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About Margot RN BScN CGN
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Expertise
I nursed my own Mother and Grandmother at home when they were dying so I have personal experience with the emotions involved. I have also spent the last 15+ years as a Registered Nurse caring for The Elderly and Terminally Ill and it has brought me great satisfaction. I am willing to answer any questions I can.

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Past/Present clients
Hundreds of Long Term Care Residents as well as hundreds of Cleitns and families in the community (including my Mother and Grandmother).

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  Margot RN BScN CGN 
In Category  Life Support Issues

SubjectDate Asked

non hodgkins lymphoma LTV III11/29/2006
  Q: I am going to ask you a question about my sister who has this disease and lives with me. It is very ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your sister, she sounds like a brave lady. Obviously I am not familiar ...
father dying from nonhodgkins lymphoma11/24/2006
  Q: I am going through a difficult time. My father has almost past away 3 times since feb.25 2006. He ...
  A: I am very sorry to read about your father's struggle - it must be very difficult to watch. We ...
COPD11/24/2006
  Q: My mother had to be put on life support due to her COPD. It was prayers and the grace of God she ...
  A: This is very general and may not be the course your Mom follows, but I can tell you how an average ...
end-stage lymphoma11/22/2006
  Q: Margot, My father-in-law had a cancerous tumor removed from the lower right cerebellum of the brain ...
  A: Below is an excerpt which I think should answer your questions. I hope this helps and I wish you the ...
Is my grandmother dying?10/15/2006
  Q: My gran is 89 and along with my grandfather were moved in to a private nursing home a year ago. ...
  A: Obviously I am not familiar with your Gran's exact medical history, but from what you've written I ...
new york stage 410/13/2006
  Q: My mother has been ill for a long time (years of health problems). They have begun to really take a ...
  A: Stage 4 generally refers to a cancer that has spread to another organ (ie: Breat Ca that has spread ...
Mother's fear of dying...10/12/2006
  Q: As of now I have moved into my parents home to take care of my mother in her last few months. She is ...
  A: Has your Mother actually expressed a fear of dying? Is she religious? Is there a Church leader she ...
My Mother has dementia10/11/2006
  Q: I believe that my 82 year old mother has dementia, I have been caring for her now off and on for ...
  A: I'll try to answer your questions to the best of my ability. First of all, yes it is normal for ...
How do I know if my grandparents are dying?10/5/2006
  Q: It's a bad situation in my mother's family right now. It seems both my grandparents (her parents) ...
  A: It sounds to me like your Grandma may be slipping away, but your Grandpa sounds like he had a small, ...
Stage 4 DLC Lymphoma10/4/2006
  Q: My mother-in-law is in pallative care at my home. She has stage 4 DLCL and has been given 3 months ...
  A: Swelling alone is not a clear indication that her system is starting to shut down, but it may ...
Last stage of death10/2/2006
  Q: My 84-year old father recently passed away. He had dementia but his little body just wore out, ...
  A: As our body shuts down the chemicals in our system get out of whack and this causes disorientation ...
breathing at the end10/1/2006
  Q: My mom passd away in April. I wanted her to be intraveneouly fed and given water but they refused. ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your Mother's passing. Obviously I can not guess without being familiar ...
dying9/30/2006
  Q: I was present when both my parents died. My dad was in the hospital, with an IV, and was given ...
  A: It's a valid question, but no, the route does not affect the medication, it only speeds or slows the ...
liver failure related to metastatic melanoma9/28/2006
  Q: Two years ago she was diagnosed with malignant melanoma which has spread to liver,lung, bone and ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your Mom, her condition sounds very similar to my own Mom's battle with Ca ...
Liver Cancer Death9/16/2006
  Q: I'm not sure this is the right place to ask these questions so please forgive me if it's not. I lost ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your loss and I hope I can answer your questions. Of course I can not be ...
Large cell carcinoma (lung cancer)9/14/2006
  Q: My sister was told she has lung cancer (age 41), the doctors had been watching her lung for 2year. ...
  A: Your sister is going through the normal 5 stages of grieving: (1) denial, (2) bargaining, (3) ...
friend dying of cancer9/6/2006
  Q: I have a good friend and former coworker, 52 years old, who has been battling leukemia (AML) for the ...
  A: I can not imagine why any doctor would put a terminaly ill patient on any kind of life support?! The ...
COPD8/30/2006
  Q: My husband was diagnosed with copd in July of 2005. He was hospitalized 8/10/2006 with extreme ...
  A: Your husband has two diseases that have similar symptoms which can be confusing. Obviously COPD ...
dying process of Parkinson patient8/20/2006
  Q: My daddy is 74 and was diagnoised with Parkinson's disease when he was in his forty's. He is now ...
