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Long Distance Relationships/Questions Answered by Expert Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
| Subject | Date Asked |
| Passing | 4/22/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are in an LDR and we have been for the past 3 years. His father who was actually ... A: I think it would be appropriate if you go but if you are absolutely sure that if you attend that he ... | |
| Long distance break-ups | 4/15/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I just broke up last night. We were long distance, and had been for almost 8 months ... A: I am sorry to hear how things turned out but it sounds like you guys made a good decision honestly. ... | |
| help | 4/10/2010 |
| Q: hey melissa, im in a long distant relationship with my fiance.. the first month and two were good. ... A: I think the options you provided are not good. For example you shouldn't leave her right now. So far ... | |
| I cheated on my boyfriend with my husband | 4/6/2010 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been separated for almost six months due to my husband becoming more like a ... A: I understand how devastating this situation must be for you and how heart breaking it is. I think ... | |
| I cheated on my boyfriend with my husband | 4/3/2010 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been separated for almost six months due to my husband becoming more like a ... A: Honestly this is what I think you need to do. I think you need a break from BOTH your husband and ... | |
| she wants everything the same but without the "relationship title" | 3/31/2010 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about four months. I'm 17 and she is 16. Everything has ... A: Honestly the reason this is the same is probably because it's been long distance the entire time. ... | |
| i cant help it that i love her so much | 3/28/2010 |
| Q: i wrote to you a few days ago bout me and a girl i was in a ldr with but she couldnt get on a comp ... A: I told you this is my last reply, but I really think you need to gradually lose contact with her and ... | |
| insecurities | 3/26/2010 |
| Q: I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years, we're just starting our 4th ... A: This is clearly a self confidence issue on your part that you really need to try and resolve. There ... | |
| Mixed feelings | 3/25/2010 |
| Q: I've been in a ldr for over a year now. I haven't had any major problems with my relationship until ... A: I agree with you. I think that you do want to have that companionship your boyfriend can't give you, ... | |
| no known end date to long distance | 3/22/2010 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. We met while he was in town on business and hit it off. ... A: Well this is a question that I really can't give you a specific answer to. It all really depends on ... | |
| New LDR | 3/22/2010 |
| Q: I was introduced to a guy who lives in another state- we are only about 445 m apart- we have been ... A: No it doesn't make you look needy or clingy at all. If it did, then why would you want him to do the ... | |
| New LDR | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I was introduced to a guy who lives in another state- we are only about 445 m apart- we have been ... A: and I am glad I can be of any help at all. I understand that you would like for him to initiate the ... | |
| Long-distance girlfriend cheating | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I would first start by explaining how our relationship was. We lived together for 4.5 years. But not ... A: I agree with you as well. From what you told me it sounds like this girl has a very emotional ... | |
| New LDR | 3/19/2010 |
| Q: I was introduced to a guy who lives in another state- we are only about 445 m apart- we have been ... A: I'm glad to hear you guys are still planning on talking and giving it a chance. I understand the ... | |
| long-dist..can i get him back? | 3/19/2010 |
| Q: we met at uni and during these 3 yrs we were together mostly everydays. we love each other very ... A: I think anything is possible but I am not a psychic and cannot tell you what will happen in the ... | |
| I DONT KNOW IF HE STILL LOVES ME? | 3/17/2010 |
| Q: MY BOYFIREND LEFT TO FLORIDA 10 MONTHES AGO. HE USED TO LIVE WHERE I DO BUT HAD TO MOVE BEACAUSE OF ... A: I agree with you. Something is definitely wrong here. I'm not sure if he's lost faith in the ... | |
| :/ | 3/17/2010 |
| Q: well i met this girl online about a year ago through an online multiplayer game. she comes from ... A: to be honest with you there is not much you can do on your end. I will be completely honest with ... | |
| bf moving | 3/17/2010 |
| Q: I have been dating (connected to the hip)with my bf for a lil over a yr. i am also a mother of two ... A: If this is serious then I can understand why you both feel it is best to move to be together. In my ... | |
| how do i do this?? | 3/17/2010 |
| Q: hey Melissa, i have been talking to this guy who is a couple years older than me he has a three ... A: To be honest I have no idea why he has suddenly stopped talking to you. There just aren't that many ... | |
| how do i do this?? | 3/16/2010 |
| Q: hey Melissa, i have been talking to this guy who is a couple years older than me he has a three ... A: I would love to help you but I need a few more details first. Could you tell me how long you have ... | |
| should he come or should i go | 7/22/2009 |
| Q: he lives in Egypt and i live in the USA California. we don't really talk about getting married and ... A: From what you told me it seems like a very bad idea to go to another continent just to get married ... | |
| long distance relationship that never ends its distance | 7/13/2009 |
| Q: so i have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half and we have been long distance since we ... A: I think you've reached that point where you have to decide if this is really worth it or not. ... | |
| About Something | 7/12/2009 |
| Q: I need help in this situation. I had received a random friend request on myspace and I soon began ... A: Honestly I'm not sure why you are dealing with this situation. First of all you have never even seen ... | |
| Just Plain Unsure | 7/6/2009 |
| Q: I'll try to make this as short as I can lol. Well I've been dating a guy in the navy for almost 3 ... A: Well first of all there are things you can and can't deal with with certain people. Personally I ... | |
| BOYFRIENDS | 6/27/2009 |
| Q: DL: I'm fifteen years of age and I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (same age). ... A: Well I'm not exactly sure what you are asking me since you never really asked me a direct question ... | |
| make up after breaking up in LDR | 6/22/2009 |
| Q: I still love him A LOT... and he just broke up with me yesterday after 2 weeks in LDR. We were in ... A: I am not him so I am not sure if he really did stop loving you or not. It is definitely possible ... | |
| LDR is killing me emotionally! | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: First I'm sorry for a mistake that I sent this sort of question first to other expert, and it was ... A: This is a very big problem. To be completely honest it sounds like you guys are losing that ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: I am a 16 and a half year old girl living in Virginia, and my boyfriend lives in Kentucky, works in ... A: I cannot tell you if this will last or not. Fortunately you guys are used to some degree of distance ... | |
| LDR and moving | 6/12/2009 |
| Q: .. I'm 18 years old, and I have been in a long distance relationship with a boy who is a few ... A: First of all you should tell your Dad as soon as possible. Ideally it would be great if you could ... | |
| Long Distance and Jealousy | 9/10/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now, we are in an interracial relationship (he is ... A: Well regardless of your feelings you have to accept the fact that he will be meeting many different ... | |
| LDR | 9/8/2008 |
| Q: My name is Travis and well I'm in a LDR. So what I need help with is if she is trying to make me ... A: To be honest with you it does not sound like she is trying to make you jealous. This could mean one ... | |
| long distance | 9/7/2008 |
| Q: I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to ... A: the best way to get over your trust issues is to try and seek therapy about it. Besides that you are ... | |
| does he really love me? how can I tell? | 9/4/2008 |
| Q: OK WELL IM IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IVE KNOWN DIS BOY 4 ABOUT 3 MONTHS OR SO, BUT I ... A: you can tell if someone loves you by how they treat you. How often he expresses his love means ... | |
| relationships in college | 9/3/2008 |
| Q: hey Melissa! My boyfriend of a year and a half just left for college 4 hours away. I'm still a ... A: Well fortunately 4 hours is not too far away so I'm thinking you guys will be able to see each other ... | |
| Should I wait for him? | 8/25/2008 |
| Q: My live-in bf of 2 months left 2 weeks ago to go back to the Philippines to sort out his residency ... A: From what you told me, I cannot tell you why exactly you haven't heard back from him. You said you ... | |
| An open relationship in a long distance relationship | 8/23/2008 |
| Q: I met my girlfriend while I was in Houston one winter and after I left we started talking through ... A: No an open relationship is a very bad idea. Not only is there a risk that she might not even want to ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 8/22/2008 |
| Q: I have been involved with a man for almost 2yrs who lives 5hours away from me. We have had the ... A: I think that is a great goal. you guys cannot continue being long distance forever, eventually one ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 8/18/2008 |
| Q: basically i am going to try and describe my situation as well as possible. I spent a few months ... A: I am not sure why she never calls you back. I don't want to say she's lazy but it's a possibility. ... | |
| q | 8/18/2008 |
| Q: I came to the United States when I was 17 years old with my family from overseas. Now I am 31. ... A: Well I am not from your culture so many of these things I am not well versed in. All I can say is ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 8/17/2008 |
| Q: I have been involved with a man for almost 2yrs who lives 5hours away from me. We have had the ... A: I definitely think this is worth working out. You guys have been together for 2 years, and you ... | |
| Not letting go | 8/14/2008 |
| Q: I was in a relationship for 2 years that just ending almost 2 weeks ago. We had our normal ups and ... A: No first of all this is not normal for any relationship. A break up usually means that all the other ... | |
| Long Distance Ex-turned to next | 8/12/2008 |
| Q: Hey Bee, I recently reconnected with my ex after not speaking for 7 years. The emotions are so ... A: I think at this point you guys need to discuss how often you guys should plan to see each other. I'm ... | |
| Long distance relationship- breaking my heart | 8/11/2008 |
| Q: I have never been more confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two ... A: You're welcome and thank you for the nice comments. I really appreciated that and it's nice to know ... | |
| Long distance relationship- breaking my heart | 8/9/2008 |
| Q: I have never been more confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two ... A: I feel that you are making the right decision. I understand your feelings and most people have felt ... | |
| Friend relationship | 8/1/2008 |
| Q: I have problem with this girl i am friends with . I met her last year i asked out and she told me ... A: First of all keep in mind that there is not much you can do about this. she informed you from the ... | |
| any chance for us? | 7/31/2008 |
| Q: (WILL MY EMAIL ADDRESS BE SHOWN? PLEASE KEEP IT PRIVATE! THANK YOU.) Hi Melissa, My background: ... A: No your email address will not be shown, neither I nor anyone else will be able to see your e-mail. ... | |
| long distance relationship | 7/30/2008 |
| Q: i m rehana recently moved to USA from india. i have bf in india to whom i m really very much ... A: This sounds like a lot of miscommunications on his part. If you guys are planning to get married ... | |
| trust | 7/28/2008 |
| Q: I met a guy last summer...the only unfortunate thing was I pretty much went through his divorce with ... A: I understand your worries but there are some things you need to realize. First of all he may very ... | |
| Communication and emotions | 5/4/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating about a year and a half. She says that i don't communicate ... A: If you want to increase your sexual encounters with her then try and make things more romantic or ... | |
| Communication and emotions | 5/3/2008 |
| Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating about a year and a half. She says that i don't communicate ... A: First of all you and your girlfriend need to realize that you guys should love each other for who ... | |
| Long Distance | 4/28/2008 |
| Q: months and we met at the 4 month when he came to visit me ! We had an amazing time and it all ... A: Well first of all I'm really sorry to hear that this has been happening to you. It's very sad and ... | |
| Bleeding love... | 4/28/2008 |
| Q: .. I have been in love with my gf (Ying) for 3 years, we used to see each other everyday when we ... A: Well I'm not exactly sure on what you are asking me but I can tell you that if she needs a break ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 4/23/2008 |
| Q: i have been with this girl around 3 months, everything was going amazing, we both seemed perfect for ... A: Well if you are not okay with all the calls and texts because you guys aren't together and it makes ... | |
| confused | 4/21/2008 |
| Q: well when i was talking on msn to this girl and i think it was stupid of me asking her if she like ... A: Well are you sure she likes you? It sounds like her initial answer was based on her thinking that ... | |
| long distance relationship | 4/21/2008 |
| Q: i have been going through a lot of problems these days. my gal friend who i know for the past four ... A: Well if that's the case then show her that you are able to spend time with her and that she is not ... | |
| Follow up: breakup after czech trip. | 4/20/2008 |
| Q: I wrote u on 10 April but since i haven't got any answer from you yet, therefore im writing again. ... A: Sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. Believe it or not, I was planning to write to you ... | |
| long distance relationship | 4/18/2008 |
| Q: i have been going through a lot of problems these days. my gal friend who i know for the past four ... A: I'd love to help you but I really need more information like reasons on why she broke up with you. I ... | |
| Who knows. | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half now. She's an awesome girl, our relationship is ... A: It really seems like she is venting out her anger on you. She can't give that type of attitude to ... | |
| hey | 4/13/2008 |
| Q: hey, okay so heres my situation. my boyfriend lives in hawaii and i live in texas, he is 17 and im ... A: Well do you really want him to end things with you? I mean if he's completely fine with it, then ... | |
| worried and not know what to do :( | 4/8/2008 |
| Q: I'm from Hong Kong and my bf is from Spain. We started this LDR since 2005. Actually i've written to ... A: Yes, you are right it would be odd. So this is the hard part. This is long distance right? So ... | |
| worried and not know what to do :( | 4/5/2008 |
| Q: I'm from Hong Kong and my bf is from Spain. We started this LDR since 2005. Actually i've written to ... A: I understand why your boyfriend was very disappointed by that. I went through a stage like this with ... | |
| long distance troubles | 4/2/2008 |
| Q: I met my girlfriend in september She just turned 21 and came out to la for a few months to do cinema ... A: First of all I really don't think this has anything to do with you. It sounds like you guys had ... | |
| LTR will it work? | 4/2/2008 |
| Q: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is currently 21 but this summer when he leaves for law school he will be 22. ... A: I wouldn't really know the odds but I can tell you that it can work out. For it to work out you will ... | |
| Love or College? | 3/23/2008 |
| Q: Well I've been dating this not for almost a year now. I'm 18 and he's 19. We are madly in love. And ... A: Well a common rule to abide by is college always comes before guys, especially guys you meet when ... | |
| My long lost friend | 3/19/2008 |
| Q: I know this guy, I have known him since we were kids. We went to all the same schools, our mom's ... A: Well first thing I want to say is that next time a situation like this occurs or something happens ... | |
