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| First time sexual advice, please? | 10/12/2009 |
Q: I have a quick question... My girlfriend and myself are ready to take our relationship to a physical ...
A: Best advice I can give you is to go to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com This is NOT a ...
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| Fear of being gay back home. | 9/14/2009 |
Q: I am an ex-pat kiwi living in Australia, and have been in a gay relationship for the past 10 years. ...
A: and apologies for the lateness in reply. Im not so sure how to answer this to be honest! But I will ...
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| Problems while being intimate with my partner | 8/22/2009 |
Q: I have been with my partner for a bit over 2 1/2 years. Our relationship is pretty rocky lately. ...
A: The best advice I can give you is to go and talk to someone. I appreciate that you are not ...
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| how to ?. | 8/21/2009 |
Q: im 14 and a lesbian or bi? not quite sure but im not sure how to tell my mam i just don't know what ...
A: Well firstly, it is NOT your girlfriends place to tell anyone anything about you!! In fact if she is ...
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| ftm and partner | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Since coming into who I need to be and have allways known I am,my partner and I have stepped onto a ...
A: Firstly, its awesome that you have realised who you are, and are comfortable with it!! That cant ...
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| anal | 7/30/2009 |
Q: my girlfiend likes to lick my anal area,is this ok? ANSWER: Hi Marcy, thanks for coming to me. ...
A: ) Well, its up to you both. I do strongly advise the use of an ANAL dam, which you can purchase ...
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| anal | 7/26/2009 |
Q: my girlfiend likes to lick my anal area,is this ok?
A: Well, its perfectly alright as long as it is ok with you, and her:) Just remember that safe sex is ...
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| Okay to swallow? | 7/11/2009 |
Q: I am a 30 year-old lesbian. When I orgasm, I always squirt a good amount of "girl juice" from my ...
A: Well to be honest, provided you dont have any sexually transmitted diseases or infections in your ...
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| im confused | 7/10/2009 |
Q: i think im lesbian, but im attracted to boys and girls. i dont know any other lesbians so i dont ...
A: Well in all honesty, you could be bisexual. There is nothing wrong with this either. I think ...
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| Kowing if you're gay | 7/9/2009 |
Q: how do you know if you are lesbian? i have a friend of mine who told me she's Bi, and when i asked ...
A: Different things work for different people;) If it makes you more comfortable telling someone that ...
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| sex | 7/7/2009 |
Q: okay so i need help me and my girlfriend Emily are going to have sex because we sat down and talked ...
A: The best thing i can do is send you to the following website: www.the-clitoris.com It is NOT a porn ...
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| Kowing if you're gay | 7/6/2009 |
Q: how do you know if you are lesbian? i have a friend of mine who told me she's Bi, and when i asked ...
A: For some people, they know they are gay from a young age. It all boils down to who you prefer to ...
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| spanking | 6/9/2009 |
Q: My girlfriend says she gets turned on by being spanked. Is that normal?
A: Yes it is normal. Most people have certain things that turn them on, and spanking is definatley one ...
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| klein test | 2/10/2008 |
Q: recently, I took the klein grid on sexual orientation exam and found out that i am heterosexual but ...
A: ) Just because you think about your friend, does NOT make you gay ok? Again, if you were thinking ...
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| my straight best friend | 9/14/2007 |
Q: My problem is that I have fallen in love with my straight best friend and am having an extremely ...
A: In some way, i think you have already answered your own questions:) you have admitted that you have ...
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| orgasm too quick | 9/11/2007 |
Q: I have searched all over the net, and there is absolutely nothing about a WOMAN WHO CUMS TOO FAST! ...
A: Best advice I can offer you is to go to the following website. It is NOT a porn site, but instead, a ...
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| help with a less sexual girlfriend? | 9/8/2007 |
Q: i've been dating this girl for about a month, and i really like her a lot. she's funny and smart ...
A: ) I dont think you are doomed! I think though, that this sort of thing takes a bit of time:) There ...
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| i want a baby | 9/6/2007 |
Q: vicky hello i need your advice i am 24 and i have only been out for about a year now and my ...
A: The first thing I would like to suggest you try, is counselling. Before you think im being silly, ...
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| to say something or not | 9/5/2007 |
Q: i had recently encountered something with my son's dr. i go there once a month for his meds. in ...
A: I think that if it is what you want, then you should go for it and ask her out for coffee:) I cant ...
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| Girlfriend left | 9/4/2007 |
Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ...
A: Easy answer, you need to get on with your own life, and get her out of it. Start focussing on ...
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| submission (sexually) | 8/30/2007 |
Q: i have some needs that need to be met. i have the bodily need to be bitten, the thought of bearing a ...
A: ) Im sorry that my suggestions didnt work, but the best thing i can suggest again, is to try and ...
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| Lesbians and Virginity | 8/29/2007 |
Q: Well This is a rather basic question... Me and my girlfriend are starting to have sex and we waited ...
A: ) I have the perfect place to send you, just copy and paste into your browser:) ...
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| Questioning my identity | 8/28/2007 |
Q: OK, here's my problem. I don't know what to consider myself anymore. When I was younger and in ...
A: Firstly, you are NOT damaged goods! Youve just lost your way a bit, and I would like to suggest ...
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| submission (sexually) | 8/26/2007 |
Q: i have some needs that need to be met. i have the bodily need to be bitten, the thought of bearing a ...
A: What I would like to suggest is the following: Just copy and paste this webaddress into your ...
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| in love with a married woman | 8/13/2007 |
Q: My name is Daphne.I am 32 year old lesbian. I am in love with 40 year old married woman and don't ...
A: Well, again, it is really your choice. What is your gut telling you to do? If your gut is saying ...
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| Girlfriend left | 8/13/2007 |
Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ...
A: ) You are doing the right thing by getting out there and meeting new people. That is a good start. ...
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| in love with a married woman | 8/12/2007 |
Q: My name is Daphne.I am 32 year old lesbian. I am in love with 40 year old married woman and don't ...
A: It is up to you whether you send her a happy birthday message:) If it is something you really want ...
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| new to lesbian and inlove | 8/11/2007 |
Q: hey vicky, im gracie and im 15, um ive recently discovered that im lesbian...well, last year-ish...i ...
A: In some ways, i think your sister is right. You need to just wait and see what happens first, before ...
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| Intimacy? | 8/11/2007 |
Q: How can I be more intimate ith my girlfriend without going 'all the way'
A: Best advice i can give you is to go to the following website, just copy and paste into your browser. ...
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| umm me and my girlfreind | 8/6/2007 |
Q: ok you see I've been dating my girl for almost six months and i haven't been able to make her have ...
