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About Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
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Expertise
I have been in plenty of long distance relationships before and I know for a fact that they do take lots of hard work and dedication. I can help with making a relationship strong enough to last even through distance, breaking up long distance, not knowing what to do when things get hard, dealing with heart break, starting to like someone else even though you are in a relationship long distance, etc. If you need advice I`m here to help and if you just need someone to talk to then I`ll be glad to listen.

Experience
I have been in long distance relationships before and some have worked and some
have not. I know plenty of people who are in the same type of relationships as these.

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Questions Answered By Expert Melissa Burton (a.k.a Bee)
In Category Long Distance Relationships

Subject	Date Asked

should he come or should i go	7/22/2009
Q: he lives in Egypt and i live in the USA California. we don't really talk about getting married and ... A: From what you told me it seems like a very bad idea to go to another continent just to get married ...
long distance relationship that never ends its distance	7/13/2009
Q: so i have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and half and we have been long distance since we ... A: I think you've reached that point where you have to decide if this is really worth it or not. ...
About Something	7/12/2009
Q: I need help in this situation. I had received a random friend request on myspace and I soon began ... A: Honestly I'm not sure why you are dealing with this situation. First of all you have never even seen ...
Just Plain Unsure	7/6/2009
Q: I'll try to make this as short as I can lol. Well I've been dating a guy in the navy for almost 3 ... A: Well first of all there are things you can and can't deal with with certain people. Personally I ...
BOYFRIENDS	6/27/2009
Q: DL: I'm fifteen years of age and I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend (same age). ... A: Well I'm not exactly sure what you are asking me since you never really asked me a direct question ...
make up after breaking up in LDR	6/22/2009
Q: I still love him A LOT... and he just broke up with me yesterday after 2 weeks in LDR. We were in ... A: I am not him so I am not sure if he really did stop loving you or not. It is definitely possible ...
LDR is killing me emotionally!	6/16/2009
Q: First I'm sorry for a mistake that I sent this sort of question first to other expert, and it was ... A: This is a very big problem. To be completely honest it sounds like you guys are losing that ...
Long distance relationship	6/15/2009
Q: I am a 16 and a half year old girl living in Virginia, and my boyfriend lives in Kentucky, works in ... A: I cannot tell you if this will last or not. Fortunately you guys are used to some degree of distance ...
LDR and moving	6/12/2009
Q: .. I'm 18 years old, and I have been in a long distance relationship with a boy who is a few ... A: First of all you should tell your Dad as soon as possible. Ideally it would be great if you could ...
Long Distance and Jealousy	9/10/2008
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now, we are in an interracial relationship (he is ... A: Well regardless of your feelings you have to accept the fact that he will be meeting many different ...
LDR	9/8/2008
Q: My name is Travis and well I'm in a LDR. So what I need help with is if she is trying to make me ... A: To be honest with you it does not sound like she is trying to make you jealous. This could mean one ...
long distance	9/7/2008
Q: I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to ... A: the best way to get over your trust issues is to try and seek therapy about it. Besides that you are ...
does he really love me? how can I tell?	9/4/2008
Q: OK WELL IM IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND IVE KNOWN DIS BOY 4 ABOUT 3 MONTHS OR SO, BUT I ... A: you can tell if someone loves you by how they treat you. How often he expresses his love means ...
relationships in college	9/3/2008
Q: hey Melissa! My boyfriend of a year and a half just left for college 4 hours away. I'm still a ... A: Well fortunately 4 hours is not too far away so I'm thinking you guys will be able to see each other ...
Should I wait for him?	8/25/2008
Q: My live-in bf of 2 months left 2 weeks ago to go back to the Philippines to sort out his residency ... A: From what you told me, I cannot tell you why exactly you haven't heard back from him. You said you ...
An open relationship in a long distance relationship	8/23/2008
Q: I met my girlfriend while I was in Houston one winter and after I left we started talking through ... A: No an open relationship is a very bad idea. Not only is there a risk that she might not even want to ...
Long distance relationship	8/22/2008
Q: I have been involved with a man for almost 2yrs who lives 5hours away from me. We have had the ... A: I think that is a great goal. you guys cannot continue being long distance forever, eventually one ...
Long distance relationship	8/18/2008
Q: basically i am going to try and describe my situation as well as possible. I spent a few months ... A: I am not sure why she never calls you back. I don't want to say she's lazy but it's a possibility. ...
q	8/18/2008
Q: I came to the United States when I was 17 years old with my family from overseas. Now I am 31. ... A: Well I am not from your culture so many of these things I am not well versed in. All I can say is ...
Long distance relationship	8/17/2008
Q: I have been involved with a man for almost 2yrs who lives 5hours away from me. We have had the ... A: I definitely think this is worth working out. You guys have been together for 2 years, and you ...
Not letting go	8/14/2008
Q: I was in a relationship for 2 years that just ending almost 2 weeks ago. We had our normal ups and ... A: No first of all this is not normal for any relationship. A break up usually means that all the other ...
Long Distance Ex-turned to next	8/12/2008
Q: Hey Bee, I recently reconnected with my ex after not speaking for 7 years. The emotions are so ... A: I think at this point you guys need to discuss how often you guys should plan to see each other. I'm ...
Long distance relationship- breaking my heart	8/11/2008
Q: I have never been more confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two ... A: You're welcome and thank you for the nice comments. I really appreciated that and it's nice to know ...
Long distance relationship- breaking my heart	8/9/2008
Q: I have never been more confused in my life. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two ... A: I feel that you are making the right decision. I understand your feelings and most people have felt ...
Friend relationship	8/1/2008
Q: I have problem with this girl i am friends with . I met her last year i asked out and she told me ... A: First of all keep in mind that there is not much you can do about this. she informed you from the ...
any chance for us?	7/31/2008
Q: (WILL MY EMAIL ADDRESS BE SHOWN? PLEASE KEEP IT PRIVATE! THANK YOU.) Hi Melissa, My background: ... A: No your email address will not be shown, neither I nor anyone else will be able to see your e-mail. ...
long distance relationship	7/30/2008
Q: i m rehana recently moved to USA from india. i have bf in india to whom i m really very much ... A: This sounds like a lot of miscommunications on his part. If you guys are planning to get married ...
trust	7/28/2008
Q: I met a guy last summer...the only unfortunate thing was I pretty much went through his divorce with ... A: I understand your worries but there are some things you need to realize. First of all he may very ...
Communication and emotions	5/4/2008
Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating about a year and a half. She says that i don't communicate ... A: If you want to increase your sexual encounters with her then try and make things more romantic or ...
Communication and emotions	5/3/2008
Q: My girlfriend and i have been dating about a year and a half. She says that i don't communicate ... A: First of all you and your girlfriend need to realize that you guys should love each other for who ...
Long Distance	4/28/2008
Q: months and we met at the 4 month when he came to visit me ! We had an amazing time and it all ... A: Well first of all I'm really sorry to hear that this has been happening to you. It's very sad and ...
Bleeding love...	4/28/2008
Q: .. I have been in love with my gf (Ying) for 3 years, we used to see each other everyday when we ... A: Well I'm not exactly sure on what you are asking me but I can tell you that if she needs a break ...
Long distance relationship	4/23/2008
Q: i have been with this girl around 3 months, everything was going amazing, we both seemed perfect for ... A: Well if you are not okay with all the calls and texts because you guys aren't together and it makes ...
confused	4/21/2008
Q: well when i was talking on msn to this girl and i think it was stupid of me asking her if she like ... A: Well are you sure she likes you? It sounds like her initial answer was based on her thinking that ...
long distance relationship	4/21/2008
Q: i have been going through a lot of problems these days. my gal friend who i know for the past four ... A: Well if that's the case then show her that you are able to spend time with her and that she is not ...
Follow up: breakup after czech trip.	4/20/2008
Q: I wrote u on 10 April but since i haven't got any answer from you yet, therefore im writing again. ... A: Sorry it took me awhile to get back to you. Believe it or not, I was planning to write to you ...
long distance relationship	4/18/2008
Q: i have been going through a lot of problems these days. my gal friend who i know for the past four ... A: I'd love to help you but I really need more information like reasons on why she broke up with you. I ...
Who knows.	4/14/2008
Q: I've been dating my gf for about a year and a half now. She's an awesome girl, our relationship is ... A: It really seems like she is venting out her anger on you. She can't give that type of attitude to ...
hey	4/13/2008
Q: hey, okay so heres my situation. my boyfriend lives in hawaii and i live in texas, he is 17 and im ... A: Well do you really want him to end things with you? I mean if he's completely fine with it, then ...
worried and not know what to do :(	4/8/2008
Q: I'm from Hong Kong and my bf is from Spain. We started this LDR since 2005. Actually i've written to ... A: Yes, you are right it would be odd. So this is the hard part. This is long distance right? So ...
worried and not know what to do :(	4/5/2008
Q: I'm from Hong Kong and my bf is from Spain. We started this LDR since 2005. Actually i've written to ... A: I understand why your boyfriend was very disappointed by that. I went through a stage like this with ...
long distance troubles	4/2/2008
Q: I met my girlfriend in september She just turned 21 and came out to la for a few months to do cinema ... A: First of all I really don't think this has anything to do with you. It sounds like you guys had ...
LTR will it work?	4/2/2008
Q: I'm 20 and my boyfriend is currently 21 but this summer when he leaves for law school he will be 22. ... A: I wouldn't really know the odds but I can tell you that it can work out. For it to work out you will ...
Love or College?	3/23/2008
Q: Well I've been dating this not for almost a year now. I'm 18 and he's 19. We are madly in love. And ... A: Well a common rule to abide by is college always comes before guys, especially guys you meet when ...
My long lost friend	3/19/2008
Q: I know this guy, I have known him since we were kids. We went to all the same schools, our mom's ... A: Well first thing I want to say is that next time a situation like this occurs or something happens ...
Long distance relationships	3/17/2008
Q: I have been with this girl for about 3 1/2 months but i new her basically my hole life and she lives ... A: Well first of all this situation is really not that bad and deserves a chance. The summer thing will ...
Long Distance...in the not so distant future	3/12/2008
Q: To Start - It’s a bit of a longer question, so if you don’t get to it right away I understand. I ... A: Yes, I see this as a big problem and to be honest I don't think you should go for any of these ...
what should I do?	3/10/2008
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. He lives in Florida, myself in GA. Intil a week ... A: I'm not really sure because as you know I'm not a mind reader nor am I your boyfriend so I don't ...
the letter	2/17/2008
Q: Well I did send the letter earlier, and I managed to get a good first sentence, yours was better ... A: That sounds like a good plan and I think you are handling this whole thing well. It's surprising ...
long distance relationship	2/15/2008
Q: .. i have just gotten into a LDR and the guy in question has been asking me for a month now and i ... A: He probably just wants to get into this because he wants to get to know you. Men are not all about ...
Long Distance Heartache	2/13/2008
Q: During the holidays i met this guy who lives 5 hours away and we hit it off. we really like each ... A: I don't think this is anger at him living so far away. I think like every person in a relationship ...
My Friend	2/2/2008
Q: I have reconnected with my boyfried from long ago who lives in another state - I want to know if ... A: Well this isn't much detail but yeah there is always a chance that you guys can meet again. Just ...
Temporary Long Distance Relationship	1/31/2008
Q: Just a short description - I am from Singapore and my guy is from Italy. I met my boyfriend 2-3 ... A: Well the first rule is to never wait aimlessly. You both have to be very involved with the ...
Long Distance	1/31/2008
Q: I've been seeing this girl for about 8 months. She lives 4 hours from me. We see each other about ... A: Well you are told me that this girl isn't the one for you. Although you didn't actually say those ...
Long-distance	1/30/2008
Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year already... we both go to this international school ... A: I'm really not sure if it will work out for you guys. As you know it doesn't work out for a lot of ...
begininning of LDR, pressure to make it work	1/30/2008
Q: Hey Bee...I asked you a question awhile ago, and really appreciated your response, so I have one ... A: Okay first of all, I think that it's already overwhelming that he's discussing marriage after 3 ...
just want some advice	1/28/2008
Q: i have been with my fiance for just over 3.5 years now. for the past year and 4 months we haven only ... A: Wow this must be so difficult for you and I think it's awesome that you guys have survived this long ...
Jealous of the EX-girlfriend (In a long distance relationship)	1/28/2008
Q: I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we visit as frequently as we can. ... A: Well first of all, put the blame where it needs to be. You shouldn't feel hurt that she is talking ...
Long distance/ ex as a friend	1/24/2008
Q: Hey there. I am 20 and in college. For the past year I've had two guys in my life... my best ... A: No, I do not think you are doing anything wrong by being friends with someone you used to be ...
What now?	1/24/2008
Q: "Long story short - I have dated this guy off and on for 4 years now, for 3 of those years he has ... A: I'm really not sure cause I don't know what he's really thinking or feeling but from what you told ...
