AboutMargot RN BScN CGN Expertise I nursed my own Mother and Grandmother at home when they were dying so I have personal experience with the emotions involved. I have also spent the last 15+ years as a Registered Nurse caring for The Elderly and Terminally Ill and it has brought me great satisfaction. I am willing to answer any questions I can.
Experience
Past/Present clients Hundreds of Long Term Care Residents as well as hundreds of Cleitns and families in the community (including my Mother and Grandmother).
Question My mother tried to wake up my grandmother 3 weeks ago and she had passed. My mom seems to have Dementia but I think it is the traumatic experience that has caused this. Thoughts?
Answer Hi Lynda and thanks for writing,
Dementia is a slow, progressive disease and does not suddenly occur so I doubt your Mother has Dementia. She may have confusion or delusions due to treatable causes (simple dehydration or medications could cause them). Your Mother may e taking some medications for anxiety caused by the shock of finding her Mother expired or she may not be taking proper care of herself.
I would advise you talk to her first about your concerns and ask her if she’s eating and drinking normally or taking any new medications which may be causing temporary confusion. If it doesn’t clear up then you should call her doctor and report your observations so s/he can investigate.
