| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| BOYFRIENDS | 6/27/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: DL: I'm fifteen years of age and I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (same age). ...
A: Well I'm not exactly sure what you are asking me since you never really asked me a direct question ...
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| Big questions with little detail. | 6/25/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: I was thinking either I could write a novella or just boil it down to the basics and I am going to ...
A: Here are my thoughts on your situation. I was also wondering, though I am sure you have reason ...
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| make up after breaking up in LDR | 6/22/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I still love him A LOT... and he just broke up with me yesterday after 2 weeks in LDR. We were in ...
A: I am not him so I am not sure if he really did stop loving you or not. It is definitely possible ...
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| LDR is killing me emotionally! | 6/16/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: First I'm sorry for a mistake that I sent this sort of question first to other expert, and it was ...
A: This is a very big problem. To be completely honest it sounds like you guys are losing that ...
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| Long distance relationship | 6/15/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: I am a 16 and a half year old girl living in Virginia, and my boyfriend lives in Kentucky, works in ...
A: I cannot tell you if this will last or not. Fortunately you guys are used to some degree of distance ...
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| LDR and moving | 6/12/2009 | Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) |
Q: .. I'm 18 years old, and I have been in a long distance relationship with a boy who is a few ...
A: First of all you should tell your Dad as soon as possible. Ideally it would be great if you could ...
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| Relationship | 6/9/2009 | Azure |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now, and we have been in love for a few ...
A: your distress is understandable; in deference to him, i'm assuming he was fortright/honest in ...
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| Obsessing? | 6/4/2009 | Azure |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months (He’s 20, I’m 18). We have really great physical ...
A: addictive, dependent arrangements aren't healthy and have big problems; communicate less, refocus on ...
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| Shifting from Highschoo Relationshipl to College Relationship | 5/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for approximately 1 year. We are both Seniors in high school ...
A: no expert can predict what will happen--college changes EVERYTHING, so what you both think/feel NOW ...
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| Stuck on what to do. | 5/30/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: So here it is. I met this girl a few months back and we started chatting. It was online but I guess ...
A: Eric, First of all, don't let her ex girlfriend get between the two of you. Don't let her hurt ...
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| Long Distance Hurts | 5/29/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: Before I get to my question, I think I'd have to expand a bit on the history of my relationship. ...
A: Noemie, Now I understand how hard this must be for you. But don't give up! He's not going to be ...
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| LDR Troubles | 5/26/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been in an LDR for about 8 months now. My boyfriend lives in Michigan and I'm in Colorado. We ...
A: your insecurities are telling us that you have some issues to consider; first off, your "snooping" ...
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| Transition from long distance relationship | 5/25/2009 | Azure |
Q: In 4 months time my boyfriend is returning from a three year trip overseas. We've been friends for 6 ...
A: it's mainly a matter of self-esteem, refocusing on your PERSONAL goals, staying PRESENT, and taking ...
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| WAKE UP CALL | 5/22/2009 | Azure |
Q: My boyfriend and I do have a long distance relationship, so we rely on talking on the phone a lot. ...
A: no wonder he's falling asleep--6-7 hours a day??...life isn't supposed to be lived on a phone--why ...
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| Long Distance Relationship, is she cheating on me? | 5/21/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: Long Distance Relationship, is she cheating on me?
A: Well you didn't give many details. How about being a member on our site and asking our other ...
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| all sizzle no steak | 5/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: I met a man on a dating website about 3 months ago, and he lives about 1.5 hours from me. We started ...
A: as you said, where there's a will there's a way--the guy, for whatever reason, isn't that ...
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| I'm so confused. | 5/18/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and nothing could be more perfect despite the ...
A: the deal is, guys will lie to cover up interest in other women, and when you're MILES away, that ...
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| Study abroad quandry | 5/16/2009 | Azure |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for approximately 15 months. Our first 5 months or so were in ...
A: you're welcome---feel free to correspond---the only thing that might possibly stop the negative ...
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| Study abroad quandry | 5/16/2009 | Azure |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for approximately 15 months. Our first 5 months or so were in ...
A: a) you have to find a life besides her--try friendfinders.com..b)sure your principles are valid and ...
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| Study abroad quandry | 5/15/2009 | Azure |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for approximately 15 months. Our first 5 months or so were in ...
A: in these arrangements usually one party is the needier--unfortunately it appears to be you, so ...