Confused on wether I should hold on or move on	1/23/2008
Q: I was in a long distant relationship that last Sept fell apart. Leslie is a factory rep for a ... A: Well it's very possible that she does have feelings for you, and would have liked to be with you ...
i need some help	1/17/2008
Q: ok i dont know where to even start ok i meet my faience online quite awhile ago and things where ... A: Yeah try everything possible because this is not something you guys should break up over. She ...
international long distance	1/15/2008
Q: This guy and I have been seeing each other for eight months. During those eight months, everything ... A: Well I really don't know anything about these types of things and I'm not sure who to direct you to. ...
i need some help	1/14/2008
Q: ok i dont know where to even start ok i meet my faience online quite awhile ago and things where ... A: Well first of all her dad cannot do anything to you. Also he is threatening you and if he tries to ...
He's older, and he lives an hour away.	1/12/2008
Q: I'm 16. He is 22. I have been talking to him for an hour or more every night for at least 3 months. ... A: Well I would be a complete hypocrite if I told you it was wrong since I did the same thing in the ...
Long Distance Break Up	1/11/2008
Q: I had been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. We've lived 420 miles away from each other and have ... A: I'm very sorry to hear this. This sounds like such a devastating experience for you. I agree that ...
Im Empty Without Him.	1/6/2008
Q: Ive been going out with the most loving and amazing person that I believe I could find. We have ... A: I'm glad to hear that you've realized that and wont be doing anything life-threatening about it. Uh ...
long distance	1/6/2008
Q: I've been with this man off and on for about a year and a half now. I live in Florida and now he ... A: Well neither you or myself knows what the future will entail but I do know that if you really love ...
Im Empty Without Him.	1/3/2008
Q: Ive been going out with the most loving and amazing person that I believe I could find. We have ... A: Well there's a few things I need to say first. First and foremost I'm not sure why you are having ...
long distance	1/1/2008
Q: im not sure as to what i should do, see i am in a long distance relationship and have been for a ... A: I'm very sorry to hear that things are over between the two of you. It must be very hard for you, ...
long distance	12/31/2007
Q: okay so i wass doing my usual thing on myspace when me and my friend decided 2 make a fake ... A: The best thing to do is to tell him the truth, and do it now. There's no way around it and the ...
Me and X	12/31/2007
Q: Hey, Im 20 and also my ex........ok.....we are each others first loves...we were together for a year ... A: Well the only way to rebuild the trust is by being reliable. Showing that above all you will be ...
long distance	12/30/2007
Q: I just need some general i guess reassurance info anyway Im 31 divorced and have been seeing my ... A: Well I really think you should wait and see what happens. Like every relationship there is always ...
the letter	12/27/2007
Q: Well I did send the letter earlier, and I managed to get a good first sentence, yours was better ... A: Well I'm glad that it got send, and I'm sorry that I didn't send the message earlier. I'm glad that ...
Long Distance Break-Up	12/26/2007
Q: My girlfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up with me. I have known her for about 8 years, of ... A: Yep, I totally agree. She should have told you sooner, in smaller doses. Now, I would continue to ...
long distance	12/23/2007
Q: My boyfriend lives 1.5 hours away from me and plays baseball. the season is soon starting and the ... A: Well nobody can tell you how this relationship can go and how it works out really depends on the ...
long distance	12/16/2007
Q: im not sure as to what i should do, see i am in a long distance relationship and have been for a ... A: Yeah, I agree... it sounds like he isn't very happy with the relationship. Usually when people ...
how to tell him to slow down	12/14/2007
Q: hey, please help me because i really dont know what im doing. in april this year i met a guy i ... A: Yeah, I completely understand how this situation is really freaking you out. It is a bit strange... ...
Lost...	12/14/2007
Q: I never have really asked for advice online but here it goes. My boyfriend and i have been dating ... A: Well marriage is a very big thing as well as being with someone. If you don't feel ready, like you ...
Worries	12/8/2007
Q: my girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and i've been having worries and ... A: Yes, that is normal. I mean come on, it's a picture. I think anyone would get tired of looking at ...
Stress & LDR	12/3/2007
Q: I am 7 months into a long distance relationship and content with my boyfriend. We are both 21 and ... A: Yes, I understand where you are coming from. If the conversations are just dry then I can understand ...
he seems distant	11/28/2007
Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for teh past 4 mths. my guy used to call like everyday ... A: Well that sounds pretty spot on as well! He may just be getting comfortable and this happens pretty ...
help me	11/27/2007
Q: that what i want ask what i need to do exactly im in UK now but im polish and i want get married ... A: Well first of all I'm not sure about any of these things. I've never dealt with these issues but you ...
A Sudden LDR Breakup	11/27/2007
Q: I'm 28, she's 26. She worked at an art gallery in a small city where I was invited to show. I saw ... A: First of all, from what you have told me, you have done nothing wrong. Please don't hold yourself ...
Long distance love questioned.	11/26/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. Went to college together. This year he decided that ... A: Okay I can understand why this transition is so difficult for the both of you since the whole LDR ...
he seems distant	11/22/2007
Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for teh past 4 mths. my guy used to call like everyday ... A: At this point, I think you should just see what happens. You have only been dating him for 4 months, ...
Distance is only problem	11/18/2007
Q: I have been dating this amazing guy for nearly 6 months now (Our anniversary is the end of this ... A: I can understand why he's upset about the whole issue of driving but you both need to make ...
I dont know what she wants	11/17/2007
Q: This is too long so i hope you can help me....Well i had i girlfriend here like for about 6 months ... A: Well there's a few things you need to understand first. The first thing you need to realize is that ...
what should I do	11/7/2007
Q: I travel with my job. i'm only gone the most 4 days. everytime i'm gone if i dont call when i should ... A: I have to agree with you. It seems like this guy is practically asking for a divorce. Also it sounds ...
HELP!!!!	11/2/2007
Q: I have been with my girlfriend for about 8 months now. I met her before I moved away from my ... A: Well I think the problem here is on both of your ends. First of all I think that sometimes you ...
how to keep the spark going....	10/31/2007
Q: Well I've been with this girl for almost 1 year and first it started talking on a Forum to Msn ... A: I have to agree that your behavior is what is causing the problem. I'm not saying you are the only ...
cheating	10/30/2007
Q: i have been with my girlfriend for a year now and i like to think were on the right track, but ... A: Well unless you don't know 100% sure that she is cheating then you cannot tell her that she is ...
Im so confused..	10/29/2007
Q: Okay, here goes a long story just about as short as i can possibly make it. I went on a cruise last ... A: First of all, I understand how you feel about this guy but do not sacrifice your academics for this ...
Would she break up?	10/27/2007
Q: I used to live in Japan. While I was there I met and fell in love with my girlfriend. I'm 27 and ... A: First of all you need to make sure you know that she's cheating on you. She may be busy, maybe she's ...
failed long distance relationship	10/25/2007
Q: Sorry this might be a bit long. Please read and help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. Then ... A: I understand that it is hard to forget him but I really feel his actions are weird and he may be a ...
Trust	10/24/2007
Q: I met by boyfriend on a online dating site. We have been seeing each other for six months. We live ... A: Well first of all you need to know if there really is damage because of this. I have a feeling that ...
hey	10/20/2007
Q: hey! ok this is my situation. ok well my boyfriend, recently got punished for the rest of the 9 ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ...
long dist. fidelity	10/17/2007
Q: Ok, this may take a few seconds to explain. My boyfriend and I met a year and a half ago in Italy. ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ...
failed long distance relationship	10/15/2007
Q: Sorry this might be a bit long. Please read and help. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. Then ... A: First of all I am very sorry that it took me such a long time to reply to your question. I ...
Montreal girlfriend	10/13/2007
Q: I met this girl when I was on vacation with my family in Myrtle Beach. Her name is Marie, she is ... A: Well you guys are quite young and honestly, it's very unlikely that a relationship between the both ...
LDR: giving empty promises but refused to quit?	10/12/2007
Q: I've been in a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) with my boyfriend for 1.5 years, and we talked on ... A: I have to admit that something has changed and a couple of things are possible here. Either he is ...
long distance relationship trouble	10/9/2007
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. He is 6-7 hours ... A: Well the best thing you can do for yourself and the relationship is to seek therapy. It will be very ...
like someone	10/4/2007
Q: i've been in a long distance relationship for about 2 months and i love her more then anyhting in ... A: Well I suppose it's okay but since this love is so fresh, you shouldn't be liking anyone at all. You ...
Distant Lovers	10/3/2007
Q: This is a first for me since I've never been the type to express my feelings openly but I'm seeking ... A: I really think you should tell him the truth. I know it's a hard thing to do considering the risk ...
LD break up from 7500 miles	10/2/2007
Q: I live in Dubai, my GF lives in USA. WE have had a torrid time with our relationship becuase over ... A: Well I can understand her not trusting in you guys improving because of how the arguments seem to go ...
Long Distance Relationship	9/29/2007
Q: I have been dating the same guy for just over a year now. we see each other maybe once a month, ... A: Anyway yes you should be concerned. I understand that this guy has a hard time letting people into ...
LDR + marriage	9/25/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Three of these years have been long distance ... A: Well first of all stick with what you guys have been doing. If you guys have survived about three ...
End it or keep trying?	9/24/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. I just started grad school in another city, and ... A: Actually... I hate to tell you this but the feelings you are having are not the norm. It's normal ...
Broken up but what now?	9/22/2007
Q: I'll try my best to keep this brief, but it is a complicated situation so I apologise if it runs on ... A: Anyway, she definitely looks like she needs her space. I know its hard to resist talking to her, but ...
can i have a long distance relationship	9/17/2007
Q: my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and I'm moving to Guernsey in 5 weeks I'm going for ... A: Well I cannot tell you what you can do and if your relationship can last but I can tell you that you ...
Why is he ignoring me?	9/16/2007
Q: Howdy - I've been in a relationship with this guy that I met via the internet for two years now ... A: I hate to tell you this but it is very likely that he is cheating on you and I'm not sure why you ...
My LDR	9/15/2007
Q: I dated my girlfriend for 7 months in Spokane, WA. We were really close and affectionate to each ... A: Well she is in college now so of course she might become more distracted and may lose focus with ...
I feel like I'm dating myself.	9/13/2007
Q: Hey there Bee, my name is Brant, im 23 and I just moved Longbeach less than one month ago. I go to ... A: Well from what you told me it doesn't sound like she's falling out of love with you or anything like ...
My Girlfriend Cheated. What should I do?	9/11/2007
Q: My girlfriend and I just celebrated our 2 year anniversary this past weekend. I'm 23 and she is 21. ... A: I'm very sorry that I didn't respond to this much earlier. I realize that you sent this perhaps ...
Break Up Cant be it?	9/10/2007
Q: I need some real help, and fast. I dont know how much I can take. Ive been with my boyfriend for ... A: Sorry it took awhile to answer your question. I have been pretty busy with coursework, work, and ...
Break Up Cant be it?	9/8/2007
Q: I need some real help, and fast. I dont know how much I can take. Ive been with my boyfriend for ... A: Okay well the first thing you need to start doing is communicating your feelings with your ...
long distance relationship	8/23/2007
Q: My name is Danielle, I live in New Hampshire and I'm 16 years old. I will be beginning 11th grade ... A: Honestly I think it's time that you let this guy go. You cannot try keeping up a relationship or a ...
Coping with the distance	8/23/2007
Q: I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. At college we were almost inseparable but I was a ... A: Well all I can tell you, is the obvious, which is you both have to make the best of the situation. I ...
General Problems	8/22/2007
Q: I recently moved to have a better commute to work. This move I thought would be a good decision. I ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you since you already made your decision but being an ...
short term LDR	8/22/2007
Q: I am 25 year old F. I'm an English teacher, slim, and engaged to be married! My partner (whom I have ... A: Well first of all congratulations on your engagement! Okay about your question... it's probably a ...
breaking up	8/20/2007
Q: im in a long distance relationship and i live in texas and my boyfriend lives in mexico. i have been ... A: Well I agree that something is up with your boyfriend if he keeps giving you excuses whenever you ...
Should I give up, or keepy trying?	8/17/2007
Q: I started seeing this guy i January. He had purchased a house with his ex girlfriend two years ago ... A: Well I think in this situation you need to think a different alternative cause I'm really not sure ...
hard decision!!!	8/14/2007
Q: I am with my boyfriend who I have been with for almost 4 years. We are each other's first in ... A: Well first of all if you guys are really meant to be together then your fears of not being together ...
Please I need an advice. Urgent	8/13/2007
Q: I don't know if I wrote you, but anyway. I really need an advice, and looks like you're very good at ... A: Well first of all what you are going through is completely normal and it's always scary to go ...
long distance relationship	8/12/2007
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for alomst a year now and late last month I've had to move to out of ... A: Um I'm sorry... I really can't tell you what to do with that. Personally, I have phone sex and from ...
long distance relationship	8/12/2007
Q: I've been with my boyfriend for alomst a year now and late last month I've had to move to out of ... A: Well yes this is completely normal. You guys are sexually attracted to each other and miss what you ...
going to college	8/11/2007
Q: I am dating a guy right now and we both live in chicago,but in January he'll be going off to ... A: Well uh I think you should stay with him and give it a chance. If this is a guy you think you can ...
Long distance relationship	8/11/2007
Q: It breaks my heart to have to write this, but I am obviously very concerned of our future. I am 26 ... A: Okay before I answer any questions you have asked... I am having a difficult time believing that a ...
should it continue? how do i cope?	8/9/2007
Q: I am 19 in college and I have been dating someone from my class in college for about 4 months now ... A: I understand that you are feeling pain and really want to be with him in person but if you both ...
