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| Subject | Date Asked |
| First time sexual advice, please? | 10/12/2009 |
| Q: I have a quick question... My girlfriend and myself are ready to take our relationship to a physical ... A: Best advice I can give you is to go to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com This is NOT a ... | |
| Fear of being gay back home. | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: I am an ex-pat kiwi living in Australia, and have been in a gay relationship for the past 10 years. ... A: and apologies for the lateness in reply. Im not so sure how to answer this to be honest! But I will ... | |
| Problems while being intimate with my partner | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my partner for a bit over 2 1/2 years. Our relationship is pretty rocky lately. ... A: The best advice I can give you is to go and talk to someone. I appreciate that you are not ... | |
| how to ?. | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: im 14 and a lesbian or bi? not quite sure but im not sure how to tell my mam i just don't know what ... A: Well firstly, it is NOT your girlfriends place to tell anyone anything about you!! In fact if she is ... | |
| ftm and partner | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: Since coming into who I need to be and have allways known I am,my partner and I have stepped onto a ... A: Firstly, its awesome that you have realised who you are, and are comfortable with it!! That cant ... | |
| anal | 7/30/2009 |
| Q: my girlfiend likes to lick my anal area,is this ok? ANSWER: Hi Marcy, thanks for coming to me. ... A: ) Well, its up to you both. I do strongly advise the use of an ANAL dam, which you can purchase ... | |
| anal | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: my girlfiend likes to lick my anal area,is this ok? A: Well, its perfectly alright as long as it is ok with you, and her:) Just remember that safe sex is ... | |
| Okay to swallow? | 7/11/2009 |
| Q: I am a 30 year-old lesbian. When I orgasm, I always squirt a good amount of "girl juice" from my ... A: Well to be honest, provided you dont have any sexually transmitted diseases or infections in your ... | |
| im confused | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: i think im lesbian, but im attracted to boys and girls. i dont know any other lesbians so i dont ... A: Well in all honesty, you could be bisexual. There is nothing wrong with this either. I think ... | |
| Kowing if you're gay | 7/9/2009 |
| Q: how do you know if you are lesbian? i have a friend of mine who told me she's Bi, and when i asked ... A: Different things work for different people;) If it makes you more comfortable telling someone that ... | |
| sex | 7/7/2009 |
| Q: okay so i need help me and my girlfriend Emily are going to have sex because we sat down and talked ... A: The best thing i can do is send you to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com It is NOT a porn ... | |
| Kowing if you're gay | 7/6/2009 |
| Q: how do you know if you are lesbian? i have a friend of mine who told me she's Bi, and when i asked ... A: For some people, they know they are gay from a young age. It all boils down to who you prefer to ... | |
| spanking | 6/9/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend says she gets turned on by being spanked. Is that normal? A: Yes it is normal. Most people have certain things that turn them on, and spanking is definatley one ... | |
| klein test | 2/10/2008 |
| Q: recently, I took the klein grid on sexual orientation exam and found out that i am heterosexual but ... A: ) Just because you think about your friend, does NOT make you gay ok? Again, if you were thinking ... | |
| my straight best friend | 9/14/2007 |
| Q: My problem is that I have fallen in love with my straight best friend and am having an extremely ... A: In some way, i think you have already answered your own questions:) you have admitted that you have ... | |
| orgasm too quick | 9/11/2007 |
| Q: I have searched all over the net, and there is absolutely nothing about a WOMAN WHO CUMS TOO FAST! ... A: Best advice I can offer you is to go to the following website. It is NOT a porn site, but instead, a ... | |
| help with a less sexual girlfriend? | 9/8/2007 |
| Q: i've been dating this girl for about a month, and i really like her a lot. she's funny and smart ... A: ) I dont think you are doomed! I think though, that this sort of thing takes a bit of time:) There ... | |
| i want a baby | 9/6/2007 |
| Q: vicky hello i need your advice i am 24 and i have only been out for about a year now and my ... A: The first thing I would like to suggest you try, is counselling. Before you think im being silly, ... | |
| to say something or not | 9/5/2007 |
| Q: i had recently encountered something with my son's dr. i go there once a month for his meds. in ... A: I think that if it is what you want, then you should go for it and ask her out for coffee:) I cant ... | |
| Girlfriend left | 9/4/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ... A: Easy answer, you need to get on with your own life, and get her out of it. Start focussing on ... | |
| submission (sexually) | 8/30/2007 |
| Q: i have some needs that need to be met. i have the bodily need to be bitten, the thought of bearing a ... A: ) Im sorry that my suggestions didnt work, but the best thing i can suggest again, is to try and ... | |
| Lesbians and Virginity | 8/29/2007 |
| Q: Well This is a rather basic question... Me and my girlfriend are starting to have sex and we waited ... A: ) I have the perfect place to send you, just copy and paste into your browser:) ... | |
| Questioning my identity | 8/28/2007 |
| Q: OK, here's my problem. I don't know what to consider myself anymore. When I was younger and in ... A: Firstly, you are NOT damaged goods! Youve just lost your way a bit, and I would like to suggest ... | |
| submission (sexually) | 8/26/2007 |
| Q: i have some needs that need to be met. i have the bodily need to be bitten, the thought of bearing a ... A: What I would like to suggest is the following: Just copy and paste this webaddress into your ... | |
| in love with a married woman | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: My name is Daphne.I am 32 year old lesbian. I am in love with 40 year old married woman and don't ... A: Well, again, it is really your choice. What is your gut telling you to do? If your gut is saying ... | |
| Girlfriend left | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ... A: ) You are doing the right thing by getting out there and meeting new people. That is a good start. ... | |
| in love with a married woman | 8/12/2007 |
| Q: My name is Daphne.I am 32 year old lesbian. I am in love with 40 year old married woman and don't ... A: It is up to you whether you send her a happy birthday message:) If it is something you really want ... | |
| new to lesbian and inlove | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: hey vicky, im gracie and im 15, um ive recently discovered that im lesbian...well, last year-ish...i ... A: In some ways, i think your sister is right. You need to just wait and see what happens first, before ... | |
| Intimacy? | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: How can I be more intimate ith my girlfriend without going 'all the way' A: Best advice i can give you is to go to the following website, just copy and paste into your browser. ... | |