| Long distance relationships | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: I have been with this girl for about 3 1/2 months but i new her basically my hole life and she lives ... A: Well first of all this situation is really not that bad and deserves a chance. The summer thing will ... | |
| Long Distance...in the not so distant future | 3/12/2008 |
| Q: To Start - It’s a bit of a longer question, so if you don’t get to it right away I understand. I ... A: Yes, I see this as a big problem and to be honest I don't think you should go for any of these ... | |
| what should I do? | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. He lives in Florida, myself in GA. Intil a week ... A: I'm not really sure because as you know I'm not a mind reader nor am I your boyfriend so I don't ... | |
| the letter | 2/17/2008 |
| Q: Well I did send the letter earlier, and I managed to get a good first sentence, yours was better ... A: That sounds like a good plan and I think you are handling this whole thing well. It's surprising ... | |
| long distance relationship | 2/15/2008 |
| Q: .. i have just gotten into a LDR and the guy in question has been asking me for a month now and i ... A: He probably just wants to get into this because he wants to get to know you. Men are not all about ... | |
| Long Distance Heartache | 2/13/2008 |
| Q: During the holidays i met this guy who lives 5 hours away and we hit it off. we really like each ... A: I don't think this is anger at him living so far away. I think like every person in a relationship ... | |
| My Friend | 2/2/2008 |
| Q: I have reconnected with my boyfried from long ago who lives in another state - I want to know if ... A: Well this isn't much detail but yeah there is always a chance that you guys can meet again. Just ... | |
| Temporary Long Distance Relationship | 1/31/2008 |
| Q: Just a short description - I am from Singapore and my guy is from Italy. I met my boyfriend 2-3 ... A: Well the first rule is to never wait aimlessly. You both have to be very involved with the ... | |
| Long Distance | 1/31/2008 |
| Q: I've been seeing this girl for about 8 months. She lives 4 hours from me. We see each other about ... A: Well you are told me that this girl isn't the one for you. Although you didn't actually say those ... | |
| Long-distance | 1/30/2008 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year already... we both go to this international school ... A: I'm really not sure if it will work out for you guys. As you know it doesn't work out for a lot of ... | |
| begininning of LDR, pressure to make it work | 1/30/2008 |
| Q: Hey Bee...I asked you a question awhile ago, and really appreciated your response, so I have one ... A: Okay first of all, I think that it's already overwhelming that he's discussing marriage after 3 ... | |
| just want some advice | 1/28/2008 |
| Q: i have been with my fiance for just over 3.5 years now. for the past year and 4 months we haven only ... A: Wow this must be so difficult for you and I think it's awesome that you guys have survived this long ... | |
| Jealous of the EX-girlfriend (In a long distance relationship) | 1/28/2008 |
| Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we visit as frequently as we can. ... A: Well first of all, put the blame where it needs to be. You shouldn't feel hurt that she is talking ... | |
| Long distance/ ex as a friend | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: Hey there. I am 20 and in college. For the past year I've had two guys in my life... my best ... A: No, I do not think you are doing anything wrong by being friends with someone you used to be ... | |
| What now? | 1/24/2008 |
| Q: "Long story short - I have dated this guy off and on for 4 years now, for 3 of those years he has ... A: I'm really not sure cause I don't know what he's really thinking or feeling but from what you told ... | |
| Confused on wether I should hold on or move on | 1/23/2008 |
| Q: I was in a long distant relationship that last Sept fell apart. Leslie is a factory rep for a ... A: Well it's very possible that she does have feelings for you, and would have liked to be with you ... | |
| i need some help | 1/17/2008 |
| Q: ok i dont know where to even start ok i meet my faience online quite awhile ago and things where ... A: Yeah try everything possible because this is not something you guys should break up over. She ... | |
| international long distance | 1/15/2008 |
| Q: This guy and I have been seeing each other for eight months. During those eight months, everything ... A: Well I really don't know anything about these types of things and I'm not sure who to direct you to. ... | |
| i need some help | 1/14/2008 |
| Q: ok i dont know where to even start ok i meet my faience online quite awhile ago and things where ... A: Well first of all her dad cannot do anything to you. Also he is threatening you and if he tries to ... | |
| He's older, and he lives an hour away. | 1/12/2008 |
| Q: I'm 16. He is 22. I have been talking to him for an hour or more every night for at least 3 months. ... A: Well I would be a complete hypocrite if I told you it was wrong since I did the same thing in the ... | |
| Long Distance Break Up | 1/11/2008 |
| Q: I had been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. We've lived 420 miles away from each other and have ... A: I'm very sorry to hear this. This sounds like such a devastating experience for you. I agree that ... | |
| Im Empty Without Him. | 1/6/2008 |
| Q: Ive been going out with the most loving and amazing person that I believe I could find. We have ... A: I'm glad to hear that you've realized that and wont be doing anything life-threatening about it. Uh ... | |
| long distance | 1/6/2008 |
| Q: I've been with this man off and on for about a year and a half now. I live in Florida and now he ... A: Well neither you or myself knows what the future will entail but I do know that if you really love ... | |
| Im Empty Without Him. | 1/3/2008 |
| Q: Ive been going out with the most loving and amazing person that I believe I could find. We have ... A: Well there's a few things I need to say first. First and foremost I'm not sure why you are having ... | |
| long distance | 1/1/2008 |
| Q: im not sure as to what i should do, see i am in a long distance relationship and have been for a ... A: I'm very sorry to hear that things are over between the two of you. It must be very hard for you, ... | |
| long distance | 12/31/2007 |
| Q: okay so i wass doing my usual thing on myspace when me and my friend decided 2 make a fake ... A: The best thing to do is to tell him the truth, and do it now. There's no way around it and the ... | |
| Me and X | 12/31/2007 |
| Q: Hey, Im 20 and also my ex........ok.....we are each others first loves...we were together for a year ... A: Well the only way to rebuild the trust is by being reliable. Showing that above all you will be ... | |
| long distance | 12/30/2007 |
| Q: I just need some general i guess reassurance info anyway Im 31 divorced and have been seeing my ... A: Well I really think you should wait and see what happens. Like every relationship there is always ... | |
| the letter | 12/27/2007 |
| Q: Well I did send the letter earlier, and I managed to get a good first sentence, yours was better ... A: Well I'm glad that it got send, and I'm sorry that I didn't send the message earlier. I'm glad that ... | |
| Long Distance Break-Up | 12/26/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up with me. I have known her for about 8 years, of ... A: Yep, I totally agree. She should have told you sooner, in smaller doses. Now, I would continue to ... | |
| long distance | 12/23/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend lives 1.5 hours away from me and plays baseball. the season is soon starting and the ... A: Well nobody can tell you how this relationship can go and how it works out really depends on the ... | |
| long distance | 12/16/2007 |
| Q: im not sure as to what i should do, see i am in a long distance relationship and have been for a ... A: Yeah, I agree... it sounds like he isn't very happy with the relationship. Usually when people ... | |
| how to tell him to slow down | 12/14/2007 |
| Q: hey, please help me because i really dont know what im doing. in april this year i met a guy i ... A: Yeah, I completely understand how this situation is really freaking you out. It is a bit strange... ... | |
| Lost... | 12/14/2007 |
| Q: I never have really asked for advice online but here it goes. My boyfriend and i have been dating ... A: Well marriage is a very big thing as well as being with someone. If you don't feel ready, like you ... | |
| Worries | 12/8/2007 |
| Q: my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and i've been having worries and ... A: Yes, that is normal. I mean come on, it's a picture. I think anyone would get tired of looking at ... | |
| Stress & LDR | 12/3/2007 |
| Q: I am 7 months into a long distance relationship and content with my boyfriend. We are both 21 and ... A: Yes, I understand where you are coming from. If the conversations are just dry then I can understand ... | |
| he seems distant | 11/28/2007 |
| Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for teh past 4 mths. my guy used to call like everyday ... A: Well that sounds pretty spot on as well! He may just be getting comfortable and this happens pretty ... | |
| help me | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: that what i want ask what i need to do exactly im in UK now but im polish and i want get married ... A: Well first of all I'm not sure about any of these things. I've never dealt with these issues but you ... | |
| A Sudden LDR Breakup | 11/27/2007 |
| Q: I'm 28, she's 26. She worked at an art gallery in a small city where I was invited to show. I saw ... A: First of all, from what you have told me, you have done nothing wrong. Please don't hold yourself ... | |
| Long distance love questioned. | 11/26/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. Went to college together. This year he decided that ... A: Okay I can understand why this transition is so difficult for the both of you since the whole LDR ... | |
| he seems distant | 11/22/2007 |
| Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for teh past 4 mths. my guy used to call like everyday ... A: At this point, I think you should just see what happens. You have only been dating him for 4 months, ... | |
| Distance is only problem | 11/18/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating this amazing guy for nearly 6 months now (Our anniversary is the end of this ... A: I can understand why he's upset about the whole issue of driving but you both need to make ... | |
| I dont know what she wants | 11/17/2007 |
| Q: This is too long so i hope you can help me....Well i had i girlfriend here like for about 6 months ... A: Well there's a few things you need to understand first. The first thing you need to realize is that ... | |
| what should I do | 11/7/2007 |
| Q: I travel with my job. i'm only gone the most 4 days. everytime i'm gone if i dont call when i should ... A: I have to agree with you. It seems like this guy is practically asking for a divorce. Also it sounds ... | |
| HELP!!!! | 11/2/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now. I met her before I moved away from my ... A: Well I think the problem here is on both of your ends. First of all I think that sometimes you ... | |
| how to keep the spark going.... | 10/31/2007 |
| Q: Well I've been with this girl for almost 1 year and first it started talking on a Forum to Msn ... A: I have to agree that your behavior is what is causing the problem. I'm not saying you are the only ... | |
| cheating | 10/30/2007 |
| Q: i have been with my girlfriend for a year now and i like to think were on the right track, but ... A: Well unless you don't know 100% sure that she is cheating then you cannot tell her that she is ... | |
| Im so confused.. | 10/29/2007 |
| Q: Okay, here goes a long story just about as short as i can possibly make it. I went on a cruise last ... A: First of all, I understand how you feel about this guy but do not sacrifice your academics for this ... | |
| Would she break up? | 10/27/2007 |
| Q: I used to live in Japan. While I was there I met and fell in love with my girlfriend. I'm 27 and ... A: First of all you need to make sure you know that she's cheating on you. She may be busy, maybe she's ... | |
| failed long distance relationship | 10/25/2007 |
| Q: Sorry this might be a bit long. Please read and help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. Then ... A: I understand that it is hard to forget him but I really feel his actions are weird and he may be a ... | |
| Trust | 10/24/2007 |
| Q: I met by boyfriend on a online dating site. We have been seeing each other for six months. We live ... A: Well first of all you need to know if there really is damage because of this. I have a feeling that ... | |
| hey | 10/20/2007 |
| Q: hey! ok this is my situation. ok well my boyfriend, recently got punished for the rest of the 9 ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ... | |
| long dist. fidelity | 10/17/2007 |
| Q: Ok, this may take a few seconds to explain. My boyfriend and I met a year and a half ago in Italy. ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ... | |
| failed long distance relationship | 10/15/2007 |
| Q: Sorry this might be a bit long. Please read and help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. Then ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ... | |
| Montreal girlfriend | 10/13/2007 |
| Q: I met this girl when I was on vacation with my family in Myrtle Beach. Her name is Marie, she is ... A: Well you guys are quite young and honestly, it's very unlikely that a relationship between the both ... | |
| LDR: giving empty promises but refused to quit? | 10/12/2007 |
| Q: I've been in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and we talked on ... A: I have to admit that something has changed and a couple of things are possible here. Either he is ... | |
| long distance relationship trouble | 10/9/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. He is 6-7 hours ... A: Well the best thing you can do for yourself and the relationship is to seek therapy. It will be very ... | |
| like someone | 10/4/2007 |
| Q: i've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 months and i love her more then anyhting in ... A: Well I suppose it's okay but since this love is so fresh, you shouldn't be liking anyone at all. You ... | |
| Distant Lovers | 10/3/2007 |
| Q: This is a first for me since I've never been the type to express my feelings openly but I'm seeking ... A: I really think you should tell him the truth. I know it's a hard thing to do considering the risk ... | |
| LD break up from 7500 miles | 10/2/2007 |
| Q: I live in Dubai, my GF lives in USA. WE have had a torrid time with our relationship becuase over ... A: Well I can understand her not trusting in you guys improving because of how the arguments seem to go ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship | 9/29/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating the same guy for just over a year now. we see each other maybe once a month, ... A: Anyway yes you should be concerned. I understand that this guy has a hard time letting people into ... | |
| LDR + marriage | 9/25/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Three of these years have been long distance ... A: Well first of all stick with what you guys have been doing. If you guys have survived about three ... | |
| End it or keep trying? | 9/24/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. I just started grad school in another city, and ... A: Actually... I hate to tell you this but the feelings you are having are not the norm. It's normal ... | |
| Broken up but what now? | 9/22/2007 |
| Q: I'll try my best to keep this brief, but it is a complicated situation so I apologise if it runs on ... A: Anyway, she definitely looks like she needs her space. I know its hard to resist talking to her, but ... | |
| can i have a long distance relationship | 9/17/2007 |
| Q: my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and I'm moving to Guernsey in 5 weeks I'm going for ... A: Well I cannot tell you what you can do and if your relationship can last but I can tell you that you ... | |
| Why is he ignoring me? | 9/16/2007 |
| Q: Howdy - I've been in a relationship with this guy that I met via the internet for two years now ... A: I hate to tell you this but it is very likely that he is cheating on you and I'm not sure why you ... | |
| My LDR | 9/15/2007 |
| Q: I dated my girlfriend for 7 months in Spokane, WA. We were really close and affectionate to each ... A: Well she is in college now so of course she might become more distracted and may lose focus with ... | |
| I feel like I'm dating myself. | 9/13/2007 |