A: The best advice i can give you is to go to the following website, just copy and paste into your ...
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| Married & a Lesbian | 7/30/2007 |
Q: I've been married for 10 years and have 3 children. I've always been attracted to females since I ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions ok? 1. When you are with this woman, how does it make you ...
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| My gf has been dealing with health issues... | 7/29/2007 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 months, we love each other deeply, we've discussed long ...
A: I guess you need to ask yourself a serious question. Do you really want to be with this woman? Its ...
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| I'm finding it incredibly hard to accept i am a lesbian | 7/7/2007 |
Q: I feel that my instincts are geared to wanting to be with women but I have no desire for sex or to ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions if thats ok? So if you could get back to me when you are ...
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| What should i do? | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I am 16 years old and i have been in relationships with with girls but i am done with it...every ...
A: Well, youve taken the first step i think:) You had the courage to tell her how you felt, and she ...
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| Unsure about a lot of things... | 6/27/2007 |
Q: I want to keep this as brief as I can. I am a 15 year old girl in a modern-day high school. The ...
A: I honestly dont think, in my humble opinion, that you are in love with your friend. I think you are ...
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| homophobic lesbian??? | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I am a lesbian and very proud and happy being this way. I have just recently become more open about ...
A: Sorry to hear that you dont have a supportive family, heres hoping that they come around over time. ...
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| homophobic lesbian??? | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I am a lesbian and very proud and happy being this way. I have just recently become more open about ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions first if thats ok? So if you could just reply to them, i ...
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| me and my girlfriend | 6/23/2007 |
Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ...
A: Well, there isnt much else i can think of to add really. The best thing you can do for yourself is ...
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| me and my girlfriend | 6/21/2007 |
Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ...
A: Ultimately, you need to do what feels right for you. What im getting from what you have said to me, ...
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| my girlfriends former best friend sucks | 6/19/2007 |
Q: i'm dating my best friend. i'm gay, she is figuring out whether or not she thinks she is. i'm the ...
A: Sorry for not responding quicker, but life has a habit of catching up sometimes;) Firstly, I dont ...
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| How Do I Move On? | 6/16/2007 |
Q: Exactly a year ago my ex-gf and I broke up. I was 27 at the time and she 26. We were together for a ...
A: The only way to truly move on from someone, is to be brave enough to try in the first place. Im not ...
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| me and my girlfriend | 6/15/2007 |
Q: I need some direction... I met this wonderful women 3 years ago. it was great up until the last ...
A: Its great that you are both trying to heal yourselves by going to counselling. I wish you all the ...
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| How Do I Move On? | 6/13/2007 |
Q: Exactly a year ago my ex-gf and I broke up. I was 27 at the time and she 26. We were together for a ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions if thats ok? 1. Was this your first relationship with a ...
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| looking for answers | 6/9/2007 |
Q: My girlfriend and I want to have a baby but she wants to put her eggs in me for me to carry the baby ...
A: Best thing I can suggest is that you do a google search for " In Vitro Clinics " in your area, or ...
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| Sexual Intimacy | 5/24/2007 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for about a year in a half, when we first started our sex was very ...
A: I would like to ask a few questions before i offer any advice if thats ok? If you could just answer ...
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| HELP | 5/18/2007 |
Q: Well Hi My Name Brandon And Am 15 And Well I Need Help Comin Out To My Dad. All My Friend Know My ...
A: First off, take a couple of deep breaths and try to relax! I can completely understand that you are ...
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| lesbian relationship | 5/16/2007 |
Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ...
A: I wish i could tell you why she is doing this, but of course i dont know her so i cant say. I dont ...
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| wifes sexuality | 5/10/2007 |
Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ...
A: glad i could help:) Well, to be honest, if she does come back, would you want her to? How are you ...
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| Girlfriend left | 5/9/2007 |
Q: I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past 8 years. In Aug '05 my GF told me she was ...
A: Its never easy moving on from someone especially after a long relationship. For some people, its ...
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| wifes sexuality | 5/9/2007 |
Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ...
A: Hey Ed, thanks for coming back:) From what you have said, I suspect that she is in fact gay. If she ...
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| wifes sexuality | 5/8/2007 |
Q: ill try to keep this breif although ther is so much detail i could go into. i need to know if my ...
A: Firstly, I want to say full credit to you for being so open to our wife, and letting her explore her ...
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| lesbian relationship | 5/8/2007 |
Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ...
A: Well, from what you have written, i figure you have a couple of choices to make here. For some ...
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| Confusion about this whole lesbian thing | 5/6/2007 |
Q: These are my questions: How do you know if you are a lesbian or bisexual? I'm 15 and I think I'm ...
A: First off, stop worrying so much!! I dont think its a good idea to come out just yet. As you ...
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| Confused | 5/4/2007 |
Q: ...Lately my attraction to women has grown. I've always been a very sexual person and I am aroused ...
A: I would like to send you to a website, just copy and paste into your browser. www.the-clitoris.com ...
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| lesbian relationship | 5/3/2007 |
Q: Ok I've been in a almost 4 year relationship. I have a 4 year old from last relationship.Lesbian ...
A: I sympathize with your situation, and i hope i can give you something to think about. She has asked ...
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| spicing up the sexual relationship | 5/1/2007 |
Q: . is that weird? im not into bondage or hurting or foot fetish but i like role playing so can you ...
A: There is a website i would like to send you to: www.the-clitoris.com It has an awesome amount of ...
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| Family Problems 2 | 4/26/2007 |
Q: Well to answer your questions: I do still live at home with my parents. The thought of my own place ...
A: I appreciate where your girlfriend is coming from,by saying that it bothers her a bit that you cant ...
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| Feeling lost after a five year relationship. | 4/26/2007 |
Q: Hey Vicky- I am a 24yr old college student, up until a week ago I had been with my girlfriend for ...
A: I can certainly appreciate what you are going through right now, but you need to remember, that you ...
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| Accepting Myself | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I think that I hate myself because I am a lesbian. It is a part of myself that I am deeply ashamed ...
A: Phew, your in a bit of pickle! In no way am i going to suggest you come out ok? I dont think that ...
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| Family Problems | 4/23/2007 |
Q: My parents found out about me being gay when i was 14, i am now 19, and they are still not ok with ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions first, and have you get back to me ok? 1. Do you live with ...
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| Accepting Myself | 4/21/2007 |
Q: I think that I hate myself because I am a lesbian. It is a part of myself that I am deeply ashamed ...
A: Once you realise that you are gay, its never easy accepting this for yourself either. It is for some ...