| umm me and my girlfreind | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: ok you see I've been dating my girl for almost six months and i haven't been able to make her have ... A: The best advice i can give you is to go to the following website, just copy and paste into your ... | |
| Married & a Lesbian | 7/30/2007 |
| Q: I've been married for 10 years and have 3 children. I've always been attracted to females since I ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions ok? 1. When you are with this woman, how does it make you ... | |
| My gf has been dealing with health issues... | 7/29/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 months, we love each other deeply, we've discussed long ... A: I guess you need to ask yourself a serious question. Do you really want to be with this woman? Its ... | |
| I'm finding it incredibly hard to accept i am a lesbian | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: I feel that my instincts are geared to wanting to be with women but I have no desire for sex or to ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions if thats ok? So if you could get back to me when you are ... | |
| What should i do? | 7/5/2007 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and i have been in relationships with with girls but i am done with it...every ... A: Well, youve taken the first step i think:) You had the courage to tell her how you felt, and she ... | |
| Unsure about a lot of things... | 6/27/2007 |
| Q: I want to keep this as brief as I can. I am a 15 year old girl in a modern-day high school. The ... A: I honestly dont think, in my humble opinion, that you are in love with your friend. I think you are ... | |
| homophobic lesbian??? | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: I am a lesbian and very proud and happy being this way. I have just recently become more open about ... A: Sorry to hear that you dont have a supportive family, heres hoping that they come around over time. ... | |
| homophobic lesbian??? | 6/26/2007 |
| Q: I am a lesbian and very proud and happy being this way. I have just recently become more open about ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions first if thats ok? So if you could just reply to them, i ... | |
| me and my girlfriend | 6/23/2007 |
| Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ... A: Well, there isnt much else i can think of to add really. The best thing you can do for yourself is ... | |
| me and my girlfriend | 6/21/2007 |
| Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ... A: Ultimately, you need to do what feels right for you. What im getting from what you have said to me, ... | |
| my girlfriends former best friend sucks | 6/19/2007 |
| Q: i'm dating my best friend. i'm gay, she is figuring out whether or not she thinks she is. i'm the ... A: Sorry for not responding quicker, but life has a habit of catching up sometimes;) Firstly, I dont ... | |
| How Do I Move On? | 6/16/2007 |
| Q: Exactly a year ago my ex-gf and I broke up. I was 27 at the time and she 26. We were together for a ... A: The only way to truly move on from someone, is to be brave enough to try in the first place. Im not ... | |
| me and my girlfriend | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ... A: Its great that you are both trying to heal yourselves by going to counselling. I wish you all the ... | |
| How Do I Move On? | 6/13/2007 |
| Q: Exactly a year ago my ex-gf and I broke up. I was 27 at the time and she 26. We were together for a ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions if thats ok? 1. Was this your first relationship with a ... | |
| looking for answers | 6/9/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I want to have a baby but she wants to put her eggs in me for me to carry the baby ... A: Best thing I can suggest is that you do a google search for " In Vitro Clinics " in your area, or ... | |
| Sexual Intimacy | 5/24/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for about a year in a half, when we first started our sex was very ... A: I would like to ask a few questions before i offer any advice if thats ok? If you could just answer ... | |
| HELP | 5/18/2007 |
| Q: Well Hi My Name Brandon And Am 15 And Well I Need Help Comin Out To My Dad. All My Friend Know My ... A: First off, take a couple of deep breaths and try to relax! I can completely understand that you are ... | |
| lesbian relationship | 5/16/2007 |
| Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ... A: I wish i could tell you why she is doing this, but of course i dont know her so i cant say. I dont ... | |
| wifes sexuality | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ... A: glad i could help:) Well, to be honest, if she does come back, would you want her to? How are you ... | |
| Girlfriend left | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ... A: Its never easy moving on from someone especially after a long relationship. For some people, its ... | |
| wifes sexuality | 5/9/2007 |
| Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ... A: Hey Ed, thanks for coming back:) From what you have said, I suspect that she is in fact gay. If she ... | |
| wifes sexuality | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ... A: Firstly, I want to say full credit to you for being so open to our wife, and letting her explore her ... | |
| lesbian relationship | 5/8/2007 |
| Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ... A: Well, from what you have written, i figure you have a couple of choices to make here. For some ... | |
| Confusion about this whole lesbian thing | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: These are my questions: How do you know if you are a lesbian or bisexual? I'm 15 and I think I'm ... A: First off, stop worrying so much!! I dont think its a good idea to come out just yet. As you ... | |
| Confused | 5/4/2007 |
| Q: ...Lately my attraction to women has grown. I've always been a very sexual person and I am aroused ... A: I would like to send you to a website, just copy and paste into your browser. www.the-clitoris.com ... | |
| lesbian relationship | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ... A: I sympathize with your situation, and i hope i can give you something to think about. She has asked ... | |
| spicing up the sexual relationship | 5/1/2007 |
| Q: . is that weird? im not into bondage or hurting or foot fetish but i like role playing so can you ... A: There is a website i would like to send you to: www.the-clitoris.com It has an awesome amount of ... | |
| Family Problems 2 | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: Well to answer your questions: I do still live at home with my parents. The thought of my own place ... A: I appreciate where your girlfriend is coming from,by saying that it bothers her a bit that you cant ... | |
| Feeling lost after a five year relationship. | 4/26/2007 |
| Q: Hey Vicky- I am a 24yr old college student, up until a week ago I had been with my girlfriend for ... A: I can certainly appreciate what you are going through right now, but you need to remember, that you ... | |
| Accepting Myself | 4/25/2007 |