Hardships?	8/9/2007
Q: Feels so odd asking for help in this kind of way... Well, this may take a while to read. Just a ... A: Well that's good that you were able to still get her to talk to you about it. Even if you guys ...
my long distance relationship	8/8/2007
Q: Ok im 16 me and this guy have been dating on an off the past 3 years we've been good friends even ... A: Well then there's the problem.... thank you for telling me that new information... because it's ...
need advice	8/7/2007
Q: hey Melissa, I came across your website because i was looking for some advice on long-term ... A: Well it says a lot that you guys were able to still keep in touch for a whole year and everything ...
my long distance relationship	8/7/2007
Q: Ok im 16 me and this guy have been dating on an off the past 3 years we've been good friends even ... A: Well if this guy even jokes about dating other women, and at one point was even serious about it ...
long distance and jealousy problems	8/6/2007
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now. We stayed ... A: Okay um... it's not really normal for you to actually be jealous of her friends but it is normal for ...
important	8/6/2007
Q: Are we boyfriend/girlfriend? We met we didnt talk much but I knew she liked me. Then we started ... A: Okay from what you told me, no, it doesn't sound like you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend. You ...
I lied to him..	8/2/2007
Q: so i lied to my boyfriend that lives in another town, weve been together for 3 years.. well i need ... A: Okay well before I answer your question... I just want to let you know that your boyfriend's ...
how do i tell him	7/30/2007
Q: so i live in the Texas but my parents are from Mexico and i've been going to Mexico every year since ... A: Well first of all never let your friends speak to him for you. Your friend really had no right to ...
In love with a soldier.	7/29/2007
Q: Well I met the man of my dreams about 5 months ago. He's an amazing person and we get along ... A: This is pretty rushed especially if you guys have known each other for about 5 months. It's also not ...
LONG DISTANT RELATIONSHIP	7/27/2007
Q: I BEEN GOING OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 5 MONTHS NOW. BUT LATELY HE'S BEEN NOT TEXTING AS MUCH AS ... A: Well tell him how you are feeling about this. You must understand that it's normal for one partner ...
Tempted to Cheat	7/25/2007
Q: I am in a long distance relationship and when we met I knew she was the one and we have been in as ... A: Well I don't need to tell you that you should not cheat cause I'm sure you understand that yourself. ...
Pre-Long Distance	7/25/2007
Q: Just a warning: this may take a while to explain! My boyfriend and I have known each other for ... A: I'm very sorry it took some time for me to reply back to you. I've been going through some difficult ...
Long Distance Relationship - How do I know your the one?	7/24/2007
Q: It's been 2 1/2 months now since I last saw her. I still think about her quite a bit. But I've got ... A: It sounded like she might have been uncomfortable too... I'm sure she was also reminded of old times ...
Help First Long Distance Relationship & First Ever Relationship	7/23/2007
Q: hey im a young guy only 17 years of age from miami florida. My dad and my grandmother are both born ... A: Well I definitely understand your feelings about starting a long distance relationship with her. I ...
I love him	7/20/2007
Q: Well me and my son's dad have been in a relationship for almost two years we had a rocky ... A: Well I think his reasoning for not talking to you so much is fine. Many people in long distance ...
answer	7/20/2007
Q: how do i keep a long distanc relationship fresh?I cant call her every 2 hrs? how do i keep her in ... A: Well keeping a long distance relationship intact does not require you to constantly call that person ...
lond distance relationship: help!!	7/19/2007
Q: hey, i could really use your help!!! Me and my girlfriend, who is doubting our relationship, have ... A: Well I can't really tell you why she is doing this but it seems like it has something to do with the ...
nerves	7/17/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together about two years. We have talked openly about the future, and ... A: Yes, I completely understand how you feel since I met my boyfriend in college and ever since we've ...
i really dont know?	7/16/2007
Q: i really dont know from where i will start..ok,i've met a guy from net and it been since 10 ... A: Well I'm not sure if he loves you and you shouldn't assume he loves you until he actually says that ...
Long distance relationship / marriage	7/15/2007
Q: About 1o years ago (I was 18 she was 17) we fell in love , had a child together(I was 20 she was ... A: Well the first thing you should do is talk to her about this. Sometimes things really don't seem ...
LDR/Cheating	7/14/2007
Q: I've been in a long distance relationship for about a month, now. My bf and I met online and hit it ... A: Well there is a chance but this might not be able to work out. He did cheat on you and that's one of ...
Concerned about the future	7/14/2007
Q: I am 17 years old and will be a senior in high school this fall. I am very strongly considering the ... A: Well honestly, the likelihood of the relationship lasting is not good. I mean it can work but that ...
I don't want to lose him.	7/8/2007
Q: Me and this guy have been in a long distance relationship a little over two years and he wants a ... A: I'm very sorry that I took awhile to respond but I am very busy with classes, working, and other ...
Help	7/7/2007
Q: My name is Walker Smith. I have just recently started a long distance relationship with a girl I ... A: Well you can't prove to her that that wont happen because it hasn't happened and you guys haven't ...
LDR in college in different states	7/5/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3yrs now and are deeply in love, however in about a week he ... A: Well yes it will be difficult to get through but it's worth it to give it a try. There's no real way ...
Siiigh, what to do...	7/3/2007
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 months now. We have never met in person, ... A: i'm very sorry it took so long to reply but I've been very busy with school, work, and some other ...
need some advice	7/2/2007
Q: My fiance and I met online nearly seven years ago, and he lives in Moore, Oklahoma. He's been ... A: Yes, you have certainly given him enough time to get things prepared and life is much too short and ...
I'm confused	7/2/2007
Q: I hope you're having a great and thanks for taking the time to look at my problem!! Okay, so here ... A: Well there's no real way to know if she feels comfortable with you through email. The only way to ...
getting back together	7/1/2007
Q: My name is john, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 4 days ago.She lives in England and ... A: Well it would be very stupid of her to throw something away for a guy she met over the weekend. I ...
long distance/childhood sweetheart	7/1/2007
Q: My wife and I have seperated and are going to get a divorce. This just happened recently. Neither of ... A: I think that it's possible that this relationship can work, it all depends on how much you guys are ...
She lost interest	6/25/2007
Q: Here is the situation. 3 months ago i contacted this girl on matrimony site. ealier we only ... A: Sorry a bit late but I'm sorry about what happened and how things didn't work out so well. It's too ...
ldr	6/15/2007
Q: . im in LDR for about 2 months now and came from seeing him 2 weeks now since i have come back.. ... A: Yes, it is strange that he is acting like that and there is clearly something wrong. I have to agree ...
Long Distance/College	6/13/2007
Q: this is my first time ever asking advice of any sort on the internet, but I really need an unbiased ... A: At this point i feel that Winsconsin would be a better choice for you. It offers all the benefits ...
help	6/13/2007
Q: i just got into my first relationship 2 days ago. n i knew tht guy since i was a young kid. he asked ... A: No this question wasn't long at all. Okay um just ask him normal stuff like how are, how is your ...
confused.	6/12/2007
Q: .i am fem 20 old from phil.i am one of the of searcher in dating site i meet a man from cali..and we ... A: First of all I had a hard time understanding this question, so my answer was based off of what i ...
Long distance relationship	6/9/2007
Q: met a lovely guy in London (I am English and he is Australian) I left London to be with him in ... A: Well I think you guys need to communicate about these issues cause it sounds like that may be the ...
Giving up in NY	6/9/2007
Q: I am 47yr fem i live in NY met 57 yr male who lives in Mass last Nov. we exchanged numbers,he asked ... A: I have to agree that he is practically making no effort and this is very unfair for you. You should ...
How serious is what we are experiencing	6/6/2007
Q: I know E. for about 6 years now. I used to live in the States at her hometown, when I was there I ... A: Well this is a very complicated situation and you might want to consider not pursuing this at all as ...
just started a ldr	6/4/2007
Q: .... im back and already a little paroid ect.. we got a amazing over the weekend loved every ... A: I had a hard time understanding your question but from what I could understand it sounds like going ...
argument	6/4/2007
Q: Two days ago I got into a huge fight with my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years. I said some stuff to ... A: Wow! I can't believe that she is ending an almost 3 year relationship for something like that. It's ...
Long Distance relationship without sex?!?!	6/2/2007
Q: Hey melissa, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little more than two years now. We're both ... A: I don't really think her not wanting to have sex is because of a fear of committment. I think she is ...
argument	5/31/2007
Q: Two days ago I got into a huge fight with my girlfriend of over 2 1/2 years. I said some stuff to ... A: I hope you were able to apologize to her in person but if not, it's okay. Um honestly, you cannot ...
regarding long distance breakup	5/30/2007
Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: Well I'm glad to hear about what you will be doing in the next few months and I agree that is best. ...
long distance confusion	5/29/2007
Q: ..thank you for taking the time to read this. It will probably be somewhat long so I apologize :/ ... A: I'm very sorry it took so long for me to reply to your question. Ever since I've gotten home, I've ...
Communication Breakdown	5/28/2007
Q: My fiancee and I have been together for over a year. We are three weeks away from being together ... A: Well first of all do not do the same thing. You will only be putting yourself at her level and it ...
Very Important	5/26/2007
Q: Its a long story. Heres the short version. This girl from England,18, came here in Feb and I like ... A: Well i can't really tell from those last few comments if she likes you. I'm sure she liked you ...
Emotionall Seperating the Physically Seperated.	5/25/2007
Q: You may laugh while reading it, because on appearence it seems somewhat childlike, if not "Puppy ... A: um just to let you know but it didn't come off as laughable or childlike... so no worries there! It ...
regarding long distance breakup	5/19/2007
Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: You should definitely continue to support her and be a friend for her. She may have rejected you, ...
my break and how i show him how valuable i am??	5/17/2007
Q: I asked you about my break im with with my boyfriend of almost 11 months. He wanted a break and i ... A: Well you mentioned how you both are taking a break because he is being too clingy. So you should ...
regarding long distance breakup	5/16/2007
Q: Melissa Hi there. My girlfriend and I have been living in seperate parts of the world for a while. ... A: I'm sorry it has taken me a couple of days to respond to this question. I've been really busy with ...
to break-up or not to break-up? that is my question.	5/16/2007
Q: my girlfriend of 2 years and 10 months long distance decided last week that she wanted to take a ... A: I really think that you shouldn't get off of this break just yet. A week is not a long enough time ...
wants to find herself...	5/15/2007
Q: This may be a bit lengthy, but I'll apologize now. I have been dating this 22 year old girl for ... A: I'm very sorry that it took me awhile to respond to this question. I've been tied down with finals ...
Get Her Back - Long Distance	5/14/2007
Q: Melissa, I'll try to explain best I can but I'm sure any advice or thoughts you have will help. ... A: I'm very sorry to have responded to this question so late. I have been tied down with finals and ...
Kissed another guy	5/14/2007
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4 months and absolutely adore my boyfriend. ... A: Well I'm glad to hear that you decided to tell him! That sounds like a good decision! You should ...
Kissed another guy	5/13/2007
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for the last 4 months and absolutely adore my boyfriend. ... A: If you really care and love your boyfriend then tell him the truth. Trust me, it's better for you to ...
I really like this girl this is very important	5/12/2007
Q: In February my moms best friends niece came here visiting from England. She is 18. My mom goes over ... A: Well this does sound like love but yes you should try to ask her out and tell her how you feel when ...
he's going away again how do i deal?	5/10/2007
Q: my boyfriend and i met from myspace. we have been dating for almost 11 months now and i basically ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you but everything should be okay. If he actually does ...
problem in LDR	5/10/2007
Q: me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years now. Its pretty much been a long distance ... A: Well breaking up would probably show her that there is something there. If you guys are always ...
long distance- cheating	5/6/2007
Q: I've been "dating" my current gf for 11 months now, although we have been talking for almost 3 ... A: Well you both are very young and I think the cheating probably had a lot to do with that alone. You ...
Letters	5/6/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been going long distance for 10 months now (we were together for a year and ... A: Well I am glad that overall your relationship is going very well. You are one of the rare cases ...
Young love long distance	5/3/2007
Q: I met my girlfriend two years ago in Cape Cod, Massachusetts and after finding out she was a family ... A: Well if you will be living very near to her in less than 4 months, then I don't see how it cannot ...
What's going on with him and her?	4/29/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months now and everything seemed to be working ... A: It's very possible that something could occur between him and this girl Erika. I also think you may ...
she's going off to college	4/28/2007
Q: i'm 17 and i've been seeing this wonderful girl who is 6 months older than me and will be going off ... A: Well I'm glad you realize that it might be hard for her settling into college with a boyfriend back ...
He's cheating, I invested, now what?	4/21/2007
Q: I met my bf on match.com almost 2 years ago. We met face-to-face 1 1/2 years ago and verbally agreed ... A: Well if you know that he's been cheating then I think you should bring it up. You are going to tell ...
Can a guy be to sappy	4/20/2007
Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Well if this is becoming a real problem with you then mention it to her. If she's an easy going ...