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| Sex | 4/17/2007 |
Q: Me and my girlfriend are having problems in bed. We finally decided to go the whole way, but I just ...
A: I want to send you to another website please www.the-clitoris.com This is NOT a porn site. It is a ...
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| RE: Orgasm or Nogasm | 4/15/2007 |
Q: Answer Hi Lindsey, thanks for coming to me. Before i get into any advice on this, i need to ask you ...
A: Well, i would like to direct you to a website because i feel there is more to be gained from reading ...
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| Jealousy | 4/13/2007 |
Q: I am 18 and I have fallen madly in love with my girlfriend who is 17. We have been together for just ...
A: ) To be honest, the only thing you can do, is to keep on reassuring her. It might take some time, ...
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| Orgasm or nogasm? | 4/12/2007 |
Q: Every time my girlfriend and I try to have a special intimate time and she tries to "get me off" it ...
A: Before i get into any advice on this, i need to ask you a few questions please. 1. Are you of legal ...
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| first-time Lesbian/ curious | 4/8/2007 |
Q: Hey! I am 16 and you said that you came out when you were 17 and i sort of relate to you. I am sort ...
A: Well, being a lesbian, means different things to a lot of women who are. For me, its about being ...
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| coming out with my girlfriend | 4/7/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and i have just come to accept that I am gay. Over the past year, my friend and I have become ...
A: ) Sounds like you are in a little bit of a pickle! If you are both this afraid of telling her ...
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| being bi (going to high school) | 4/6/2007 |
Q: As of now I am 14 and still in middle school. I realized that I was bi this year but I decided not ...
A: I dont think school has changed all that much since i went, and in saying that, there were only ever ...
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| coming out with my girlfriend | 4/5/2007 |
Q: I'm 18 and i have just come to accept that I am gay. Over the past year, my friend and I have become ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions please, and have you get back to me when you can. 1. When ...
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| Bisexual women | 4/4/2007 |
Q: I have been out for over ten years and very comfortable with my sexuality. However, I only seem to ...
A: Firstly, people are people:) we are who we are, and no one can change that agreed? Secondly, no you ...
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| Am I living in the past? | 3/30/2007 |
Q: I met my ex girlfriend when I was in my mid twenties and she was thirty. We went through a lot of ...
A: I appologise for not responding quicker, unfortunately, life sometimes takes a hold;) It is ...
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| I love her but I am curious... | 3/29/2007 |
Q: I'm 19 and I came to terms with the fact I was gay at 18, immediately after meeting the most ...
A: Its perfectly normal to feel and think this way ok? You are young, and its only natural to think ...
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| coming out | 3/23/2007 |
Q: Im 23 yrs old and i consider myself a stud now, i used to just dress preppy. I recently got into a ...
A: Well, first and foremost, you need to remain true to yourself. Do the things that make YOU happy, ...
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| dog in the house | 3/22/2007 |
Q: Well here's the truth: I really donīt like dogs, I am allergyc to their hair and I get annoyed by ...
A: I see a few options here:) I realise money is tight, but the love of a pet is more important than ...
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| HOW TO TELL FRIENDS AND FAMILY | 3/21/2007 |
Q: I knew their was something wrong with me since i was like 7. As years progressed I've come to the ...
A: There is no easy way to tell people you are gay. I wish there was! It all boils down to timing i ...
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| Viewing Lesbian Videos with my Wife | 3/19/2007 |
Q: I like to watch lesbian videos with my wife as a form of stimulation while we are making love. I ...
A: ) I would like to send you to a website, just copy and paste into your browser: ...
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| Marriage?? | 3/15/2007 |
Q: I'm a 22 year old lesbian from Illinois, and I've been dating a dating a woman for three years ...
A: ) In my humble opinion, marriage is definately a personal thing, and you are not wrong in thinking ...
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| i just dont know | 3/13/2007 |
Q: i just dont know if i am gay please tell me the warning signs that means i am. i mean, i find some ...
A: Well, im not sure about warning signs, but there are a few things you can ask yourself, that might ...
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| great sex | 3/9/2007 |
Q: me and my girlfriend have the best sex, and i cant distinguish between whats better for her rough or ...
A: ) I would like to send you to a website: www.the-clitoris.com This website is a fantastic ...
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| what 2 do now | 3/7/2007 |
Q: i'm 16 and know that i'm gay, my parents don't know bt a few of my friends do, but now i have ...
A: The fact that you say you dont feel good enough for anyone, is just a confidence thing. Because you ...
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| Sex | 2/15/2007 |
Q: I know what i am about to ask sounds very stupid, but i can't help wondering. What do lesbians ...
A: Its not embarassing at all, and its a very common question indeed:) Check this website out: ...
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| hi again | 1/29/2007 |
Q: I have another question to ask you, and since you gave me great help in the past, I figured i'd come ...
A: ) Im not entirely sure what you are after here, so if you could try and get some questions to me, ...
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| help | 1/12/2007 |
Q: ok so i ask about my girl friend yesterday. well last night i talked to her for about a hour. just ...
A: Well, in all honesty, i think you should seriously consider moving on with your life. I agree with ...
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| help | 1/11/2007 |
Q: . I had been dateing this straight girl for about a year. she is the best thing in my life. i have ...
A: Well, the short answer to your question is communication. The only way you are going to know where ...
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| Children | 1/11/2007 |
Q: 1.she can't have children 2.We have tryed but I don't really have friends that are guys 3.I want ...
A: Well, if this is something that you are serious about, then i have a few ideas that you might ...
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| Children | 1/9/2007 |
Q: I am a 19 y/o young woman. I came out last year and have been with the same girl ever since then she ...
A: I have a few questions for you if thats ok? 1. Does your girlfriend want you to bear the children, ...
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| new to gay relationship- need sex advice | 1/8/2007 |
Q: I am starting this great relationship and have never had lesbian sex. I am worried I want know what ...
A: ) The best advice i can give you, is to go to the following website: (just copy and past the URL ...
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| Is There Anything I Can/Should Do? | 1/5/2007 |
Q: A while ago I posted a question and although I received some much needed advice the situation still ...
A: ) Well, in all honesty, the only way to make good of this situation, is to move on and start again. ...
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| bad holiday visit | 1/2/2007 |
Q: I just came back from a holiday family visit with my girlfriend- her family lives in another state. ...
A: Sorry to hear you had a hard time on your holiday. I have a few questions for you first if thats ...
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| lesbians | 8/26/2006 |
Q: Okay i am a lesbian and i want to show love to this girl that i have known for two years..... not ...
A: Well the simplest thing you can do, is be yourself, and do what you feel comfortable doing. If you ...