| Q: I think that I hate myself because I am a lesbian. It is a part of myself that I am deeply ashamed ... A: Phew, your in a bit of pickle! In no way am i going to suggest you come out ok? I dont think that ... | |
| Family Problems | 4/23/2007 |
| Q: My parents found out about me being gay when i was 14, i am now 19, and they are still not ok with ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions first, and have you get back to me ok? 1. Do you live with ... | |
| Accepting Myself | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I think that I hate myself because I am a lesbian. It is a part of myself that I am deeply ashamed ... A: Once you realise that you are gay, its never easy accepting this for yourself either. It is for some ... | |
| Sex | 4/17/2007 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend are having problems in bed. We finally decided to go the whole way, but I just ... A: I want to send you to another website please www.the-clitoris.com This is NOT a porn site. It is a ... | |
| RE: Orgasm or Nogasm | 4/15/2007 |
| Q: Answer Hi Lindsey, thanks for coming to me. Before i get into any advice on this, i need to ask you ... A: Well, i would like to direct you to a website because i feel there is more to be gained from reading ... | |
| Jealousy | 4/13/2007 |
| Q: I am 18 and I have fallen madly in love with my girlfriend who is 17. We have been together for just ... A: ) To be honest, the only thing you can do, is to keep on reassuring her. It might take some time, ... | |
| Orgasm or nogasm? | 4/12/2007 |
| Q: Every time my girlfriend and I try to have a special intimate time and she tries to "get me off" it ... A: Before i get into any advice on this, i need to ask you a few questions please. 1. Are you of legal ... | |
| first-time Lesbian/ curious | 4/8/2007 |
| Q: Hey! I am 16 and you said that you came out when you were 17 and i sort of relate to you. I am sort ... A: Well, being a lesbian, means different things to a lot of women who are. For me, its about being ... | |
| coming out with my girlfriend | 4/7/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 and i have just come to accept that I am gay. Over the past year, my friend and I have become ... A: ) Sounds like you are in a little bit of a pickle! If you are both this afraid of telling her ... | |
| being bi (going to high school) | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: As of now I am 14 and still in middle school. I realized that I was bi this year but I decided not ... A: I dont think school has changed all that much since i went, and in saying that, there were only ever ... | |
| coming out with my girlfriend | 4/5/2007 |
| Q: I'm 18 and i have just come to accept that I am gay. Over the past year, my friend and I have become ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions please, and have you get back to me when you can. 1. When ... | |
| Bisexual women | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: I have been out for over ten years and very comfortable with my sexuality. However, I only seem to ... A: Firstly, people are people:) we are who we are, and no one can change that agreed? Secondly, no you ... | |
| Am I living in the past? | 3/30/2007 |
| Q: I met my ex girlfriend when I was in my mid twenties and she was thirty. We went through a lot of ... A: I appologise for not responding quicker, unfortunately, life sometimes takes a hold;) It is ... | |
| I love her but I am curious... | 3/29/2007 |
| Q: I'm 19 and I came to terms with the fact I was gay at 18, immediately after meeting the most ... A: Its perfectly normal to feel and think this way ok? You are young, and its only natural to think ... | |
| coming out | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: Im 23 yrs old and i consider myself a stud now, i used to just dress preppy. I recently got into a ... A: Well, first and foremost, you need to remain true to yourself. Do the things that make YOU happy, ... | |
| dog in the house | 3/22/2007 |
| Q: Well here's the truth: I really donīt like dogs, I am allergyc to their hair and I get annoyed by ... A: I see a few options here:) I realise money is tight, but the love of a pet is more important than ... | |
| HOW TO TELL FRIENDS AND FAMILY | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: I knew their was something wrong with me since i was like 7. As years progressed I've come to the ... A: There is no easy way to tell people you are gay. I wish there was! It all boils down to timing i ... | |
| Viewing Lesbian Videos with my Wife | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: I like to watch lesbian videos with my wife as a form of stimulation while we are making love. I ... A: ) I would like to send you to a website, just copy and paste into your browser: ... | |
| Marriage?? | 3/15/2007 |
| Q: I'm a 22 year old lesbian from Illinois, and I've been dating a dating a woman for three years ... A: ) In my humble opinion, marriage is definately a personal thing, and you are not wrong in thinking ... | |
| i just dont know | 3/13/2007 |
| Q: i just dont know if i am gay please tell me the warning signs that means i am. i mean, i find some ... A: Well, im not sure about warning signs, but there are a few things you can ask yourself, that might ... | |
| great sex | 3/9/2007 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend have the best sex, and i cant distinguish between whats better for her rough or ... A: ) I would like to send you to a website: www.the-clitoris.com This website is a fantastic ... | |
| what 2 do now | 3/7/2007 |
| Q: i'm 16 and know that i'm gay, my parents don't know bt a few of my friends do, but now i have ... A: The fact that you say you dont feel good enough for anyone, is just a confidence thing. Because you ... | |
| Sex | 2/15/2007 |
| Q: I know what i am about to ask sounds very stupid, but i can't help wondering. What do lesbians ... A: Its not embarassing at all, and its a very common question indeed:) Check this website out: ... | |
| hi again | 1/29/2007 |
| Q: I have another question to ask you, and since you gave me great help in the past, I figured i'd come ... A: ) Im not entirely sure what you are after here, so if you could try and get some questions to me, ... | |
| help | 1/12/2007 |
| Q: ok so i ask about my girl friend yesterday. well last night i talked to her for about a hour. just ... A: Well, in all honesty, i think you should seriously consider moving on with your life. I agree with ... | |
| help | 1/11/2007 |
| Q: . I had been dateing this straight girl for about a year. she is the best thing in my life. i have ... A: Well, the short answer to your question is communication. The only way you are going to know where ... | |
| Children | 1/11/2007 |
| Q: 1.she can't have children 2.We have tryed but I don't really have friends that are guys 3.I want ... A: Well, if this is something that you are serious about, then i have a few ideas that you might ... | |
| Children | 1/9/2007 |
| Q: I am a 19 y/o young woman. I came out last year and have been with the same girl ever since then she ... A: I have a few questions for you if thats ok? 1. Does your girlfriend want you to bear the children, ... | |
| new to gay relationship- need sex advice | 1/8/2007 |
