About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) Expertise I have been in plenty of long distance relationships before and I know for a fact that they do take lots of hard work and dedication. I can help with making a relationship strong enough to last even through distance, breaking up long distance, not knowing what to do when things get hard, dealing with heart break, starting to like someone else even though you are in a relationship long distance, etc. If you need advice I`m here to help and if you just need someone to talk to then I`ll be glad to listen.
Experience I have been in long distance relationships before and some have worked and some
have not. I know plenty of people who are in the same type of relationships as these.
Question so i have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half and we have been long distance since we were together for 3 months... we live 4 hours away from each other and between his work and my work we see each other once a month lately. Although, soon we will be finally be in the same zip code for about 5 months right after we are back to another year and half apart! To top it all off once that ends we have to decide either that i move 4 hours away to be with him ( he can't relocate cause of his job) or we end it... i feel like i'm stuck in this rut of eternal long distance!!! I can't get excited about being with him cause all i think about is having to this ALL over again. I don't think im strong enough to deal...i feel like the fustration from the distance is pushing us apart at least on my end, and that all this time is just a waste... HELP!!!
Answer Hello
I think you've reached that point where you have to decide if this is really worth it or not. Honestly it sounds like you are absolutely tired of this and that maybe it would be best if you decided to end this and move on, and see how things go. In my opinion the best route for you guys would be to see how things go when you guys are in the same zip code. Give it a try and see how things go then, and maybe after doing that you might discover that you could deal with this for another year and a half. If you really feel that this may not be worth it then it might be best if you just end it. Honestly the situation wont change and what it comes down to is whether this is something you really feel is worth waiting for, or something you need a break from, and would like to try something different. Anyway good luck with this and I hope things work out for the best!