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| I need advice. | 8/23/2006 |
Q: I'm 25. I'm a chemist. I have never slept with a man, and I've never wanted to. Kissed men (very ...
A: I think you have the answer already:) You suggested that perhaps what you need to do is find a ...
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| Depressed and suicidal for almost 15 years now | 8/12/2006 |
Q: I am at the end of my tether and wondered whether you had any advice for me. I am 27 and have ...
A: First of all, keep your chin up ok? I know how cliched this is going to sound, but its true, there ...
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| In love with Bi/Les Woman. . . | 8/10/2006 |
Q: I write this from a very broken and heart heart, but healing now. For some time I have been in love ...
A: I am sorry to hear how things turned out for you. Its not easy, but, things do turn out for the best ...
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| just a freak scared of intimacy?! | 8/6/2006 |
Q: i have a few questions though. how do i find a girl id like to experiment with?! i dont want ...
A: ) Well, the easiest way to meet people in a comfortable setting is to find an online chat room. ...
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| just a freak scared of intimacy?! | 8/4/2006 |
Q: im 19, ive never had a boyfriend. im attracted to girls i have been for a year or so and ive never ...
A: In my humble opinion, i dont think you fear intimacy, i just think that you are at that time in your ...
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| Am I a Lesbian? | 8/3/2006 |
Q: So I have been having some sort of relationship with a lesbian for the past year. At first it ...
A: The most important thing in anyones life, is to be happy. How we choose to do this, is up to us:) ...
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| sexuality | 8/1/2006 |
Q: firstly iwant to apologise as this will be long but i need to explain my situation exactly. i am 27 ...
A: Firstly, dont worry that you are feminine. It doesnt matter what you look like, if you want to be ...
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| How to get my ex back? | 7/30/2006 |
Q: My ex and I dated for 4 months, it was incredibly intense, sexual and intense. She wanted me to ...
A: Short answer to your question is no. My reason, and this is just my opinion, is that she treated ...
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| Am I being used? | 7/10/2006 |
Q: I've had to move back to MS after my relationship broke up. I feel like I'm doing fine after quite ...
A: ) Its good to hear that you have a positive spin on your fresh start:))) I dont think i need to ...
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| Am I being used? | 7/9/2006 |
Q: I just moved to a new town over a thousand miles away from where I lived. To top it off, my ...
A: ) Thank you for your patience as well. I like to take a bit of time with questions, and this ...
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| How Do I Make Her See? | 7/8/2006 |
Q: My question is complex but will try to be short. My girlfriend and I have dated for a year, but she ...
A: This is a bit of a tough one, because there is no decent way to make someone do something if they ...
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| Question | 7/2/2006 |
Q: I am 18 years old and I am "straight" but see thats what i think I am not sure of my sexuality ...
A: ) In all honesty, there is nothing wrong with being confused. Especially at this point in your ...
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| Need advice | 7/1/2006 |
Q: I live in Washington State in the Vancouver area and yes I think my husband would be OK with this ...
A: ) I have tried to locate some support type groups for lesbians in your area, but to be honest, i am ...
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| Confused about my friend | 6/30/2006 |
Q: Over the past few months I have become extremely close with an old school friend who is the same ...
A: Well, i can certainly understand your confusion here. THe best advice i can offer you, is two ...
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| using toys | 6/29/2006 |
Q: ive been involved with my present girlfriend for the past 5weeks, she has two adult children and ...
A: Well, to be perfectly honest, introducing your lover to sex toys, might take a bit of time. ...
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| What should I do | 6/28/2006 |
Q: OK...first i am a 35yo Male who has been wanting to become a woman for the past 15 years. My problem ...
A: ) Before I give any advice, could you give me a bit more information please? 1. Whereabouts in the ...
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| 4/22/2006 |
Q: Im 15 years old.I've always liked women. Even when I was little.But, then again, ive always "liked" ...
A: At this point in your life, I dont believe that you are a lesbian. Not yet. The reason i say this is ...
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| love? | 3/24/2006 |
Q: I have been out to everyone for almost 3 years now and after a messy relationship have just found a ...
A: There is only one way to find out how she feels;) You need to talk to her:)) Perhaps create the ...
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| me and my best friend reloaded | 3/18/2006 |
Q: it's been some weeks, but still... it helped a lot. this is not really a question today, maybe i ...
A: Hey Suzie, good to hear from you:) Good luck with your talk, if you havnt already gone through it ...
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| anal sex | 3/14/2006 |
Q: ok im a Guy but i have a very serious and embrassing question and there is not any one else i can ...
A: Hey Derek, thanks for coming back to me:)) There is absolutely nothing to be afraid of when having ...
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| finding a girlfriend | 3/11/2006 |
Q: I want to expirentment with a woman because I think that they are more passionate and caring, I was ...
A: Well, to be perfectly honest, the only thing holding you back from finding a woman is your own ...
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| finding a girlfriend | 3/9/2006 |
Q: I need help in finding a girlfriend.I want to expirence what it's like to be a lesbian.I've been ...
A: Firstly, I need to make sure that you are doing this for the right reasons. You need to think ...
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| anal sex | 3/8/2006 |
Q: ok im a Guy but i have a very serious and embrassing question and there is not any one else i can ...
A: ) Thanks for coming to me. Its really neat that you are interested in experimenting for your ...
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| How to lean in for a kiss with a lesbian | 2/28/2006 |
Q: I am 15 and I like this girl who I came out to, im bi. I told her I liked her and she liked me too. ...
A: Well, kissing a woman and leaning in for the kiss, is pretty much the same as if you were to kiss a ...
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| Daughter Masturbating | 2/27/2006 |
Q: This isn't a question about being gay but I read your profile and thought you might be able to help. ...
A: ) I need to clear something up about masturbation: It doesnt turn you gay and it doesnt make you go ...
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| confused about moving in with first girlfriend | 2/19/2006 |
Q: I would like to ask you a few questions please. 1. What are you hoping to find within the gay ...
A: ) Another question if thats ok? Why are you feeling pressure from your brother about your mother? ...
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| confused about moving in with first girlfriend | 2/18/2006 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We broke up last May and got back together in ...
A: I would like to ask you a few questions please. 1. What are you hoping to find within the gay ...
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| lesbians | 2/8/2006 |
Q: im a lesbian and i would like to know if u know any sites that features videos of lesbians making ...
A: Unfortunately, in order to find what you are looking for, you will need to weed through the ...
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| male/female roles | 1/24/2006 |
Q: I was wondering why homosexual couples tend to have one person be a more masculine role, and the ...
A: well, its been my experience that one partner is a more dominant person, and the other slightly ...