| Q: I am starting this great relationship and have never had lesbian sex. I am worried I want know what ... A: ) The best advice i can give you, is to go to the following website: (just copy and past the URL ... | |
| Is There Anything I Can/Should Do? | 1/5/2007 |
| Q: A while ago I posted a question and although I received some much needed advice the situation still ... A: ) Well, in all honesty, the only way to make good of this situation, is to move on and start again. ... | |
| bad holiday visit | 1/2/2007 |
| Q: I just came back from a holiday family visit with my girlfriend- her family lives in another state. ... A: Sorry to hear you had a hard time on your holiday. I have a few questions for you first if thats ... | |
| lesbians | 8/26/2006 |
| Q: Okay i am a lesbian and i want to show love to this girl that i have known for two years..... not ... A: Well the simplest thing you can do, is be yourself, and do what you feel comfortable doing. If you ... | |
| I need advice. | 8/23/2006 |
| Q: I'm 25. I'm a chemist. I have never slept with a man, and I've never wanted to. Kissed men (very ... A: I think you have the answer already:) You suggested that perhaps what you need to do is find a ... | |
| Depressed and suicidal for almost 15 years now | 8/12/2006 |
| Q: I am at the end of my tether and wondered whether you had any advice for me. I am 27 and have ... A: First of all, keep your chin up ok? I know how cliched this is going to sound, but its true, there ... | |
| In love with Bi/Les Woman. . . | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: I write this from a very broken and heart heart, but healing now. For some time I have been in love ... A: I am sorry to hear how things turned out for you. Its not easy, but, things do turn out for the best ... | |
| just a freak scared of intimacy?! | 8/6/2006 |
| Q: i have a few questions though. how do i find a girl id like to experiment with?! i dont want ... A: ) Well, the easiest way to meet people in a comfortable setting is to find an online chat room. ... | |
| just a freak scared of intimacy?! | 8/4/2006 |
| Q: im 19, ive never had a boyfriend. im attracted to girls i have been for a year or so and ive never ... A: In my humble opinion, i dont think you fear intimacy, i just think that you are at that time in your ... | |
| Am I a Lesbian? | 8/3/2006 |
| Q: So I have been having some sort of relationship with a lesbian for the past year. At first it ... A: The most important thing in anyones life, is to be happy. How we choose to do this, is up to us:) ... | |
| sexuality | 8/1/2006 |
| Q: firstly iwant to apologise as this will be long but i need to explain my situation exactly. i am 27 ... A: Firstly, dont worry that you are feminine. It doesnt matter what you look like, if you want to be ... | |
| How to get my ex back? | 7/30/2006 |
| Q: My ex and I dated for 4 months, it was incredibly intense, sexual and intense. She wanted me to ... A: Short answer to your question is no. My reason, and this is just my opinion, is that she treated ... | |
| Am I being used? | 7/10/2006 |
| Q: I've had to move back to MS after my relationship broke up. I feel like I'm doing fine after quite ... A: ) Its good to hear that you have a positive spin on your fresh start:))) I dont think i need to ... | |
| Am I being used? | 7/9/2006 |
| Q: I just moved to a new town over a thousand miles away from where I lived. To top it off, my ... A: ) Thank you for your patience as well. I like to take a bit of time with questions, and this ... | |
| How Do I Make Her See? | 7/8/2006 |
| Q: My question is complex but will try to be short. My girlfriend and I have dated for a year, but she ... A: This is a bit of a tough one, because there is no decent way to make someone do something if they ... | |
| Question | 7/2/2006 |
| Q: I am 18 years old and I am "straight" but see thats what i think I am not sure of my sexuality ... A: ) In all honesty, there is nothing wrong with being confused. Especially at this point in your ... | |
| Need advice | 7/1/2006 |
| Q: I live in Washington State in the Vancouver area and yes I think my husband would be OK with this ... A: ) I have tried to locate some support type groups for lesbians in your area, but to be honest, i am ... | |
| Confused about my friend | 6/30/2006 |
| Q: Over the past few months I have become extremely close with an old school friend who is the same ... A: Well, i can certainly understand your confusion here. THe best advice i can offer you, is two ... | |
| using toys | 6/29/2006 |
| Q: ive been involved with my present girlfriend for the past 5weeks, she has two adult children and ... A: Well, to be perfectly honest, introducing your lover to sex toys, might take a bit of time. ... | |
| What should I do | 6/28/2006 |
| Q: OK...first i am a 35yo Male who has been wanting to become a woman for the past 15 years. My problem ... A: ) Before I give any advice, could you give me a bit more information please? 1. Whereabouts in the ... | |
| 4/22/2006 | |
| Q: Im 15 years old.I've always liked women. Even when I was little.But, then again, ive always "liked" ... A: At this point in your life, I dont believe that you are a lesbian. Not yet. The reason i say this is ... | |
| love? | 3/24/2006 |
| Q: I have been out to everyone for almost 3 years now and after a messy relationship have just found a ... A: There is only one way to find out how she feels;) You need to talk to her:)) Perhaps create the ... | |
| me and my best friend reloaded | 3/18/2006 |
| Q: it's been some weeks, but still... it helped a lot. this is not really a question today, maybe i ... A: Hey Suzie, good to hear from you:) Good luck with your talk, if you havnt already gone through it ... | |
| anal sex | 3/14/2006 |
| Q: ok im a Guy but i have a very serious and embrassing question and there is not any one else i can ... A: Hey Derek, thanks for coming back to me:)) There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of when having ... | |
| finding a girlfriend | 3/11/2006 |
| Q: I want to expirentment with a woman because I think that they are more passionate and caring, I was ... A: Well, to be perfectly honest, the only thing holding you back from finding a woman is your own ... | |
| finding a girlfriend | 3/9/2006 |
| Q: I need help in finding a girlfriend.I want to expirence what it's like to be a lesbian.I've been ... A: Firstly, I need to make sure that you are doing this for the right reasons. You need to think ... | |
| anal sex | 3/8/2006 |
| Q: ok im a Guy but i have a very serious and embrassing question and there is not any one else i can ... A: ) Thanks for coming to me. Its really neat that you are interested in experimenting for your ... | |
| How to lean in for a kiss with a lesbian | 2/28/2006 |
| Q: I am 15 and I like this girl who I came out to, im bi. I told her I liked her and she liked me too. ... A: Well, kissing a woman and leaning in for the kiss, is pretty much the same as if you were to kiss a ... | |
| Daughter Masturbating | 2/27/2006 |
| Q: This isn't a question about being gay but I read your profile and thought you might be able to help. ... A: ) I need to clear something up about masturbation: It doesnt turn you gay and it doesnt make you go ... | |
| confused about moving in with first girlfriend | 2/19/2006 |
| Q: I would like to ask you a few questions please. 1. What are you hoping to find within the gay ... A: ) Another question if thats ok? Why are you feeling pressure from your brother about your mother? ... | |
