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I am 26-yrs. old with a B.A. in psychology. But more importantly, I know what it's like to grow up not understanding why you feel the way that you do. I slept with men in the past simply because I believed it was "the right thing to do". I would like to reach out to others like me - to help them accept themselves, and feel comfortable around their family and friends if they decide to come out of the closet.

 
   

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Lesbian Life - just confused...if its general feeling or special feeling that can turn to a deep realtionship....


Expert: Kay - 4/11/2009

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its me again cjay who is secretly in love with Arabian girl.my only question what if someone tells you that you mean so much to her that you will loose apart of you, that you tell her how much important she is in your life and that i will never forgive myself if i loose her.What you will think of that???is it for general or just a special friend???thats what im asking for.please give me a clear advise for this..thanks and more power...

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Hi Cjay,

Well, its possible to have a friend that cares about, only as a friends. However your friend took it further by saying you will never loose her. What she said implies that she has deeps feelings for you. If it was me, however one can take it as she means a very best/special friend. Since what she said wasn't clear and can be taken in two ways, I would have to study her more and see her actions. Meaning you are going to have to pay close attention to maybe the hugs, the calls, the touches.
What do you? There are alot of different things that you can do. If you like her you could just come out and tell her but you risk disappontment because she can easily shy away or be offended. So you have to becareful. You can take it the safe way and just wait around to see where it goes.

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