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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Losing my virginity | 2/8/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I had sex for my first time a couple weeks ago with my boyfriend. Well, it was both of our first ... A: That is fairly typical for a female's first few times experiencing vaginal penetration. The ... | ||
| boyfriend lost virginity before me | 2/5/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Ok, so I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years. (I am 19, he is 21) We have had sex (about ... A: When you ask a question here, you don't get to dictate what the answer is. Most people have had ... | ||
| boy trouble | 2/4/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: i am 16 years old (girl), and i moved to a different town recently. i have been best friends with ... A: I have feelings both ways about your situation. On the one hand, it's more realistic for you to ... | ||
| Did we lose our virginity? | 1/30/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My name is Zack and my gf's name is Diane. We have never had intercourse but we've had oral sex a ... A: You're vaginal virgins. Inserting a finger into a vagina doesn't make either person not a virgin. ... | ||
| Losing virginity | 1/22/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: . Ok so my bf went inside me for like the second time but it hurt soo bad he went halfway inside me ... A: The yeast infection, the treatment for it, and losing your virginity could all be contributing to ... | ||
| virginity | 1/20/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: 4 years back I had the sex just one time.. that's was not the proper sex.my boyfriend tried to but ... A: He will probably not inspect your hymen carefully, but he might be able to tell you're lying about ... | ||
| virginity | 1/19/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: 4 years back I had the sex just one time.. that's was not the proper sex.my boyfriend tried to but ... A: If you've had sex, you are no longer a virgin. Your question seems to be more about bleeding. You ... | ||
| losing my virginity | 1/19/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: ..i wanna say i have lost my virginity to my bf many of times for a past 4 years ago and he cheated ... A: You can only lose your virginity once. You can pretend you're a virgin, and maybe your future ... | ||
| pain during first sex | 1/16/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: i'm a little bit worried for my girlfriend. she was a virgin up to some days ago and because both of ... A: Three times is not so many that you can decide you have pain that won't go away. Some pain or ... | ||
| Lost my virginity | 1/16/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: i do sex with my boyfriend ,there is bleeding . the boy cheated my and leave me . now my marrige ... A: I think your problem is that you're planning on telling your future husband that you're a virgin ... | ||
| how to have sex | 1/16/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: i am 22 and i never add sex so that makes virgin but i do not want to be a virgin .say no plz A: If you are ready to become sexually active, I encourage you to read up on contraception and venereal ... | ||
| Losing my virginity | 1/16/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My boyfriend and I are both 17 and have been going out for just over 5 months. We've spoken about ... A: I think 10 months is a good point to decide to have sex. Of course, you might also decide not to. ... | ||
| Having sex for the second time | 1/15/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 22. Lately we had sex for the first time, and it's also our first times ... A: Yes, that is normal. You should expect a small amount of bleeding probably the first 5-10 times you ... | ||
| Virginal walls | 1/13/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I am not a virgin but my boyfriend travelled out of my sight so i have not been able to have sex for ... A: Your question is a very easy one; you start by saying "I am not a virgin" and then ask if you will ... | ||
| virginity | 1/11/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I lost my virginity this past Monday and I bled, which I knew was going to happen. But I was also ... A: Just treat it as if it is your period. Use what you would use to collect the blood. Then you will ... | ||
| virginity | 1/10/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I saw tissues of blood in my discharge while I was in the bathroom. Am 24 years old. I never had ... A: If you've never had sex before, then you're still a virgin. The only way you can become a ... | ||
| Did I lose my virginity? | 1/6/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: ..umm this is kinda weird but I'm 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around today and we ... A: It should be over soon after your encounter, probably within a couple of hours. You should expect ... | ||
| Did I lose my virginity? | 1/6/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: ..umm this is kinda weird but I'm 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend were fooling around today and we ... A: I think you are no longer a virgin. If you are bleeding and something is loose between your labia ... | ||
| What counts as sex? | 1/5/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I wanted to ask, if the guy penetrates the girl with anything other than his penis, is it still ... A: Most people believe that people who have only had oral sex are still virgins. Therefore, oral ... | ||
| First time | 1/4/2012 | Doug Adams |
| Q: im 16 years old and am definitely ready to lose my virginity. I really want to but i'm scared. ... A: If you don't know where the penis goes, then I'm inclined to say you're too young to be having sex. ... | ||