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| me and my best friend | 1/24/2006 |
Q: i am a woman of 26, in a relationship with a man but in love with my best (girl)friend, whom i know ...
A: Sorry for not getting to you sooner, i have been away. I think that you should talk to your friend, ...
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| Vicky,
I am thinking about... | 1/19/2006 |
Q: Vicky, I am thinking about doing counselling when I go back to school. I don't know why I am ...
A: Im glad you have made the decision to see a counsellor when you get back to school. The counsellor ...
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| Re: My special Friend | 1/18/2006 |
Q: I truly appreciate your quick response. Everything you said was very insightful and quite helpful. ...
A: glad I could help! Well, if you have no one else to talk to, I dont see why you cant keep in ...
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| As for dating, I'm not sure... | 1/17/2006 |
Q: As for dating, I'm not sure if I want to hook up with a women or not and don't know how to pursue ...
A: I think that it is important for you to focus on one issue at a time right now. If you are having ...
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| Hey vicky,
Here are the... | 1/17/2006 |
Q: Hey vicky, Here are the answers to your questions. 1. No, he as not mentioned anything to me about ...
A: ) Well, if experimenting with a woman is something you want to persue, it is my humble opinion that ...
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| My special friend | 1/16/2006 |
Q: I would like to thank you in advance for taking the time to read this letter. I have never had a ...
A: ) As far as advice goes, I honestly think you have it all sewn up! Its a very good idea to see a ...
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| Vicky, I was looking thru... | 1/13/2006 |
Q: Vicky, I was looking thru my past emails and just wanted to ask another question. It took me a ...
A: Glad to hear that you sound like you are enjoying College:) As for your new friend Jason, well, ...
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| realationship problems | 1/12/2006 |
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for almost ten years and I am the femme. I currently own my own ...
A: ) It would seem that you already know the answer to your question as to what to do with your ...
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| Coming out... as something new | 1/4/2006 |
Q: Hey vicky... So I'm only 14... Most people say I'm too young to even know what lesbian means, but ...
A: ) Well, its interesting that you think you are going through a phase. It is possible that you are, ...
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| the friend | 12/19/2005 |
Q: Okay, so I'm 16 and have just started coming out to certain people. I'm totally comfortable with ...
A: ) Im sorry for not responding sooner, and I hope that I can help you as best I can. There have been ...
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| Commitment | 11/27/2005 |
Q: Why can't I commit to my girlfriend? I've been in a relationship for over a month now and I really ...
A: )) I think that you have highlighted how you feel about your girlfriend and thats a good start. ...
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| Commitment | 11/21/2005 |
Q: Why can't I commit to my girlfriend? I've been in a relationship for over a month now and I really ...
A: Hey Rob, thanks for the) I would like to ask you a few questions, and have you get back to me if ...
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| Commitment | 10/29/2005 |
Q: Its nice to just be able to get this off my chest. I think i know why she doesnt want to tell ...
A: Well, it does seem that you have an idea of what shes going through, but still, you shouldnt have to ...
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| Commitment | 10/28/2005 |
Q: This is my first lesbian relationship and we have been together for 9 months now. I have told afew ...
A: Its sad to hear that your girlfriend doesnt want to tell anyone that she is with you, but, there ...
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| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 10/13/2005 |
Q: Do you think that me and the wife can remind friends??? I don't talk with the husband anymore,the ...
A: Well, if you want to remain friends with the wife, its entirely up to you if you do. There is no ...
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| safeness | 10/11/2005 |
Q: Is it safe to have oral sex when a girl is on her period?
A: Please use the following web address as it has a wealth of info on sex and menstruation? ...
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| Am I a lesbian | 10/8/2005 |
Q: My name is Heather and I'm 16. I'm trying to figure out if I'm a lesbian or not. I'm pretty sure I ...
A: )) Please dont be offended, but i think that you are too young to decide what you are right at this ...
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| Coming out to DH... | 10/2/2005 |
Q: I'm 32 soon to be 33 years old. Hope your sitting down because I have to tell the story from ...
A: Well, from what you have said, you have certainly tried to deal with your feelings as well as ...
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| just some simple advice.. | 9/7/2005 |
Q: I know a few bisexual and lesbian girls and from what I know they are very sexual and open-minded ...
A: Im not sure i understood what you were after, but i think its got something to do with other forms ...
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| crush | 9/2/2005 |
Q: i know u can help mi.now weve been close friends with this gal for six years now.we met at high ...
A: ) Well, from what youve said, the only way you are going to know if she is interested in you is to ...
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| question | 9/1/2005 |
Q: Vicky, hello my name is lizzie. i have a question. i got to a public highschool with around 1,900 ...
A: Coming out is quite a hard thing to do, and its also a very brave thing to do. There is no easy ...
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| Lesbian sister | 7/18/2005 |
Q: My sister has been "out of the closet" with a lesbian lifestyle for a few years now. Although the ...
A: Well you are right, your sister is certainly a grown up now, but it doesnt appear that she is acting ...
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| Where to start?
I feel... | 7/15/2005 |
Q: Where to start? I feel like overall I have always had a different attitude than most towards ...
A: ) Well, im glad that you mentioned you havent had many sexual encounters, and because of that, and ...
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| Lesbian dating | 7/10/2005 |
Q: Just out of curiosity, how is lesbian dating different from hetro dating? I'm writing a fictional ...
A: To be perfectly honest, if two lesbians go on a date, its exactly the same as a man and a woman ...
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| help newbie to the lesbian lifestyle | 7/8/2005 |
Q: I'm 32years old and I just started acting on my attraction for women. I met this beautiful girl in a ...
A: Well, from what you have written, in my humble opinion, i dont think she is as interested as she ...
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| Messy 3 way situation! | 6/13/2005 |
Q: Answer 1. I've told my boyfriend what happened and that I enjoyed kissing her, I think more detail ...
A: ) To be perfectly blunt, long distance relationships hardly ever work:/ sad fact, but true. The ...
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| Messy 3 way situation! | 6/9/2005 |
Q: I'm a girl, 23 who has untill recently have never been into girls. I've been around the block with ...
A: Well, you asked if i thought that because this is the first woman you had these feelings for is ...
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| Re: dating sites | 5/29/2005 |
Q: I have done what you told me to. I found one website and am hoping to find people on it. I only ...
A: the best advice i can give you regarding dating sites is just to search until you find one that you ...
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| Intimacy issues | 5/26/2005 |
Q: My partner and I have been together for a little over two years. We are very much in love with one ...
A: ) Thank you for answering my questions. Based on your replies, unfortunately, i see one definite ...