| confused about moving in with first girlfriend | 2/18/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We broke up last May and got back together in ... A: I would like to ask you a few questions please. 1. What are you hoping to find within the gay ... | |
| lesbians | 2/8/2006 |
| Q: im a lesbian and i would like to know if u know any sites that features videos of lesbians making ... A: Unfortunately, in order to find what you are looking for, you will need to weed through the ... | |
| male/female roles | 1/24/2006 |
| Q: I was wondering why homosexual couples tend to have one person be a more masculine role, and the ... A: well, its been my experience that one partner is a more dominant person, and the other slightly ... | |
| me and my best friend | 1/24/2006 |
| Q: i am a woman of 26, in a relationship with a man but in love with my best (girl)friend, whom i know ... A: Sorry for not getting to you sooner, i have been away. I think that you should talk to your friend, ... | |
| Vicky, I am thinking about... | 1/19/2006 |
| Q: Vicky, I am thinking about doing counselling when I go back to school. I don't know why I am ... A: Im glad you have made the decision to see a counsellor when you get back to school. The counsellor ... | |
| Re: My special Friend | 1/18/2006 |
| Q: I truly appreciate your quick response. Everything you said was very insightful and quite helpful. ... A: glad I could help! Well, if you have no one else to talk to, I dont see why you cant keep in ... | |
| As for dating, I'm not sure... | 1/17/2006 |
| Q: As for dating, I'm not sure if I want to hook up with a women or not and don't know how to pursue ... A: I think that it is important for you to focus on one issue at a time right now. If you are having ... | |
| Hey vicky, Here are the... | 1/17/2006 |
| Q: Hey vicky, Here are the answers to your questions. 1. No, he as not mentioned anything to me about ... A: ) Well, if experimenting with a woman is something you want to persue, it is my humble opinion that ... | |
| My special friend | 1/16/2006 |
| Q: I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read this letter. I have never had a ... A: ) As far as advice goes, I honestly think you have it all sewn up! Its a very good idea to see a ... | |
| Vicky, I was looking thru... | 1/13/2006 |
| Q: Vicky, I was looking thru my past emails and just wanted to ask another question. It took me a ... A: Glad to hear that you sound like you are enjoying College:) As for your new friend Jason, well, ... | |
| realationship problems | 1/12/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for almost ten years and I am the femme. I currently own my own ... A: ) It would seem that you already know the answer to your question as to what to do with your ... | |
| Coming out... as something new | 1/4/2006 |
| Q: Hey vicky... So I'm only 14... Most people say I'm too young to even know what lesbian means, but ... A: ) Well, its interesting that you think you are going through a phase. It is possible that you are, ... | |
| the friend | 12/19/2005 |
| Q: Okay, so I'm 16 and have just started coming out to certain people. I'm totally comfortable with ... A: ) Im sorry for not responding sooner, and I hope that I can help you as best I can. There have been ... | |
| Commitment | 11/27/2005 |
| Q: Why can't I commit to my girlfriend? I've been in a relationship for over a month now and I really ... A: )) I think that you have highlighted how you feel about your girlfriend and thats a good start. ... | |
| Commitment | 11/21/2005 |
| Q: Why can't I commit to my girlfriend? I've been in a relationship for over a month now and I really ... A: Hey Rob, thanks for the) I would like to ask you a few questions, and have you get back to me if ... | |
| Commitment | 10/29/2005 |
| Q: Its nice to just be able to get this off my chest. I think i know why she doesnt want to tell ... A: Well, it does seem that you have an idea of what shes going through, but still, you shouldnt have to ... | |
| Commitment | 10/28/2005 |
| Q: This is my first lesbian relationship and we have been together for 9 months now. I have told afew ... A: Its sad to hear that your girlfriend doesnt want to tell anyone that she is with you, but, there ... | |
| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 10/13/2005 |
| Q: Do you think that me and the wife can remind friends??? I don't talk with the husband anymore,the ... A: Well, if you want to remain friends with the wife, its entirely up to you if you do. There is no ... | |
| safeness | 10/11/2005 |
| Q: Is it safe to have oral sex when a girl is on her period? A: Please use the following web address as it has a wealth of info on sex and menstruation? ... | |
| Am I a lesbian | 10/8/2005 |
| Q: My name is Heather and I'm 16. I'm trying to figure out if I'm a lesbian or not. I'm pretty sure I ... A: )) Please dont be offended, but i think that you are too young to decide what you are right at this ... | |
| Coming out to DH... | 10/2/2005 |
| Q: I'm 32 soon to be 33 years old. Hope your sitting down because I have to tell the story from ... A: Well, from what you have said, you have certainly tried to deal with your feelings as well as ... | |
| just some simple advice.. | 9/7/2005 |
| Q: I know a few bisexual and lesbian girls and from what I know they are very sexual and open-minded ... A: Im not sure i understood what you were after, but i think its got something to do with other forms ... | |
| crush | 9/2/2005 |
| Q: i know u can help mi.now weve been close friends with this gal for six years now.we met at high ... A: ) Well, from what youve said, the only way you are going to know if she is interested in you is to ... | |
| question | 9/1/2005 |
| Q: Vicky, hello my name is lizzie. i have a question. i got to a public highschool with around 1,900 ... A: Coming out is quite a hard thing to do, and its also a very brave thing to do. There is no easy ... | |
| Lesbian sister | 7/18/2005 |
| Q: My sister has been "out of the closet" with a lesbian lifestyle for a few years now. Although the ... A: Well you are right, your sister is certainly a grown up now, but it doesnt appear that she is acting ... | |
| Where to start? I feel... | 7/15/2005 |
| Q: Where to start? I feel like overall I have always had a different attitude than most towards ... A: ) Well, im glad that you mentioned you havent had many sexual encounters, and because of that, and ... | |
| Lesbian dating | 7/10/2005 |
| Q: Just out of curiosity, how is lesbian dating different from hetro dating? I'm writing a fictional ... A: To be perfectly honest, if two lesbians go on a date, its exactly the same as a man and a woman ... | |
| help newbie to the lesbian lifestyle | 7/8/2005 |
| Q: I'm 32years old and I just started acting on my attraction for women. I met this beautiful girl in a ... A: Well, from what you have written, in my humble opinion, i dont think she is as interested as she ... | |
| Messy 3 way situation! | 6/13/2005 |
| Q: Answer 1. I've told my boyfriend what happened and that I enjoyed kissing her, I think more detail ... A: ) To be perfectly blunt, long distance relationships hardly ever work:/ sad fact, but true. The ... | |
| Messy 3 way situation! | 6/9/2005 |
