AboutVicky Expertise Lesbian: sexual problems, coming out, general questions about being gay:-) i came out when i was 17, and ive helped several ppl not just friends, come to terms and understand what its like to be gay, the kind of lifestyle it leads to or rather can lead to, medical issues, and just how to be happy with your choice of lifestyle.
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ok im a Guy but i have a very serious and embrassing question and there is not any one else i can ask about this is the sexualty section. so here is goes, my girlfriend and I been together for almost 3 years now and shes opening alot more to me and one night after some random sex at home, shes ask yenno back in highschool i said if we were ever going to do a threesome i want to ass fuck the girl...she paused at that moment and then look at me and i knew it was me she wanted to do it to but just couldnt say it but eventualy later told me. Now Im at that point where im kind of freaking out cause yenno hearing stuff about men being raped in prison and horror on it. I did a few searchs online but really couldnt find anything on what to do cause I know she doesnt know what to do so im asking you if you if u can tell me what the hell u do and if its even pleasurable then ill adress it to her.( i love her very much and im soon planning to marry her id do anything for her even give my life but i never thought of being ass fucked but thats love and ill do it for her) please help,Ive been staling for about 3 days. I dont know if this is qualifies for a sexual problem mayabe maybe not if not can u give me a link to someone that can help.
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Hi Derek:) Thanks for coming to me.
Its really neat that you are interested in experimenting for your girlfriends sake!
I need to ask you a question to clarify something for me though ok?
Does your girlfriend want you to perform anal sex on her, or does she want to peform anal sex on you by using some sort of strap-on device?
The reason i am asking is that your question wasnt very clear as to whom this was happening to:) If you could get back to me, I will gladly help either way ok? I look forward to your reply.
hehe sorry about that was very nervous on asking the question, but ya shes the one that wants to do it to me(im the one being dominated) and honestly i dont know what she would want to use on me but im guessing strapon thats pretty much the only thing i know about anal sex for girls is using a strapon i hope this was more clear if theres any more u want to know plz tell me.
Answer Hey Derek, thanks for coming back to me:))
There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of when having anal sex ok? Its perfectly understandable to be nervous, and you need to make very sure that your girlfriend takes her time and doesnt rush anything with you ok? You need to be able to be very vocal and have the ability to stop when you want to.
I would like to send you to a website that has some helpful info about anal sex.
Now this website, is all about anal sex and various things you can do to make it a lot easier for yourself;)
I am sending you to this website because it says a lot more than i could come up with, so i hope you find it useful! Just copy and paste it into your web browser:))
www.the-penis.com
This website is dedicated to men, and male health. It has a variety of info for sexual positions and techniques and i think it could be useful to you.
www.the-clitoris.com
This is the female version of the-penis.com and also has a lot of very useful information for women, and how to give women pleasure etc.
I sincerely hope that i have been of some use here, but if not, please come back and i will try again!
Good luck with this, and i hope that you have some fun with your girlfriend. Remember, be safe, play safe and most important, have fun with sex! If there is anything else i can do, you know where to find me!