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| Intimacy issues | 5/25/2005 |
Q: My partner and I have been together for a little over two years. We are very much in love with one ...
A: Im going to ask you some questions ok? So i would really appreciate it if you could get back to me ...
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| Re | 5/18/2005 |
Q: Vicky, Those numbers are all long distance phone calls and if I called them, I wouldn't know what ...
A: ) Unfortunately matchmakin sites are pretty much a trial and error situation. Its up to you to do a ...
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| Hi Vicky,
Thanks for replying... | 5/14/2005 |
Q: No, I do not live in Puerto Rico; I live in New Jersey. The only friend I trust with this issue ...
A: ) As I dont know much about where you are situated, ive done a wee search using Google to see if ...
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| Re | 5/11/2005 |
Q: I am not sexually active with men, but have had experiences with one woman (now she is an exfriend). ...
A: Well, women are like men, in that they do flirt:) The best place to meet women that enjoy other ...
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| Re: answering your questions | 5/8/2005 |
Q: 1. I think about being with the two teachers I mentioned but if I see an attractive woman on the ...
A: ) Well, I dont know if you are or have been sexually active with men. But, i wont just say that you ...
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| Lesbian | 5/7/2005 |
Q: I am not sure if I am lesbian or not. When I was in 9th grade, I had a crush on my history teacher. ...
A: ) Well, i need to ask you a few questions firstly, so i would appreciate it if you would come back ...
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| Is it worth it,Big Dilemma | 5/6/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old single black female with no children,who has recently broken up with my boyfriend ...
A: Well, from what youve said, they both had a hand in wanting you to come and live with them in an ...
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| A Family thing | 5/3/2005 |
Q: The sister is open, and the fact that my best friend "plays gay" every now and again is the worst ...
A: ) Well, the fact that everyone seems to be so open about their previous sexuality as well as ...
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| A Family thing | 5/2/2005 |
Q: My best friend is bisexual, and her sister is a lesbian. We recently learned that her mother was ...
A: ) Well, thats a very interesting))) In my humble opinion, I dont think that your sexual preference ...
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| life after long-term relationship | 4/17/2005 |
Q: Vicky... that's thais again :-)) I would like to thank you very much for all your help..... I think ...
A: im glad i could help:) I wish you all the best, and if there is anything else i can do, please dont ...
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| my girlfriend | 4/6/2005 |
Q: she came out as a lesbian 2 years ago but i guess it faded then she me and asked me out, i said yes ...
A: ) From what you have said to me, it would seem that she doesnt quite know what she wants. And in ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/6/2005 |
Q: ..! Well let me first thank you once again for your reply. Sir, plz dont mind but you did not ...
A: First off, you keep calling me sir, and i am not a man, i am a woman. Secondly,i feel i have ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/5/2005 |
Q: ..! Thanks alot for replying to my mail. Sir,Pardon me but am confused about this.Some ...
A: No one is the same at all. It doesnt matter if two women are on the same sort of diet, there will ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 4/3/2005 |
Q: ..! Howz you?Hope things are fine at ur end ? Am PAUL,a 23 yr old boy.Am interested to ...
A: Ans1.> There are inumerable differences in taste. In other words, too many to count. Every woman is ...
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| relationship | 3/17/2005 |
Q: I am 19 and yesterday I went to the beach my friend, she is a girl, and at the beach she took off ...
A: ) Well, when you find a woman and start to have a relationship, the only way you will know what she ...
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| Am I gay? | 3/5/2005 |
Q: I love haveing sex with my boyfriend but I am dying to have sex with a girl. I go online and chat ...
A: ) Well, to me, it does just sound like you are curious at the moment. The only way you will know ...
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| lesbian why???? | 3/2/2005 |
Q: sir can u tell me what are the reason behind the lesbian trend in west?
A: Well im not too sure what sort of answer you are after. What trend do you see in the west? As far as ...
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| who am i? | 2/28/2005 |
Q: :) hi sorry ok ive just got one more last question to ask and i hope you dont mind but it just ...
A: its perfectly alright if you come back again, tis what i am here for;) Now onto your questions... ...
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| sex | 2/27/2005 |
Q: i want to know what is the taste of men's semen and women's cumin out. is it harmful for a man or a ...
A: Well, i dont know what mens semen tastes like, but from what others have said to me, it can iether ...
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| Is my wife Bi or what?? | 2/27/2005 |
Q: .... I am very pleased with your answer...I guess I am hoping that my wife becomes Bi....I know this ...
A: ) I need to re-iterate something firstly...make sure this is something she wants to do ok? Dont ...
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| Is my wife Bi or what?? | 2/26/2005 |
Q: I am wondering (and hoping) that you can help me.... My wife and I are considering a threesome with ...
A: ) Well, to be honest, I cant really say that your wife is one way or the other. Because i dont know ...
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| lesbian question | 2/22/2005 |
Q: I am 16 years old and I'm not sure if I'm gay or not. Ok, actually...I think I'm straight since I've ...
A: Well, to be honest, in my humble opinion, I do believe you are still too young to make that decision ...
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| Ex wouldn't touch me | 2/21/2005 |
Q: I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend because she refused to have sex with me. She said she ...
A: ) Well first off, im sorry you had to go through that, i really am, and i can understand what you ...
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| am i bi or just curious? | 2/17/2005 |
Q: i'm 19 and for the past three years i've been looking at girls the same way i do with guys. My ...
A: ) Well, i think your boyfriend is right. You do need to find out whether or not you are bi or ...
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| unsure | 1/29/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ...
A: ) In getting you to answer those questions for me, you have actually given yourself an answer as ...
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| unsure | 1/27/2005 |
Q: I am a 21 year old female and i know i am bi sexual as i like both men and women but lately men ...
A: ) I wish i had the ability to make it easier for you, but unfortunately, as with any decision we ...
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| i just don't know | 1/20/2005 |
Q: .. what i'm just confused about is whether or not my feelings make me a lesbian.I do not find ...
A: )) The fact that you cringe when you think about being with a man, would indicate you would prefer ...
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| Reply to "To be or not to be" | 1/14/2005 |
Q: I really want to thank you for replying to my letter I wrote on December 22, concerning being ...
A: I am pleased i was able to help you in some way:) Its good to hear that you did some serious ...
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| i'm confused | 1/13/2005 |
Q: then i started to become sexually attracted to women in book and film. now i am feeling that for ...
A: ) Well, first off, i dont like giving out labels...so for now, to me, you just sound like someone ...
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| Femme or Butch? | 1/8/2005 |
Q: I knew I am a lesbian since I was teenage, but only came out recently to my family and I am so happy ...
