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| Is my girlfriend cheating | 11/19/2009 |
Q: I have been in a relationship with my GF for 8 years. She is my first and only. We broke up for 2 ...
A: Well I cannot tell you whether or not your girlfriend is cheating with certainty either way. ...
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| confused | 11/18/2009 |
Q: I have found myself in a very difficult/confusing situation recently and would like to ask for your ...
A: In order for us to talk in private about this situation, you are going to have to adjust the public ...
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| breakup | 11/18/2009 |
Q: how do i know that my ex- girlfriend want me back after i broke with her at a football game, the ...
A: It is hard to know how she is really feeling without really talking to her about it all. Truth is, ...
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| falling for her | 11/16/2009 |
Q: ok well im a lesbian right? well i've been talking to this girl and word around town shes a ...
A: This is a tough situation to be in. Chances are that if she was homophobic before, then she may be ...
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| breakup | 11/14/2009 |
Q: how do i know that my ex- girlfriend want me back after i broke with her at a football game, the ...
A: It sounds as though your ex has moved on. She probably still cares about you, but not in such a way ...
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| confused | 11/13/2009 |
Q: I have found myself in a very difficult/confusing situation recently and would like to ask for your ...
A: When people grow comfortable with someone from a distance, and don't really know that person on a ...
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| Wondering if a co-worker likes me more than just a friend. | 11/12/2009 |
Q: I work with a co-worker that I have deep feelings for but am afraid to let her know as I am not sure ...
A: If your co-worker does not even know that you are a lesbian, she may not even be aware of her ...
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| Confused About My Sexuality | 11/11/2009 |
Q: I have accepted that I am not straight. I was convinced I was bi about two years ago, when I was ...
A: I apologize for the delayed answer, I had an emergency. What you are going through is completely ...
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| New at this. | 11/10/2009 |
Q: Hey, My question is that.. i had feelings for this girl like crazy and we had are fun times admitted ...
A: Well many of us have been in this exact same position- trying to tell if a woman is bisexual/lesbian ...
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| Really Confused... | 11/9/2009 |
Q: Ok here is my problem. I am in love with my best friend, and I have known it for years. We would be ...
A: I apologize for the delay on your answer, and on others. I had an emergency to take care of. It ...
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| Need advice | 11/7/2009 |
Q: So, I wrote to another expert on this site about this particular thing a while back but that person ...
A: I apologize for such the long delay to answer your question; I had an emergency to take care of. ...
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| my friends not ok with it | 11/7/2009 |
Q: Okay so I have this friend (my best friend) who just doesn't really like that I'm a lesbian, and she ...
A: People tend to fear things that they don't know about and can't understand. Your best friend ...
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| I'm not sure if my wife is bi-curious/sexual | 11/6/2009 |
Q: My wife and I are both in our mid 30's and we have two wonderful young children. We've been together ...
A: It sounds like you have a general idea of what you need to do, which is talk to her, but you should ...
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| Confused and Lost | 11/4/2009 |
Q: Okay I'm bisexual, and 17. The question I am asking is for advice, or an answer to something that ...
A: It sounds as though this girl is definitely confused about her feelings with you and what to do ...
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| confused | 10/22/2009 |
Q: why do straight girls like guys? i think im jelous and just depressed about it and i dont know ...
A: Well why are lesbians attracted to women? Why are gay men attracted to other men or straight men ...
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| Confused,please answer soon | 10/21/2009 |
Q: Ok, I literally can't believe I'm doing this. Like that I'm online even considering this but it's ...
A: , This is a situation many lesbian/bi/or curious girls find themselves in. I cannot say what your ...
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| I'm not sure what to do or who I am anymore | 10/19/2009 |
Q: My name's Ane, I'm 20 years old. I've been trying to figure out if I am a lesbian or not. This past ...
A: The question of whether or not one is lesbian or not, is one commonly asked on here. Feel free to ...
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| She is always hot and cold with me; should I just make a move? | 10/18/2009 |
Q: I'm sorry this is such a long question! My college coach, (I don't have her as a professor), seems ...
A: Should you make a move based on what you have told me? No. To me there doesn't seem to be a ...
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| fighting and more | 10/14/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and things were messed up from the start. I ...
A: Her not being out to her family and trying to lead a double life does make things that much more ...
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| my sister | 10/13/2009 |
Q: I love my sister very much we have been best friends always. But she started dating my sons grandma ...
A: Well this is definitely going to be a touchy situation to approach. While one could argue that it ...
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| shes pushing me away what do i do? | 10/12/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 months now.I admit there has been drama ...
A: Well communication is key here, but the fact alone that she doesn't want to talk at all does make it ...
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| In need for some closure | 10/11/2009 |
Q: Hey Lauren, My name is Arte, I'm 21,I'm from Greece and I came out almost a year ago. My question ...
A: Well you are right that I will tell you that you are only 21, and that you are young. The only ...
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| Curious about what straight women feel. | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I identify as a lesbian even though I have only had relationships with men. I am no longer in a ...
A: If you are only aroused by men through stimulation, and are not mentally nor emotionally stimulated ...
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| crush or love? | 10/10/2009 |
Q: I'm a girl and i am gay. i play some sports and i tend to like girls that are on my teams. i fell in ...
A: Well for starters, do you know whether or not this new girl is straight like the last girl? In my ...
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| Does she or does she not? | 10/10/2009 |
Q: I had read some of the questions in here before I decided to write for help. That's very interesting ...
A: Well your English sounds pretty good to me =). Given what you have mentioned, particularly the part ...
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| fighting and more | 10/9/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and things were messed up from the start. I ...