Relationships - both on different continents	4/15/2007
Q: I have recently reconnected with my first love. We are both from Prague. Him and I had a platonic ... A: Well if you do love him and if this is meant to be then yes it can probably work regardless of where ...
i just dont want him to leave	4/14/2007
Q: i have been going out with someone for 8 months now (i know its not much but to me it seems like ... A: I'm sorry it took a few days to respond. I usually get really busy with work and school around the ...
dont know wat 2do	4/13/2007
Q: im in ivolved with a girl i jus saw at church after i ve seen her twice.she gave me her phone no as ... A: Well you should ask her what she did in her past. It is true that the past is the past but you ...
Interacial and long-distance	4/10/2007
Q: Hey, Although I think this is an unanswerable I would appreciate some advice. I was recently ... A: With the language barriers I doubt that it can work. A relationship can only work if you both can ...
Long Distance Relationship	4/6/2007
Q: Well I have been with this man for over four months. We met at a club and have had this amazing ... A: I agree that his story does not make sense. It doesn't make any sense at all. What would you ...
Long-term/Insercurity	4/4/2007
Q: I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and I feel it's been a constant battle. We live ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ...
forget and forgive	4/4/2007
Q: im having some problems with myself. Ok let me start with the problem 1st. My partner used to ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ...
Long Distance relationship..i'm only 14	4/2/2007
Q: Me and my boyfriend use to go to the same school, in taiwan, but a december he had to move back to ... A: I'm very sorry I haven't replied to your question earlier but I was very busy with school and work. ...
long distance relationship	3/30/2007
Q: i have met a man but he lives 100 miles away from me. now he has told me that he is separated from ... A: I had a hard time understanding what you wrote at times, but I'll try to give a good answer to this. ...
DESPERATE	3/29/2007
Q: MY NAME IS NANCY ORTIZ, ALMOST THREE YEARS AGO I WENT TO CALIFORNIA FOR TRAVELING, I STAYED ONE ... A: Well I don't know very much about the process of getting a visa, but I'm sure you can ask someone ...
college	3/26/2007
Q: Okay, I know I'm onl 15 going on 16, but I consider myself fairly mature for my age, so bear with ... A: Well the only things you guys can do is to just on the phone, through email, or instant messenger. ...
Trust	3/23/2007
Q: My boyfriend is in college and im in highschool. He goes to college in atlanta and im in florida i ... A: Well the best thing to do is to just tell him how you feel. Let him know how all of this bothers you ...
what should i do	3/22/2007
Q: hey my name is jacob and i met this girl over the net, i'm 18 and she's soon to be 16. we talked ... A: Well it is true that she might be very upset over it but she will eventually get over it. You guys ...
Can a guy be to sappy	3/21/2007
Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Yes, of course I remember you. Yes, I have pretty much answered some of these questions before. Yes, ...
Trust	3/19/2007
Q: My boyfriend is in college and im in highschool. He goes to college in atlanta and im in florida i ... A: Sorry it took so long to answer your question but I'm in college and working, and these past couple ...
Long Dist ance Relationship	3/17/2007
Q: I been dating this girl 2 1/2 years (3 years in 3 weeks)and we currently in a long distance ... A: Well considering what she has done in the past, I think it's important that she puts a little effort ...
How to survive a long distance relationship?	3/17/2007
Q: I m having serious problems in my long distance relationships. My fiancee thinks that I m too ... A: Well I think you should get over this and continue the relationship, and if you can't handle it then ...
Letting him know my feelings	3/14/2007
Q: There was a guy I met when I lived overseas for a short time several years ago. He's a great guy ... A: I think that if the situation is appropriate then you should definately tell him how you feel. ...
WOOHOO	3/9/2007
Q: Hey Bee, After an entire year of talking about it, my finacee and I have decided to move in ... A: I think you should do both. If her mother approaches you or her daughter about this, then bring up ...
Can a guy be to sappy	3/9/2007
Q: i have another question more on myself. Wanted to ask you if a guy can ever be too sensitive and ... A: Yes, I believe that you are being too sappy with this girl. The reason she does not respond is ...
What to do?	2/28/2007
Q: So, after a heartbreaking breakup with my ex-fiance I have started to connect with people again. Met ... A: Well I think that you should continue to do whatever you are doing. She likes you and your ...
Help me	2/26/2007
Q: i Live in arizona and i met this girl online and we been talking for two months. The problem is that ... A: Well I don't know what you want me to do. Just plan to meet her sometime. It might be best to try ...
surviving long distance relationship...	2/25/2007
Q: ..its been like ive been askin u questions about the relationship of mine from the very beginning, ... A: Well actions do speak louder than words and I have to agree that she doesn't seem as serious about ...
can we do long term	2/21/2007
Q: well me and my boyfriend have been going it will be 5 months this 26th. well here is the problem: we ... A: Well waiting till may shouldn't be very hard. On the contrary that should be pretty easy, since it's ...
always hopeful	2/18/2007
Q: ok, my cousin asked if her friend could stay with me for 4 weeks while on a holiday visiting the ... A: I think the flowers were a good idea. It was a very sweet gesture and obviously she enjoyed it. It ...
Long Distance Relationship Advice =(	2/18/2007
Q: I've been in a long distance relationship with my partner since September 2006. I met my girlfriend ... A: i hate to tell you this but most likely she is scamming you money. If I really had cancer and I knew ...
The distance between us is growing....	2/14/2007
Q: I have been dating a man who has a lot of issues going on in his life that he has to take care of. ... A: Well I'm sure you've heard of the phrase "actions speak louder than words". I think this phrase ...
Dealing with the loneliness of a LDR and traveling for work	2/11/2007
Q: I met a wonderful guy (H) from an online personals site, and we have been dating for almost 2 ... A: Well this is a LDR but it's still not too bad. Trust me, you are still pretty lucky for him to only ...
How do you go forward?	2/5/2007
Q: I'll try to keep the preamble short. My husband is military and stationed over on the east coast. ... A: Well I strongly recommend that you guys seek marraige counseling. counseling will open up ways for ...
Long Distance help...	1/29/2007
Q: I hope you dont mind if I call you that it said it was your nickname, so I just figured I would. ... A: I don't think you should quit but I think you should be upfront with her. Don't make this into some ...
Long distance relationship guidance	1/28/2007
Q: Burton, I am currently in a long distance relationship. My significant other lives about 3 hours ... A: Well hopefully she'll pick the college route since college is awesome and it's good to experience it ...
Follow up question	1/26/2007
Q: I came to you back on November 11, and I was so upset. Thanks for all your advice it rly helped. ... A: Well if he took the time to get in contact with you then I think you should try and contact him. ...
What should I do?	1/20/2007
Q: Well it seems like my relationship is on the rocks a little bit. My girlfriend has just gone off to ... A: Well if the problem was you really not giving her enough space then I think it's right that you ...
Question	1/17/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I met online and have been dating for about 6 mos. I have never felt happier and I ... A: well it would be a shame to break this off because even though it;s an LDR, it's not a very ...
Long Distance Relationship - How do I know your the one?	1/12/2007
Q: It's been 2 1/2 months now since I last saw her. I still think about her quite a bit. But I've got ... A: Well I'm glad to hear that your surgery went good and that you are feeling good about not contacting ...
time is a test	1/12/2007
Q: Hey Melissa, Its been a while since i've asked for advice. Things between me and my fiancee are ... A: well I can't tell you want to do and I certainly don't know the right decision for you to make ...
Confused	1/10/2007
Q: My boyfriend and I had been dating for almost two years and have now been in a long distance ... A: First of all I'm sorry to hear that this decision was just kind of surprising for you at the ...
why do i cry everytime?????	1/9/2007
Q: i will get right to the point. i am involved in a LDR and have been for two years now. both my ... A: Well it just sounds like you cry just cause you'll miss being with him. It's really normal and just ...
any advice?	1/8/2007
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. He was a foreign exchange student from ... A: honestly I think it's the combination of the two. It's very difficult for a person to have a long ...
long distance trouble	12/19/2006
Q: i am 17, my gf is 18. i am in high school, she is in communtiy college. we live a bit over 100 miles ... A: Well just give her her space. She's in college and probably meeting new people and these past few ...
Future Long Distance Relationship	12/18/2006
Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now, and now we are faced with something we ... A: Well you can try and make this work. Keep in mind that if things don't work then you both can still ...
Long term boyfriend long distance relationship	12/14/2006
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for just under three years now. We got together in high ... A: You need to do it in person. I know it's hard but either way he will be really hurt. Just get it ...
Long Distance Marriage	12/13/2006
Q: I hope you can give me some advice. I have been with my fiance for 6 years. We have a 3 yr old ... A: Well just tell him how you feel. You said that he goes out of town and wont call or keep you ...
parents against ldr	12/13/2006
Q: I had written you a few weeks ago and appreciated your advice....since thanksgiving my parents have ... A: I think honesty is the best policy in this situation. If they meet him then they will probably not ...
I need to Know	12/8/2006
Q: I am 20 years old and I recently met a 24year old guy who I really fell for, so much that I can ... A: Well of course it can blossom into something real. You said you both have recently met so of course ...
How to keep it alive when I am away?	12/6/2006
Q: He broke up with me last weekend. Nothing I could say or do was enough. He is just so sure that ... A: well obviously he does want to be with you, otherwise he would not be crying when you broke up with ...
11 months without seeing	12/5/2006
Q: Ok, i have a question about my relationship with my girlfriend Christina. I live in Las Vegas, NV ... A: Well yes the relatiosnhip is healthy. There doesn't seem like there's anything wrong with it and ...
How to keep it alive when I am away?	12/2/2006
Q: I'll try to keep it short. I have been trying to immigrate from France to the US for 3 years. ... A: Well I can understand if he is not sure about marrying you. Marraige is a big step and a major ...
love	12/1/2006
Q: Unfortunately me and the guy im seeing started out with long distance so we've never had the chance ... A: Well that's up to you. If my boyfriend said that to me i would say me too, or I would just say I ...
I'm not sure how to proceed	11/30/2006
Q: I've never done the LD/online dating before. About a month and a half ago a girl found me on ... A: Well it has only been a month and a half so I can understand her being wary of the whole thing. So ...
The Rents!	11/30/2006
Q: Hey Melissa, I had a question for you if you don't mind replying. When the mother of your Spouse ... A: Well this is an issue but fortuanately it's not really bad at this point. So i do not think you ...
i'm confused and affraid and need some help	11/29/2006
Q: my name is moses and this is my issue; i'm 22 never had a real relationship, started a long distance ... A: Well I understand how you rushed things earlier in the relationship but that doesn't mean you still ...
WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON?	11/27/2006
Q: It took me to get to this point to ask about my long distance relationship with my honey (she lives ... A: Well it sounds like you are doing all you really can. This is something she needs to deal with. I ...
LDR girl from holiday	11/27/2006
Q: im 18 and met this great girl on holiday (shes 16) a few months back and we clicked 100% I knew i ... A: Well if you feel like your saying it just for the sake of it then it's probably not love. But you ...
Long Distance Relationship Breakup	11/26/2006
Q: This is samantha again... it has been about 2 and a half months now since my boyfriend and i broke ... A: It sounds like he still loves you and cares about you. He was talking with you for quite some time ...
parents against ldr	11/24/2006
Q: I am a 25 yr old woman from NY and spent the summer in italy with family. During my 3 month stay, I ... A: Well personally I feel that you should stay with this guy and give it a try. I feel it's a solid ...
Long Distance	11/21/2006
Q: I met him through my roommate's boyfriend, who also happens to be my friend. We started talking by ... A: Yes, you should ask him what the status of the friendship is. He might be afraid to ask and you ...
long distance love	11/19/2006
Q: My bf of almost 2 years just moved to America as his parents are going through a nasty divorce. I'm ... A: Well I can understand how this must be very difficult for you. First and foremost you shouuldn't be ...
Long distance break up	11/16/2006
Q: I have been in love and together with my girlfriend for more than 2 years. We met in college and we ... A: Well it has only been 3 months and this does seem like something you guys should work on together, ...
im afriad	11/15/2006
Q: ok. this year i started my 8th grade year. the first week of school i found out this one girl really ... A: I hate to say this but most likely she will find someone else before you get back. The reason I ...
confused...	11/15/2006
Q: I am have going out with my boyfriend for 16 months. He is the love of my life, no doubt about it. I ... A: Well the easiest way to handle this situation is to buy him a phone. They only cost at least 15 ...
What to do?	11/11/2006
Q: About two weeks ago my boyfriend and I broke up and It's been extremely hard on me. We're both in ... A: Well isn't it kind of early in the year to break up? You don't know what life will bring you and if ...
A follow up	11/7/2006
Q: Hey Melissa, Thank you very much for your input. What you replied is basically what my ... A: Well I'm not sure what you want me to tell you. If you want then you can give it a try. The ...
angry off the phone?	11/6/2006
Q: I have been dating this wonderful guy for 3 months now. I know, not a very long time compared to ... A: Well it's a problem if you guys aren't really talking anymore. This sin't a good sign especially ...
does he still love me?	11/5/2006
Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months, and he just recently moved back to Florida 2 ... A: Well it's understandable if he wants to just hang out with his friends but he should have time set ...
long distance becomes close	11/4/2006
Q: i have been in a long distance relationship for almost two years, this month, and now I'm in the ... A: I am pretty sure I already answered this question but just in case, here is the answer again. \ "I ...
long distance break up	11/3/2006
Q: I was with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were very much in love, still are actually. The only ... A: Hey Well the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. Just ask him how he feels about it. Tell ...
