AboutMargot RN BScN CGN Expertise I nursed my own Mother and Grandmother at home when they were dying so I have personal experience with the emotions involved. I have also spent the last 15+ years as a Registered Nurse caring for The Elderly and Terminally Ill and it has brought me great satisfaction. I am willing to answer any questions I can.
Experience
Past/Present clients Hundreds of Long Term Care Residents as well as hundreds of Cleitns and families in the community (including my Mother and Grandmother).
Question My mother has been ill for a long time (years of health problems). They have begun to really take a toll on her. Her doctor visit today...doctor stated that she is in a new york stage 4. She will not be getting much better..I know this now. Doctor was even telling that some people live 6-12 months...some live longer but her organs will start of give up even more in the next few months.
So my question to you is...What exactly does New York Stage 4 mean...terminal?.
I've tried searching the internet...but found nothing on NEW YORK STAGE 4.
I have only heard of stages in cancer.
Answer Hi Nettie and thanks for writing,
Stage 4 generally refers to a cancer that has spread to another organ (ie: Breat Ca that has spread to the Liver and/or Brain) but I do not know that your Mom has Ca or that is what the doctor is referring to as I have never heard of a "NEW YORK STAGE 4".
Prognosis is different for everyone as there are so many factors that can affect it (prior health, other diseases, current health, genetics, etc). It could be 3 months, and it could be a year; the best thing to do is take it day by day, enjoy every moment and make sure you keep your Mom comfortable and well hydrated.
I hope this helps and please feel free to write back if I can be of any more assistance.
