Expert: Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee) - 7/12/2009

Question
I need help in this situation. I had received a random friend request on myspace and I soon began talking to him. We both have never seen each other in person. He had asked me to be in a relationship with him and I agreed and we began dating for a week before he told me that we both should be friends. He told me that he still loves me and don't get him wrong about it. We both have started talking every day until one day when I tried to talk to him and there was another person on his chat. Well, I asked them who was you and she told me his girl. I was like No way! He didn't tell me about her. The day when we both decided to be friends he told me that he still loves me and don't get him wrong about it. Well, she asked me who I was and I told her and she said what do you want? I passed a message to her to tell him that I said hey and to tell him to chat with me when he wakes up because he was laying down and then she told me whatever bye and then she is going to block me. He just unblocked me a few days ago and she is going to block me. Also, I don't think he knows that she blocked me and she has called me names before she blocked me. I also wanted to tell him about how she has treated me but sometimes he be online and sometimes somebody else be on his account. What should I do?

Answer
Hello

Honestly I'm not sure why you are dealing with this situation. First of all you have never even seen this person and he's really just some random guy who friended you on myspace. Also he mislead you since he told you that you guys were dating, and then randomly he started dating someone else. Honestly I think you need to stop talking to him and this girl. I really don't see why you are still talking to him since you guys were never in a real relationship and he's clearly not serious about you. I think you are best just leaving this situation alone and moving on. Anyway good luck with this!

Melissa