A: Well, to be honest, i dont believe in labelling people. I believe in what i know about myself, and ...
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| My Book | 1/4/2005 |
Q: I am writting a book about a lesbian couple and I was wondering if you would be kind enough give me ...
A: Unfortunately, i would have to say that i decline this time round. What i get told and asked remains ...
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| To be or not to be | 12/22/2004 |
Q: I am perhaps having the biggest dilemma of my life. I am engaged to be married. We have not set a ...
A: ) Well it certainly sounds like youve got a right pickle on your hands! Who to choose? Whos heart ...
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| am i or not help please | 12/21/2004 |
Q: hi im 18 years old. i need help. iv had relationships with boys, ive even been sexually involved ...
A: Well, to be honest, the only way you will know for sure, is if you actually go out with a woman. ...
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| Lesbian vs. Bi | 12/19/2004 |
Q: I'm a 17-year-old girl that has been identifying as bisexual since I was 14ish. The thing is, I'm ...
A: ) well, unfortunately, i cant speak for all lesbians because we all think differently. Some ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 12/6/2004 |
Q: ..! Let me first thank you for replying back.Well getting back to our discussion.....I have had ...
A: In answer to your questions: Q1> Everyone is different. Even if you were to ask your girlfriend to ...
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| What does sex meen? | 11/27/2004 |
Q: I have heard a lot of ppl talk about gay/les sex. But you cant! Because sex is when the penis goes ...
A: Sex isnt defined by a penis or vagina anymore:) It also isnt just about making babies either:) Sex ...
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| 12 and i think im a les | 11/25/2004 |
Q: i have took particular interest in girls for about 1 yr. I have looked at lesbian porn sites and ...
A: A.B thanks for the) Well, i wish i could tell you what to do, but that wouldnt be right now would ...
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| VAGINAL TASTE | 11/25/2004 |
Q: ..! Am a 23 yr old guy.Am eager to know about female Vagina.I have had 4 girl friends uptil now.All ...
A: ) Well, first off, if you are with one partner long term, you get used to how she tastes, and then ...
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| need help | 11/24/2004 |
Q: I am sober about a year and 11 months. I went to AA and got myself a sponsor who is a lesbian, a ...
A: ) Thank you for coming here:) First off, i need to express that i wont TELL you what you need to ...
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| how should i approach her | 10/29/2004 |
Q: i would like to know how to find out if shes lesbian but im afraid to ruin it. since she knew ...
A: Well, first off, its a worry that you say this girl is the only thing keeping you from being ...
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| I am confused about my sexuality. Please help me! | 9/1/2004 |
Q: I am a 20-year-old girl. I have never had a boyfriend - I've never been in a relationship with a ...
A: Well, if the thought of being with a woman makes you happy, not just sexually but emotionally, then ...
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| orgasm problems... | 8/27/2004 |
Q: Well I do masturbate, but I'll admit its very difficult for me to do so.. I know it sounds stupid... ...
A: ) THank you for telling me all this as well by the way, its not easy to do. Well, from what youve ...
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| orgasm problems... | 8/26/2004 |
Q: I've been with this girl for almost 3 months but our relationship is long distance. I've been in ...
A: ) Firstly, its a good thing to hear that you have spoken to her about how you are feeling. It ...
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| Sexual Identity | 8/13/2004 |
Q: I am a 24 year old female. I have dated one person in my life, a male, and we had a serious ...
A: ) You have a lot of interesting questions:) First off, im not going to say that yes you are a ...
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| protection during sex | 7/29/2004 |
Q: Ms. King, Is it possible for lesbians to have "protected" sex? How is that possible, especially ...
A: The answer is yes you can have protected sex:) If you are not shy, go to a sex store and ask them ...
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| coming out and depression | 6/24/2004 |
Q: ok so heres my life. I recently ran into some trouble--in my head at least--when a friend of mine, a ...
A: ) Well, firstly, im not quite sure what you are asking me here. But, from what you have said, i do ...
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| Does she like me? | 6/9/2004 |
Q: I live with two of my friends. The past three months since living togeather one of my friends and I ...
A: Well from what youve said she could be flirting with you. BUT because i dont see her or know her, ...
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| Is she straight or confused - love with best friend | 5/26/2004 |
Q: I am a woman in my late 30s my gf is 50. We both love each other deeply. About two years ago it ...
A: ) This is a toughy to answer but i will give it my best shot. I think , this is just my opinion ...
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| Hello!
I am 34 years old... | 5/25/2004 |
Q: I am 34 years old married and 3 kids. Wen I was groing up I found myself attracted to woman at dif ...
A: Well, this is a hard one to answer. Ultimately, you need to do what is right for yourself. If you ...
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| Relationship | 5/20/2004 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We live together and have done for over a year. ...
A: Its unfortunate when a relationship stagnates and seems to just die, but, there is a way to make ...
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| What can I do? | 5/3/2004 |
Q: ------------------------- Hey, it's me again. I came out to a lot more people right now, and it ...
A: ) Glad to hear that things are on the up for you as well:) Its a huge step that youve taken and i ...
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| Really coming out. | 4/30/2004 |
Q: Vicky, I'm a 23 year old female I've always been attratcted to females, but have never been with ...
A: Hey Liz, thanks for coming here. First off, you dont need to know anyone else in order to ...
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| dear old mummy and daddy | 4/25/2004 |
Q: I chose to talk to you bcos as strange as it is, my name is actually vicky king too! I am a 16 yr ...
A: ) Well, coming out is something that is pretty hard to do, but if its the right thing for you to ...
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| Best friend? | 4/25/2004 |
Q: I am slightly concerned about my best friend, Claire. We're both 16, and we both have boyfriends. ...
A: Well, it could just be as innocent as friendship, BUT, it could also be that she is confused about ...
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| how can i tell? | 4/18/2004 |
Q: Ms. Vicky king, sorry to take up your time. Im a straight women that has a friend who is married ...
A: Well, this is a bit difficult to advise on, but i will try. You said you are too scared to talk to ...
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| Is my wife a lesbian or bi-curious? | 4/6/2004 |
Q: Vicky, I have been married for about nine months now and I have noticed my wife pull away from me ...
A: I honestly dont think your wife is gay, what i do suspect is that you are now settled in to what is ...
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| What can I do? | 3/19/2004 |
Q: Hey, thanks for your advice, but U kno what, I really cannot just stop contact with her. Sorry~~ I ...
A: To find your soulmate...well...that means that you need to go out and get actively involved in your ...
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| What can I do? | 3/19/2004 |
Q: it's me again. Remember that I told U that I had a crush on a friend from the internet? U told me ...