RuneScape....	11/2/2006
Q: Okay, there is an online game called RuneScape, and I play it. I met a guy that i really like. He ... A: You're not in any trouble because you are just his girlfriend on some game, Runescape. No big deal. ...
Long Distance not going to work?	10/31/2006
Q: I am in a situation where I asked my gf to marry me recently. I had no intentions of getting ... A: Well a long distance relationship like that can work but if you honestly think it's better to call ...
long distance relationship	10/30/2006
Q: my boyfriend and i been going out for about two months now. we stay about an hour and a half away ... A: Well talk to him about this. Ask him if there are any other ways he can come out and see you when he ...
College/high school dating	10/29/2006
Q: I go to college in the same town as my girlfriend goes to high school. We've been dating for over a ... A: Well you asked this question in a long distance relationship section, and this isn't really long ...
very sad	10/27/2006
Q: i have a huge problem. Over the summer, i went on a trip to Turkey with my family. The point of the ... A: Hey Mary Well as you mentioned there is nothing you can change about missing him. And even crying ...
Long Distance, Not Coming Back.	10/25/2006
Q: I'm 18 and have gotten into a serious relationship with a girl for a few months now. She's leaving ... A: Well you said you've been in a relationship with this girl for only a few months. That's not very ...
long distance relationship problem	10/25/2006
Q: I am going through a rough time now in my current long distance relationship. I really need some ... A: Well tell him how you feel. I'm sorry but you cannot fix this relationship until he is willing to ...
it gets hard!	10/24/2006
Q: I know my question is quite repetitive. Thank you for your time. I stay in India. My boyfriend and I ... A: Well it sounds like you already made your decision which is probably the right one. It's good for ...
what should i do with him	10/23/2006
Q: my name is Hanaa I am 30 years old and callege student.I am dating my boyfriend about 2 years. I ... A: Well the communication thing is pretty bad. You guys don't have to talk everyday for hours but it is ...
long distance and break-up	10/23/2006
Q: I live in another country, very far away and I tried with a couple of emails and I called him ... A: I'm very sorry to hear that he has not contacted you yet. I think this whole thing is really not ...
LDR - Trust	10/21/2006
Q: My boyfrined and I are staying in different countries now, before being together for 2 yrs, apart ... A: Well from the information you gave me it doesn't sound like he's cheating on you. It sounds like he ...
long distance and break-up	10/20/2006
Q: I have been having a long distance relationship with a guy who I thought it was going to be my ... A: Hey Well he sounds like a jerk to have done that. I mean how can someone, a few days before you ...
long distance relationships , help:(	10/20/2006
Q: Hey , me and my bf met thru a frend , we spk 4 abt 2months on the net and decided 2 meet up face 2 ... A: Well talk to him about this. Tell him how you are worried. Honestly, if he loves you he wont fall ...
International LDR - moral issues with kids	10/19/2006
Q: Hey! I have a 4 year old son with my ex and for the past year I have been in an LDR with a ... A: Well you can talk to the child about it too. At the age of 4 he is probably most dependant on you ...
Long Distance	10/19/2006
Q: I just started Med School and going to see my girlfriend happens once about every 5 weeks (shes 6.5 ... A: Well it might be good to make a compromise and combine both of your ways to do this. You can talk to ...
Long distance relationships	10/16/2006
Q: In the time between my question and receiving your reply I had met this girl twice. Told her about ... A: Sorry it took so long for me to reply the first time and this time. I've just been very busy with ...
how do I become more positive?	10/14/2006
Q: I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year now and its starting to get really hard. I ... A: Well it's not as easy as it sounds... to be positive. It's actually a skill that people build up. ...
jelouse of her guy friends	10/13/2006
Q: me and my girlfreiend have been together for almost 10 months, she lives in florida dn i live in ... A: Well first of all there is nothing wrong with her wanting to look good everyday. I have boyfriends ...
Considering long distance relationship	10/12/2006
Q: Well him and I got into a pretty serious conversation tonight. Previously, I have dated only 2 guys ... A: No you made perfect sense and I agree with you 100%. Actually I advise people to wait at least a ...
Long distance relationships	10/11/2006
Q: Im Heiser, I broke up with my girl after a year long relationship, when I left for college and long ... A: I wouldn't get back with her. Why? First of all you guys didn't speak over a minor disagreement. ...
Considering long distance relationship	10/11/2006
Q: Well it all started about 6 years ago. I met this guy online. We started out as friends, and then at ... A: Well having a long distance relationship is much better than an online relationship. There is some ...
Long Distance Relationship	10/9/2006
Q: I met my boyfriend through my cousin and last Novemeber we started talking online. We never really ... A: Hey Monica It sounds like you need to make some friends. I can understand how you miss your ...
urgent	10/8/2006
Q: My name is Sandra and I'm 41 years old. Last year I married a man from Nigeria. I am an American. I ... A: Well suicide is not the answer. There are worst things going on in the world and committing suicide ...
Long Distance Breakup and dating again	10/2/2006
Q: Ive dated a guy for a month and a half, he is 17 two years younger than me, so when i told my ... A: Well your situation could go either way. He could have wanted you for sex or for love.But again this ...
long distance relationship	9/30/2006
Q: my question is what can two people expect if they have decided to have a long distance relation, is ... A: Well I'm glad to hear you guys are trying an LDR. It would have been terrible if you had not given ...
long distance trouble	9/29/2006
Q: im so sorry this is kinda long, if you dont have the time you can skip this. my boyfriend and myself ... A: First and foremost his reasons are garbage!!! If he truly loves you that would not have happened! ...
long distance relationship	9/28/2006
Q: Iv emailed this guy from London we talked for 3 months I also visited him in London. Now we still ... A: Well what he says doesn't really tell you anything. It all depends on how they treat you. For ...
What should I do about a break?	9/27/2006
Q: Okay. I dated a girl for 5 months. Everything was awesome, except for the simple fact that I only ... A: Well call her. Just cause you guys are taking a break doesn't mean you can't still keep in touch and ...
Adjusting him out of my life?	9/25/2006
Q: I've really been at quite a crossroads the past few days and I thought some input from others might ... A: Hey Hannah Well I don't think you should end it but this certianly is a problem. First of all it ...
Long Distance relationship Breakup	9/24/2006
Q: I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and three months. The first year we were dating both ... A: Well it sounds like he still cares about you. just cause he decides to break up with you doesn't ...
College and a Long Distance Relationship	9/20/2006
Q: I will try to give you the basics so I can keep this brief. My boyfriend, Adam (name changed), and I ... A: Well an LDR between you two can work out but you have to be realistic. Generally most LDRs that ...
Insecurites with Long Distance Relationships	9/20/2006
Q: Ok, i just need to vent. And hear other people's thoughts on my situation. I've been with my ... A: Hey Well about the other girl thing. Honestly you should talk to him about it. There's a difference ...
What do I do?	9/18/2006
Q: Hey, My name is Courtney. On Feb. 29, 2005. I was on the internet (quizilla.com) and that night me ... A: Of course you guys really loved each other but sometimes relationships end. Sometimes you can share ...
Kind of a LDR	9/13/2006
Q: Hey, Well i've been in a relationship for about 2 years and we both believe that we will be ... A: Well yes that isn't a long distance relationship and I'm pretty sure you guys can handle the ...
my long distance relationship	9/11/2006
Q: my name is Aurora and I am currently going out with a wonderful man named Travis. Travis and I have ... A: Well I can understand your fears but I don't see how he would be happy with other women. Sure he ...
LDR Frustration	9/8/2006
Q: I have been in an LDR for 4 months now and wouldn't even attempt this is it wasn't for someone I ... A: Yes there's really no point to an LDR if you guys aren't able to be together at one point. I think ...
Long Distance Realtionships	8/31/2006
Q: Over the summer I got into a realtionship. Me and my boyfriend had an instant connection. We ... A: Hey Monique (pretty name) Honestly I don't feel you need to continue this relationship. I could ...
long distance relashionships	8/29/2006
Q: i started dating this girl about 7 montns ago and about 4 months into it she told me she was moving ... A: Well is there any way you guys will be together in the future soon? If so then focus on that date. ...
Long distance relationship	8/23/2006
Q: I'm hoping you can help me some. I'm from Alexandria, Louisiana. I've recently arrived in Abilene, ... A: Well I can't really tell you what to do cause it's your decision and everything but you need to ask ...
VERY CONFUSED	8/19/2006
Q: TO BE ABLE TO EXPLAIN MY LDR IT WOULD BE PRETTY LONG BUT I FEEL YOU ARE THE BEST CANADATE FOR MY ... A: Well thank you for thinking of asking me a question. You can go ahead and ask me if you like. I am ...
Can we make it?	8/14/2006
Q: i'm not having any serious problems or anything, i just want to share my thoughts with someone. I've ... A: Well it is possible but no it's not very realistic. That doesn't mean it can't happpen cause it ...
surviving long distance relationship...	8/11/2006
Q: ..my name is vishesh im 18, n i hail from india... im in college in second year doing engineering... ... A: Well one thing to do is to keep having good communication. Keep talking to each other either through ...
Me and my bf going to different colleges	8/11/2006
Q: Me and my bf are going to be 3 hours apart next year due to college. I really want to stay with ... A: Hey Jane Well it would be good for yo both to at least try a long ditance relationship. 3 hours of ...
He's not attracted to me	8/10/2006
Q: My ex and I dated for 4 yrs. In the beginning we spent everyday and night together of which we would ... A: Hey Bree From what you told me it sounds like if you guys lived in the same city then this whole ...
taking a break or break up	8/9/2006
Q: I’ve been dating someone for 6 months. We immediately became great friends fast and spent much of ... A: Well I think giving each other space is a good idea. You only have to wait about a month or so until ...
Long Distance Relationship Question	8/8/2006
Q: Hey Melissa (Bee). What's up. I recently sent an email to this girl and told her how I felt about ... A: I think you did the right thing by sending that email. And of course she wants space right now. She ...
Lost things to say	8/7/2006
Q: I have been with this one girl for over two months now, we talked almost everyday. When we first ... A: Well try to find a better way to talk to her. Maybe talk to her though the internet and maybe on the ...
is my boyfriend cheating on me	8/6/2006
Q: My boyfriends best friend told me that he saw my boyfriend at the movies with another girl that ... A: First of all talk to your boyfriend about this. Don't get his best friend in trouble by saying he ...
he just went home	8/5/2006
Q: My boyfriend literally showed up on my door step from england (never met him before - I'm in Canada) ... A: Well I am having a hard time understanding the problem. You said he left a few days ago and both ...
Let's try this again...	8/5/2006
Q: Bee, Hello! I tried someone else, but it was "outside of his expertise", so I'm coming to you! ... A: Well try to spend as much time as you guys can together. I don't know if you mean 15 minutes walking ...
long distance	8/2/2006
Q: My boyfriend and I are both going to different colleges. We are within driving distances from each ... A: Well first of all be positive! Your situation is not too bad considering you guys do get to see each ...
Long Distance Relationship Question	8/2/2006
Q: Melissa, HI! I am currently in a long distance relationship with a woman that I met in Chicago ... A: I honestly don't think such a wonderful relationship would just end over this. It sounds like she ...
Jarhead loving but struggling ...	7/31/2006
Q: you have helped so much before ... I am a Marine in San Diego dating a wonderful lady for about 10 ... A: I am still having aa hard time trying to figure out what the big deal is. As you said before this is ...
international long distance	7/28/2006
Q: I really want to know if I am being totally unreasonable. On 1 Jan my friend Leighann and I were in ... A: I agree with you. You guys moving to be with each other at this point would not be wise and would ...
long distance relationships	7/27/2006
Q: Me and my boyfriend are in a LDR. We had been together for 7 and a half months and be fore that only ... A: Well there are many factors to if it can last or not. True you guys may love each other very much ...
long distance relationship	7/19/2006
Q: Melissa How are you?I writing again because I took your advice and called her on 7th of july to ... A: Hey Mike I think you did the right thing. This girl was giving yyou way too many mixed signals and ...
I Don't Know What To Do	7/17/2006
Q: My boyfriend of a little over a year, Brandon, is moving to Colorado in two days (Tuesday) because ... A: Well I wouldn't just dump your boyfriend. First of all he just moved away and I don't think he ...
Whats going to happen???	7/16/2006
Q: I'm 19 and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He is moving 2 hours away this fall and I ... A: Heelo Christy I'm just going to be honest with you. I don't think an LDR could work with you guys. I ...
Fairness	7/14/2006
Q: Three years ago I moved with my girlfiend from Texas to Florida so that she could finish her ... A: Well if you guys have been together for over three years and you have made a sacrifice to be with ...
long distance	7/13/2006
Q: My boy friend and i have been dating for 2 years. He recently graduated from the college we attend ... A: Well I'm very sorry to hear that you guys have to be seperated now. But I'm glad that you are being ...
will it work?	7/10/2006
Q: i have a boyfriend in tn, and i'm going to a boarding school in new york next year. We are both 16, ... A: Well I really can't tell you how this whole thing will end up because many things can happen. You ...
