AboutKay Experience I am 26-yrs. old with a B.A. in psychology. But more importantly, I know what it's like to grow up not understanding why you feel the way that you do. I slept with men in the past simply because I believed it was "the right thing to do". I would like to reach out to others like me - to help them accept themselves, and feel comfortable around their family and friends if they decide to come out of the closet.
Question hi there i am here cause i think my so call women is in a relationship with my friend girl why i say that is because when it is just me and her we don't have conversation like they do and when she have me to go somewhere with them she pay me no mine and they talk just so they can hear each other but not me and i know my friend girl talk in a low voice at time and she hears what she say just fine but if i say something in a low voice cause i am soft spoken she acts like she don't hear me and she is all way happy to hear from her or just to be with her doing something i get the vibe from the way they talk that they might be hitting on each other but in a way that i won't know and when i try to talk to her about how i feel it seems like she don't care about it cause i am just being a control freak she say but before her my ex girlfriend i was with would say she was never bi or did not like women but then she had sex with her bi friend and when that happen she was not the same she would play like she did not want to have nothing to do with her bi friend when she was with me she would not take her calls or talk to her online but when she went home she was keeping in touch with her and going to see her and then she would lie to me about not talking to her or going to see her so i don't know if my so call lady is hitting on my friend girl but it miss with me when she gets all happy when she hears from my friend girl and when she come around her so tell me what is up is there something going on or is it just me thinks.
Answer Hi,
Im sorry its really hard to read this because of the grammatical errors. If your girlfriend has been untrue in the pass it is likely that she is loyal now. I think that the best way to handle this is to communicate with her. This way you don't have to guess what is going on. If you don't trust her you are going to have to consider leaving her alone. However, in the mean time, you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. See if things changes after you talk to her.
Hope this helps.