| Q: Hey there Bee, my name is Brant, im 23 and I just moved Longbeach less than one month ago. I go to ... A: Well from what you told me it doesn't sound like she's falling out of love with you or anything like ... | |
| My Girlfriend Cheated. What should I do? | 9/11/2007 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I just celebrated our 2 year anniversary this past weekend. I'm 23 and she is 21. ... A: I'm very sorry that I didn't respond to this much earlier. I realize that you sent this perhaps ... | |
| Break Up Cant be it? | 9/10/2007 |
| Q: I need some real help, and fast. I dont know how much I can take. Ive been with my boyfriend for ... A: Sorry it took awhile to answer your question. I have been pretty busy with coursework, work, and ... | |
| Break Up Cant be it? | 9/8/2007 |
| Q: I need some real help, and fast. I dont know how much I can take. Ive been with my boyfriend for ... A: Okay well the first thing you need to start doing is communicating your feelings with your ... | |
| long distance relationship | 8/23/2007 |
| Q: My name is Danielle, I live in New Hampshire and I'm 16 years old. I will be beginning 11th grade ... A: Honestly I think it's time that you let this guy go. You cannot try keeping up a relationship or a ... | |
| Coping with the distance | 8/23/2007 |
| Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. At college we were almost inseparable but I was a ... A: Well all I can tell you, is the obvious, which is you both have to make the best of the situation. I ... | |
| General Problems | 8/22/2007 |
| Q: I recently moved to have a better commute to work. This move I thought would be a good decision. I ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you since you already made your decision but being an ... | |
| short term LDR | 8/22/2007 |
| Q: I am 25 year old F. I'm an English teacher, slim, and engaged to be married! My partner (whom I have ... A: Well first of all congratulations on your engagement! Okay about your question... it's probably a ... | |
| breaking up | 8/20/2007 |
| Q: im in a long distance relationship and i live in texas and my boyfriend lives in mexico. i have been ... A: Well I agree that something is up with your boyfriend if he keeps giving you excuses whenever you ... | |
| Should I give up, or keepy trying? | 8/17/2007 |
| Q: I started seeing this guy i January. He had purchased a house with his ex girlfriend two years ago ... A: Well I think in this situation you need to think a different alternative cause I'm really not sure ... | |
| hard decision!!! | 8/14/2007 |
| Q: I am with my boyfriend who I have been with for almost 4 years. We are each other's first in ... A: Well first of all if you guys are really meant to be together then your fears of not being together ... | |
| Please I need an advice. Urgent | 8/13/2007 |
| Q: I don't know if I wrote you, but anyway. I really need an advice, and looks like you're very good at ... A: Well first of all what you are going through is completely normal and it's always scary to go ... | |
| long distance relationship | 8/12/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for alomst a year now and late last month I've had to move to out of ... A: Um I'm sorry... I really can't tell you what to do with that. Personally, I have phone sex and from ... | |
| long distance relationship | 8/12/2007 |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for alomst a year now and late last month I've had to move to out of ... A: Well yes this is completely normal. You guys are sexually attracted to each other and miss what you ... | |
| going to college | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: I am dating a guy right now and we both live in chicago,but in January he'll be going off to ... A: Well uh I think you should stay with him and give it a chance. If this is a guy you think you can ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 8/11/2007 |
| Q: It breaks my heart to have to write this, but I am obviously very concerned of our future. I am 26 ... A: Okay before I answer any questions you have asked... I am having a difficult time believing that a ... | |
| should it continue? how do i cope? | 8/9/2007 |
| Q: I am 19 in college and I have been dating someone from my class in college for about 4 months now ... A: I understand that you are feeling pain and really want to be with him in person but if you both ... | |
| Hardships? | 8/9/2007 |
| Q: Feels so odd asking for help in this kind of way... Well, this may take a while to read. Just a ... A: Well that's good that you were able to still get her to talk to you about it. Even if you guys ... | |
| my long distance relationship | 8/8/2007 |
| Q: Ok im 16 me and this guy have been dating on an off the past 3 years we've been good friends even ... A: Well then there's the problem.... thank you for telling me that new information... because it's ... | |
| need advice | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: hey Melissa, I came across your website because i was looking for some advice on long-term ... A: Well it says a lot that you guys were able to still keep in touch for a whole year and everything ... | |
| my long distance relationship | 8/7/2007 |
| Q: Ok im 16 me and this guy have been dating on an off the past 3 years we've been good friends even ... A: Well if this guy even jokes about dating other women, and at one point was even serious about it ... | |
| long distance and jealousy problems | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now. We stayed ... A: Okay um... it's not really normal for you to actually be jealous of her friends but it is normal for ... | |
| important | 8/6/2007 |
| Q: Are we boyfriend/girlfriend? We met we didnt talk much but I knew she liked me. Then we started ... A: Okay from what you told me, no, it doesn't sound like you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend. You ... | |
| I lied to him.. | 8/2/2007 |
| Q: so i lied to my boyfriend that lives in another town, weve been together for 3 years.. well i need ... A: Okay well before I answer your question... I just want to let you know that your boyfriend's ... | |
| how do i tell him | 7/30/2007 |
| Q: so i live in the Texas but my parents are from Mexico and i've been going to Mexico every year since ... A: Well first of all never let your friends speak to him for you. Your friend really had no right to ... | |
| In love with a soldier. | 7/29/2007 |
| Q: Well I met the man of my dreams about 5 months ago. He's an amazing person and we get along ... A: This is pretty rushed especially if you guys have known each other for about 5 months. It's also not ... | |
| LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP | 7/27/2007 |
| Q: I BEEN GOING OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 5 MONTHS NOW. BUT LATELY HE'S BEEN NOT TEXTING AS MUCH AS ... A: Well tell him how you are feeling about this. You must understand that it's normal for one partner ... | |
| Tempted to Cheat | 7/25/2007 |
| Q: I am in a long distance relationship and when we met I knew she was the one and we have been in as ... A: Well I don't need to tell you that you should not cheat cause I'm sure you understand that yourself. ... | |
| Pre-Long Distance | 7/25/2007 |
| Q: Just a warning: this may take a while to explain! My boyfriend and I have known each other for ... A: I'm very sorry it took some time for me to reply back to you. I've been going through some difficult ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship - How do I know your the one? | 7/24/2007 |
| Q: It's been 2 1/2 months now since I last saw her. I still think about her quite a bit. But I've got ... A: It sounded like she might have been uncomfortable too... I'm sure she was also reminded of old times ... | |
| Help First Long Distance Relationship & First Ever Relationship | 7/23/2007 |
| Q: hey im a young guy only 17 years of age from miami florida. My dad and my grandmother are both born ... A: Well I definitely understand your feelings about starting a long distance relationship with her. I ... | |
| I love him | 7/20/2007 |
| Q: Well me and my son's dad have been in a relationship for almost two years we had a rocky ... A: Well I think his reasoning for not talking to you so much is fine. Many people in long distance ... | |
| answer | 7/20/2007 |
| Q: how do i keep a long distanc relationship fresh?I cant call her every 2 hrs? how do i keep her in ... A: Well keeping a long distance relationship intact does not require you to constantly call that person ... | |
| lond distance relationship: help!! | 7/19/2007 |
| Q: hey, i could really use your help!!! Me and my girlfriend, who is doubting our relationship, have ... A: Well I can't really tell you why she is doing this but it seems like it has something to do with the ... | |
| nerves | 7/17/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about two years. We have talked openly about the future, and ... A: Yes, I completely understand how you feel since I met my boyfriend in college and ever since we've ... | |
| i really dont know? | 7/16/2007 |
| Q: i really dont know from where i will start..ok,i've met a guy from net and it been since 10 ... A: Well I'm not sure if he loves you and you shouldn't assume he loves you until he actually says that ... | |
| Long distance relationship / marriage | 7/15/2007 |
| Q: About 1o years ago (I was 18 she was 17) we fell in love , had a child together(I was 20 she was ... A: Well the first thing you should do is talk to her about this. Sometimes things really don't seem ... | |
| LDR/Cheating | 7/14/2007 |
| Q: I've been in a long distance relationship for about a month, now. My bf and I met online and hit it ... A: Well there is a chance but this might not be able to work out. He did cheat on you and that's one of ... | |
| Concerned about the future | 7/14/2007 |
| Q: I am 17 years old and will be a senior in high school this fall. I am very strongly considering the ... A: Well honestly, the likelihood of the relationship lasting is not good. I mean it can work but that ... | |
| I don't want to lose him. | 7/8/2007 |
| Q: Me and this guy have been in a long distance relationship a little over two years and he wants a ... A: I'm very sorry that I took awhile to respond but I am very busy with classes, working, and other ... | |
| Help | 7/7/2007 |
| Q: My name is Walker Smith. I have just recently started a long distance relationship with a girl I ... A: Well you can't prove to her that that wont happen because it hasn't happened and you guys haven't ... | |
| LDR in college in different states | 7/5/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3yrs now and are deeply in love, however in about a week he ... A: Well yes it will be difficult to get through but it's worth it to give it a try. There's no real way ... | |
| Siiigh, what to do... | 7/3/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 months now. We have never met in person, ... A: i'm very sorry it took so long to reply but I've been very busy with school, work, and some other ... | |
| need some advice | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: My fiance and I met online nearly seven years ago, and he lives in Moore, Oklahoma. He's been ... A: Yes, you have certainly given him enough time to get things prepared and life is much too short and ... | |
| I'm confused | 7/2/2007 |
| Q: I hope you're having a great and thanks for taking the time to look at my problem!! Okay, so here ... A: Well there's no real way to know if she feels comfortable with you through email. The only way to ... | |
| getting back together | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: My name is john, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 4 days ago.She lives in England and ... A: Well it would be very stupid of her to throw something away for a guy she met over the weekend. I ... | |
| long distance/childhood sweetheart | 7/1/2007 |
| Q: My wife and I have seperated and are going to get a divorce. This just happened recently. Neither of ... A: I think that it's possible that this relationship can work, it all depends on how much you guys are ... | |
| She lost interest | 6/25/2007 |
| Q: Here is the situation. 3 months ago i contacted this girl on matrimony site. ealier we only ... A: Sorry a bit late but I'm sorry about what happened and how things didn't work out so well. It's too ... | |
| ldr | 6/15/2007 |
| Q: . im in LDR for about 2 months now and came from seeing him 2 weeks now since i have come back.. ... A: Yes, it is strange that he is acting like that and there is clearly something wrong. I have to agree ... | |
| Long Distance/College | 6/13/2007 |
| Q: this is my first time ever asking advice of any sort on the internet, but I really need an unbiased ... A: At this point i feel that Winsconsin would be a better choice for you. It offers all the benefits ... | |
| help | 6/13/2007 |
| Q: i just got into my first relationship 2 days ago. n i knew tht guy since i was a young kid. he asked ... A: No this question wasn't long at all. Okay um just ask him normal stuff like how are, how is your ... | |
| confused. | 6/12/2007 |
| Q: .i am fem 20 old from phil.i am one of the of searcher in dating site i meet a man from cali..and we ... A: First of all I had a hard time understanding this question, so my answer was based off of what i ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 6/9/2007 |
| Q: met a lovely guy in London (I am English and he is Australian) I left London to be with him in ... A: Well I think you guys need to communicate about these issues cause it sounds like that may be the ... | |
| Giving up in NY | 6/9/2007 |
| Q: I am 47yr fem i live in NY met 57 yr male who lives in Mass last Nov. we exchanged numbers,he asked ... A: I have to agree that he is practically making no effort and this is very unfair for you. You should ... | |
| How serious is what we are experiencing | 6/6/2007 |
| Q: I know E. for about 6 years now. I used to live in the States at her hometown, when I was there I ... A: Well this is a very complicated situation and you might want to consider not pursuing this at all as ... | |
| just started a ldr | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: .... im back and already a little paroid ect.. we got a amazing over the weekend loved every ... A: I had a hard time understanding your question but from what I could understand it sounds like going ... | |
| argument | 6/4/2007 |
| Q: Two days ago I got into a huge fight with my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years. I said some stuff to ... A: Wow! I can't believe that she is ending an almost 3 year relationship for something like that. It's ... | |
| Long Distance relationship without sex?!?! | 6/2/2007 |
| Q: Hey melissa, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little more than two years now. We're both ... A: I don't really think her not wanting to have sex is because of a fear of committment. I think she is ... | |
| argument | 5/31/2007 |
| Q: Two days ago I got into a huge fight with my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years. I said some stuff to ... A: I hope you were able to apologize to her in person but if not, it's okay. Um honestly, you cannot ... | |
| regarding long distance breakup | 5/30/2007 |
| Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: Well I'm glad to hear about what you will be doing in the next few months and I agree that is best. ... | |
| long distance confusion | 5/29/2007 |
| Q: ..thank you for taking the time to read this. It will probably be somewhat long so I apologize :/ ... A: I'm very sorry it took so long for me to reply to your question. Ever since I've gotten home, I've ... | |
| Communication Breakdown | 5/28/2007 |
| Q: My fiancee and I have been together for over a year. We are three weeks away from being together ... A: Well first of all do not do the same thing. You will only be putting yourself at her level and it ... | |
| Very Important | 5/26/2007 |
| Q: Its a long story. Heres the short version. This girl from England,18, came here in Feb and I like ... A: Well i can't really tell from those last few comments if she likes you. I'm sure she liked you ... | |
| Emotionall Seperating the Physically Seperated. | 5/25/2007 |
| Q: You may laugh while reading it, because on appearence it seems somewhat childlike, if not "Puppy ... A: um just to let you know but it didn't come off as laughable or childlike... so no worries there! It ... | |
| regarding long distance breakup | 5/19/2007 |
| Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: You should definitely continue to support her and be a friend for her. She may have rejected you, ... | |
| my break and how i show him how valuable i am?? | 5/17/2007 |
| Q: I asked you about my break im with with my boyfriend of almost 11 months. He wanted a break and i ... A: Well you mentioned how you both are taking a break because he is being too clingy. So you should ... | |
| regarding long distance breakup | 5/16/2007 |
| Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: I'm sorry it has taken me a couple of days to respond to this question. I've been really busy with ... | |
| to break-up or not to break-up? that is my question. | 5/16/2007 |
| Q: my girlfriend of 2 years and 10 months long distance decided last week that she wanted to take a ... A: I really think that you shouldn't get off of this break just yet. A week is not a long enough time ... | |
| wants to find herself... | 5/15/2007 |
| Q: This may be a bit lengthy, but I'll apologize now. I have been dating this 22 year old girl for ... A: I'm very sorry that it took me awhile to respond to this question. I've been tied down with finals ... | |
| Get Her Back - Long Distance | 5/14/2007 |
| Q: Melissa, I'll try to explain best I can but I'm sure any advice or thoughts you have will help. ... A: I'm very sorry to have responded to this question so late. I have been tied down with finals and ... | |
| Kissed another guy | 5/14/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4 months and absolutely adore my boyfriend. ... A: Well I'm glad to hear that you decided to tell him! That sounds like a good decision! You should ... | |
| Kissed another guy | 5/13/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4 months and absolutely adore my boyfriend. ... A: If you really care and love your boyfriend then tell him the truth. Trust me, it's better for you to ... | |
| I really like this girl this is very important | 5/12/2007 |
| Q: In February my moms best friends niece came here visiting from England. She is 18. My mom goes over ... A: Well this does sound like love but yes you should try to ask her out and tell her how you feel when ... | |
| he's going away again how do i deal? | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i met from myspace. we have been dating for almost 11 months now and i basically ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you but everything should be okay. If he actually does ... | |
| problem in LDR | 5/10/2007 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Its pretty much been a long distance ... A: Well breaking up would probably show her that there is something there. If you guys are always ... | |
| long distance- cheating | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: I've been "dating" my current gf for 11 months now, although we have been talking for almost 3 ... A: Well you both are very young and I think the cheating probably had a lot to do with that alone. You ... | |
| Letters | 5/6/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going long distance for 10 months now (we were together for a year and ... A: Well I am glad that overall your relationship is going very well. You are one of the rare cases ... | |
| Young love long distance | 5/3/2007 |
| Q: I met my girlfriend two years ago in Cape Cod, Massachusetts and after finding out she was a family ... A: Well if you will be living very near to her in less than 4 months, then I don't see how it cannot ... | |
| What's going on with him and her? | 4/29/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months now and everything seemed to be working ... A: It's very possible that something could occur between him and this girl Erika. I also think you may ... | |
| she's going off to college | 4/28/2007 |
| Q: i'm 17 and i've been seeing this wonderful girl who is 6 months older than me and will be going off ... A: Well I'm glad you realize that it might be hard for her settling into college with a boyfriend back ... | |
| He's cheating, I invested, now what? | 4/21/2007 |
| Q: I met my bf on match.com almost 2 years ago. We met face-to-face 1 1/2 years ago and verbally agreed ... A: Well if you know that he's been cheating then I think you should bring it up. You are going to tell ... | |
| Can a guy be to sappy | 4/20/2007 |
| Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Well if this is becoming a real problem with you then mention it to her. If she's an easy going ... | |
| Relationships - both on different continents | 4/15/2007 |
| Q: I have recently reconnected with my first love. We are both from Prague. Him and I had a platonic ... A: Well if you do love him and if this is meant to be then yes it can probably work regardless of where ... | |
| i just dont want him to leave | 4/14/2007 |
| Q: i have been going out with someone for 8 months now (i know its not much but to me it seems like ... A: I'm sorry it took a few days to respond. I usually get really busy with work and school around the ... | |
| dont know wat 2do | 4/13/2007 |
| Q: im in ivolved with a girl i jus saw at church after i ve seen her twice.she gave me her phone no as ... A: Well you should ask her what she did in her past. It is true that the past is the past but you ... | |
| Interacial and long-distance | 4/10/2007 |
| Q: Hey, Although I think this is an unanswerable I would appreciate some advice. I was recently ... A: With the language barriers I doubt that it can work. A relationship can only work if you both can ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship | 4/6/2007 |
| Q: Well I have been with this man for over four months. We met at a club and have had this amazing ... A: I agree that his story does not make sense. It doesn't make any sense at all. What would you ... | |
| Long-term/Insercurity | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I feel it's been a constant battle. We live ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ... | |
| forget and forgive | 4/4/2007 |
| Q: im having some problems with myself. Ok let me start with the problem 1st. My partner used to ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ... | |
| Long Distance relationship..i'm only 14 | 4/2/2007 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend use to go to the same school, in taiwan, but a december he had to move back to ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ... | |
| long distance relationship | 3/30/2007 |
| Q: i have met a man but he lives 100 miles away from me. now he has told me that he is separated from ... A: I had a hard time understanding what you wrote at times, but I'll try to give a good answer to this. ... | |
| DESPERATE | 3/29/2007 |
| Q: MY NAME IS NANCY ORTIZ, ALMOST THREE YEARS AGO I WENT TO CALIFORNIA FOR TRAVELING, I STAYED ONE ... A: Well I don't know very much about the process of getting a visa, but I'm sure you can ask someone ... | |
| college | 3/26/2007 |
| Q: Okay, I know I'm onl 15 going on 16, but I consider myself fairly mature for my age, so bear with ... A: Well the only things you guys can do is to just on the phone, through email, or instant messenger. ... | |
| Trust | 3/23/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend is in college and im in highschool. He goes to college in atlanta and im in florida i ... A: Well the best thing to do is to just tell him how you feel. Let him know how all of this bothers you ... | |
| what should i do | 3/22/2007 |
| Q: hey my name is jacob and i met this girl over the net, i'm 18 and she's soon to be 16. we talked ... A: Well it is true that she might be very upset over it but she will eventually get over it. You guys ... | |
| Can a guy be to sappy | 3/21/2007 |
| Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Yes, of course I remember you. Yes, I have pretty much answered some of these questions before. Yes, ... | |
| Trust | 3/19/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend is in college and im in highschool. He goes to college in atlanta and im in florida i ... A: Sorry it took so long to answer your question but I'm in college and working, and these past couple ... | |
| Long Dist ance Relationship | 3/17/2007 |
| Q: I been dating this girl 2 1/2 years (3 years in 3 weeks)and we currently in a long distance ... A: Well considering what she has done in the past, I think it's important that she puts a little effort ... | |
| How to survive a long distance relationship? | 3/17/2007 |
| Q: I m having serious problems in my long distance relationships. My fiancee thinks that I m too ... A: Well I think you should get over this and continue the relationship, and if you can't handle it then ... | |
| Letting him know my feelings | 3/14/2007 |
| Q: There was a guy I met when I lived overseas for a short time several years ago. He's a great guy ... A: I think that if the situation is appropriate then you should definately tell him how you feel. ... | |
| WOOHOO | 3/9/2007 |
| Q: Hey Bee, After an entire year of talking about it, my finacee and I have decided to move in ... A: I think you should do both. If her mother approaches you or her daughter about this, then bring up ... | |
| Can a guy be to sappy | 3/9/2007 |
| Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Yes, I believe that you are being too sappy with this girl. The reason she does not respond is ... | |
| What to do? | 2/28/2007 |
| Q: So, after a heartbreaking breakup with my ex-fiance I have started to connect with people again. Met ... A: Well I think that you should continue to do whatever you are doing. She likes you and your ... | |
| Help me | 2/26/2007 |
| Q: i Live in arizona and i met this girl online and we been talking for two months. The problem is that ... A: Well I don't know what you want me to do. Just plan to meet her sometime. It might be best to try ... | |
| surviving long distance relationship... | 2/25/2007 |
| Q: ..its been like ive been askin u questions about the relationship of mine from the very beginning, ... A: Well actions do speak louder than words and I have to agree that she doesn't seem as serious about ... | |
| can we do long term | 2/21/2007 |
| Q: well me and my boyfriend have been going it will be 5 months this 26th. well here is the problem: we ... A: Well waiting till may shouldn't be very hard. On the contrary that should be pretty easy, since it's ... | |
| always hopeful | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: ok, my cousin asked if her friend could stay with me for 4 weeks while on a holiday visiting the ... A: I think the flowers were a good idea. It was a very sweet gesture and obviously she enjoyed it. It ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship Advice =( | 2/18/2007 |
| Q: I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner since September 2006. I met my girlfriend ... A: i hate to tell you this but most likely she is scamming you money. If I really had cancer and I knew ... | |
| The distance between us is growing.... | 2/14/2007 |
| Q: I have been dating a man who has a lot of issues going on in his life that he has to take care of. ... A: Well I'm sure you've heard of the phrase "actions speak louder than words". I think this phrase ... | |
| Dealing with the loneliness of a LDR and traveling for work | 2/11/2007 |
| Q: I met a wonderful guy (H) from an online personals site, and we have been dating for almost 2 ... A: Well this is a LDR but it's still not too bad. Trust me, you are still pretty lucky for him to only ... | |
| How do you go forward? | 2/5/2007 |
| Q: I'll try to keep the preamble short. My husband is military and stationed over on the east coast. ... A: Well I strongly recommend that you guys seek marraige counseling. counseling will open up ways for ... | |
| Long Distance help... | 1/29/2007 |
| Q: I hope you dont mind if I call you that it said it was your nickname, so I just figured I would. ... A: I don't think you should quit but I think you should be upfront with her. Don't make this into some ... | |
| Long distance relationship guidance | 1/28/2007 |
| Q: Burton, I am currently in a long distance relationship. My significant other lives about 3 hours ... A: Well hopefully she'll pick the college route since college is awesome and it's good to experience it ... | |
| Follow up question | 1/26/2007 |
| Q: I came to you back on November 11, and I was so upset. Thanks for all your advice it rly helped. ... A: Well if he took the time to get in contact with you then I think you should try and contact him. ... | |
| What should I do? | 1/20/2007 |
| Q: Well it seems like my relationship is on the rocks a little bit. My girlfriend has just gone off to ... A: Well if the problem was you really not giving her enough space then I think it's right that you ... | |
| Question | 1/17/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I met online and have been dating for about 6 mos. I have never felt happier and I ... A: well it would be a shame to break this off because even though it;s an LDR, it's not a very ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship - How do I know your the one? | 1/12/2007 |
| Q: It's been 2 1/2 months now since I last saw her. I still think about her quite a bit. But I've got ... A: Well I'm glad to hear that your surgery went good and that you are feeling good about not contacting ... | |
| time is a test | 1/12/2007 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, Its been a while since i've asked for advice. Things between me and my fiancee are ... A: well I can't tell you want to do and I certainly don't know the right decision for you to make ... | |
| Confused | 1/10/2007 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I had been dating for almost two years and have now been in a long distance ... A: First of all I'm sorry to hear that this decision was just kind of surprising for you at the ... | |
| why do i cry everytime????? | 1/9/2007 |
| Q: i will get right to the point. i am involved in a LDR and have been for two years now. both my ... A: Well it just sounds like you cry just cause you'll miss being with him. It's really normal and just ... | |
| any advice? | 1/8/2007 |
| Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. He was a foreign exchange student from ... A: honestly I think it's the combination of the two. It's very difficult for a person to have a long ... | |
| long distance trouble | 12/19/2006 |
| Q: i am 17, my gf is 18. i am in high school, she is in communtiy college. we live a bit over 100 miles ... A: Well just give her her space. She's in college and probably meeting new people and these past few ... | |
| Future Long Distance Relationship | 12/18/2006 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now, and now we are faced with something we ... A: Well you can try and make this work. Keep in mind that if things don't work then you both can still ... | |
| Long term boyfriend long distance relationship | 12/14/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under three years now. We got together in high ... A: You need to do it in person. I know it's hard but either way he will be really hurt. Just get it ... | |
| Long Distance Marriage | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: I hope you can give me some advice. I have been with my fiance for 6 years. We have a 3 yr old ... A: Well just tell him how you feel. You said that he goes out of town and wont call or keep you ... | |
| parents against ldr | 12/13/2006 |
| Q: I had written you a few weeks ago and appreciated your advice....since thanksgiving my parents have ... A: I think honesty is the best policy in this situation. If they meet him then they will probably not ... | |
| I need to Know | 12/8/2006 |
| Q: I am 20 years old and I recently met a 24year old guy who I really fell for, so much that I can ... A: Well of course it can blossom into something real. You said you both have recently met so of course ... | |
| How to keep it alive when I am away? | 12/6/2006 |
| Q: He broke up with me last weekend. Nothing I could say or do was enough. He is just so sure that ... A: well obviously he does want to be with you, otherwise he would not be crying when you broke up with ... | |
| 11 months without seeing | 12/5/2006 |
| Q: Ok, i have a question about my relationship with my girlfriend Christina. I live in Las Vegas, NV ... A: Well yes the relatiosnhip is healthy. There doesn't seem like there's anything wrong with it and ... | |
| How to keep it alive when I am away? | 12/2/2006 |
| Q: I'll try to keep it short. I have been trying to immigrate from France to the US for 3 years. ... A: Well I can understand if he is not sure about marrying you. Marraige is a big step and a major ... | |
| love | 12/1/2006 |
| Q: Unfortunately me and the guy im seeing started out with long distance so we've never had the chance ... A: Well that's up to you. If my boyfriend said that to me i would say me too, or I would just say I ... | |
| I'm not sure how to proceed | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: I've never done the LD/online dating before. About a month and a half ago a girl found me on ... A: Well it has only been a month and a half so I can understand her being wary of the whole thing. So ... | |
| The Rents! | 11/30/2006 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, I had a question for you if you don't mind replying. When the mother of your Spouse ... A: Well this is an issue but fortuanately it's not really bad at this point. So i do not think you ... | |