Long Distance - Making The Move	7/9/2006
Q: This is my 1st long distance relationship. We have been together for a year and a half and see ... A: Actually I think this is the right time to plan something like this. I can understand him not being ...
what to talk about	7/7/2006
Q: me and my girlfriend never have any thing to talk about so can u give me some interesting topics A: Hey Well anything can be an interesting topic. You just have to be creative. For example I used to ...
long distance relationship	7/5/2006
Q: Melissa How are you?The last e-mail I sent was on 5/31 and after that I haven't heard from since I ... A: Well I think it's a good idea for you to see other girls now. She probably does like you but it;s ...
lost in love, on the broken road	6/16/2006
Q: My boyfriend and I had been together steadily for almost four years. We met when I was a Junior in ... A: Well first of there needs to be better communication in this relationship. He needs to be telling ...
Long distance relationship	6/14/2006
Q: Me and my girlfriend are first cousins. Im from USA and she's from Philippines. Both our parents are ... A: Hey Justin Well I think you guys can wait that long to be together. It will be very difficult but if ...
long distance relationship	6/12/2006
Q: I met a girl online and we started chatted online she gave me her number and she started calling me ... A: Hey Mike I would believe her about her being busy. You don't really know her schedule too well. t's ...
LDR, mixed signals	6/10/2006
Q: Ill try to keep this brief. I have been together with my gf for 5 months, I have not seen her in 1 ... A: It's probably something she does out of habit. I remember the same thing happened last year in my ...
Ex girlfriend for 3 1/2 years moved away	6/8/2006
Q: I date my ex girfriend for about 3 1/2 years she got a great job promotion to a city about 10 hours ... A: Hey Brian I hate to tell you this but it sounds like she is falling out of love with you. She pretty ...
Long distant relationship	6/5/2006
Q: I have been with my current b/f for 7 months and we knew eachother for about 6 months before that. ... A: Well find out what the root of the arguements is. Nobody just argues over nothing and for absolutely ...
well is it true love or not	5/30/2006
Q: well his name is Jason and i am 15 and he is 19 i live in Texas he lives in Ohiomet on a band site ... A: I can't tell you if it is true love or not. You cannot judge true love easily cause everyone in love ...
Diogene Luis	5/30/2006
Q: How can i make my relationship with Diogene Luis strong enough to last through long distance? What ... A: Hey Masiel Well the best way to keep him thinking about you is to just be yourself! Just be who you ...
Things turned up better than i thought	5/26/2006
Q: Well melisa your help has been great tough one thing my bf dad said to him is that he told him that ... A: Hey Thelma sorry it took me awhile to reply but I had a hard time finding your past question cause ...
I dont want to mess things up	5/24/2006
Q: My boyfriend is about to enter college and he has alot of pressure on him and i love him so much. He ... A: Hey Thelma It sounds like you guys need some space or a break. That way you both can really think ...
long term relationship	5/20/2006
Q: I am moving about 15 hrs away from my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years we getalong great and are so happy ... A: Well if you guys have been together for 2 and a half years then I don't see why you giving him a ...
What should I do	5/19/2006
Q: I have been with a girl for 5 months she is living in New Jersey And I live in Pennsylvania. now we ... A: Hey Brett I'm sorry to tell you this but break ups usually involve depression. There is no real way ...
possible?	5/19/2006
Q: is it possible to love someone you are not around? my gal is miles away from her and i see like she ... A: Hey Pash I couldn't understand part of your question, so please take that into consideration when ...
long distance + jealousy	5/16/2006
Q: hehe prior to when i wrote you, they have been talking less, but i found out that it is because they ... A: Hey Well I;m glad to know that your boyfriend finally sees what is going on with this whole thing! I ...
marriage	5/15/2006
Q: i am a a very open minded muslim young man and i want to marry a christian woman.i would be most ... A: well I'm not very sure of any specific websites. You can go on google and type in christain singles ...
long distance + jealousy	5/11/2006
Q: i met my boyfriend online and i've known him for almost 5 years now, but it's only recent that we've ... A: Hey Yes this girl is trouble. And the things she says and her actions imply that she probably has ...
Long Distance Break-Up... ;-(	5/10/2006
Q: Melissa, My boyfriend and I of 3 wonderful years have decided to call it quits. I moved to ... A: Well you need to discuss this with your problem. Tell him about how you are feeling and why you felt ...
Long distance relationships	5/10/2006
Q: My gf and i have been together for abt 5 months now and we love each other really much, she is in ... A: Hey Frank Why don't you want her to miss you? Any ways there is no way she can not miss you so much. ...
long distant relationship	5/9/2006
Q: I really need your help. I have a boyfriend and we've been together almost a year. Dont get me wrong ... A: Hey Amy Of course you should attempt to try to make your relationship work. No relationship and I ...
sudden silent treatment	5/8/2006
Q: I have been talking to this man long distance for almost three months and we decided to meet in ... A: Hey Well how long has this silent treatment been? If it's been for just a couple of daysd then I ...
Long Distance Relationship	5/5/2006
Q: I met my boyfriend online & we chatted on the phone for 2.5 years then met up for my 18th Birthday & ... A: Hey Kat I think you guys need to make a plan. I hope this guy isn't the type who's planning to live ...
how can i get him off of my mind	5/5/2006
Q: hey melissa, my boyfriend and i were together for between 5-6 months..but he said that he couldn't ... A: Hey chrissy Yes I'm dissappointed you guys had to break up over that. I'm in CA and my boyfriend's ...
Long distance relationship with a fiancee	5/4/2006
Q: My fiancee and I have been in a long distance realtionship off and on for nearly two years. At one ... A: I will be completely honest with you and yes it is a sign that he has been cheating on you. That ...
Long Distant Relationship (military)	5/2/2006
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. We've known each other for 6yrs, and 6 weeks ago ... A: I think that a half way relationship around the world can work. And I also understand your fears. I ...
What is closure? Do I need it?	5/1/2006
Q: I recently broke up with my gf about a month ago. We were together for about 10 months. Great girl ... A: Hey Lei Well it's natural to feel hurt over something like this for awhile. So it might not go away ...
Does he really mean when he said I LOVE YOU	4/30/2006
Q: my bf and I met online. He has been my bf for six months now. We havent met yet. BUt i know i am ... A: Hey Cheron If he really loves you and if you guys really shared something special then there should ...
Promises promises	4/26/2006
Q: Bee--Quick followup--He and I have an agreement not to get upset if it takes a long time to hear ... A: Hry Gutless Hounding a person is calling them multiple times a week. But this guy is being a little ...
Confused	4/23/2006
Q: My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year now and close friends for almost 4. i do ... A: Hey Kristi I can understand how this kind of commitment at a young age is really too much. And I do ...
taking a break in a long distance relationship	4/17/2006
Q: I am 28 years old and am currently in a long distance relationship. my girlfriend and I have been ... A: Hey Joe It's certainly not over! I think you are overreacting about it being over so quickly! I ...
Long Distance Break Up	4/12/2006
Q: I am going through a very rough time with my "girlfriend" We have been together for almost two year, ... A: Hey Shane It sounds like your girlfriend is very confused and the best thing you can do is just deal ...
Is there a happy ending?	4/3/2006
Q: I play this game online and had become friends with someone I played with. Recently my friends ... A: Well the only way to know how Jane is feeling is to ask her. It seems like you guys are on pretty ...
partner making me angry	4/1/2006
Q: I have been in LDR for 3 and a half yrs. I am english and live in london. He is brazilian, we ... A: Hey Kate Yes this is defiantely a problem. And that doesn't make sense at all. If he's really ...
Long-Distance Relationship	3/28/2006
Q: Um, I'm in my first long-term relationship. We've lived together as flatmates, best friends and ... A: Hey Flip Well why doesn't your boyfriend send you emails. It's not a good sign that he doesn't send ...
Unhappy and Confused	3/28/2006
Q: Well, where to start...I cannot believe i am even writing this to you right now, but here goes ... A: Yes there is a problem here. It cannot work unless he is willing to listen to you and change his ...
LDR and breaking up	3/26/2006
Q: I've been in an LDR 1 year. I am having a great deal of stress in my daily life (I'm in med school ... A: Well first of all it sounds like you both have to make a few changes. You need to stop asking ...
Long Distance Problems	3/23/2006
Q: Hey My name is Bryan and it seems like our relationship is just dying. It seems like we just can't ... A: Well it is easy to loose interest sometime. But I'll give you some tips me and my boyfriend use. And ...
hey melissa, i'm not sure...	3/7/2006
Q: hey melissa, i'm not sure where to start, i just need someone to talk to: i had been with my ex for ... A: I can defiantely understand how you are feeling. 2 years ago I went through the same exact thing ...
How can I make him know how he feels?	3/6/2006
Q: Me & my boyfriend have been together for a year but was friends for 2 1/2 before that. we met in a ... A: Hey Kat Well I'm sorry to say this but you can't make him see how he feels. He has to do that all by ...
40 days to focus on our future	2/28/2006
Q: (I have written to you before, but I have a different question. So as soon as you start recognizing ... A: Yes I remeber you! First of all this fasting thing is very VERY bad. do not do it. Ignoring each ...
How do you not miss someone?	2/27/2006
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years, 1 1/2 in an LDR. We went to school together ... A: Hey Caryn I hate to say this but your asking for the impossible. You will alwways miss him. there ...
boyfriend	2/26/2006
Q: I knew this guy in grade school and high school and I knew that he like me back then but I only like ... A: Hey Lynn Well remember he is probaly still going through a hard time. And there may be other things ...
sugesstions	2/23/2006
Q: i am of age 21 i like a person i don't know whether he likes me or not we stay in diffrent cities ... A: Well no he doesn't like you. And you only made it worse for yourseldf. you dug your own hole. ...
Long Distance: The last stretch	2/21/2006
Q: I have been dating my girlfriend for over 3 1/2 years. We dated and lived together for about 2 years ... A: I'm sorry to hear about what happened but at least you learned that it's not good to date other ...
LDR in college	2/21/2006
Q: I dated Matt for a year and 1/2 during highschool and part of college. I broke it off because I felt ... A: Hey Lesley First of all NO it's a very bad idea to transfer schools just to be with a guy. I could ...
about to begin long distance college relationship	2/19/2006
Q: Hey, My girlfriend heather and i have been together strongly for the last 4 years. We have known ... A: Hey Kenny To keep the relationship strong have great communication. Try to talk on a regular basis ...
My fiancee - how to prepare for the worst	2/17/2006
Q: I am back again. First of all thank you so so much for taking time in reading my book size problems ... A: Hey Nick Yes it's good to have her manage her time and schedules. She needs to be more organized and ...
Frustrated Feelings	2/16/2006
Q: hey there melissa just thought id ask/tell something that has been bugging me a bit with me and my ... A: Well you never told me why you are needy or selfish. You or her getting jealous has nothing to do ...
long distance relationship	2/15/2006
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 8yrs on and off.We have been dating since ... A: Hey Angela Well why you do want to be with him? You haven't answered that. It sounds like there's no ...
My fiancee - how to prepare for the worst	2/15/2006
Q: Burton, After reading many long distance issues, I decided to write something of my own. I have ... A: Hey Nick It sounds like you are going through a difficult time with your girlfriend. First of all ...
Help me get her back...please...	2/13/2006
Q: Hey, well, Ill make this simple as possible. My gf, and I have been going out for 5 months, but on ... A: Hey Cody first of all you cannot rebuild her faith or her confidence. That can never happen. I hope ...
confused	2/7/2006
Q: hey my name is ashley. im 17 years old and i lvie in alabama. this boy i met on the computer about 8 ... A: Hey Ashley Yes if a person loves you they are willing to try anything to make it work. I'm surprised ...
culd I be much more of an idiot!	2/6/2006
Q: I'm looking for advise on what I should do in the my situation. I do hope you can help me. I have ... A: Hey Trent To answer your question and to put it as simply as possibly yes it is very possible that ...
long distance meltdown	2/6/2006
Q: I'm in a relationship crisis. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years. We have been ... A: Hey Julie From what you told me it does come off as if he's not ready in general. But for someone ...
jealousy-is this normal?	2/2/2006
Q: I came across your webpage on long distance relationships when I was looking for "support/advice". ... A: Hey Betty anne Well jealousy for any couple, long distance or not is normal. It would be very ...
Married & Having a Long Distance Affair	1/29/2006
Q: I am 34 years old and have been married to my second husband for 6 years. We have two children ... A: Well it sounds like the marraige is near the end and there's no point in contuing. I'm assuming that ...
will this work?	1/27/2006
Q: I've been in a relationship with a amazing man for 1yr. n 9months. I love him alot but I'm not sure ... A: Hey Faith I couldn't understand your question too easily cause of the way you wrote it but I will ...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	1/25/2006
Q: Ok...Lets start off with saying that i'm confused as hell about what to do...oh...and i just pulled ... A: Yes you certainly did make a pretty big mistake. there's nothing you can do except tell her. You say ...
my long distance relationship	1/21/2006
Q: i was wondering if you could give me some advice? i have been in a LDR for 2 years with a man who i ... A: Hey Hollie I can't tell you if your relationship is worth working for cause that it completely up to ...
what is next?	1/17/2006
Q: I am separated from my husband but we are living together for financial reasons and it is easier for ... A: Hey shelly Well first of all still being married and still having a child that is living in a home ...