| Bleeding--Urgent! | 12/30/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Hey Doug. I have this girlfriend that just turned 16. I've known her for about 6 years. We had sex ... A: Yes, that is normal. It takes most females several acts of intercourse to finish bleeding. The ... | ||
| help. | 12/27/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I lost my virginity when i was 15 but didn't bleed, now I'm nearly 18 and my current bf fingered me ... A: A female is apt to bleed the first several times she has sex and/or penetrates her hymen with ... | ||
| My G/F think she lose her virginity | 12/27/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Need your kind advice, my girl friend is virgin, while we making love only above her vagina, by ... A: If your penis penetrated her vulva, she is no longer a virgin, but there was probably nothing ... | ||
| Too tight | 12/27/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time, but I was to tight for him to get inside ... A: Work at relaxing your vaginal wall muscles. They are keeping him from making full entry. The ... | ||
| Losing my virginity | 12/27/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I've been with my boyfriend for just under 2 years now and I think he's expecting me to have sex ... A: If you want to have sex with your boyfriend, you shouldn't anticipate having pain. Not everyone ... | ||
| Losing my virginity | 12/26/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: ido sex only one time with my boyfriend ,thire is bleeding . the boy cheated my and leave me . now ... A: If you had sex only once, there is a very good chance there would also be bleeding the second time ... | ||
| second time | 12/17/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: ..i lost my virginity to a guy about 3 years ago when i was 16 and i regretted it so i learned from ... A: You should want to have sex with someone you're in a relationship with. I'm wondering why you're in ... | ||
| Lost virginity this week at 18 | 12/16/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: So I'm 18 and away at college, I've been seeing my current boyfriend for 2 months but we only became ... A: The decision was all yours to make. Your friend made an awfully fast judgment of you. According to ... | ||
| am i a virgin still? | 12/11/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I have recently had sex with my boyfriend, but I didn't bleed. He went all the way in, but I'm not ... A: You said you had sex with your boyfriend. You said he went all the way in. You are no longer a ... | ||
| Virginity issues | 12/10/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: Have I lost my virginity by just masturbating? At first I was just curious. Then I tried to explore ... A: Masturbating does not make you not a virgin. You have to have intercourse with another person to ... | ||
| losing virginity | 12/10/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My bf tried to penetrate inside me it was just the tip that went inside and he did not even ... A: If you have had any part of a penis inside you, neither of you are still virgins. If it caused you ... | ||
| How may I handle my virgin wife in bed? | 12/9/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I'm a 26 year old married man and I have a thick penis (5cm). Every time i tried to have sex with my ... A: Your wife has to want to have sex with you. Then she can work at learning to relax, especially her ... | ||
| Am I still a virgin? | 12/9/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: A couple of months ago ii lost my virginity...and as we you know...ii didn't really feel pain or ... A: By your own admission, you are not a virgin. You tell of having intercourse with two different ... | ||
| Virginity | 12/6/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time now and he thinks that we should take the ... A: If you're not sure, you shouldn't be having sex. Two condoms is not a solution. Using a condom in ... | ||
| losing virginity and fearing pregnancy | 12/5/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: as me and my gf having a sex and blood was cmng frm her. but few days back her periods wer over we ... A: If you are really afraid of getting pregnant, then you ought not be engaging in intercourse at all. ... | ||
| Recently lost virginity and feeling pain | 12/4/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I lost my virginity not that long ago, and it hurt going in, though I think it could have been ... A: What you describe is normal. The vagina often needs to take time to be accustomed to receiving ... | ||
| Penis size | 11/17/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I'm a 24 year old virgin, who soon is hoping to find a girl, when I do I'm gonna be nervous she ... A: I think you measured wrong. Most penises are between 5 1/2 and 6 1/2 inches when erect. ... | ||
| wanna lose virginity | 11/17/2011 | Doug Adams |
| Q: I tried thrice to lose my virginity but i m not getting it...my boyfriend tried fingering but i m ... A: Just relax and take your time. You don't have to be in any rush. Learn to relax your vaginal wall ... | ||
| losing it. | 12/15/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: im just wanting to know how much losing your virginity hurts ? and how much blood there is ? also ... A: Loosing your virginity can be quite painful, depending on how tight your vagina is. Vaginas come in ... | ||
| How do I know i'm ready? Is it wrong? | 12/10/2010 | Kate Rosling |
| Q: I am 16 years old, and still a virgin. All my other friends, including my 2 best friends one of whom ... A: You are not exaggerating. You should lose it to someone you love, regardless of what the future ... | ||
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