Expertise If you are questioning your sexuality and need an anonymous safe place to ask anything about coming out or same-sex experiences, then talk to me. I know when I was coming out I wanted to ask everything from how do I tell my spouse, to how do I ask a woman out. I understand that in some circumstances it can be difficult or impossible to safely ask those questions and anonymous online resources can be invaluable.
Areas that really interest me are people with religious backgrounds, people in heterosexual marriages, sexual fluidity, labels and how we use them, but I am open to questions of all kinds.
Experience I grew up in a conservative Christian home where being straight was the only option ever presented to me. As a result I got married and spent 7 years in a long-term relationship with a man before finally coming out to myself. I came out to my spouse, made several efforts to maintain our marriage but finally got divorced. I managed to preserve my friendship with him, but alienated my family when I came out to them. I have built a strong support group of friends in the LGBTQ community and love talking with them about the wide variety of issues we face, as well as the intricacies of loving women.
Q: My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and we love each other very much. Because of ... A: Wow, that's a tough situation. Long distance is hard to do, and a lot can happen while you're ...
Q: Im almost 40 and still some times a bit confused about my sexual desires. My question Is, is it ... A: I'm glad you are open about your attractions and are not limiting yourself. This kind of thing is ...
Q: So basically I am only attracted to women and have only ever been with women but for the past year ... A: You'll be happy to know this kind of thing is pretty common, its just something we don't talk about ...
Q: I come from a very religious background and within the past few months I have started coming out to ... A: Except this time you're really feeling the chemistry so its gonna be even more intense. I don't ...
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for 4 1/2 years and we are getting married on our 5th anniversary ... A: You are smart to want to resolve these issues before getting married. Without knowing either of you ...
Q: My name is danny and Im struggling to find out whether I truly am bisexual and how to attract a ... A: Danny, It sounds like you have a lot going on in your head and heart, but its definitely all normal ...
Q: Back in college I was surprised to find myself having feelings of love for my roommate, I had never ... A: The simple answer is no, you are not crazy. And I'm impressed with the maturity and openness you ...
Q: I strongly suspect that my friend, Justina*, is a lesbian. Her mom thinks that she is and she never ... A: I believe in open, honest conversations, and it sounds like you should have one with Justina. It ...
Q: It's hard to know where to start. I married my husband a few years ago, I love him very much and we ... A: It sounds like you have a lot of things going on. I understand how overwhelming that can be. ...