| i'm confused and affraid and need some help | 11/29/2006 |
| Q: my name is moses and this is my issue; i'm 22 never had a real relationship, started a long distance ... A: Well I understand how you rushed things earlier in the relationship but that doesn't mean you still ... | |
| WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON? | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: It took me to get to this point to ask about my long distance relationship with my honey (she lives ... A: Well it sounds like you are doing all you really can. This is something she needs to deal with. I ... | |
| LDR girl from holiday | 11/27/2006 |
| Q: im 18 and met this great girl on holiday (shes 16) a few months back and we clicked 100% I knew i ... A: Well if you feel like your saying it just for the sake of it then it's probably not love. But you ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship Breakup | 11/26/2006 |
| Q: This is samantha again... it has been about 2 and a half months now since my boyfriend and i broke ... A: It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. He was talking with you for quite some time ... | |
| parents against ldr | 11/24/2006 |
| Q: I am a 25 yr old woman from NY and spent the summer in italy with family. During my 3 month stay, I ... A: Well personally I feel that you should stay with this guy and give it a try. I feel it's a solid ... | |
| Long Distance | 11/21/2006 |
| Q: I met him through my roommate's boyfriend, who also happens to be my friend. We started talking by ... A: Yes, you should ask him what the status of the friendship is. He might be afraid to ask and you ... | |
| long distance love | 11/19/2006 |
| Q: My bf of almost 2 years just moved to America as his parents are going through a nasty divorce. I'm ... A: Well I can understand how this must be very difficult for you. First and foremost you shouuldn't be ... | |
| Long distance break up | 11/16/2006 |
| Q: I have been in love and together with my girlfriend for more than 2 years. We met in college and we ... A: Well it has only been 3 months and this does seem like something you guys should work on together, ... | |
| im afriad | 11/15/2006 |
| Q: ok. this year i started my 8th grade year. the first week of school i found out this one girl really ... A: I hate to say this but most likely she will find someone else before you get back. The reason I ... | |
| confused... | 11/15/2006 |
| Q: I am have going out with my boyfriend for 16 months. He is the love of my life, no doubt about it. I ... A: Well the easiest way to handle this situation is to buy him a phone. They only cost at least 15 ... | |
| What to do? | 11/11/2006 |
| Q: About two weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up and It's been extremely hard on me. We're both in ... A: Well isn't it kind of early in the year to break up? You don't know what life will bring you and if ... | |
| A follow up | 11/7/2006 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, Thank you very much for your input. What you replied is basically what my ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you. If you want then you can give it a try. The ... | |
| angry off the phone? | 11/6/2006 |
| Q: I have been dating this wonderful guy for 3 months now. I know, not a very long time compared to ... A: Well it's a problem if you guys aren't really talking anymore. This sin't a good sign especially ... | |
| does he still love me? | 11/5/2006 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months, and he just recently moved back to Florida 2 ... A: Well it's understandable if he wants to just hang out with his friends but he should have time set ... | |
| long distance becomes close | 11/4/2006 |
| Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for almost two years, this month, and now I'm in the ... A: I am pretty sure I already answered this question but just in case, here is the answer again. \ "I ... | |
| long distance break up | 11/3/2006 |
| Q: I was with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were very much in love, still are actually. The only ... A: Hey Well the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Just ask him how he feels about it. Tell ... | |
| RuneScape.... | 11/2/2006 |
| Q: Okay, there is an online game called RuneScape, and I play it. I met a guy that i really like. He ... A: You're not in any trouble because you are just his girlfriend on some game, Runescape. No big deal. ... | |
| Long Distance not going to work? | 10/31/2006 |
| Q: I am in a situation where I asked my gf to marry me recently. I had no intentions of getting ... A: Well a long distance relationship like that can work but if you honestly think it's better to call ... | |
| long distance relationship | 10/30/2006 |
| Q: my boyfriend and i been going out for about two months now. we stay about an hour and a half away ... A: Well talk to him about this. Ask him if there are any other ways he can come out and see you when he ... | |
| College/high school dating | 10/29/2006 |
| Q: I go to college in the same town as my girlfriend goes to high school. We've been dating for over a ... A: Well you asked this question in a long distance relationship section, and this isn't really long ... | |
| very sad | 10/27/2006 |
| Q: i have a huge problem. Over the summer, i went on a trip to Turkey with my family. The point of the ... A: Hey Mary Well as you mentioned there is nothing you can change about missing him. And even crying ... | |
| Long Distance, Not Coming Back. | 10/25/2006 |
| Q: I'm 18 and have gotten into a serious relationship with a girl for a few months now. She's leaving ... A: Well you said you've been in a relationship with this girl for only a few months. That's not very ... | |
| long distance relationship problem | 10/25/2006 |
| Q: I am going through a rough time now in my current long distance relationship. I really need some ... A: Well tell him how you feel. I'm sorry but you cannot fix this relationship until he is willing to ... | |
| it gets hard! | 10/24/2006 |
| Q: I know my question is quite repetitive. Thank you for your time. I stay in India. My boyfriend and I ... A: Well it sounds like you already made your decision which is probably the right one. It's good for ... | |
| what should i do with him | 10/23/2006 |
| Q: my name is Hanaa I am 30 years old and callege student.I am dating my boyfriend about 2 years. I ... A: Well the communication thing is pretty bad. You guys don't have to talk everyday for hours but it is ... | |
| long distance and break-up | 10/23/2006 |
| Q: I live in another country, very far away and I tried with a couple of emails and I called him ... A: I'm very sorry to hear that he has not contacted you yet. I think this whole thing is really not ... | |
| LDR - Trust | 10/21/2006 |
| Q: My boyfrined and I are staying in different countries now, before being together for 2 yrs, apart ... A: Well from the information you gave me it doesn't sound like he's cheating on you. It sounds like he ... | |
| long distance and break-up | 10/20/2006 |
| Q: I have been having a long distance relationship with a guy who I thought it was going to be my ... A: Hey Well he sounds like a jerk to have done that. I mean how can someone, a few days before you ... | |
| long distance relationships , help:( | 10/20/2006 |
| Q: Hey , me and my bf met thru a frend , we spk 4 abt 2months on the net and decided 2 meet up face 2 ... A: Well talk to him about this. Tell him how you are worried. Honestly, if he loves you he wont fall ... | |
| International LDR - moral issues with kids | 10/19/2006 |
| Q: Hey! I have a 4 year old son with my ex and for the past year I have been in an LDR with a ... A: Well you can talk to the child about it too. At the age of 4 he is probably most dependant on you ... | |
| Long Distance | 10/19/2006 |
| Q: I just started Med School and going to see my girlfriend happens once about every 5 weeks (shes 6.5 ... A: Well it might be good to make a compromise and combine both of your ways to do this. You can talk to ... | |
| Long distance relationships | 10/16/2006 |
| Q: In the time between my question and receiving your reply I had met this girl twice. Told her about ... A: Sorry it took so long for me to reply the first time and this time. I've just been very busy with ... | |
| how do I become more positive? | 10/14/2006 |
| Q: I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now and its starting to get really hard. I ... A: Well it's not as easy as it sounds... to be positive. It's actually a skill that people build up. ... | |
| jelouse of her guy friends | 10/13/2006 |
| Q: me and my girlfreiend have been together for almost 10 months, she lives in florida dn i live in ... A: Well first of all there is nothing wrong with her wanting to look good everyday. I have boyfriends ... | |
| Considering long distance relationship | 10/12/2006 |
| Q: Well him and I got into a pretty serious conversation tonight. Previously, I have dated only 2 guys ... A: No you made perfect sense and I agree with you 100%. Actually I advise people to wait at least a ... | |
| Long distance relationships | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: Im Heiser, I broke up with my girl after a year long relationship, when I left for college and long ... A: I wouldn't get back with her. Why? First of all you guys didn't speak over a minor disagreement. ... | |
| Considering long distance relationship | 10/11/2006 |
| Q: Well it all started about 6 years ago. I met this guy online. We started out as friends, and then at ... A: Well having a long distance relationship is much better than an online relationship. There is some ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship | 10/9/2006 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend through my cousin and last Novemeber we started talking online. We never really ... A: Hey Monica It sounds like you need to make some friends. I can understand how you miss your ... | |
| urgent | 10/8/2006 |
| Q: My name is Sandra and I'm 41 years old. Last year I married a man from Nigeria. I am an American. I ... A: Well suicide is not the answer. There are worst things going on in the world and committing suicide ... | |
| Long Distance Breakup and dating again | 10/2/2006 |
| Q: Ive dated a guy for a month and a half, he is 17 two years younger than me, so when i told my ... A: Well your situation could go either way. He could have wanted you for sex or for love.But again this ... | |
| long distance relationship | 9/30/2006 |
| Q: my question is what can two people expect if they have decided to have a long distance relation, is ... A: Well I'm glad to hear you guys are trying an LDR. It would have been terrible if you had not given ... | |
| long distance trouble | 9/29/2006 |
| Q: im so sorry this is kinda long, if you dont have the time you can skip this. my boyfriend and myself ... A: First and foremost his reasons are garbage!!! If he truly loves you that would not have happened! ... | |
| long distance relationship | 9/28/2006 |
| Q: Iv emailed this guy from London we talked for 3 months I also visited him in London. Now we still ... A: Well what he says doesn't really tell you anything. It all depends on how they treat you. For ... | |
| What should I do about a break? | 9/27/2006 |
| Q: Okay. I dated a girl for 5 months. Everything was awesome, except for the simple fact that I only ... A: Well call her. Just cause you guys are taking a break doesn't mean you can't still keep in touch and ... | |
| Adjusting him out of my life? | 9/25/2006 |
| Q: I've really been at quite a crossroads the past few days and I thought some input from others might ... A: Hey Hannah Well I don't think you should end it but this certianly is a problem. First of all it ... | |
| Long Distance relationship Breakup | 9/24/2006 |
| Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and three months. The first year we were dating both ... A: Well it sounds like he still cares about you. just cause he decides to break up with you doesn't ... | |
| College and a Long Distance Relationship | 9/20/2006 |
| Q: I will try to give you the basics so I can keep this brief. My boyfriend, Adam (name changed), and I ... A: Well an LDR between you two can work out but you have to be realistic. Generally most LDRs that ... | |
| Insecurites with Long Distance Relationships | 9/20/2006 |
| Q: Ok, i just need to vent. And hear other people's thoughts on my situation. I've been with my ... A: Hey Well about the other girl thing. Honestly you should talk to him about it. There's a difference ... | |
| What do I do? | 9/18/2006 |
| Q: Hey, My name is Courtney. On Feb. 29, 2005. I was on the internet (quizilla.com) and that night me ... A: Of course you guys really loved each other but sometimes relationships end. Sometimes you can share ... | |
| Kind of a LDR | 9/13/2006 |
| Q: Hey, Well i've been in a relationship for about 2 years and we both believe that we will be ... A: Well yes that isn't a long distance relationship and I'm pretty sure you guys can handle the ... | |
| my long distance relationship | 9/11/2006 |
| Q: my name is Aurora and I am currently going out with a wonderful man named Travis. Travis and I have ... A: Well I can understand your fears but I don't see how he would be happy with other women. Sure he ... | |
| LDR Frustration | 9/8/2006 |
| Q: I have been in an LDR for 4 months now and wouldn't even attempt this is it wasn't for someone I ... A: Yes there's really no point to an LDR if you guys aren't able to be together at one point. I think ... | |
| Long Distance Realtionships | 8/31/2006 |
| Q: Over the summer I got into a realtionship. Me and my boyfriend had an instant connection. We ... A: Hey Monique (pretty name) Honestly I don't feel you need to continue this relationship. I could ... | |
| long distance relashionships | 8/29/2006 |
| Q: i started dating this girl about 7 montns ago and about 4 months into it she told me she was moving ... A: Well is there any way you guys will be together in the future soon? If so then focus on that date. ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 8/23/2006 |
| Q: I'm hoping you can help me some. I'm from Alexandria, Louisiana. I've recently arrived in Abilene, ... A: Well I can't really tell you what to do cause it's your decision and everything but you need to ask ... | |
| VERY CONFUSED | 8/19/2006 |
| Q: TO BE ABLE TO EXPLAIN MY LDR IT WOULD BE PRETTY LONG BUT I FEEL YOU ARE THE BEST CANADATE FOR MY ... A: Well thank you for thinking of asking me a question. You can go ahead and ask me if you like. I am ... | |
| Can we make it? | 8/14/2006 |
| Q: i'm not having any serious problems or anything, i just want to share my thoughts with someone. I've ... A: Well it is possible but no it's not very realistic. That doesn't mean it can't happpen cause it ... | |
| surviving long distance relationship... | 8/11/2006 |
| Q: ..my name is vishesh im 18, n i hail from india... im in college in second year doing engineering... ... A: Well one thing to do is to keep having good communication. Keep talking to each other either through ... | |
| Me and my bf going to different colleges | 8/11/2006 |
| Q: Me and my bf are going to be 3 hours apart next year due to college. I really want to stay with ... A: Hey Jane Well it would be good for yo both to at least try a long ditance relationship. 3 hours of ... | |
| He's not attracted to me | 8/10/2006 |
| Q: My ex and I dated for 4 yrs. In the beginning we spent everyday and night together of which we would ... A: Hey Bree From what you told me it sounds like if you guys lived in the same city then this whole ... | |
| taking a break or break up | 8/9/2006 |
| Q: I’ve been dating someone for 6 months. We immediately became great friends fast and spent much of ... A: Well I think giving each other space is a good idea. You only have to wait about a month or so until ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship Question | 8/8/2006 |
| Q: Hey Melissa (Bee). What's up. I recently sent an email to this girl and told her how I felt about ... A: I think you did the right thing by sending that email. And of course she wants space right now. She ... | |
| Lost things to say | 8/7/2006 |
| Q: I have been with this one girl for over two months now, we talked almost everyday. When we first ... A: Well try to find a better way to talk to her. Maybe talk to her though the internet and maybe on the ... | |
| is my boyfriend cheating on me | 8/6/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriends best friend told me that he saw my boyfriend at the movies with another girl that ... A: First of all talk to your boyfriend about this. Don't get his best friend in trouble by saying he ... | |
| he just went home | 8/5/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend literally showed up on my door step from england (never met him before - I'm in Canada) ... A: Well I am having a hard time understanding the problem. You said he left a few days ago and both ... | |