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| WAKE UP CALL-URGENT | 5/13/2009 | Azure |
Q: Me and my bf have been together for over 2 years, its a long-distance relationship. We both are 18 ...
A: listen--you are in a dangerously unhealthy, addictive arrangement--i doubt you've even MET this ...
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| wake up call! | 5/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have had a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have not met before, ...
A: you're worryin about petty details--the guy isn't serious abou meeting because he's not who he ...
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| wake up call! | 5/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have had a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We have not met before, ...
A: you've been living in a fantasy, wasting precious time/energy/emotion over a guy u haven't even MET, ...
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| LDR Relationship starting to make me feel depressed.. | 4/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 22 years old and living in the UK. Over 3 years ago I met a guy online and ever since then we ...
A: sometimes what we call "love" inhibits us from making good decisions--here you have a relationshp ...
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| Burned out on distance. | 4/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: My boyfriend and I are both 21 years old. We've been dating for over a year now and we've spent most ...
A: this has nothing to do with distance; soon, you need to schedule a conversation with him where you ...
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| "I want to try something else to be sure that you're the one for me" | 4/19/2009 | Azure |
Q: Yesterday, my girlfriend for 1 year and 7 months split up with me. Well, its complicated because it ...
A: maybe you're overestimating the worth of your oil; she's put you on the sidelines while she goes off ...
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| Getting a read... | 4/17/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am new to this, but figured it was worth a shot, having read some helpful answers in the past. I ...
A: hard to say--your only choices are to accept what's offered, though not to your level of ...
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| When do I give up? | 4/14/2009 | Azure |
Q: I've been involved in a very long distance relationship for the past 10 months. I live in the US, he ...
A: a couple of months together and alot of emails isn't sufficient to be considering a life changing ...
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| unsure about long distance | 4/1/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 19 years old I'm seeing a guy i meet on holidays( we were both on holidays another state) its at ...
A: stop trying---it's up to HIM to show sufficient effort in taking the lead to keep this goin--lower ...
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| long distance girlfriend not sure about a break | 3/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: "Hello, I'm 20, my long distance girl of 3 months is 19 and is not sure if she wants to take a break ...
A: seeing each other casually for a couple of months, followed by a long separation, isn't exactly the ...
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| If this isn't love? | 3/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: Ok...this is going to be a long one... I recently became engaged to my college sweetheart. We have ...
A: i 'd hold upon engagement plans until there's a period of time when regular weekly dating can occur; ...
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| LDR with med school bf. | 3/15/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: My bf and i have been together for more than year. We've been in a LDR for a yr now. The distance ...
A: I don't know about you, but I usually always have my instant messenger logged on, even if I'm not ...
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| Long Distance Love | 3/12/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: I am 14 and am in a long distance relationship. It is so hard because I miss him all the time but I ...
A: Well it depends on the reasons why you think sometimes it is not worth it. But if you really want ...
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| Dealing with a breakup | 3/9/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: I was in a long-distance relationship with a girl for about three years, but there were some ...
A: You have a really tough situation and it seems that you are open to getting back with her since you ...
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| long distance | 2/24/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: I have been in a long distance r/s with my bf since oct 2007. I live in US and he lives in UK, and ...
A: Your gut sounds right. There is definitely a reason he is acting the way he is all of a sudden. ...
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| heyy.. | 2/22/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: do you think if i sent him msg tomorrow to call me it would be like im going after him? ANSWER: I ...
A: If you have the control to limit your phone calls to once per day, then I don't think bothering him ...
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| heyy.. | 2/22/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: do you think if i sent him msg tomorrow to call me it would be like im going after him? ANSWER: I ...
A: I have talked to people that might talk once a week or once every couple weeks. Not once per month. ...
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| Break turned into Breakup | 2/21/2009 | Azure |
Q: I've been dating a great girl for about a year and a half. We live 2 states apart and have to make ...
A: as the needier, more insecure of the 2, you're in the worst position; your anger, coupled with ...
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| hello.. | 2/21/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: i just wanna know if my emailsss bother youuu..:) ANSWER: Allexperts allows me to limit my number ...
A: Yeah, your friends are wrong and that would be very immature to do. I guess just try to distract ...
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| hello.. | 2/21/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: i just wanna know if my emailsss bother youuu..:)
A: Allexperts allows me to limit my number of questions per day, so I set how many I get. So no they ...
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