A: Well most of your problem is going to be stemming from the fact that you were probably not truly ...
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| shes pushing me away what do i do? | 10/8/2009 |
Q: I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for almost 8 months now.I admit there has been drama ...
A: As much as you understand how great she is for being there with you and for you during all your ...
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| I dont understand?? | 10/6/2009 |
Q: My ex girlfriend and i were together for about a year and a half. we dated about 6 months then moved ...
A: For starters, your ex did not jump into a fast-moving relationship with a stranger-it was someone ...
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| confused | 10/5/2009 |
Q: so I'm finding this hard to write. I have no idea if I am gay or not, I definitely have leanings but ...
A: The point in your life that you are going through right now, trying to find your sexual identity, is ...
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| cofused???? | 10/5/2009 |
Q: hey, im in a relationship with a girl i truly love, but i keep having dreams about me and my ex ...
A: Well unless outside of dreaming you are having strong feelings for your ex, then don't worry about ...
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| A blast from the past | 10/3/2009 |
Q: Ι am facing an old love issue that had come up after 16 years... Now I am a 34 year old ...
A: Well you took the first step by looking her up and attempting to make some sort of contact with her. ...
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| Torn between husband and an ex-girlfriend | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Ok so here goes, and i will try and keep this short!! I have been with my husband now for 11years, ...
A: Well I can tell you that you are not the first person to be in this position, so I don't want you to ...
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| bi girl won't date girls? | 9/27/2009 |
Q: alright, so i met this girl that is new to my school and good friends with a friend of mine. we were ...
A: Yes, I can see why you may be confused. I think the best thing to do in this situation is to talk to ...
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| Please help me forget about my soul mate/Ex | 9/25/2009 |
Q: I cannot forget about my Ex. She is my childhood friend, my soul mate through my teenage time. I've ...
A: Well it sounds like you two have had quite a lot of history. Anytime people have that much history ...
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| ? | 9/25/2009 |
Q: Well Im 17...kinda new to the whole lesbian thing. I would consider myself a stud, but i dont feel ...
A: As I mentioned before, it appears as though she is just looking for attention. You brought up her ...
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| ? | 9/23/2009 |
Q: Well Im 17...kinda new to the whole lesbian thing. I would consider myself a stud, but i dont feel ...
A: This is always a confusing situation to be in. However, what it comes down to is that this girl is ...
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| very diff quest. | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I wish to ask and know you can't answer. a lady that i had been writing on this site is gone. Her ...
A: I wish I could help you out here, but I have no information regarding other expert volunteers, ...
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| lesbians and masculinity | 9/21/2009 |
Q: Why do so many lesbians seem to need masculinity and maleness in their lives? It seems a ...
A: This is actually a very commonly asked question. While I cannot answer anything in terms of any ...
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| Should I let go? | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for barely a few months but she has been doing things behind my back. ...
A: To be quite honest, your girlfriend is taking advantage of you. If even before you had gone overseas ...
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| my girl friend is married... to another woman | 9/18/2009 |
Q: im 19 and my girlfriend is 20. she and i have been together for a couple weeks and i really am ...
A: Although it is by no means a justification of any kind, your girlfriend may have been scared to tell ...
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| Feeling torn.... and dealing with a broken heart. | 9/12/2009 |
Q: Lauren, I've read a little about you, and am impressed by your accomplishments and your passion in ...
A: but are afraid to talk about. It is undoubtedly a confusing and difficult situation to be in when ...
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| Is it wrong to not care? | 9/11/2009 |
Q: My ex girlfriend and I are both 17 and seniors and we have been together since 7th grade on and off. ...
A: I know it is hard to break away from someone you have been attached to for so long; in this case, ...
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| I might be.. so what do i do next? | 9/10/2009 |
Q: Most of my life I have felt attracted to men and I have considered myself straight. Since I was 16 I ...
A: First off don't worry, you don't sound "desperate" and the confusion you are going through right now ...
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| Exes and more exes... | 9/1/2009 |
Q: I recently came out of a 2 year relationship that was so riddled with highs and lows. My ex-partner ...
A: To answer your question directly- no, it is not normal. While it could be said that some same-sex ...
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| My girlfriend | 8/31/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating since Oct 31, 2008. She use to live in California and then she ...
A: The truth is once someone gets cheated on in general, they tend to put walls up and have a tough ...
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| STUCK | 8/29/2009 |
Q: I AM A 25YR OLD WOMAN WHOSE ONLY BEEN IN TWO RELATIONSHIPS. ONE ABUSIVE THE OTHER IMMATURE. NOW I ...
A: It's going to be hard, but you are going to have to be honest with yourself in this situation. To ...
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| Age | 8/28/2009 |
Q: I am a 18 year old lesbian and my lover is soon to be 34. We have been dating for coming up on a ...
A: As much as we may not to say that it can be an issue, the age difference can bring with it many ...
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| Me and my friend. | 8/26/2009 |
Q: Hey so am 19 and i think am in love with my best friend, who is a a straight girl. we met about a ...
A: I've known several people to be in similar situations as you. However, in all honesty it has rarely ...
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| confidence | 8/21/2009 |
Q: i guess u could say i have always had lesbian tendencies but for the last 9 months i have been in my ...
A: It is normal for anyone questioning their sexuality to go through a very strange and foreign period ...
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| I dnt know how to do it | 8/20/2009 |
Q: Im Jessica 17 years old and im a lesbian. I want to tell my parents but im so scared. When i was 13 ...
A: Based on the way your parents reacted in the past, you can expect a similar reaction from them ...
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