| Let's try this again... | 8/5/2006 |
| Q: Bee, Hello! I tried someone else, but it was "outside of his expertise", so I'm coming to you! ... A: Well try to spend as much time as you guys can together. I don't know if you mean 15 minutes walking ... | |
| long distance | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are both going to different colleges. We are within driving distances from each ... A: Well first of all be positive! Your situation is not too bad considering you guys do get to see each ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship Question | 8/2/2006 |
| Q: Melissa, HI! I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman that I met in Chicago ... A: I honestly don't think such a wonderful relationship would just end over this. It sounds like she ... | |
| Jarhead loving but struggling ... | 7/31/2006 |
| Q: you have helped so much before ... I am a Marine in San Diego dating a wonderful lady for about 10 ... A: I am still having aa hard time trying to figure out what the big deal is. As you said before this is ... | |
| international long distance | 7/28/2006 |
| Q: I really want to know if I am being totally unreasonable. On 1 Jan my friend Leighann and I were in ... A: I agree with you. You guys moving to be with each other at this point would not be wise and would ... | |
| long distance relationships | 7/27/2006 |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend are in a LDR. We had been together for 7 and a half months and be fore that only ... A: Well there are many factors to if it can last or not. True you guys may love each other very much ... | |
| long distance relationship | 7/19/2006 |
| Q: Melissa How are you?I writing again because I took your advice and called her on 7th of july to ... A: Hey Mike I think you did the right thing. This girl was giving yyou way too many mixed signals and ... | |
| I Don't Know What To Do | 7/17/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend of a little over a year, Brandon, is moving to Colorado in two days (Tuesday) because ... A: Well I wouldn't just dump your boyfriend. First of all he just moved away and I don't think he ... | |
| Whats going to happen??? | 7/16/2006 |
| Q: I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He is moving 2 hours away this fall and I ... A: Heelo Christy I'm just going to be honest with you. I don't think an LDR could work with you guys. I ... | |
| Fairness | 7/14/2006 |
| Q: Three years ago I moved with my girlfiend from Texas to Florida so that she could finish her ... A: Well if you guys have been together for over three years and you have made a sacrifice to be with ... | |
| long distance | 7/13/2006 |
| Q: My boy friend and i have been dating for 2 years. He recently graduated from the college we attend ... A: Well I'm very sorry to hear that you guys have to be seperated now. But I'm glad that you are being ... | |
| will it work? | 7/10/2006 |
| Q: i have a boyfriend in tn, and i'm going to a boarding school in new york next year. We are both 16, ... A: Well I really can't tell you how this whole thing will end up because many things can happen. You ... | |
| Long Distance - Making The Move | 7/9/2006 |
| Q: This is my 1st long distance relationship. We have been together for a year and a half and see ... A: Actually I think this is the right time to plan something like this. I can understand him not being ... | |
| what to talk about | 7/7/2006 |
| Q: me and my girlfriend never have any thing to talk about so can u give me some interesting topics A: Hey Well anything can be an interesting topic. You just have to be creative. For example I used to ... | |
| long distance relationship | 7/5/2006 |
| Q: Melissa How are you?The last e-mail I sent was on 5/31 and after that I haven't heard from since I ... A: Well I think it's a good idea for you to see other girls now. She probably does like you but it;s ... | |
| lost in love, on the broken road | 6/16/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I had been together steadily for almost four years. We met when I was a Junior in ... A: Well first of there needs to be better communication in this relationship. He needs to be telling ... | |
| Long distance relationship | 6/14/2006 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend are first cousins. Im from USA and she's from Philippines. Both our parents are ... A: Hey Justin Well I think you guys can wait that long to be together. It will be very difficult but if ... | |
| long distance relationship | 6/12/2006 |
| Q: I met a girl online and we started chatted online she gave me her number and she started calling me ... A: Hey Mike I would believe her about her being busy. You don't really know her schedule too well. t's ... | |
| LDR, mixed signals | 6/10/2006 |
| Q: Ill try to keep this brief. I have been together with my gf for 5 months, I have not seen her in 1 ... A: It's probably something she does out of habit. I remember the same thing happened last year in my ... | |
| Ex girlfriend for 3 1/2 years moved away | 6/8/2006 |
| Q: I date my ex girfriend for about 3 1/2 years she got a great job promotion to a city about 10 hours ... A: Hey Brian I hate to tell you this but it sounds like she is falling out of love with you. She pretty ... | |
| Long distant relationship | 6/5/2006 |
| Q: I have been with my current b/f for 7 months and we knew eachother for about 6 months before that. ... A: Well find out what the root of the arguements is. Nobody just argues over nothing and for absolutely ... | |
| well is it true love or not | 5/30/2006 |
| Q: well his name is Jason and i am 15 and he is 19 i live in Texas he lives in Ohiomet on a band site ... A: I can't tell you if it is true love or not. You cannot judge true love easily cause everyone in love ... | |
| Diogene Luis | 5/30/2006 |
| Q: How can i make my relationship with Diogene Luis strong enough to last through long distance? What ... A: Hey Masiel Well the best way to keep him thinking about you is to just be yourself! Just be who you ... | |
| Things turned up better than i thought | 5/26/2006 |
| Q: Well melisa your help has been great tough one thing my bf dad said to him is that he told him that ... A: Hey Thelma sorry it took me awhile to reply but I had a hard time finding your past question cause ... | |
| I dont want to mess things up | 5/24/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend is about to enter college and he has alot of pressure on him and i love him so much. He ... A: Hey Thelma It sounds like you guys need some space or a break. That way you both can really think ... | |
| long term relationship | 5/20/2006 |
| Q: I am moving about 15 hrs away from my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years we getalong great and are so happy ... A: Well if you guys have been together for 2 and a half years then I don't see why you giving him a ... | |
| What should I do | 5/19/2006 |
| Q: I have been with a girl for 5 months she is living in New Jersey And I live in Pennsylvania. now we ... A: Hey Brett I'm sorry to tell you this but break ups usually involve depression. There is no real way ... | |
| possible? | 5/19/2006 |
| Q: is it possible to love someone you are not around? my gal is miles away from her and i see like she ... A: Hey Pash I couldn't understand part of your question, so please take that into consideration when ... | |
| long distance + jealousy | 5/16/2006 |
| Q: hehe prior to when i wrote you, they have been talking less, but i found out that it is because they ... A: Hey Well I;m glad to know that your boyfriend finally sees what is going on with this whole thing! I ... | |
| marriage | 5/15/2006 |
| Q: i am a a very open minded muslim young man and i want to marry a christian woman.i would be most ... A: well I'm not very sure of any specific websites. You can go on google and type in christain singles ... | |
| long distance + jealousy | 5/11/2006 |
| Q: i met my boyfriend online and i've known him for almost 5 years now, but it's only recent that we've ... A: Hey Yes this girl is trouble. And the things she says and her actions imply that she probably has ... | |
| Long Distance Break-Up... ;-( | 5/10/2006 |
| Q: Melissa, My boyfriend and I of 3 wonderful years have decided to call it quits. I moved to ... A: Well you need to discuss this with your problem. Tell him about how you are feeling and why you felt ... | |
| Long distance relationships | 5/10/2006 |
| Q: My gf and i have been together for abt 5 months now and we love each other really much, she is in ... A: Hey Frank Why don't you want her to miss you? Any ways there is no way she can not miss you so much. ... | |
| long distant relationship | 5/9/2006 |
| Q: I really need your help. I have a boyfriend and we've been together almost a year. Dont get me wrong ... A: Hey Amy Of course you should attempt to try to make your relationship work. No relationship and I ... | |
| sudden silent treatment | 5/8/2006 |
| Q: I have been talking to this man long distance for almost three months and we decided to meet in ... A: Hey Well how long has this silent treatment been? If it's been for just a couple of daysd then I ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship | 5/5/2006 |
| Q: I met my boyfriend online & we chatted on the phone for 2.5 years then met up for my 18th Birthday & ... A: Hey Kat I think you guys need to make a plan. I hope this guy isn't the type who's planning to live ... | |
| how can i get him off of my mind | 5/5/2006 |
| Q: hey melissa, my boyfriend and i were together for between 5-6 months..but he said that he couldn't ... A: Hey chrissy Yes I'm dissappointed you guys had to break up over that. I'm in CA and my boyfriend's ... | |
| Long distance relationship with a fiancee | 5/4/2006 |
| Q: My fiancee and I have been in a long distance realtionship off and on for nearly two years. At one ... A: I will be completely honest with you and yes it is a sign that he has been cheating on you. That ... | |
| Long Distant Relationship (military) | 5/2/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We've known each other for 6yrs, and 6 weeks ago ... A: I think that a half way relationship around the world can work. And I also understand your fears. I ... | |
| What is closure? Do I need it? | 5/1/2006 |
| Q: I recently broke up with my gf about a month ago. We were together for about 10 months. Great girl ... A: Hey Lei Well it's natural to feel hurt over something like this for awhile. So it might not go away ... | |
| Does he really mean when he said I LOVE YOU | 4/30/2006 |
| Q: my bf and I met online. He has been my bf for six months now. We havent met yet. BUt i know i am ... A: Hey Cheron If he really loves you and if you guys really shared something special then there should ... | |
| Promises promises | 4/26/2006 |
| Q: Bee--Quick followup--He and I have an agreement not to get upset if it takes a long time to hear ... A: Hry Gutless Hounding a person is calling them multiple times a week. But this guy is being a little ... | |
| Confused | 4/23/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year now and close friends for almost 4. i do ... A: Hey Kristi I can understand how this kind of commitment at a young age is really too much. And I do ... | |
| taking a break in a long distance relationship | 4/17/2006 |
| Q: I am 28 years old and am currently in a long distance relationship. my girlfriend and I have been ... A: Hey Joe It's certainly not over! I think you are overreacting about it being over so quickly! I ... | |
| Long Distance Break Up | 4/12/2006 |
| Q: I am going through a very rough time with my "girlfriend" We have been together for almost two year, ... A: Hey Shane It sounds like your girlfriend is very confused and the best thing you can do is just deal ... | |
| Is there a happy ending? | 4/3/2006 |
| Q: I play this game online and had become friends with someone I played with. Recently my friends ... A: Well the only way to know how Jane is feeling is to ask her. It seems like you guys are on pretty ... | |
| partner making me angry | 4/1/2006 |
| Q: I have been in LDR for 3 and a half yrs. I am english and live in london. He is brazilian, we ... A: Hey Kate Yes this is defiantely a problem. And that doesn't make sense at all. If he's really ... | |
| Long-Distance Relationship | 3/28/2006 |
| Q: Um, I'm in my first long-term relationship. We've lived together as flatmates, best friends and ... A: Hey Flip Well why doesn't your boyfriend send you emails. It's not a good sign that he doesn't send ... | |
| Unhappy and Confused | 3/28/2006 |
| Q: Well, where to start...I cannot believe i am even writing this to you right now, but here goes ... A: Yes there is a problem here. It cannot work unless he is willing to listen to you and change his ... | |
| LDR and breaking up | 3/26/2006 |
| Q: I've been in an LDR 1 year. I am having a great deal of stress in my daily life (I'm in med school ... A: Well first of all it sounds like you both have to make a few changes. You need to stop asking ... | |
| Long Distance Problems | 3/23/2006 |
| Q: Hey My name is Bryan and it seems like our relationship is just dying. It seems like we just can't ... A: Well it is easy to loose interest sometime. But I'll give you some tips me and my boyfriend use. And ... | |
| hey melissa, i'm not sure... | 3/7/2006 |
| Q: hey melissa, i'm not sure where to start, i just need someone to talk to: i had been with my ex for ... A: I can defiantely understand how you are feeling. 2 years ago I went through the same exact thing ... | |
| How can I make him know how he feels? | 3/6/2006 |
| Q: Me & my boyfriend have been together for a year but was friends for 2 1/2 before that. we met in a ... A: Hey Kat Well I'm sorry to say this but you can't make him see how he feels. He has to do that all by ... | |
| 40 days to focus on our future | 2/28/2006 |
| Q: (I have written to you before, but I have a different question. So as soon as you start recognizing ... A: Yes I remeber you! First of all this fasting thing is very VERY bad. do not do it. Ignoring each ... | |
| How do you not miss someone? | 2/27/2006 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, 1 1/2 in an LDR. We went to school together ... A: Hey Caryn I hate to say this but your asking for the impossible. You will alwways miss him. there ... | |
| boyfriend | 2/26/2006 |
| Q: I knew this guy in grade school and high school and I knew that he like me back then but I only like ... A: Hey Lynn Well remember he is probaly still going through a hard time. And there may be other things ... | |
| sugesstions | 2/23/2006 |
| Q: i am of age 21 i like a person i don't know whether he likes me or not we stay in diffrent cities ... A: Well no he doesn't like you. And you only made it worse for yourseldf. you dug your own hole. ... | |
| Long Distance: The last stretch | 2/21/2006 |
| Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for over 3 1/2 years. We dated and lived together for about 2 years ... A: I'm sorry to hear about what happened but at least you learned that it's not good to date other ... | |
| LDR in college | 2/21/2006 |
| Q: I dated Matt for a year and 1/2 during highschool and part of college. I broke it off because I felt ... A: Hey Lesley First of all NO it's a very bad idea to transfer schools just to be with a guy. I could ... | |
| about to begin long distance college relationship | 2/19/2006 |
| Q: Hey, My girlfriend heather and i have been together strongly for the last 4 years. We have known ... A: Hey Kenny To keep the relationship strong have great communication. Try to talk on a regular basis ... | |
| My fiancee - how to prepare for the worst | 2/17/2006 |
| Q: I am back again. First of all thank you so so much for taking time in reading my book size problems ... A: Hey Nick Yes it's good to have her manage her time and schedules. She needs to be more organized and ... | |
| Frustrated Feelings | 2/16/2006 |
| Q: hey there melissa just thought id ask/tell something that has been bugging me a bit with me and my ... A: Well you never told me why you are needy or selfish. You or her getting jealous has nothing to do ... | |
| long distance relationship | 2/15/2006 |
| Q: I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 8yrs on and off.We have been dating since ... A: Hey Angela Well why you do want to be with him? You haven't answered that. It sounds like there's no ... | |
| My fiancee - how to prepare for the worst | 2/15/2006 |
| Q: Burton, After reading many long distance issues, I decided to write something of my own. I have ... A: Hey Nick It sounds like you are going through a difficult time with your girlfriend. First of all ... | |
| Help me get her back...please... | 2/13/2006 |
| Q: Hey, well, Ill make this simple as possible. My gf, and I have been going out for 5 months, but on ... A: Hey Cody first of all you cannot rebuild her faith or her confidence. That can never happen. I hope ... | |
