AboutKay Experience I am 26-yrs. old with a B.A. in psychology. But more importantly, I know what it's like to grow up not understanding why you feel the way that you do. I slept with men in the past simply because I believed it was "the right thing to do". I would like to reach out to others like me - to help them accept themselves, and feel comfortable around their family and friends if they decide to come out of the closet.
Question hi my name is brittany and i have been with my gf for a year and a few months. we recently been fighting alot, most of it is about the kids we both have 2 kids each from our babies fathers. but we fight alot bout how to raise them and what we should and what not. should we fight bout this constanly what? also how do i know that she don't want a man anymore i have not had sex with a man since i found out i was pregnant with my son in September of 07, and she has had sex with 2 men in December of 07 she says she has not cheated or anything with a man but how would i know?
Answer Hi Brittany,
Thats hard because sleeping with men while being gay isn't in the play book. You are going to have to use your own judgement. The both of you slept with men in 2007, I don't think the dates really matter. If you are not psychic, all you can do is trust her. In a relationship, trust and communication is key. So since you probably will never know unless hse told you, trust her and if you are still having issues communicate with her to tell her how you feel.
As for fighting about the kids, I really don't know. I don't have kids. I do know that heterosexuals fight about this too, so its common. Again, communicate the do's and don'ts that you two both want and where you disgree come to a common ground.