| Q: I'm a girl, 23 who has untill recently have never been into girls. I've been around the block with ... A: Well, you asked if i thought that because this is the first woman you had these feelings for is ... | |
| Re: dating sites | 5/29/2005 |
| Q: I have done what you told me to. I found one website and am hoping to find people on it. I only ... A: the best advice i can give you regarding dating sites is just to search until you find one that you ... | |
| Intimacy issues | 5/26/2005 |
| Q: My partner and I have been together for a little over two years. We are very much in love with one ... A: ) Thank you for answering my questions. Based on your replies, unfortunately, i see one definite ... | |
| Intimacy issues | 5/25/2005 |
| Q: My partner and I have been together for a little over two years. We are very much in love with one ... A: Im going to ask you some questions ok? So i would really appreciate it if you could get back to me ... | |
| Re | 5/18/2005 |
| Q: Vicky, Those numbers are all long distance phone calls and if I called them, I wouldn't know what ... A: ) Unfortunately matchmakin sites are pretty much a trial and error situation. Its up to you to do a ... | |
| Hi Vicky, Thanks for replying... | 5/14/2005 |
| Q: No, I do not live in Puerto Rico; I live in New Jersey. The only friend I trust with this issue ... A: ) As I dont know much about where you are situated, ive done a wee search using Google to see if ... | |
| Re | 5/11/2005 |
| Q: I am not sexually active with men, but have had experiences with one woman (now she is an exfriend). ... A: Well, women are like men, in that they do flirt:) The best place to meet women that enjoy other ... | |
| Re: answering your questions | 5/8/2005 |
| Q: 1. I think about being with the two teachers I mentioned but if I see an attractive woman on the ... A: ) Well, I dont know if you are or have been sexually active with men. But, i wont just say that you ... | |
| Lesbian | 5/7/2005 |
| Q: I am not sure if I am lesbian or not. When I was in 9th grade, I had a crush on my history teacher. ... A: ) Well, i need to ask you a few questions firstly, so i would appreciate it if you would come back ... | |
| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 5/6/2005 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ... A: Well, from what youve said, they both had a hand in wanting you to come and live with them in an ... | |
| A Family thing | 5/3/2005 |
| Q: The sister is open, and the fact that my best friend "plays gay" every now and again is the worst ... A: ) Well, the fact that everyone seems to be so open about their previous sexuality as well as ... | |
| A Family thing | 5/2/2005 |
| Q: My best friend is bisexual, and her sister is a lesbian. We recently learned that her mother was ... A: ) Well, thats a very interesting))) In my humble opinion, I dont think that your sexual preference ... | |
| life after long-term relationship | 4/17/2005 |
| Q: Vicky... that's thais again :-)) I would like to thank you very much for all your help..... I think ... A: im glad i could help:) I wish you all the best, and if there is anything else i can do, please dont ... | |
| my girlfriend | 4/6/2005 |
| Q: she came out as a lesbian 2 years ago but i guess it faded then she me and asked me out, i said yes ... A: ) From what you have said to me, it would seem that she doesnt quite know what she wants. And in ... | |
| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/6/2005 |
| Q: ..! Well let me first thank you once again for your reply. Sir, plz dont mind but you did not ... A: First off, you keep calling me sir, and i am not a man, i am a woman. Secondly,i feel i have ... | |
| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/5/2005 |
| Q: ..! Thanks alot for replying to my mail. Sir,Pardon me but am confused about this.Some ... A: No one is the same at all. It doesnt matter if two women are on the same sort of diet, there will ... | |
| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/3/2005 |
| Q: ..! Howz you?Hope things are fine at ur end ? Am PAUL,a 23 yr old boy.Am interested to ... A: Ans1.> There are inumerable differences in taste. In other words, too many to count. Every woman is ... | |
| relationship | 3/17/2005 |
| Q: I am 19 and yesterday I went to the beach my friend, she is a girl, and at the beach she took off ... A: ) Well, when you find a woman and start to have a relationship, the only way you will know what she ... | |
| Am I gay? | 3/5/2005 |
| Q: I love haveing sex with my boyfriend but I am dying to have sex with a girl. I go online and chat ... A: ) Well, to me, it does just sound like you are curious at the moment. The only way you will know ... | |
| lesbian why???? | 3/2/2005 |
| Q: sir can u tell me what are the reason behind the lesbian trend in west? A: Well im not too sure what sort of answer you are after. What trend do you see in the west? As far as ... | |
| who am i? | 2/28/2005 |
| Q: :) hi sorry ok ive just got one more last question to ask and i hope you dont mind but it just ... A: its perfectly alright if you come back again, tis what i am here for;) Now onto your questions... ... | |
| sex | 2/27/2005 |
| Q: i want to know what is the taste of men's semen and women's cumin out. is it harmful for a man or a ... A: Well, i dont know what mens semen tastes like, but from what others have said to me, it can iether ... | |
| Is my wife Bi or what?? | 2/27/2005 |
| Q: .... I am very pleased with your answer...I guess I am hoping that my wife becomes Bi....I know this ... A: ) I need to re-iterate something firstly...make sure this is something she wants to do ok? Dont ... | |
| Is my wife Bi or what?? | 2/26/2005 |
| Q: I am wondering (and hoping) that you can help me.... My wife and I are considering a threesome with ... A: ) Well, to be honest, I cant really say that your wife is one way or the other. Because i dont know ... | |
| lesbian question | 2/22/2005 |
| Q: I am 16 years old and I'm not sure if I'm gay or not. Ok, actually...I think I'm straight since I've ... A: Well, to be honest, in my humble opinion, I do believe you are still too young to make that decision ... | |
| Ex wouldn't touch me | 2/21/2005 |
| Q: I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend because she refused to have sex with me. She said she ... A: ) Well first off, im sorry you had to go through that, i really am, and i can understand what you ... | |
| am i bi or just curious? | 2/17/2005 |
| Q: i'm 19 and for the past three years i've been looking at girls the same way i do with guys. My ... A: ) Well, i think your boyfriend is right. You do need to find out whether or not you are bi or ... | |
| unsure | 1/29/2005 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ... A: ) In getting you to answer those questions for me, you have actually given yourself an answer as ... | |
| unsure | 1/27/2005 |
| Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ... A: ) I wish i had the ability to make it easier for you, but unfortunately, as with any decision we ... | |
| i just don't know | 1/20/2005 |
| Q: .. what i'm just confused about is whether or not my feelings make me a lesbian.I do not find ... A: )) The fact that you cringe when you think about being with a man, would indicate you would prefer ... | |
