AboutVicky Expertise Lesbian: sexual problems, coming out, general questions about being gay:-) i came out when i was 17, and ive helped several ppl not just friends, come to terms and understand what its like to be gay, the kind of lifestyle it leads to or rather can lead to, medical issues, and just how to be happy with your choice of lifestyle.
Question My girlfriend says she gets turned on by being spanked. Is that normal?
Answer Hi Alex,
Yes it is normal. Most people have certain things that turn them on, and spanking is definatley one of them. THe one thing to remember though, is to listen to your girlfriend. She will tell you how hard she wants it. Dont go walloping her, perhaps start off gently and get her to tell you how much harder she would like it.
It may also pay to look this sort of thing up on Google, and perhaps the both of you could go through the websites together?