| confused | 2/7/2006 |
| Q: hey my name is ashley. im 17 years old and i lvie in alabama. this boy i met on the computer about 8 ... A: Hey Ashley Yes if a person loves you they are willing to try anything to make it work. I'm surprised ... | |
| culd I be much more of an idiot! | 2/6/2006 |
| Q: I'm looking for advise on what I should do in the my situation. I do hope you can help me. I have ... A: Hey Trent To answer your question and to put it as simply as possibly yes it is very possible that ... | |
| long distance meltdown | 2/6/2006 |
| Q: I'm in a relationship crisis. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years. We have been ... A: Hey Julie From what you told me it does come off as if he's not ready in general. But for someone ... | |
| jealousy-is this normal? | 2/2/2006 |
| Q: I came across your webpage on long distance relationships when I was looking for "support/advice". ... A: Hey Betty anne Well jealousy for any couple, long distance or not is normal. It would be very ... | |
| Married & Having a Long Distance Affair | 1/29/2006 |
| Q: I am 34 years old and have been married to my second husband for 6 years. We have two children ... A: Well it sounds like the marraige is near the end and there's no point in contuing. I'm assuming that ... | |
| will this work? | 1/27/2006 |
| Q: I've been in a relationship with a amazing man for 1yr. n 9months. I love him alot but I'm not sure ... A: Hey Faith I couldn't understand your question too easily cause of the way you wrote it but I will ... | |
| HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | 1/25/2006 |
| Q: Ok...Lets start off with saying that i'm confused as hell about what to do...oh...and i just pulled ... A: Yes you certainly did make a pretty big mistake. there's nothing you can do except tell her. You say ... | |
| my long distance relationship | 1/21/2006 |
| Q: i was wondering if you could give me some advice? i have been in a LDR for 2 years with a man who i ... A: Hey Hollie I can't tell you if your relationship is worth working for cause that it completely up to ... | |
| what is next? | 1/17/2006 |
| Q: I am separated from my husband but we are living together for financial reasons and it is easier for ... A: Hey shelly Well first of all still being married and still having a child that is living in a home ... | |
| Marriage & Visa | 1/16/2006 |
| Q: I have been dating a woman from Australia for three months here in Seattle. Although it is very ... A: Hey Xeper About your first question, well I don't know. I have minimum knowledge in the whole visa ... | |
| Long distance relationship, what does she really want? | 1/11/2006 |
| Q: I was going out with my girlfriend for a year we live 300 miles away, it started to go wrong and we ... A: Hey Scott Well I owuldn't just wait for her and not ignore every girl you talk to. But I think it's ... | |
| long distance broken up | 1/11/2006 |
| Q: To make a long story short, I dated a girl seriously for a year (long distance) and a month, and we ... A: Hey Mike First of all I'm not your girlfriend. I can't tell you why she wants to see you or not, but ... | |
| LDR | 1/9/2006 |
| Q: ..I met a dear lady online. We are 1100 miles from each other. We began the relationship via the ... A: Hey Michael Well I can't tell you if you should move in or not. But i can tell you that it might be ... | |
| Just a thank you and update | 1/9/2006 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, It's Jeff, dont know if you remember me or not, i always wrote about being uncertain ... A: Hey Jeff well keep trying the tips I said before. The tips wont help you just once and never again. ... | |
| torn between 2 | 12/22/2005 |
| Q: ..kyle is in prison in colorado and i have decided to drop chris all together because he drinks to ... A: Hey Keshia If I was in your shoes I would be with neither of them. First of all I know I deserve ... | |
| Long distance confusion | 12/19/2005 |
| Q: I met a girl 2 years ago online, we dated but never met, 2 years later we meet and love bloomed ... A: Hey Zach I know this may be very hard for you but yes back off and leave her alone. I doubt her ... | |
| Just a thank you and update | 12/8/2005 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, Its Jeff, the guy who always wrote you about feeling uncertain and unexcited about my ... A: Hey Jeff Thank you soo much for letting me know how things are going!! That's really awesome and I'm ... | |
| wat should we do? | 12/6/2005 |
| Q: i just started "dating" this girl that i met of the internet. i live in tx, she lives in alabama! ... A: Hey Erik Sorry it took me so long to write to you but I've really had a busy week with finals, a ... | |
| long distance relationship - first meet | 12/6/2005 |
| Q: I recently met a seemingly wonderful man from London. We met on a dating site and although his ... A: Hey Bernie No you are not overreacting! This is a problem and as a mother with children this is not ... | |
| worried of cheating | 12/2/2005 |
| Q: Me and my girl have a long distance relationship(me in ny, her in texas) i have trusted her, she ... A: Hey Joe Well this is something you need to talk about with her. And by the way don't say you didn't ... | |
| i like a guy in california,... | 11/27/2005 |
| Q: i like a guy in california, he's in college, i'm in high school in new york.... he really likes me, ... A: Hey Liz Well that's a coincedence! I'm just saying that cause I live in Cali, my boyfriend lives in ... | |
| relationship | 11/27/2005 |
| Q: ok,im going out with this guy that i really care about(i think im in love with him).he says he feels ... A: Hey Suezanne Well I doubt it would bother him. First of all almost everyone is aware that pictures ... | |
| Not sure whats going to happen | 11/25/2005 |
| Q: I have been in a long distant relationship with a guy for a few months and I have never met him ... A: Well first of remember it's been a few months. It took me and my boyfriend almost 8 months to ... | |
| what should i do | 11/22/2005 |
| Q: i am in a ldr at the moment i met him when i moved to ms 2 years ago with my grandparents. iwas in ... A: Hey Destiny Well there's not much you can do without him being dedicated to it. The best thing you ... | |
| My fiance | 11/16/2005 |
| Q: Hey, I really appreciate you taking the time to write all of these suggestions to me. I hate to ... A: Hey Michelle First of all your not bothering me and I really don't mind talking to you or helping ... | |
| My relationship | 11/16/2005 |
| Q: Melissa- Hey, its Jeff again. Thanks for your help. It really gave me some peace of mind and has ... A: Hey Jeff Well when I feel these doubtful feelings I just remember all the good times we had that ... | |
| My fiance | 11/16/2005 |
| Q: Hey again, We still talk everyday, since he talked about his "break" on Sunday, it's now ... A: Hey Michelle Well I still think your making this out to be more than it really is. It sounds like ... | |
| My fiance | 11/14/2005 |
| Q: I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 years, we have been engaged through most of it because we ... A: Hey Michelle I know you want more of someone to talk to than to give you advice, and I am here to ... | |
| My relationship | 11/10/2005 |
| Q: Melissa- My name is Jeff. Ive written to you before about being afraid I dont love my g/f, ... A: Hey Jeff Yes I do remember you and as usual my same answer still applies, that you do love her. It ... | |
| does he really love me | 11/4/2005 |
| Q: i have met a very nice man in the net. we have been talking for months now and all I thought was ... A: Hey Well he might love you. Was he planning the trip before you guys started telling each other ... | |
| sex | 11/3/2005 |
| Q: This past year i had a serious long distance relationship with a girl, and we both say we love ... A: Hey Steve Welll being a virgin myself I honestly have no experience in this area so I may be the ... | |
| long distance...five years | 11/3/2005 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We've lived in different states for the entire ... A: Hey Monica Yes it is very important, after 5 years, that you guys start to live closer together. Me ... | |
| Wasting my time? | 10/20/2005 |
| Q: I am in a LDR right now with my bf Shawn. I love him to death but its almost like we are falling out ... A: Hey Katie Well I don't see why you should end the relationship. And I don't understand why you feel ... | |
| Help i think shes trying to say goodbye | 10/18/2005 |
| Q: im sorry if this is a bit of knee jerk reaction of a question. My girlfreind and i have been dating ... A: Hey Alexandre I would not worry just yer. I do think that your feeling about her not telling her ... | |
| Long Distance and cheating | 10/16/2005 |
| Q: I finally heard from my bf through phone text. He for some strange reason e-mailed me pics of girls ... A: Hey Halle Well this is hard to answer without getting any details on what leads up to the ... | |
| Long Distance and cheating | 10/15/2005 |
| Q: I am in the military and I was home on vacation and met a guy online..we hit it off right away, and ... A: Hey Halle First of all I have no idea if he's seeing someone but these are huge signs that maybe ... | |
| In need of physical loving, but in LDR!!! HELP | 10/13/2005 |
| Q: firstly im so glad this forum exists.. Secondly.. myI've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but the ... A: Hey Confusedbabe No I do not think this is a good thing at all to do. The reasons why first of all ... | |
| Lost Love | 10/9/2005 |
| Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: Hey john Well you can email her or call her again but don't force her to talk to you. If she likes ... | |
| long distance | 10/9/2005 |
| Q: I met and started dating a guy who is 4 years younger than me (I'm 27, he's 23) last october, even ... A: Hey Lauren I definately think you should just let him go. The reason i think this is because like ... | |
| Lost Love | 10/9/2005 |
| Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: Hey John Well first of all don't overreact. This girl may be having things going on in her life ... | |
| Crazy triangle | 9/27/2005 |
| Q: I'm a bit curious and not sure what I should do. I recently met a friend and she's married. She ... A: Hey Katherine Well don't jump to conclusions. It might be all a coincedence. If it's not maybe it ... | |
| i'm just not sure about alot of things... | 9/18/2005 |
| Q: First of all, thank you so much for your help. So are you saying that the the solution to my ... A: Hey Joey No that was just an example. You could take a break and date other people and who knows you ... | |
| unsure of this relationship | 9/11/2005 |
| Q: i am unsure of this long distance relationship because he lives in the caymans. He seems so sincere, ... A: Hey Juliet I couldn't quite understand what you are asking me but I am going to guess it was about ... | |
| Confirmation | 8/29/2005 |
| Q: I was in a long distance relationship for about 8 months with someone who lived in Hong Kong and I ... A: Hey Michele Well I think you did the right thing sending him that e-mail. I think the e-mail itself ... | |
| what to do | 8/27/2005 |
| Q: I have been talking to a guy I met online. I'm 18, he's 22. I go to college in the eastern part of ... A: Hey Amber Well most long distance relationships can work if both people are very dedicated to it. ... | |
| dealing with the long distance relationship | 8/22/2005 |
| Q: Alright, where do I begin this question? I have been in a couple of long distance relationships in ... A: Hey Josh Well first of all it's time to change. You are right, you cannot bring those qualities into ... | |
| Parents issue | 8/19/2005 |
| Q: im writting cuz i've been recently involved in a long-distance relationship and dont really know how ... A: Hey Hugo Well the best way to find out why she's afraid to tell her parents is to ask her why she's ... | |
| temporary long distance advice needed... | 8/18/2005 |
| Q: i guess i'll start off with a bit of backround information...i met my girlfriend of two years when i ... A: Hey Mike Well first of all it sounds like your very lucky and you shouldn't be too upset about it. ... | |
| Hello. How are you? Thanks... | 8/17/2005 |
| Q: How are you? Thanks for taking the time to help me with my problem! I am in a long-distance ... A: Hey Liz Well if you want to stay with your boyfriend but have feelings for this other guy but still ... | |
| Long distance, soon to be longer... | 8/15/2005 |
| Q: First I've got to admire you for taking the time to help people like this, there's not many people ... A: Hey Mike Well first of all take a deep breath and calm down! This happens all the time but I think ... | |
| I miss someone, | 8/8/2005 |
| Q: I could contact her yes, but it wouldn't help I think. I talked to her, told her how I felt, she ... A: Hey Sam Well at least your able to look at this honestly and not have false hopes. I don't know what ... | |
| I miss someone, | 8/8/2005 |
| Q: Awhile back I became involved online with an older woman. At first we'd been friends, then it became ... A: Hey Same I can't tell you how she felt cause I don't know her and you never told me much about how ... | |
| long distance | 7/26/2005 |
| Q: How are ya? I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months after toughing out the long distance ... A: Hey N I think that might be true. I used to know this guy and he was with this girl for a year and I ... | |
| Long Distance Relationship | 7/25/2005 |
| Q: I met Mr. A about three months ago through an online dating website. His profile indicated that he ... A: Hey Hannah Try not to feel bad about this. It's a good thing that you did tell him the relationship ... | |
| long distance problems | 7/24/2005 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together "officially" for about 3 months. Prior to that, we were ... A: Hey Well to be honest with you this sounds pretty bad. I went through the same thing once with an ex ... | |
| long distance question | 7/22/2005 |
| Q: Ive been with my long distance girlfriend now for about a year, and weve had lots of rough times, ... A: Hey Mickey Well to me it sounds like she's thinking exactly what she's saying. She's just thinking ... | |
| Hello, A few years before... | 7/7/2005 |
| Q: A few years before my mother-in-law (husband's mother) died a decade ago, I had seen my ... A: Hey Well I am very sorry to hear about all this going on. It sounds like they are very mean and I'm ... | |
| College | 7/7/2005 |
| Q: Hey, Me and this guy named Cameron have known eachother for for about 2 years.. I'm going to be a ... A: Hey Paige Well this is a common problem with most people when someone goes away. Don't worry it's ... | |
| missing him | 7/4/2005 |
| Q: Hey My name is Ashley. I'm 16 eyars old. My boyfriend is 18. We have been together 2 years and 5 ... A: Hey Ashley Well it sounds like your boyfriend has been going through a lot over there so I can ... | |
| okay, this is, like, my fourth... | 7/1/2005 |
| Q: okay, this is, like, my fourth long-distance relationship, but all my other ones were when i was, ... A: Hey Devan Well relationships that happened at 12 don't really count anyways cause most people at ... | |
| should i talk about it? | 6/29/2005 |
| Q: my name is Sommer. I have a problem and have had one for a while now. You see, im only 15 but I've ... A: Hey Sommer Well I'm 17 so I agree that teenagers can fall in love and stuff, the only thing I feel ... | |
| A new long distance relationship | 6/28/2005 |
| Q: One more question, how long should this before I walk away? In other words, how long should I give ... A: Hey Christine Well at the very most I would give him one more month to agree to meeting you. And by ... | |
| A new long distance relationship | 6/27/2005 |
| Q: I ran across this wepage while looking on the net for some helpful tips. I hope you don't mind my ... A: Hey Christine No I wouldn't try making him do the guessing games with you because from personal ... | |
| long distance breakup | 6/21/2005 |
| Q: I'm hoping you can help. I was dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years (the past 2 being long distance). ... A: Hey Danielle I am really sorry to hear about what's been going on lately and I know it must be so ... | |
| long distance relationships | 6/16/2005 |
| Q: i have have known this boy ever since i was 6 years old. we went out with each other when we were ... A: Hey Lauren Well to be honest with you I don't understand why you would want to even be with a guy ... | |
| Need some advice | 6/9/2005 |
| Q: my name is Erika and I am a 30yr old single mom with three kids and 2 jobs. My biggest concern right ... A: Hey Erika Well I definately know people just like your boyfriend and I know it must be hard. The ... | |
| She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her. | 6/9/2005 |
