believe u were on vacation for a while so i asked Lena a few questions. ...
A: I would say she is absolutely right on in all of her answers, and that you should take a lot of it ...
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| married with child | 9/24/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Okay, I don't even know what order to tell this in, so I'm just going to blurt things out. I'm ...
A: First, I hope you have taken a serious look at the weblink in my previous reply. I say that ...
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| Sex with a girl | 9/24/2008 | Michelle |
Q: Okay so me and my gf want to have sex but the thing is I have never had sex with a girl. She has and ...
A: it is good that you are planning to be careful if you decide to have sex. I must admit it sounds to ...
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| confused about relationship | 9/24/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: I was wondering if u cud help me. i have just started college and have never been in a relationship ...
A: Finding someone that you have a real connection with and experiencing all those feelings can be ...
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| Why do men feel attracted to lesbians? Or are they just messing with us for the fun of it? | 9/23/2008 | Maenad Loyce |
Q: What I don’t get is why? I am lesbian. I never give guys any impressions because I can’t. Lesbians ...
A: I can't profess to understand the male mind, Gabriela, and I have had similar experiences myself. It ...
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| how do i move on when i'm still in love with her | 9/22/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: i was recently in a very serious relationship with my g/f who i had been with for over 7 months. we ...
A: One of the most difficult responsibilities we have as adults, is that we are obligated to take the ...
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| married with child | 9/22/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Okay, I don't even know what order to tell this in, so I'm just going to blurt things out. I'm ...
A: First let me just say that there are tons of women (literally tons) out there in your exact shoes. ...
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| Sexual attraction from straight women | 9/20/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Ok...now there is place that i usually go to & have a few drinks with friends here & there..it's ...
A: She is not available. That is the one thing you have to know about her. Period. The more important ...
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| questioning | 9/20/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: hey lena i've been questioning my sexuality for two months and i've also had mild HOCD for the past ...
A: Looking up to someone is normal. We all have an inferiority complex to some degree. Don't beat ...
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| Sexual attraction from straight women | 9/19/2008 | Lena Torres |
Q: Ok...now there is place that i usually go to & have a few drinks with friends here & there..it's ...
A: Before I say anything else, I feel the need to express my deep disapproval about the use of the word ...
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| Is it possible? | 9/19/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a lesbian teen who feels unhappy being deviated from the mainstream. Is there any way of which ...
A: I can only tell you that if there was, I never found it. I looked. I tried. I prayed. I married ...
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| Should I? | 9/18/2008 | Michelle |
Q: I am a 16 years old lesbian, who has fallen in love with a girl for almost 4 years. We used to be ...
A: I have several friendships that I cut off abruptly, and yes, coldly, when I realized my feelings had ...
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