A: Sorry to hear about what happend. The best advice i can offer you now, is to forget about her and ...
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| Confessing my love | 2/26/2004 |
Q: Hey! It's me again! Remeber me? Well, her ex tried to get back to her and she doesn't know what to ...
A: ) Well, i still dont htink its the right time for you to tell her your feelings. shes confused and ...
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| my girlfriend | 2/19/2004 |
Q: You made it perfectly clear enough.I just got to talk to her and tried to explain how I feel about ...
A: Unfortunately, there isnt a way you can keep her to yourself. If this relationship is meant to be, ...
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| where | 2/16/2004 |
Q: where can i meet other lesbians?
A: Well, it does all depend on where you are i guess. If you have any universities near you, it might ...
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| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/14/2004 |
Q: Vicki, It looks like I got a partial reply. Is part of it missing? Followup To Question - Vicki, ...
A: Nope it wasnt a partial reply, because as i read your email, it was more statement than question. ...
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| Confessing my love | 2/13/2004 |
Q: I think I asked U a question before, may be U already forgot. Well, ok, I met a girl through a ...
A: ) Well, at the moment, i dont think that you should lay your feelings on the line just yet. What i ...
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| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/13/2004 |
Q: Vicki, I didn't want to go into too much detail earlier. I assume you get your share of questions ...
A: im glad i was able to help you:) seriously, though, if you ever get the idea that you want to ...
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| How can I tell if my girlfrend's a Lesbian? | 2/12/2004 |
Q: Vicky, Recently, my girlfriend (we're both crazy about each other) of two months came home with me ...
A: ) Well, i dont think that you have anything to worry about here at all. It sounds like she was just ...
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| Interest | 1/11/2004 |
Q: I am curious to know, I have sort-of a crush on my future boss. She is single as far as I know, and ...
A: Well, unfortunatley, because i cannot see exactly what goes on, its difficult for me to base an ...
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| confusion | 12/2/2002 |
Q: please help me understand myself im a bi woman im in a long term relationship with a man but i ...
A: ) Well, to your first question..should you tell your best friend that you are in love with ...
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| confused | 10/13/2002 |
Q: I have the hots for this chick, but her history has been relationships with men. However, her ...
A: )) Well, this might sound a bit iffy, but, have you considerd talking to her? I know a lot of ...
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| confusion | 8/23/2002 |
Q: I am 22 and I have always been attracted to men. Matter of fact, I have a fascination with penises. ...
A: I do think that you are curious , and thats perfectly normal. Perhaps you should try and find a ...
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| STDs | 7/17/2002 |
Q: OK I guess this question involves alittle back ground about my self. I am 17 years old and I have ...
A: ) Well, first off, it doesnt matter whether you have sex with men or women, as to whether or not ...
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| curious one.. | 7/15/2002 |
Q: .. i'm 19 and female, and well lately... i feel attracted to women as well as men... is this just a ...
A: ) Well, ask yourself the following: 1. Do you think about women a lot? 2. Do you have a lot of ...
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| Lesbian | 6/24/2002 |
Q: I need some help. I'm 16 and I think I'm a lesbian. I've never had any interest in boys or men and ...
A: ) Just like with life, there isnt a test you can take to see where you are going to go, or how you ...
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| Hi,
Here's my dilemma.... | 9/9/2001 |
Q: Here's my dilemma. I am a 23 year old lesbian. I haven't had much luck on the dating scene because I ...
A: Well, sometimes its much better to be honest than not. Perhaps you could just ask your friend if ...
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| Love or Lust? | 8/22/2001 |
Q: I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and i'm starting to have feelings for someone else and ...
A: ) Well, its perfectly alright to have those feelings, if youve grown apart from your current ...
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| crush | 7/24/2001 |
Q: .I am a 15 year old girl who recently got my first job.I'm not "out" yet b/c I'm still a little ...
A: ) Well, what i think you should do is perhaps get her to go to lunch with you or a movie or ...
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| skinheads in butte county, california | 7/14/2001 |
Q: My gf and I own a home in Chico, CA. Wednesday our front door was hit with several potatoes. ...
A: Hey Georgette, thanks for the question. Well, its a bit difficult, im not in the States so im not ...
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| Whats it like? | 6/23/2001 |
Q: I am not a homosexual just so you know. I have a very serious question and I am not trying to poke ...
A: )) Well, i knew way before i hit puberty that i was a wee bit different! I knew i was gay from ...
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| I'm BI I think. | 6/19/2001 |
Q: Hey, my name is Carolyn, i'm almost 13 and I think I'm BI. I used to think i was a lesbian, but now ...
A: Well, i must admit you are rather young, but if you are already sexually active, then theres not an ...
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| Confused | 4/24/2001 |
Q: I have a question for you, I'm 24 years old and never ever did anything with another female. But ...
A: Well, perhaps you ought to talk to your husband about your feelings. If he at least knows whats ...
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| Homosexuality | 2/18/2001 |
Q: I have an upcoming debate in my political idealogies class. The topic is "Does Gov't Have the Right ...
A: )) Firstly, I am presuming you are in the States, and i need to say that im not;)) But i will try ...
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| my girlfriend | 2/1/2001 |
Q: Well this isn't for me it's for my girlfriend (i'm a guy). my girlfriend and I have been together ...
A: ) Well firstly, its really cool that you are willing to help your girlfriend;)) Talking to her ...
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This is rather embarrasing,... | 1/7/2001 |
Q: This is rather embarrasing, but here goes! I don't mean to be blunt, but here's probably the only ...
A: Ok, firstly, its not embarrasing so dont worry about it;) Im normally pretty cautious when it comes ...
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| Am i or not? | 11/15/2000 |
Q: I`m 17 years old whith a baby.Ihave a boy friend wich is my baby`s father.But,lately I fell atracted ...
A: Firstly, just because you like the female body, doesnt mean that you are gay. It can mean that you ...
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| I`m bi | 8/27/2000 |
Q: I want to come out to my cousinb who is 24 and lives on the other side of the country from me. I ...
A: Ok, firstly, congratulations on your coming out, I know its not the easiest of things to do. ...
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| gay friend in love with me... | 7/22/2000 |
Q: i found out recently that one of my best friends is in love with me. we have an amazing ...
A: Erm...this is pretty hard. I dont think that you would be hurting her if you stayed friends with ...
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| lesbians | 4/22/2000 |
Q: I`m 13 and I am not a lesbian. I have been harassed for 3 years by this boy that continually tells ...
A: it would appear that this boy is interested in you, albeit in a rather bizarre way! by doing ...
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