| Reply to "To be or not to be" | 1/14/2005 |
| Q: I really want to thank you for replying to my letter I wrote on December 22, concerning being ... A: I am pleased i was able to help you in some way:) Its good to hear that you did some serious ... | |
| i'm confused | 1/13/2005 |
| Q: then i started to become sexually attracted to women in book and film. now i am feeling that for ... A: ) Well, first off, i dont like giving out labels...so for now, to me, you just sound like someone ... | |
| Femme or Butch? | 1/8/2005 |
| Q: I knew I am a lesbian since I was teenage, but only came out recently to my family and I am so happy ... A: Well, to be honest, i dont believe in labelling people. I believe in what i know about myself, and ... | |
| My Book | 1/4/2005 |
| Q: I am writting a book about a lesbian couple and I was wondering if you would be kind enough give me ... A: Unfortunately, i would have to say that i decline this time round. What i get told and asked remains ... | |
| To be or not to be | 12/22/2004 |
| Q: I am perhaps having the biggest dilemma of my life. I am engaged to be married. We have not set a ... A: ) Well it certainly sounds like youve got a right pickle on your hands! Who to choose? Whos heart ... | |
| am i or not help please | 12/21/2004 |
| Q: hi im 18 years old. i need help. iv had relationships with boys, ive even been sexually involved ... A: Well, to be honest, the only way you will know for sure, is if you actually go out with a woman. ... | |
| Lesbian vs. Bi | 12/19/2004 |
| Q: I'm a 17-year-old girl that has been identifying as bisexual since I was 14ish. The thing is, I'm ... A: ) well, unfortunately, i cant speak for all lesbians because we all think differently. Some ... | |
| VAGINAL TASTE | 12/6/2004 |
| Q: ..! Let me first thank you for replying back.Well getting back to our discussion.....I have had ... A: In answer to your questions: Q1> Everyone is different. Even if you were to ask your girlfriend to ... | |
| What does sex meen? | 11/27/2004 |
| Q: I have heard a lot of ppl talk about gay/les sex. But you cant! Because sex is when the penis goes ... A: Sex isnt defined by a penis or vagina anymore:) It also isnt just about making babies either:) Sex ... | |
| 12 and i think im a les | 11/25/2004 |
| Q: i have took particular interest in girls for about 1 yr. I have looked at lesbian porn sites and ... A: A.B thanks for the) Well, i wish i could tell you what to do, but that wouldnt be right now would ... | |
| VAGINAL TASTE | 11/25/2004 |
| Q: ..! Am a 23 yr old guy.Am eager to know about female Vagina.I have had 4 girl friends uptil now.All ... A: ) Well, first off, if you are with one partner long term, you get used to how she tastes, and then ... | |
| need help | 11/24/2004 |
| Q: I am sober about a year and 11 months. I went to AA and got myself a sponsor who is a lesbian, a ... A: ) Thank you for coming here:) First off, i need to express that i wont TELL you what you need to ... | |
| how should i approach her | 10/29/2004 |
| Q: i would like to know how to find out if shes lesbian but im afraid to ruin it. since she knew ... A: Well, first off, its a worry that you say this girl is the only thing keeping you from being ... | |
| I am confused about my sexuality. Please help me! | 9/1/2004 |
| Q: I am a 20-year-old girl. I have never had a boyfriend - I've never been in a relationship with a ... A: Well, if the thought of being with a woman makes you happy, not just sexually but emotionally, then ... | |
| orgasm problems... | 8/27/2004 |
| Q: Well I do masturbate, but I'll admit its very difficult for me to do so.. I know it sounds stupid... ... A: ) THank you for telling me all this as well by the way, its not easy to do. Well, from what youve ... | |
| orgasm problems... | 8/26/2004 |
| Q: I've been with this girl for almost 3 months but our relationship is long distance. I've been in ... A: ) Firstly, its a good thing to hear that you have spoken to her about how you are feeling. It ... | |
| Sexual Identity | 8/13/2004 |
| Q: I am a 24 year old female. I have dated one person in my life, a male, and we had a serious ... A: ) You have a lot of interesting questions:) First off, im not going to say that yes you are a ... | |
| protection during sex | 7/29/2004 |
| Q: Ms. King, Is it possible for lesbians to have "protected" sex? How is that possible, especially ... A: The answer is yes you can have protected sex:) If you are not shy, go to a sex store and ask them ... | |
| coming out and depression | 6/24/2004 |
| Q: ok so heres my life. I recently ran into some trouble--in my head at least--when a friend of mine, a ... A: ) Well, firstly, im not quite sure what you are asking me here. But, from what you have said, i do ... | |
| Does she like me? | 6/9/2004 |
| Q: I live with two of my friends. The past three months since living togeather one of my friends and I ... A: Well from what youve said she could be flirting with you. BUT because i dont see her or know her, ... | |
| Is she straight or confused - love with best friend | 5/26/2004 |
| Q: I am a woman in my late 30s my gf is 50. We both love each other deeply. About two years ago it ... A: ) This is a toughy to answer but i will give it my best shot. I think , this is just my opinion ... | |
| Hello! I am 34 years old... | 5/25/2004 |
| Q: I am 34 years old married and 3 kids. Wen I was groing up I found myself attracted to woman at dif ... A: Well, this is a hard one to answer. Ultimately, you need to do what is right for yourself. If you ... | |
| Relationship | 5/20/2004 |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We live together and have done for over a year. ... A: Its unfortunate when a relationship stagnates and seems to just die, but, there is a way to make ... | |
| What can I do? | 5/3/2004 |
| Q: ------------------------- Hey, it's me again. I came out to a lot more people right now, and it ... A: ) Glad to hear that things are on the up for you as well:) Its a huge step that youve taken and i ... | |
| Really coming out. | 4/30/2004 |
| Q: Vicky, I'm a 23 year old female I've always been attratcted to females, but have never been with ... A: Hey Liz, thanks for coming here. First off, you dont need to know anyone else in order to ... | |
| dear old mummy and daddy | 4/25/2004 |
| Q: I chose to talk to you bcos as strange as it is, my name is actually vicky king too! I am a 16 yr ... A: ) Well, coming out is something that is pretty hard to do, but if its the right thing for you to ... | |
| Best friend? | 4/25/2004 |
| Q: I am slightly concerned about my best friend, Claire. We're both 16, and we both have boyfriends. ... A: Well, it could just be as innocent as friendship, BUT, it could also be that she is confused about ... | |
| how can i tell? | 4/18/2004 |
| Q: Ms. Vicky king, sorry to take up your time. Im a straight women that has a friend who is married ... A: Well, this is a bit difficult to advise on, but i will try. You said you are too scared to talk to ... | |
| Is my wife a lesbian or bi-curious? | 4/6/2004 |
| Q: Vicky, I have been married for about nine months now and I have noticed my wife pull away from me ... A: I honestly dont think your wife is gay, what i do suspect is that you are now settled in to what is ... | |
| What can I do? | 3/19/2004 |