Marriage & Visa	1/16/2006
Q: I have been dating a woman from Australia for three months here in Seattle. Although it is very ... A: Hey Xeper About your first question, well I don't know. I have minimum knowledge in the whole visa ...
Long distance relationship, what does she really want?	1/11/2006
Q: I was going out with my girlfriend for a year we live 300 miles away, it started to go wrong and we ... A: Hey Scott Well I owuldn't just wait for her and not ignore every girl you talk to. But I think it's ...
long distance broken up	1/11/2006
Q: To make a long story short, I dated a girl seriously for a year (long distance) and a month, and we ... A: Hey Mike First of all I'm not your girlfriend. I can't tell you why she wants to see you or not, but ...
LDR	1/9/2006
Q: ..I met a dear lady online. We are 1100 miles from each other. We began the relationship via the ... A: Hey Michael Well I can't tell you if you should move in or not. But i can tell you that it might be ...
Just a thank you and update	1/9/2006
Q: Hey Melissa, It's Jeff, dont know if you remember me or not, i always wrote about being uncertain ... A: Hey Jeff well keep trying the tips I said before. The tips wont help you just once and never again. ...
torn between 2	12/22/2005
Q: ..kyle is in prison in colorado and i have decided to drop chris all together because he drinks to ... A: Hey Keshia If I was in your shoes I would be with neither of them. First of all I know I deserve ...
Long distance confusion	12/19/2005
Q: I met a girl 2 years ago online, we dated but never met, 2 years later we meet and love bloomed ... A: Hey Zach I know this may be very hard for you but yes back off and leave her alone. I doubt her ...
Just a thank you and update	12/8/2005
Q: Hey Melissa, Its Jeff, the guy who always wrote you about feeling uncertain and unexcited about my ... A: Hey Jeff Thank you soo much for letting me know how things are going!! That's really awesome and I'm ...
wat should we do?	12/6/2005
Q: i just started "dating" this girl that i met of the internet. i live in tx, she lives in alabama! ... A: Hey Erik Sorry it took me so long to write to you but I've really had a busy week with finals, a ...
long distance relationship - first meet	12/6/2005
Q: I recently met a seemingly wonderful man from London. We met on a dating site and although his ... A: Hey Bernie No you are not overreacting! This is a problem and as a mother with children this is not ...
worried of cheating	12/2/2005
Q: Me and my girl have a long distance relationship(me in ny, her in texas) i have trusted her, she ... A: Hey Joe Well this is something you need to talk about with her. And by the way don't say you didn't ...
i like a guy in california,...	11/27/2005
Q: i like a guy in california, he's in college, i'm in high school in new york.... he really likes me, ... A: Hey Liz Well that's a coincedence! I'm just saying that cause I live in Cali, my boyfriend lives in ...
relationship	11/27/2005
Q: ok,im going out with this guy that i really care about(i think im in love with him).he says he feels ... A: Hey Suezanne Well I doubt it would bother him. First of all almost everyone is aware that pictures ...
Not sure whats going to happen	11/25/2005
Q: I have been in a long distant relationship with a guy for a few months and I have never met him ... A: Well first of remember it's been a few months. It took me and my boyfriend almost 8 months to ...
what should i do	11/22/2005
Q: i am in a ldr at the moment i met him when i moved to ms 2 years ago with my grandparents. iwas in ... A: Hey Destiny Well there's not much you can do without him being dedicated to it. The best thing you ...
My fiance	11/16/2005
Q: Hey, I really appreciate you taking the time to write all of these suggestions to me. I hate to ... A: Hey Michelle First of all your not bothering me and I really don't mind talking to you or helping ...
My relationship	11/16/2005
Q: Melissa- Hey, its Jeff again. Thanks for your help. It really gave me some peace of mind and has ... A: Hey Jeff Well when I feel these doubtful feelings I just remember all the good times we had that ...
My fiance	11/16/2005
Q: Hey again, We still talk everyday, since he talked about his "break" on Sunday, it's now ... A: Hey Michelle Well I still think your making this out to be more than it really is. It sounds like ...
My fiance	11/14/2005
Q: I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 years, we have been engaged through most of it because we ... A: Hey Michelle I know you want more of someone to talk to than to give you advice, and I am here to ...
My relationship	11/10/2005
Q: Melissa- My name is Jeff. Ive written to you before about being afraid I dont love my g/f, ... A: Hey Jeff Yes I do remember you and as usual my same answer still applies, that you do love her. It ...
does he really love me	11/4/2005
Q: i have met a very nice man in the net. we have been talking for months now and all I thought was ... A: Hey Well he might love you. Was he planning the trip before you guys started telling each other ...
sex	11/3/2005
Q: This past year i had a serious long distance relationship with a girl, and we both say we love ... A: Hey Steve Welll being a virgin myself I honestly have no experience in this area so I may be the ...
long distance...five years	11/3/2005
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We've lived in different states for the entire ... A: Hey Monica Yes it is very important, after 5 years, that you guys start to live closer together. Me ...
Wasting my time?	10/20/2005
Q: I am in a LDR right now with my bf Shawn. I love him to death but its almost like we are falling out ... A: Hey Katie Well I don't see why you should end the relationship. And I don't understand why you feel ...
Help i think shes trying to say goodbye	10/18/2005
Q: im sorry if this is a bit of knee jerk reaction of a question. My girlfreind and i have been dating ... A: Hey Alexandre I would not worry just yer. I do think that your feeling about her not telling her ...
Long Distance and cheating	10/16/2005
Q: I finally heard from my bf through phone text. He for some strange reason e-mailed me pics of girls ... A: Hey Halle Well this is hard to answer without getting any details on what leads up to the ...
Long Distance and cheating	10/15/2005
Q: I am in the military and I was home on vacation and met a guy online..we hit it off right away, and ... A: Hey Halle First of all I have no idea if he's seeing someone but these are huge signs that maybe ...
In need of physical loving, but in LDR!!! HELP	10/13/2005
Q: firstly im so glad this forum exists.. Secondly.. myI've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, but the ... A: Hey Confusedbabe No I do not think this is a good thing at all to do. The reasons why first of all ...
Lost Love	10/9/2005
Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: Hey john Well you can email her or call her again but don't force her to talk to you. If she likes ...
long distance	10/9/2005
Q: I met and started dating a guy who is 4 years younger than me (I'm 27, he's 23) last october, even ... A: Hey Lauren I definately think you should just let him go. The reason i think this is because like ...
Lost Love	10/9/2005
Q: I really need your help, I have no one else to turn, I am really sad. I just want to start from the ... A: Hey John Well first of all don't overreact. This girl may be having things going on in her life ...
Crazy triangle	9/27/2005
Q: I'm a bit curious and not sure what I should do. I recently met a friend and she's married. She ... A: Hey Katherine Well don't jump to conclusions. It might be all a coincedence. If it's not maybe it ...
i'm just not sure about alot of things...	9/18/2005
Q: First of all, thank you so much for your help. So are you saying that the the solution to my ... A: Hey Joey No that was just an example. You could take a break and date other people and who knows you ...
unsure of this relationship	9/11/2005
Q: i am unsure of this long distance relationship because he lives in the caymans. He seems so sincere, ... A: Hey Juliet I couldn't quite understand what you are asking me but I am going to guess it was about ...
Confirmation	8/29/2005
Q: I was in a long distance relationship for about 8 months with someone who lived in Hong Kong and I ... A: Hey Michele Well I think you did the right thing sending him that e-mail. I think the e-mail itself ...
what to do	8/27/2005
Q: I have been talking to a guy I met online. I'm 18, he's 22. I go to college in the eastern part of ... A: Hey Amber Well most long distance relationships can work if both people are very dedicated to it. ...
dealing with the long distance relationship	8/22/2005
Q: Alright, where do I begin this question? I have been in a couple of long distance relationships in ... A: Hey Josh Well first of all it's time to change. You are right, you cannot bring those qualities into ...
Parents issue	8/19/2005
Q: im writting cuz i've been recently involved in a long-distance relationship and dont really know how ... A: Hey Hugo Well the best way to find out why she's afraid to tell her parents is to ask her why she's ...
temporary long distance advice needed...	8/18/2005
Q: i guess i'll start off with a bit of backround information...i met my girlfriend of two years when i ... A: Hey Mike Well first of all it sounds like your very lucky and you shouldn't be too upset about it. ...
Hello. How are you? Thanks...	8/17/2005
Q: How are you? Thanks for taking the time to help me with my problem! I am in a long-distance ... A: Hey Liz Well if you want to stay with your boyfriend but have feelings for this other guy but still ...
Long distance, soon to be longer...	8/15/2005
Q: First I've got to admire you for taking the time to help people like this, there's not many people ... A: Hey Mike Well first of all take a deep breath and calm down! This happens all the time but I think ...
I miss someone,	8/8/2005
Q: I could contact her yes, but it wouldn't help I think. I talked to her, told her how I felt, she ... A: Hey Sam Well at least your able to look at this honestly and not have false hopes. I don't know what ...
I miss someone,	8/8/2005
Q: Awhile back I became involved online with an older woman. At first we'd been friends, then it became ... A: Hey Same I can't tell you how she felt cause I don't know her and you never told me much about how ...
long distance	7/26/2005
Q: How are ya? I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 11 months after toughing out the long distance ... A: Hey N I think that might be true. I used to know this guy and he was with this girl for a year and I ...
Long Distance Relationship	7/25/2005
Q: I met Mr. A about three months ago through an online dating website. His profile indicated that he ... A: Hey Hannah Try not to feel bad about this. It's a good thing that you did tell him the relationship ...
long distance problems	7/24/2005
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together "officially" for about 3 months. Prior to that, we were ... A: Hey Well to be honest with you this sounds pretty bad. I went through the same thing once with an ex ...
long distance question	7/22/2005
Q: Ive been with my long distance girlfriend now for about a year, and weve had lots of rough times, ... A: Hey Mickey Well to me it sounds like she's thinking exactly what she's saying. She's just thinking ...
Hello, A few years before...	7/7/2005
Q: A few years before my mother-in-law (husband's mother) died a decade ago, I had seen my ... A: Hey Well I am very sorry to hear about all this going on. It sounds like they are very mean and I'm ...
College	7/7/2005
Q: Hey, Me and this guy named Cameron have known eachother for for about 2 years.. I'm going to be a ... A: Hey Paige Well this is a common problem with most people when someone goes away. Don't worry it's ...
missing him	7/4/2005
Q: Hey My name is Ashley. I'm 16 eyars old. My boyfriend is 18. We have been together 2 years and 5 ... A: Hey Ashley Well it sounds like your boyfriend has been going through a lot over there so I can ...
okay, this is, like, my fourth...	7/1/2005
Q: okay, this is, like, my fourth long-distance relationship, but all my other ones were when i was, ... A: Hey Devan Well relationships that happened at 12 don't really count anyways cause most people at ...
should i talk about it?	6/29/2005
Q: my name is Sommer. I have a problem and have had one for a while now. You see, im only 15 but I've ... A: Hey Sommer Well I'm 17 so I agree that teenagers can fall in love and stuff, the only thing I feel ...
A new long distance relationship	6/28/2005
Q: One more question, how long should this before I walk away? In other words, how long should I give ... A: Hey Christine Well at the very most I would give him one more month to agree to meeting you. And by ...
A new long distance relationship	6/27/2005
Q: I ran across this wepage while looking on the net for some helpful tips. I hope you don't mind my ... A: Hey Christine No I wouldn't try making him do the guessing games with you because from personal ...
long distance breakup	6/21/2005
Q: I'm hoping you can help. I was dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years (the past 2 being long distance). ... A: Hey Danielle I am really sorry to hear about what's been going on lately and I know it must be so ...
long distance relationships	6/16/2005
Q: i have have known this boy ever since i was 6 years old. we went out with each other when we were ... A: Hey Lauren Well to be honest with you I don't understand why you would want to even be with a guy ...
Need some advice	6/9/2005
Q: my name is Erika and I am a 30yr old single mom with three kids and 2 jobs. My biggest concern right ... A: Hey Erika Well I definately know people just like your boyfriend and I know it must be hard. The ...
She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her.	6/9/2005
Q: ..I needed that. I'm sort of stuck now and don't know what to do? Your right...I was a bit ... A: Hey Mariano Well how you just told me would work perfectly. You don't want to make it long and drawn ...
She's far away and we still have not met yet. I'm truly into her.	6/8/2005
Q: Please help…I really need some advice here. My predicament is as followed: I met this beautiful ... A: Hey Mariano Well first of all this may not have anything to do with you at all. Things just happen ...
LDR	6/5/2005
Q: ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND HAD A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP LAST YEAR I ASKED HER TO COME STAY WITH ME ... A: Hey Hector Well I don't know what her situation is but people do things for certain reasons. Maybe ...
long distance	6/4/2005
Q: When I started seeing my boyfriend about 3 and 1/2 years ago we were juniors in High School and we ... A: Hey Courtney Lol my boyfriend played that game before we were in a long distance relationship and ...
Long Distance	5/17/2005
Q: I'll try to get right to the point. I met someone online, we lived about 100 miles apart. The ... A: Hey Chris It sounds like either she does want to remain friends and avoid getting hurt or she's ...