| Q: ..I needed that. I'm sort of stuck now and don't know what to do? Your right...I was a bit ... A: Hey Mariano Well how you just told me would work perfectly. You don't want to make it long and drawn ... | |
| She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her. | 6/8/2005 |
| Q: Please help…I really need some advice here. My predicament is as followed: I met this beautiful ... A: Hey Mariano Well first of all this may not have anything to do with you at all. Things just happen ... | |
| LDR | 6/5/2005 |
| Q: ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND HAD A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LAST YEAR I ASKED HER TO COME STAY WITH ME ... A: Hey Hector Well I don't know what her situation is but people do things for certain reasons. Maybe ... | |
| long distance | 6/4/2005 |
| Q: When I started seeing my boyfriend about 3 and 1/2 years ago we were juniors in High School and we ... A: Hey Courtney Lol my boyfriend played that game before we were in a long distance relationship and ... | |
| Long Distance | 5/17/2005 |
| Q: I'll try to get right to the point. I met someone online, we lived about 100 miles apart. The ... A: Hey Chris It sounds like either she does want to remain friends and avoid getting hurt or she's ... | |
| How to Re-connect | 5/10/2005 |
| Q: Hey Melissa, My Boyfriend and I have been in Relationship for 2 years. I moved away to graduate ... A: Hey Jungle Well if you haven't already, talk to him about this. I undertsand that change is good but ... | |
| getting a date | 5/10/2005 |
| Q: how do i get girl to date outside africa cause i live nigeria and people especially caucusian whites ... A: Hey Ojukwa Reuben Agu Well unless you are going to travel out of Africa then the best way is to do ... | |
| obsessed about marriage | 5/9/2005 |
| Q: my name is Cindy I am 36 and have been dating Jack for a year,we are in a LDR,he lives an hour away ... A: Hey Cindy Well first of all be patient. I could understand if you guys have been together for years ... | |
| Long distance and confusion! | 5/6/2005 |
| Q: I'm a 39 year old single woman living in Md. and met a 36 year old guy last summer at my office who ... A: Hey Jennifer I am so sorry to hear that this guy wants to end your relationship. I know it must be ... | |
| Married Woman | 5/5/2005 |
| Q: Melissa Bee, I have meet a female on the internet and she has some of the same sexual desires as ... A: Hey Fred Well if you are only into as sexul relationship with her but nothing more than that then ... | |
| Long Distance | 5/3/2005 |
| Q: It is hard for both my girl and me to strengthen our relationship. We are just two hours away but my ... A: Hey Gerard Well it has only been 3 months since you guys have been together so of course she wont ... | |
| Hey.... | 4/22/2005 |
| Q: Hey, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I began talking a little over 9 months ago while he was ... A: Hey Sandy Well you can't run away from getting hurt all the time. If you do then it will turn out ... | |
| relationships | 4/21/2005 |
| Q: i understand everything your saying. But this is why i have doubts. I remember maybe 6 months ago i ... A: Hey Paul Well I told you pretty much all I can in the last response. But if it's been 6 months and ... | |
| relationships | 4/21/2005 |
| Q: yea i know what your saying, but this is ware i have doubts about it all. She is the one who wanted ... A: Hey Paul well tell me this...what matters more her saying she loves you in a letter or is it more ... | |
| confused | 4/21/2005 |
| Q: I'm currently in a 2 year long distance relationship. Well, where to start. Ummm........well, My bf ... A: Hey Rebecca I wouldn't stay with your current boyfriend. If you guys are long distance now and he's ... | |
| relationships | 4/20/2005 |
| Q: I am sorry if i am over crowding you with question but at an all boy school there is no one to talk ... A: Hey Paul Well she pretty much told you right there. She doesn't love you. She loves you as a friend ... | |
| Question | 4/19/2005 |
| Q: I am seventeen years old and involed in a long distance relationship with a girl who lives in ... A: Hey James Well just keep up the communication and be best friends with each other. Probaly the one ... | |
| relationships | 4/19/2005 |
| Q: Mellissa - Thank you for the help. I have another question. I go to military school so i can only ... A: Hey Paul Well just be creative. If anything you can just tell her you love her and that's all. I ... | |
| relationships | 4/18/2005 |
| Q: I have been going out with Holly for 3 weeks but i known her for 7 months. I really love holly and i ... A: Hey Paul No the calling isn't bad at all, just as long as you're not calling her 3 times a day ... | |
| need a little help | 4/9/2005 |
| Q: alright i have been talking to this girl Krystal, for over 3 months now, we talk 6 to 7 hours a day, ... A: Hey Yuriy I wouldn't worry about it. You guys live only 3 hours away and that's not very long so I'm ... | |
| Long Distance relationship | 4/7/2005 |
| Q: I have to admit I was extremely hurt when I found out she was seeing someone so quickly after we ... A: Hey Richard Well what you did was perfectly normal. I remember I loved some guy and a similar ... | |
| Long Distance relationship | 4/7/2005 |
| Q: Not to be nosey, but what ever became of your 26yr old boyfriend ? Are you guys still together ? I ... A: Hey Richard Me and him are still together! He is so wonderful and I'm very blessed to have him with ... | |
| Long Distance relationship | 4/5/2005 |
| Q: The reason I dont just up and call her is because I dont her phone number. She changed it after she ... A: Hey Richard Even if she did change her number still do it. If you don't you will just regret it. And ... | |
| Long Distance relationship | 4/5/2005 |
| Q: This may be the dumbest question youll ever get but here goes. In 1998 I started a long distance ... A: Hey Richard No, it's ok...I do not think you are a stalker at all. But I would just go ahead and ... | |
| Dealing with breakup | 3/28/2005 |
| Q: My girlfriend recently broke up with me two weeks ago, to which i had asked a question or two on ... A: Hey Mike No don't play any games with her and act like it's not bothering you. Just tell her you ... | |
| LDR Thoughts? | 3/27/2005 |
| Q: Just wanted to say thanks again. Even though things are not perfect, I am optimistic. You better ... A: Hey Heather No you don't have to email me through this website. You can email me at ... | |
| LDR Thoughts? | 3/27/2005 |
| Q: I really really appreciate it! It actually feels good to know that you are in a similar situation, ... A: Hey Heather Have you told him what you just told me? It sounds like something you should really tell ... | |
| Long Distance and Heartbreak | 3/20/2005 |
| Q: I met someone on the internet over 2 years ago while playing an online video game. Neither one of us ... A: Hey Anthony Really I think you guys should get back together. To me I don't find what you did ... | |
| broken up long disntance relationship | 3/16/2005 |
| Q: This website seems ingenius and looks like amazing help. Up until this morning i was in a serious ... A: Hey Eclipse2125 Leave her alone! She has told you plenty of times she doesn't want to talk to you or ... | |
| Long Distance also Online | 3/11/2005 |
| Q: Hey Austin This sounds somewhat like somethingI've been going through recently, except we met on the ... A: Hey Austin It's the complete opposite with me. He always makes fun of me cause he's 23 and I'm 19. ... | |
| I am a woman. I am curious... | 3/3/2005 |
| Q: I am a woman. I am curious about some insight into the male mind. There is a man I like (he is one ... A: Hey Well does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he has a girlfriend and so that might be a reason. Another ... | |
| Long Distance/Children | 3/2/2005 |
| Q: I just moved to NC from Kansas City (about 1500 miles) to be around family again for the first time ... A: Hey Laura Well maybe you should continue to stay where you are at for a few months and just see how ... | |
| Trust,Cheating | 2/26/2005 |
| Q: SO you dont think its possible to say everyone makes mistakes and give her a second chance.She didnt ... A: Hey George Of course I believe in second chances. But YOU are the one who is not getting over it. ... | |
| iam lost | 2/17/2005 |
| Q: my story start when i loved some1 4 years ago,he left to another country year and half ago,i enterd ... A: Hey Enas No it is no problem at all. Ask as many questions as you wish. Well it's definately a good ... | |
| do you think it will work? | 2/16/2005 |
| Q: hey my name is Laura i am 16 and a sophmore in high school my boyfriend for only a month is a senior ... A: Hey Laura Well 4 hours is pretty far but still it's not that far. It could be a whole lot worse so ... | |
| iam lost | 2/15/2005 |
| Q: my story start when i loved some1 4 years ago,he left to another country year and half ago,i enterd ... A: Hey Enas Either this guy is just the one for you or either you haven't met the right person yet. I'm ... | |
| Phone | 2/13/2005 |
| Q: My boyfriend and i dont go to the same school but we see eachother atleastt once a week and usually ... A: Hey Shelby Well whenever me and my boyfriend have hese quiet moments on the phone usually I'll try ... | |
| long distance | 2/1/2005 |
| Q: my name is Cindy and I am 36 years old and divorced for 3 years,I have dated on and off,until the ... A: Hey Cindy Beel Wow congragulations on your engagement! I know it must be hard dealing with this but ... | |
| New relationship | 1/31/2005 |
| Q: I have only been out with this guy a few times, so our relationship is very new. We spoke for ... A: Hey Stacia Honestly I cannot answer your question because both can turn out ok. It really depends on ... | |
| long distance relationship | 1/26/2005 |
| Q: ...I just found out that when we first met he didn't have a girlfriend but he tells me that he loves ... A: Hey Vicki You're right he may not keep all these promises. Even though he says he's just seeing how ... | |
| Age, Distance and Education difference | 1/10/2005 |
| Q: Would you please read the following account and let me know if I am being predatory and if I am ... A: Hey Dion The relationship can work but it depends on you guys. The age difference really isn't bad ... | |
| Help!!! | 12/25/2004 |
| Q: Well I have a few questions about this girl name Kenza that I dated for a few month 2 years ago. The ... A: Hey Kevin Yes it definately sounds like she likes you or at the least has some sort of feelings for ... | |
| Long-Distance Relationship | 12/13/2004 |
| Q: I really appreciate your response, however it does seem to lean in only one direction, of being too ... A: Hey Aurora Well I appreciate your opinion and everything. I think you didn't get what I meant by ... | |
| what to think | 12/4/2004 |
| Q: I have been seeing a wonderful girl who lives in another city 2 miles from me. We have mutual ... A: Hey Rich Yes I think things are starting to change. It doesn't sound like she's seeing anyone else ... | |
| College/Highschool relationship | 12/2/2004 |
| Q: What changes should we expect? Personality Changes? The way we feel towards each other? Temptations? ... A: Hey Aaron I don't think her personality will change too much but it will. She will mature like you ... | |
| long distance again... | 12/1/2004 |
| Q: My situation began two summers ago when my bf decided to move out west to Ca. It was a hard ... A: Hey Jennifer We all feel confused. And if you're not happy in Cali and if you're not even sure about ... | |
| College/Highschool relationship | 12/1/2004 |
| Q: Hey! I have a quick question. I'm a senior in High School and my gf is a sophomore. We've been ... A: Hey Aaron Well I really can't tell you if it will work out or not. According to statistics it ... | |
| Is She using me? | 11/25/2004 |
| Q: I have been seeing this girl at weekends for the past six weeks. She lives about 250 miles from me. ... A: Hey Martin Sharp! Personally, and in my opinion yes I think she is using you again. It sounds like ... | |
| long distance relationship | 11/23/2004 |
| Q: what do you think are the pitfalls about long distance relationships? I have always said that I ... A: Hey Samira It's ok... I know how much it hurts. But since you guys are in the first few months it ... | |
| SOS! | 11/15/2004 |
| Q: May I first say that I'm a 12 year old girl and my friends and I have had relationships...long and ... A: Hey Jess Well I can't really tell you if you should go with this guy or not because it's really your ... | |
| when an ex comes back into the pic | 11/10/2004 |
| Q: I have fallen and fallen hard for Jay...and I think he feels the same way...but then yesterday we ... A: Hey Lori No you don't have to compete with this at all. It's bad enough that the ex moved back on ... | |
| help | 11/9/2004 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months. He is away at school for the past 3 of ... A: Hey Maggie Yes everything is totally understandable. Sorry to hear about the necklace thing, I would ... | |
| I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him... | 11/3/2004 |
| Q: I'm very confused now, I've been with my boyfriend (Richard)for almost a year, and 2 months ago, he ... A: Hey Pauline Well if you love him so much then just stop doing this. I don't know why you are even ... | |
| I been writing a lady in the... | 11/2/2004 |
| Q: I been writing a lady in the Philippines for sometime now.I was inderdues her by her aunt .we havn't ... A: Hey Garland Well since you guys are talking about marraige then you might as well find out what she ... | |
| issue of trust | 10/18/2004 |
| Q: Its me Again. I wanted to Thank you for advising. You put a lot of light on to what I was thinking ... A: Hey again Maggie I can't answer that question cause that's really only something you would know. I ... | |
| issue of trust | 10/17/2004 |
| Q: My name is Maggie and I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. We have met in school a year ago ... A: Hey Maggie First of all you seem so sweet I don't know why you're thinking so bad of you. To be ... | |
| College Relationship | 10/14/2004 |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 2 years. We started dating when I was a ... A: Hey John I'm sorry to say this but your girlfriend is right. If it is meant to be then yes it will ... | |
| clinging and phone calls | 10/1/2004 |
| Q: I am currently going on 5 month dating a guy that is 3 hours away from me. We currently see ... A: Hey Brenda Well, you're going to have to deal with this step by step. I went through the same thing ... | |
| long distance relationship | 9/30/2004 |
| Q: I'm not sure if I have a question... maybe i just need assurance that I'm not going crazy. :) I am ... A: Hey Pearl Lol you're in love what can I say. Aww but the whole thing sounds so cute. Anyways we all ... | |
| Going out | 9/28/2004 |
| Q: I am currently in a long distance relationship and have been for a year. I love my boyfriend dearly ... A: Hey Nishea Of course it's not wrong for you to go out and do anything. I find that a lot of guys are ... | |
| Scared of long distance | 9/27/2004 |
| Q: My boyfriend, Justin and I have been going out for almost a year and a half. Everything was gonig ... A: Hey Carina Most of the things you need to make a long distance relationship work is communication, ... | |
| Long Distance relationships | 9/18/2004 |
| Q: How do you handle a total breakup long distance? It's strange I met a wonderful young man over a ... A: Hey V I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know this must be so hard for you to deal with right now. ... | |
| Trying again | 9/11/2004 |
| Q: I just found this website and need some advice. Im in the UK and my bf is in NZ.I love him heaps and ... A: Hey Nadia First of all, just call him up and tell him! Say something like I love you, and I don't ... | |
| move on?? | 9/3/2004 |
| Q: this is not the first time am writing.....I need serious advice.....I'm with my bf for one and a ... A: Hey Rebecca First of all tell him how you feel. Tell him how you feel about the situation and how ... | |
| Is this girl interested in me and is it worth getting involved? | 8/29/2004 |
| Q: Hoped you could help me. Here's the situation... I recently went on holiday and spotted a girl who ... A: Hey Matt First of all, try to meet the girl first. You may be worrying about this for no reason, ... | |
| Long Distance Relationships | 8/16/2004 |
| Q: I am in a long distance relationship and have been for about 5 months after telling myself I would ... A: Hey B5beauty I think it's sensible to marry someone you love and go for it one day at a time, but I ... | |
| Me AGAIN! | 8/10/2004 |
| Q: Followup To Question - hey melissa It's Laura again:) So many replies in just one day, hahaha. ... A: Hey Laura Usually I don't email people so much in one day. I usually go online once a day but today ... | |
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