| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| need advice | 11/17/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was in a long distance relationship, and we were very much in love when we were together we had a ...
A: i think you're foolish to even CONSIDER being wih him; have you forgotten?--he married/had a kid ...
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| Am I wasting my time? | 11/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: Me and my bf have been together for 1 1/2 years and we are both 23. I am currently in grad school ...
A: arrangement, i.e.,the nature of the relationship; from what you said, he likes the built in freedom ...
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| Who Should Move | 11/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was hoping you might be kind enough to offer me input into my current situation. I am involved in ...
A: sure, if you presented your case in front of a panel of pragmatists, they'd probably agree, but ...
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| Who Should Move | 11/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was hoping you might be kind enough to offer me input into my current situation. I am involved in ...
A: no right, wrong or unfair here--you both have reasonable viewpoints, based upon your own personal ...
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| How a womans Dads process of dying can affect a long distance relationship | 11/4/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been in a loving long distance relationship of 450 miles with a great loving woman for a ...
A: you need to elicit more from her as to how she stands as to you/the relationship; certainly given ...
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| Too busy for a LDR | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: I live in New York for Grad school, and went back home to California for summer break. I met this ...
A: you're in over your head--being the needier party isn't where you want to be; no one can predict ...
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| Long Distance Relationship | 10/27/2009 | Azure |
Q: I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 7months now. I live in New York he lives in ...
A: unfortunately, this is 90 percent fantasy--all the texting in the world doesn't make up for seeing ...
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| I need some advice | 10/27/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 7months now. I live in New York he lives in ...
A: Personally, I do not like texting when it comes to relationships. It's easy to misunderstand what ...
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| Trusting my gf in an LDR, should i be worried? | 10/25/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a 19 year old college student in my second year at a community college. Over the summer I ...
A: you need to know that being away at college changes EVERYTHING, and generally it's a good thing; she ...
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| dating a trucker. | 10/24/2009 | Northstar |
Q: we met while camping near my home town. We live 3 hours away from each other. not only that, he is ...
A: You could look up a few laptop options and go with him to Costco or something to look at some. If ...
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| dating a trucker. | 10/24/2009 | Northstar |
Q: we met while camping near my home town. We live 3 hours away from each other. not only that, he is ...
A: It's all right, don't worry about it. Just take some time to think about your relationship, and make ...
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| dating a trucker. | 10/24/2009 | Northstar |
Q: we met while camping near my home town. We live 3 hours away from each other. not only that, he is ...
A: How old is this guy? You say that you're in college... what year? You need to SLOW DOWN. You've ...
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| confused | 10/23/2009 | Northstar |
Q: Okay me and my boyfriend have an amazing story of love. We met at 17 years old in the red light ...
A: The only problem I see is this: you are making a big deal out of nothing. Your guy has every right ...
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| she wants space | 10/15/2009 | Azure |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for coming up on 10 months now, but have been good friends ...
A: "space" can mean different things, ranging from "i like someone else", to "my feelings have ...
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| I love her a lot shes just so far away... I cant take it anymore. | 10/15/2009 | Northstar |
Q: before I start I'm just going to say I'm fifteen and shes fifteen also, a little young to be in love ...
A: I'm going to help you, but I'll warn you now: you probably won't like what I have to say... but that ...
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| wake up call | 10/13/2009 | Azure |
Q: So I have been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years now. Things were going great we traveled and moved ...
A: ok, the objective view--you are in an unhealthy, addictive arrangement that's draining your emotions ...
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| I am going crazy | 10/13/2009 | Michelle & Frank |
Q: I have been in an LDR for the last six months. I met my boyfriend on the internet, took us 3 weeks ...
A: Well it sounds like you both are getting lots of time to communication. And that is great. But ...
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| wake up call | 10/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: So I have been with my boyfriend for quite sometime but things don't seem to improve throughout the ...
A: stop wasting time, money, education, emotions, on a guy who obviously is sharing more than ...
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| Long Distance and Missing Her! | 10/5/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I have a beautiful girlfriend who loves me with all of her of my heart. The problem is that we live ...
A: The first thing you need to do is realize how lucky you are. Three hours, although it may seem like ...
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| Long Distance Unofficial Relationship | 10/4/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I am now in my third year of college. I live in the midwest but I go to school down here in ...
A: I can understand that you don't like the feeling of being stuck in limbo, so I'm going to do my best ...
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| Cheating in Long Distance | 10/1/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I have this problem in a long distance relationship where I cheated. Me and my girlfriend have been ...