  A: I apologise for my delay in responding but I had to leave the country unexpected for a urgent family ...
mother has lung cancer6/25/2006
  Q: My mother is 78 yrs. old with heart problems (pacemaker), stroke, emphysema and 50% of right lung ...
  A: This is a delicate decision that should be made by the family together so everyone is comfortable ...
kidney failure6/23/2006
  Q: I have just learned that my brother who has a rare form of liver cancer and is in the hospital, is ...
  A: There are so many factors that affect prognosi (health history, age, disease process, complications, ...
Renal Failure and death6/19/2006
  Q: My brother-in-law is 30 years old. He has been on life support for 2 weeks with ARDS. His liver is ...
  A: Each person's death is different, most people with the symptoms you described will pass away within ...
Dying from oral cancer6/18/2006
  Q: After nearly 98 years of relatively good health, my father-in-law is now suffering from a stage III ...
  A: Oral Cancer can be quite painful depending on the exact tumor size and location. Your FIL should not ...
Hospice6/17/2006
  Q: who is now in the late stages of dimentia and emphazemia. Your answer was so helpful. I am once ...
  A: "Hospice" is a term used to refer for care for the terminally ill, this an be nursing care in the ...
My Best Friend is Dying6/4/2006
  Q: Followup: Have discussed with boss. Company policy does not recognize friendship for flexibility ...
  A: Good luck with the higher ups at the hospital, it's a crime you have to go to such lengths to be ...
My Best Friend is Dying6/3/2006
  Q: My best friend Bob is dying and I have known him for over 27 years. He is the most important person ...
  A: For the hospital I would ask Bob's family to speak to the Nurses on the unit and even put a note in ...
What to expect6/1/2006
  Q: My Dad, 86 yrs old, is under my care and living with our family. He has mild Parkinson's and cronic ...
  A: I am very concerned about your Dad'scondition, especially the ack of BMs - this needs to be assessed ...
Supporting a friend with terminal cancer5/31/2006
  Q: I am sure my question/problem is not unique but it is new for me and I am so lost. I am a male and ...
  A: You sound like a caring and supportive friend who is struggling to support a friend going through an ...
Stage IV Agressive Non-Hodgkins5/28/2006
  Q: In November 2005 my mother (63) was diagnosed with Stage IV Agressive Non-Hodgkins. Her abdomen is ...
  A: Below is an excerpt which I think should answer all your questions. I hope this helps and I wish you ...
Bedridden, dementia mother won't eat5/27/2006
  Q: I have my 86 year old mother living with me now and she is completely bedridden since breaking her ...
  A: You obviously love your Mother very much and are willing to do anything to keep her comfortable and ...
Alzheimers, dying and bowel problems5/25/2006
  Q: I ve been taking care of my mother at home now for several years. She has alzheimers and is in the ...
  A: I tend to agree with you that your Mother is constipated as happens to the majority of immobile ...
dying5/15/2006
  Q: When a person is dying I have heard that sometimes the dying person will stay alive as long as ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your Grandmother. Yes I have seen people hang on for various reasons, make ...
morphine doages5/12/2006
  Q: how much morphine is a lethal dose? my mom passed away on april 26, 2006 for the 2 weeks she was in ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. It's hard to guess what a "lethal" dose is as there are so many ...
Controlling pain from bone cancer5/5/2006
  Q: my brother-in-law has stage 4 prostate cancer metasized to bone. He is currently under hospice care ...
  A: Ca of the Bone is one of the more painful diseases, but no one should be in pain today. I suggest ...
"mask of death"4/4/2006
  Q: my mother suffered two massive strokes fourteen days ago. I am in another state caring for my ...
  A: I have never heard that phrase, it must be a local terminology. When people are close to death they ...
My mom has Liver andlung cancer3/28/2006
  Q: Yes My Mom found out about having liver cancer a little over a year ago. They told her that ...
  A: I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. This is always a difficult question to answer, and every family ...
copd and dying3/28/2006
  Q: The nursing home is releasing my Mom to come home but I am wanting to know what the next stages will ...
  A: This is very general and may not be the course your Mom follows, but I can tell you how an average ...
dying stage 4 lung/bone cancer3/13/2006
  Q: My mother is at home under hospice care. Dx: May 2005 lung cancer stage 4 matastisis to the bone. ...
  A: It is difficult to be too sure when answering what the discoloration is due to. Swelling and lack of ...
Life after death3/2/2006
  Q: my name is Emily Konzier. I am a student at Shaler Area High school. My classmates and I are doing ...
  A: Hair and nail growth Decomposition accounts for one of the most widely-held myths concerning death: ...
Sleeping 22 hours a day2/28/2006
  Q: I am hoping that you can help me. My mother, who is 84, has COPD and dementia. She lived next door ...
  A: It is a difficult decision when to be agressive and when to back off with seniors. If the doctor has ...


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