How to Re-connect	5/10/2005
Q: Hey Melissa, My Boyfriend and I have been in Relationship for 2 years. I moved away to graduate ... A: Hey Jungle Well if you haven't already, talk to him about this. I undertsand that change is good but ...
getting a date	5/10/2005
Q: how do i get girl to date outside africa cause i live nigeria and people especially caucusian whites ... A: Hey Ojukwa Reuben Agu Well unless you are going to travel out of Africa then the best way is to do ...
obsessed about marriage	5/9/2005
Q: my name is Cindy I am 36 and have been dating Jack for a year,we are in a LDR,he lives an hour away ... A: Hey Cindy Well first of all be patient. I could understand if you guys have been together for years ...
Long distance and confusion!	5/6/2005
Q: I'm a 39 year old single woman living in Md. and met a 36 year old guy last summer at my office who ... A: Hey Jennifer I am so sorry to hear that this guy wants to end your relationship. I know it must be ...
Married Woman	5/5/2005
Q: Melissa Bee, I have meet a female on the internet and she has some of the same sexual desires as ... A: Hey Fred Well if you are only into as sexul relationship with her but nothing more than that then ...
Long Distance	5/3/2005
Q: It is hard for both my girl and me to strengthen our relationship. We are just two hours away but my ... A: Hey Gerard Well it has only been 3 months since you guys have been together so of course she wont ...
Hey....	4/22/2005
Q: Hey, I need some advice. My boyfriend and I began talking a little over 9 months ago while he was ... A: Hey Sandy Well you can't run away from getting hurt all the time. If you do then it will turn out ...
relationships	4/21/2005
Q: i understand everything your saying. But this is why i have doubts. I remember maybe 6 months ago i ... A: Hey Paul Well I told you pretty much all I can in the last response. But if it's been 6 months and ...
relationships	4/21/2005
Q: yea i know what your saying, but this is ware i have doubts about it all. She is the one who wanted ... A: Hey Paul well tell me this...what matters more her saying she loves you in a letter or is it more ...
confused	4/21/2005
Q: I'm currently in a 2 year long distance relationship. Well, where to start. Ummm........well, My bf ... A: Hey Rebecca I wouldn't stay with your current boyfriend. If you guys are long distance now and he's ...
relationships	4/20/2005
Q: I am sorry if i am over crowding you with question but at an all boy school there is no one to talk ... A: Hey Paul Well she pretty much told you right there. She doesn't love you. She loves you as a friend ...
Question	4/19/2005
Q: I am seventeen years old and involed in a long distance relationship with a girl who lives in ... A: Hey James Well just keep up the communication and be best friends with each other. Probaly the one ...
relationships	4/19/2005
Q: Mellissa - Thank you for the help. I have another question. I go to military school so i can only ... A: Hey Paul Well just be creative. If anything you can just tell her you love her and that's all. I ...
relationships	4/18/2005
Q: I have been going out with Holly for 3 weeks but i known her for 7 months. I really love holly and i ... A: Hey Paul No the calling isn't bad at all, just as long as you're not calling her 3 times a day ...
need a little help	4/9/2005
Q: alright i have been talking to this girl Krystal, for over 3 months now, we talk 6 to 7 hours a day, ... A: Hey Yuriy I wouldn't worry about it. You guys live only 3 hours away and that's not very long so I'm ...
Long Distance relationship	4/7/2005
Q: I have to admit I was extremely hurt when I found out she was seeing someone so quickly after we ... A: Hey Richard Well what you did was perfectly normal. I remember I loved some guy and a similar ...
Long Distance relationship	4/7/2005
Q: Not to be nosey, but what ever became of your 26yr old boyfriend ? Are you guys still together ? I ... A: Hey Richard Me and him are still together! He is so wonderful and I'm very blessed to have him with ...
Long Distance relationship	4/5/2005
Q: The reason I dont just up and call her is because I dont her phone number. She changed it after she ... A: Hey Richard Even if she did change her number still do it. If you don't you will just regret it. And ...
Long Distance relationship	4/5/2005
Q: This may be the dumbest question youll ever get but here goes. In 1998 I started a long distance ... A: Hey Richard No, it's ok...I do not think you are a stalker at all. But I would just go ahead and ...
Dealing with breakup	3/28/2005
Q: My girlfriend recently broke up with me two weeks ago, to which i had asked a question or two on ... A: Hey Mike No don't play any games with her and act like it's not bothering you. Just tell her you ...
LDR Thoughts?	3/27/2005
Q: Just wanted to say thanks again. Even though things are not perfect, I am optimistic. You better ... A: Hey Heather No you don't have to email me through this website. You can email me at ...
LDR Thoughts?	3/27/2005
Q: I really really appreciate it! It actually feels good to know that you are in a similar situation, ... A: Hey Heather Have you told him what you just told me? It sounds like something you should really tell ...
Long Distance and Heartbreak	3/20/2005
Q: I met someone on the internet over 2 years ago while playing an online video game. Neither one of us ... A: Hey Anthony Really I think you guys should get back together. To me I don't find what you did ...
broken up long disntance relationship	3/16/2005
Q: This website seems ingenius and looks like amazing help. Up until this morning i was in a serious ... A: Hey Eclipse2125 Leave her alone! She has told you plenty of times she doesn't want to talk to you or ...
Long Distance also Online	3/11/2005
Q: Hey Austin This sounds somewhat like somethingI've been going through recently, except we met on the ... A: Hey Austin It's the complete opposite with me. He always makes fun of me cause he's 23 and I'm 19. ...
I am a woman. I am curious...	3/3/2005
Q: I am a woman. I am curious about some insight into the male mind. There is a man I like (he is one ... A: Hey Well does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he has a girlfriend and so that might be a reason. Another ...
Long Distance/Children	3/2/2005
Q: I just moved to NC from Kansas City (about 1500 miles) to be around family again for the first time ... A: Hey Laura Well maybe you should continue to stay where you are at for a few months and just see how ...
Trust,Cheating	2/26/2005
Q: SO you dont think its possible to say everyone makes mistakes and give her a second chance.She didnt ... A: Hey George Of course I believe in second chances. But YOU are the one who is not getting over it. ...
iam lost	2/17/2005
Q: my story start when i loved some1 4 years ago,he left to another country year and half ago,i enterd ... A: Hey Enas No it is no problem at all. Ask as many questions as you wish. Well it's definately a good ...
do you think it will work?	2/16/2005
Q: hey my name is Laura i am 16 and a sophmore in high school my boyfriend for only a month is a senior ... A: Hey Laura Well 4 hours is pretty far but still it's not that far. It could be a whole lot worse so ...
iam lost	2/15/2005
Q: my story start when i loved some1 4 years ago,he left to another country year and half ago,i enterd ... A: Hey Enas Either this guy is just the one for you or either you haven't met the right person yet. I'm ...
Phone	2/13/2005
Q: My boyfriend and i dont go to the same school but we see eachother atleastt once a week and usually ... A: Hey Shelby Well whenever me and my boyfriend have hese quiet moments on the phone usually I'll try ...
long distance	2/1/2005
Q: my name is Cindy and I am 36 years old and divorced for 3 years,I have dated on and off,until the ... A: Hey Cindy Beel Wow congragulations on your engagement! I know it must be hard dealing with this but ...
New relationship	1/31/2005
Q: I have only been out with this guy a few times, so our relationship is very new. We spoke for ... A: Hey Stacia Honestly I cannot answer your question because both can turn out ok. It really depends on ...
long distance relationship	1/26/2005
Q: ...I just found out that when we first met he didn't have a girlfriend but he tells me that he loves ... A: Hey Vicki You're right he may not keep all these promises. Even though he says he's just seeing how ...
Age, Distance and Education difference	1/10/2005
Q: Would you please read the following account and let me know if I am being predatory and if I am ... A: Hey Dion The relationship can work but it depends on you guys. The age difference really isn't bad ...
Help!!!	12/25/2004
Q: Well I have a few questions about this girl name Kenza that I dated for a few month 2 years ago. The ... A: Hey Kevin Yes it definately sounds like she likes you or at the least has some sort of feelings for ...
Long-Distance Relationship	12/13/2004
Q: I really appreciate your response, however it does seem to lean in only one direction, of being too ... A: Hey Aurora Well I appreciate your opinion and everything. I think you didn't get what I meant by ...
what to think	12/4/2004
Q: I have been seeing a wonderful girl who lives in another city 2 miles from me. We have mutual ... A: Hey Rich Yes I think things are starting to change. It doesn't sound like she's seeing anyone else ...
College/Highschool relationship	12/2/2004
Q: What changes should we expect? Personality Changes? The way we feel towards each other? Temptations? ... A: Hey Aaron I don't think her personality will change too much but it will. She will mature like you ...
long distance again...	12/1/2004
Q: My situation began two summers ago when my bf decided to move out west to Ca. It was a hard ... A: Hey Jennifer We all feel confused. And if you're not happy in Cali and if you're not even sure about ...
College/Highschool relationship	12/1/2004
Q: Hey! I have a quick question. I'm a senior in High School and my gf is a sophomore. We've been ... A: Hey Aaron Well I really can't tell you if it will work out or not. According to statistics it ...
Is She using me?	11/25/2004
Q: I have been seeing this girl at weekends for the past six weeks. She lives about 250 miles from me. ... A: Hey Martin Sharp! Personally, and in my opinion yes I think she is using you again. It sounds like ...
long distance relationship	11/23/2004
Q: what do you think are the pitfalls about long distance relationships? I have always said that I ... A: Hey Samira It's ok... I know how much it hurts. But since you guys are in the first few months it ...
SOS!	11/15/2004
Q: May I first say that I'm a 12 year old girl and my friends and I have had relationships...long and ... A: Hey Jess Well I can't really tell you if you should go with this guy or not because it's really your ...
when an ex comes back into the pic	11/10/2004
Q: I have fallen and fallen hard for Jay...and I think he feels the same way...but then yesterday we ... A: Hey Lori No you don't have to compete with this at all. It's bad enough that the ex moved back on ...
help	11/9/2004
Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months. He is away at school for the past 3 of ... A: Hey Maggie Yes everything is totally understandable. Sorry to hear about the necklace thing, I would ...
I love my boyfriend, but I keep hurting him...	11/3/2004
Q: I'm very confused now, I've been with my boyfriend (Richard)for almost a year, and 2 months ago, he ... A: Hey Pauline Well if you love him so much then just stop doing this. I don't know why you are even ...
I been writing a lady in the...	11/2/2004
Q: I been writing a lady in the Philippines for sometime now.I was inderdues her by her aunt .we havn't ... A: Hey Garland Well since you guys are talking about marraige then you might as well find out what she ...
issue of trust	10/18/2004
Q: Its me Again. I wanted to Thank you for advising. You put a lot of light on to what I was thinking ... A: Hey again Maggie I can't answer that question cause that's really only something you would know. I ...
issue of trust	10/17/2004
Q: My name is Maggie and I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. We have met in school a year ago ... A: Hey Maggie First of all you seem so sweet I don't know why you're thinking so bad of you. To be ...
College Relationship	10/14/2004
Q: Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 2 years. We started dating when I was a ... A: Hey John I'm sorry to say this but your girlfriend is right. If it is meant to be then yes it will ...
clinging and phone calls	10/1/2004
Q: I am currently going on 5 month dating a guy that is 3 hours away from me. We currently see ... A: Hey Brenda Well, you're going to have to deal with this step by step. I went through the same thing ...
long distance relationship	9/30/2004
Q: I'm not sure if I have a question... maybe i just need assurance that I'm not going crazy. :) I am ... A: Hey Pearl Lol you're in love what can I say. Aww but the whole thing sounds so cute. Anyways we all ...
Going out	9/28/2004
Q: I am currently in a long distance relationship and have been for a year. I love my boyfriend dearly ... A: Hey Nishea Of course it's not wrong for you to go out and do anything. I find that a lot of guys are ...
Scared of long distance	9/27/2004
Q: My boyfriend, Justin and I have been going out for almost a year and a half. Everything was gonig ... A: Hey Carina Most of the things you need to make a long distance relationship work is communication, ...
Long Distance relationships	9/18/2004
Q: How do you handle a total breakup long distance? It's strange I met a wonderful young man over a ... A: Hey V I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know this must be so hard for you to deal with right now. ...
Trying again	9/11/2004
Q: I just found this website and need some advice. Im in the UK and my bf is in NZ.I love him heaps and ... A: Hey Nadia First of all, just call him up and tell him! Say something like I love you, and I don't ...
move on??	9/3/2004
Q: this is not the first time am writing.....I need serious advice.....I'm with my bf for one and a ... A: Hey Rebecca First of all tell him how you feel. Tell him how you feel about the situation and how ...
Is this girl interested in me and is it worth getting involved?	8/29/2004
Q: Hoped you could help me. Here's the situation... I recently went on holiday and spotted a girl who ... A: Hey Matt First of all, try to meet the girl first. You may be worrying about this for no reason, ...
Long Distance Relationships	8/16/2004
Q: I am in a long distance relationship and have been for about 5 months after telling myself I would ... A: Hey B5beauty I think it's sensible to marry someone you love and go for it one day at a time, but I ...
Me AGAIN!	8/10/2004
Q: Followup To Question - hey melissa It's Laura again:) So many replies in just one day, hahaha. ... A: Hey Laura Usually I don't email people so much in one day. I usually go online once a day but today ...

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