A: 1. Tell your girlfriend. Why? Because she has a right to know. She's going to need time, she's ...
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| LONG distance, a planet away | 9/30/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm a Brazilian, that met a Korean woman in London, during some courses in the city. I'm 23 and ...
A: at 23, you make your own decisions, and ask others who care about you to support them, even if they ...
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| Long Distance Boyfriend, Wandering Eye | 9/29/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I have been dating the same guy for almost 2 years now. We met in university my first year. He is ...
A: Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, it doesn't matter: you are ALWAYS going to ...
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| follow up | 9/28/2009 | Northstar |
Q: now i am telling u the clear sitution i talk her clerly she told me everything that she dont want ...
A: There are three possible solutions: 1. You move to her city and live there 2. She moves to your ...
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| I have cheated on my wife | 9/26/2009 | Azure |
Q: I writing today seeking out advice for not only the hurt that I have inflected on my wife by ...
A: living in different parts of the world is no way to conduct a marriage; the cheating, etc is ...
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| follow up | 9/23/2009 | Northstar |
Q: i know that she had affair with that boy but steal i didt told her .that i know about her.i am ...
A: If she didn't tell you that she is seeing someone else, then how do you know that she is? You are ...
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| Help | 9/23/2009 | Northstar |
Q: My boyfriend and i just got back again after we broke up on saturday. For you information, we are on ...
A: Your guy wants to take things slow, rebuild your relationship and keep everything low key. There's ...
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| long distance relationship with boyfriend that won't drive | 9/22/2009 | Northstar |
Q: So I am 22 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years, all through college. So since we ...
A: I can understand your frustration and I completely sympathize. Like your guy, I too do not enjoy ...
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| What to do | 9/18/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I am currently in a dilemma. There is this girl I really like, a lot, and she is away going to a ...
A: Most people don't like to admit when they have made a mistake, but that shouldn't stop you. Things ...
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| Help! | 9/18/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am currently in a dilemma. There is this girl I really like, a lot, and she is away going to a ...
A: michael, you've become the "first love" fanatic...you're right, college many times changes ...
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| Confused | 9/18/2009 | The Interesting Woman |
Q: I am currently in a dilemma. There is this girl I really like, a lot, and she is away going to a ...
A: Michael, What you're conveying right now is that you NEED her. Regardless of how you feel, if you ...
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| Son's LDR worrying me | 9/17/2009 | Azure |
Q: How do handle my 16 year old son's LDR? Help! He went to summer camp for 3 weeks and came back in ...
A: teen crushes are understandable, but until he's 18, and while he's still living with you, you make ...
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| What to do | 9/17/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I am currently in a dilemma. There is this girl I really like, a lot, and she is away going to a ...
A: The first thing you need to do is take a deep breath and relax. She is ONLY one hour away from you, ...
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| what can i do? | 9/13/2009 | Azure |
Q: im going to try to make this as short as possible . i don't know if its fate or coincidence. I've ...
A: considering you have zero dating experience with this guy, all talk of future is WAY premature; you ...
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| long distance help | 9/13/2009 | The Interesting Woman |
Q: my boyfriend and i have been together only 4 months and has now accepted a new job that takes him ...
A: Kiwi, There are two questions you need to ask yourself: 1. Is this the kind of relationship I ...
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| girlfriend went away to college | 9/12/2009 | Azure |
Q: so my girlfriend has just recently went off to college at central michigan. In which i am currently ...
A: happens all the time--college changes everything; all you can do is respect her decision, and resist ...
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| What should i do? | 9/11/2009 | Azure |
Q: I ‘m 27 years old,was divorced 2 years ago and have 2 sons , since that moment I hadn't been dating. ...
A: sadly, you have allowed yourself to become utterly addicted to a fantasy, becoming emotionally ...
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| Long Distance-Cheating GF | 9/11/2009 | Northstar |
Q: I want to explain to you my situation beginning with my ex-girlfriend. In May 2008, I started dating ...
A: I'm going to try and help you through this. I know that whatever you ultimately decide to do, it ...
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| maintaining rship | 9/4/2009 | Azure |
Q: Once I had a long distance relationship with this guy A. I left the country for study, and then we ...
A: c'mon, the guy is like a kid in the candy store--you're a thousand miles away...there's no way he's ...
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| What should I do? | 9/4/2009 | Northstar |
Q: Once I had a long distance relationship with this guy A. I left the country for study, and then we ...
A: I will do my best to help you navigate your way through this problem, but it's going to take a ...
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