| Q: Hey, thanks for your advice, but U kno what, I really cannot just stop contact with her. Sorry~~ I ... A: To find your soulmate...well...that means that you need to go out and get actively involved in your ... | |
| What can I do? | 3/19/2004 |
| Q: it's me again. Remember that I told U that I had a crush on a friend from the internet? U told me ... A: Sorry to hear about what happend. The best advice i can offer you now, is to forget about her and ... | |
| Confessing my love | 2/26/2004 |
| Q: Hey! It's me again! Remeber me? Well, her ex tried to get back to her and she doesn't know what to ... A: ) Well, i still dont htink its the right time for you to tell her your feelings. shes confused and ... | |
| my girlfriend | 2/19/2004 |
| Q: You made it perfectly clear enough.I just got to talk to her and tried to explain how I feel about ... A: Unfortunately, there isnt a way you can keep her to yourself. If this relationship is meant to be, ... | |
| where | 2/16/2004 |
| Q: where can i meet other lesbians? A: Well, it does all depend on where you are i guess. If you have any universities near you, it might ... | |
| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/14/2004 |
| Q: Vicki, It looks like I got a partial reply. Is part of it missing? Followup To Question - Vicki, ... A: Nope it wasnt a partial reply, because as i read your email, it was more statement than question. ... | |
| Confessing my love | 2/13/2004 |
| Q: I think I asked U a question before, may be U already forgot. Well, ok, I met a girl through a ... A: ) Well, at the moment, i dont think that you should lay your feelings on the line just yet. What i ... | |
| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/13/2004 |
| Q: Vicki, I didn't want to go into too much detail earlier. I assume you get your share of questions ... A: im glad i was able to help you:) seriously, though, if you ever get the idea that you want to ... | |
| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/12/2004 |
| Q: Vicky, Recently, my girlfriend (we're both crazy about each other) of two months came home with me ... A: ) Well, i dont think that you have anything to worry about here at all. It sounds like she was just ... | |
| Interest | 1/11/2004 |
| Q: I am curious to know, I have sort-of a crush on my future boss. She is single as far as I know, and ... A: Well, unfortunatley, because i cannot see exactly what goes on, its difficult for me to base an ... | |
| confusion | 12/2/2002 |
| Q: please help me understand myself im a bi woman im in a long term relationship with a man but i ... A: ) Well, to your first question..should you tell your best friend that you are in love with ... | |
| confused | 10/13/2002 |
| Q: I have the hots for this chick, but her history has been relationships with men. However, her ... A: )) Well, this might sound a bit iffy, but, have you considerd talking to her? I know a lot of ... | |
| confusion | 8/23/2002 |
| Q: I am 22 and I have always been attracted to men. Matter of fact, I have a fascination with penises. ... A: I do think that you are curious , and thats perfectly normal. Perhaps you should try and find a ... | |
| STDs | 7/17/2002 |
| Q: OK I guess this question involves alittle back ground about my self. I am 17 years old and I have ... A: ) Well, first off, it doesnt matter whether you have sex with men or women, as to whether or not ... | |
| curious one.. | 7/15/2002 |
| Q: .. i'm 19 and female, and well lately... i feel attracted to women as well as men... is this just a ... A: ) Well, ask yourself the following: 1. Do you think about women a lot? 2. Do you have a lot of ... | |
| Lesbian | 6/24/2002 |
| Q: I need some help. I'm 16 and I think I'm a lesbian. I've never had any interest in boys or men and ... A: ) Just like with life, there isnt a test you can take to see where you are going to go, or how you ... | |
| Hi, Here's my dilemma.... | 9/9/2001 |
| Q: Here's my dilemma. I am a 23 year old lesbian. I haven't had much luck on the dating scene because I ... A: Well, sometimes its much better to be honest than not. Perhaps you could just ask your friend if ... | |
| Love or Lust? | 8/22/2001 |
| Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and i'm starting to have feelings for someone else and ... A: ) Well, its perfectly alright to have those feelings, if youve grown apart from your current ... | |
| crush | 7/24/2001 |
| Q: .I am a 15 year old girl who recently got my first job.I'm not "out" yet b/c I'm still a little ... A: ) Well, what i think you should do is perhaps get her to go to lunch with you or a movie or ... | |
| skinheads in butte county, california | 7/14/2001 |
| Q: My gf and I own a home in Chico, CA. Wednesday our front door was hit with several potatoes. ... A: Hey Georgette, thanks for the question. Well, its a bit difficult, im not in the States so im not ... | |
| Whats it like? | 6/23/2001 |
| Q: I am not a homosexual just so you know. I have a very serious question and I am not trying to poke ... A: )) Well, i knew way before i hit puberty that i was a wee bit different! I knew i was gay from ... | |
| I'm BI I think. | 6/19/2001 |
| Q: Hey, my name is Carolyn, i'm almost 13 and I think I'm BI. I used to think i was a lesbian, but now ... A: Well, i must admit you are rather young, but if you are already sexually active, then theres not an ... | |
| Confused | 4/24/2001 |
| Q: I have a question for you, I'm 24 years old and never ever did anything with another female. But ... A: Well, perhaps you ought to talk to your husband about your feelings. If he at least knows whats ... | |
| Homosexuality | 2/18/2001 |
| Q: I have an upcoming debate in my political idealogies class. The topic is "Does Gov't Have the Right ... A: )) Firstly, I am presuming you are in the States, and i need to say that im not;)) But i will try ... | |
| my girlfriend | 2/1/2001 |
| Q: Well this isn't for me it's for my girlfriend (i'm a guy). my girlfriend and I have been together ... A: ) Well firstly, its really cool that you are willing to help your girlfriend;)) Talking to her ... | |
| Hello! This is rather embarrasing,... | 1/7/2001 |
| Q: This is rather embarrasing, but here goes! I don't mean to be blunt, but here's probably the only ... A: Ok, firstly, its not embarrasing so dont worry about it;) Im normally pretty cautious when it comes ... | |
| Am i or not? | 11/15/2000 |
| Q: I`m 17 years old whith a baby.Ihave a boy friend wich is my baby`s father.But,lately I fell atracted ... A: Firstly, just because you like the female body, doesnt mean that you are gay. It can mean that you ... | |
| I`m bi | 8/27/2000 |
| Q: I want to come out to my cousinb who is 24 and lives on the other side of the country from me. I ... A: Ok, firstly, congratulations on your coming out, I know its not the easiest of things to do. ... | |
| gay friend in love with me... | 7/22/2000 |
| Q: i found out recently that one of my best friends is in love with me. we have an amazing ... A: Erm...this is pretty hard. I dont think that you would be hurting her if you stayed friends with ... | |
| lesbians | 4/22/2000 |
| Q: I`m 13 and I am not a lesbian. I have been harassed for 3 years by this boy that continually tells ... A: it would appear that this boy is interested in you, albeit in a rather bizarre way! by doing ... | |
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